How to keep having hot sex in a long-term relationship.
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Tips for hot sex in long-term love

By David Joshua Jennings Friday, July 17, 2015 - 15:42
Long-term relationships can be rich and rewarding. On the other hand, sex could get stale and unexciting if you don't step up your game. Keeping passion alive in the bedroom isn’t so difficult. Here are some tips to help keep your sex life fresh.
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Have sex in new places

To keep sex fresh you’ve got to make it new, and one of the best ways to do this is to have sex in new places. Start small. Make love in different places around the house, in the kitchen, for instance. From there, perhaps consider renting a hotel room every once in a while, or, if you’re feeling risqué, try doing it outdoors.

Vary the times

Who said sex is supposed to be at night before going to bed? There are 24 hours in a day – make use of them! Have sex in the afternoon, or in the morning before work – it will set a positive tone for the entire day.

Try out new positions

If you can count your repertoire of positions on one hand, it’s time you broaden your horizons. There are 64 sex positions in the Kamasutra alone…

Share your fantasies

Don’t be one of those couples that spends their entire lives together without revealing their fantasies. A long-term relationship is good for getting so comfortable with each other that you can finally open up. Take advantage of that closeness and set aside a night to talk about your fantasies – your sex life will definitely benefit.

Focus on foreplay

Foreplay is fantastic, and the longer it lasts the better your sex life will be. There’s plenty of experimentation to choose from, from oral sex to sex toys. Play with each other as much as possible to keep your sex fresh.

Try to watch porn together

If you both agree, porn is a great way to inject a little excitement into your lovemaking. Your preferred style of adult entertainment may differ, but if you look around you should be able to find something you both enjoy. Not only will it get you in the mood, it could also provide you with new ideas.

Try new things with each other

Sex doesn't have to start with physical intimacy. You can begin building momentum with other intimate activities, for instance by trying something new, such as taking a dance or yoga class together. Or just go on a date together. Just because you’ve been a couple for a long while doesn’t mean you can’t take each other out on dates any more.

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Hesitate to surprise your partner

Whether it’s surprising your partner when they come home from work with candles or sexy lingerie, going down on them when they least expect it, or suggesting an unanticipated sexual experiment.

Underestimate flirtation

Making romantic advances isn’t just for attracting the affection of someone you desire – it’s also playful and fun and can remind your partner that you’re still hot for them.

Be afraid of sex toys

There’s nothing wrong with bringing a little outside help into the bedroom, especially in the form of adult toys. Particularly if they are new to you, they can really reinvigorate sex with an established long-term partner.

Rule out technology

Now that smartphones are a part of our daily lives, why not take advantage of that technology to breathe life into your lovemaking? One example is sexting (foreplay with text messages), which can be a great way to fire up a workday and get both of you in the mood for the evening.

Be afraid to spend time apart

If you’re in a long-term relationship with someone you truly care about, being away from them can be difficult. Sure, you want to spend as much time with them as you can, but it’s also important to have space to yourself. Being apart every once in a while allows you a bit of needed freedom and also makes both of you miss each other – an ideal way to keep a long-term relationship interesting.
 

Do you have any more tips about keeping sex in long-term relationships fresh? Let us know by leaving a comment below or via Facebook.  

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i av a questn guys.sth hapened n caused my breakup wth my bf.i rushed n got maried 2 another guy thnking tht i wud 4get my ex.its bn 3yrs now n my feelings 4 my ex stil grow stonger evryday.i lov my ex more thn my hubby.my hubby doesnt make me fil the way ex made me feel.i realy wanna b wth my ex now.his memories makes me feel so alive.i knw am free 2b wth th 1 i truly lov,but hw cn i go abt it without hurting my hubby.pls help me am stressed up guys
Carol, take some time to objectively think about all of this. You broke up with your ex- for good reason presumably. Could it be possible that you make him seem better in your mind than he actually is? Are you still in touch with your ex? And what about your husband? Is there anything that could change to make you love and appreciate him more?
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