Noisy sex: why women moan and scream during sex
When do women make most noise during sex? When they’re having an orgasm? Or when their man is about to come? Brace yourself for the truth!
Why do some women literally scream and shout in bed?
Great lover, orgasms, or something else?
Guys, maybe you think that she’s moaning and screaming because you’re such a great lover – you’re pounding away inside her, she’s having a mind-blowing orgasm. Sorry, think again. That’s not why women are so noisy in bed, according to the findings of a British study. Over 85 per cent of women make lots of noise simply to boost their partner’s sex self-esteem, the study found.
The researchers asked over 70 heterosexual women whether they were more likely to reach orgasm during masturbation, foreplay, or intercourse. They also wanted to know how noisy the women were during these different sexual activities and the reasons why.
All of the women in the study said they made noise in bed, whether it was screaming out their partner’s name, telling him to go faster or harder, or moaning with pleasure. But the researchers were in for a surprise when they compared how noisy women were when they reached orgasm.
The women were more likely to climax during foreplay – like when their partner gave them oral sex – compared to intercourse. And it wasn’t when they were coming that they were most likely to make noise.
Related: How To Tell If She’s Satisfied In Bed
Stroking his ego
When it comes to moaning and screaming, they made a lot more noise when they were having sex, right before and during their partner’s orgasm. Yes, the reason most women make noise in bed is to turn on their partner. In fact, almost 80 per cent said they make noise even when they know there’s no chance they’re going to reach orgasm themselves.
All that hollering is mainly to stroke their guy’s ego. It doesn’t necessarily mean a girl’s in ecstasy. In fact, it could mean just the opposite. Women also say that moans and screams are one way to hurry sex along when you’re not particularly enjoying it.
Related: Are You Good In Bed?
Yup, women can and do use their voice to control how their guy feels during sex and when he climaxes, the researchers conclude.
And why do they do it? To ‘manipulate male behaviour to their advantage’.
Boosting her guy’s sex self-esteem by making lots of noise could help strengthen the bond between a woman and her partner, the researchers hypothesise. But there’s also the advantage of speeding up a guy’s orgasm if she’s in pain, just plain bored, or ready to roll over and go to sleep.
Subtle signs
So guys, if you really want to please her, don’t go by the big performance, look for the subtle signs of ecstasy. And girls, nice of you to cheer him on like that, but don’t forget to show and tell what really makes you go wild…
Are you noisy during sex? Do you do it on purpose, or does it just happen? Leave a comment below or on our Facebook pages Love Matters Kenya.
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Recent Comments (1483)
yes i do scream bt wen he
yes i do scream bt wen he fuck me 2 much nd wen he reach my g spote
So, for him, he could see it
So, for him, he could see it as a sign he is doing well?
yeah he is doing well
yeah he is doing well
Pally…
Pally…
Fucking Is d sweetes tin in
Fucking Is d sweetes tin in this word:::but it hot wn d gain come:::::::but my girl nver let me hv sex wet ha , I dnt no y:::::
I Will Love To Sex You
I Will Love To Sex You
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Hi Pally,
Thank you for sharing.
it jst hapns
it jst hapns
That’s cool 🙂
That’s cool 🙂
surelly its not true,,many
surelly its not true,,many make that sound even before i have come
Hi Mike,
Hi Mike,
we are not saying you can only make sounds when you are about to orgasm?
Its true
Its true
Thanks Job!
Thanks Job!
I just find myself doing it
I just find myself doing it nd my guyz likes it xo much
That’s great, Chychy!
That’s great, Chychy!
i go wild when my pattern
i go wild when my pattern makes it hard for me.
🙂
🙂
The sound motivetes me…
The sound motivetes me….makes me go harder and has r till she goes all wet and weak
I am noisy cuz I enjoy it.
I am noisy cuz I enjoy it.
That’s great, Sam!
That’s great, Sam!
i do. it just happens. well
i do. it just happens. well sometimes on purpose
Why on purpose, sometime,
Why on purpose, sometime, Shereen?
I love it
I love it
Thanks for sharing Shereen.
Thanks for sharing Shereen.
Blah blah blah.Whatever.
Blah blah blah.Whatever.
What’s up, Chuma?
What’s up, Chuma?
Am always out of ma mind wen
Am always out of ma mind wen screaming,driven crazy such that i dont realize wen am noisy,
Haha, that’s interesting!
Haha, that’s interesting!
Am always out of ma mind,the
Am always out of ma mind,the noisy during sex only ma hubby cn tl coz i dont realize wat am saiyng or doing,
🙂
🙂
lol nna i do it on purpose,
lol nna i do it on purpose, most of the times i do scream when i want him to stop
So when you scream, it’s not
So when you scream, it’s not a good sign?
Very Noisy…………….i
Very Noisy…………….i love when a man drives me wild.
Thanks for sharing, Mary!
Thanks for sharing, Mary!
I make noice coz I would be
I make noice coz I would be enjoying sex
Thanks for your comment,
Thanks for your comment, Sylvia!
Ma gal screams wen i pound ha
Ma gal screams wen i pound ha hard
Thanks for sharing that
Thanks for sharing that Wesley.
That story is true
That story is true
Is this something you do, too
Is this something you do, too?
Women are loving and caring
Women are loving and caring and they know love is not all about sex all the time,so sometimes you gotta act wild n crazy in bed just to make your partner happy n maintain your relationship…the advantange women have is that its hard to tell when we faking.
Hi Tanita,
Hi Tanita,
but shouldn’t you be able to be honest in a relationship and be able to tell your partner when you are not enjoying it?
Well not every woman can hide
Well not every woman can hide its just url don’t get the right guy who can tell weather you’re lying or not the matter is in the boys
sometimes i do it on porpse
sometimes i do it on porpse just to chear him up
🙂
🙂
i enjoy ma gal scrimmng coz
i enjoy ma gal scrimmng coz she mekx m fuck harder…en i lav t!!!!!
Thanks for sharing a man’s
Thanks for sharing a man’s perspective!
when my boy touches my gspot
when my boy touches my gspot i juz find myself doing it
Great! what does he think
Great! what does he think about it?
it’s nice
it’s nice
The article, or when women
The article, or when women scream in bed?
I Have Learned Alot Today
I Have Learned Alot Today.Keep It Up For Good Job!
We will, thanks, Vitalo!
We will, thanks, Vitalo!
It just happens especially
It just happens especially when am enjoying it….
That’s how it’s supposed to
That’s how it’s supposed to be, Beth 🙂
I make noise attimes wen am
I make noise attimes wen am having an orgasm n attimes wen I want him to stop coz he slipped out
Is it easy for him to
Is it easy for him to distinguish between the noises, Candy?
Oh oh oh it’s works both
Oh oh oh it’s works both ways
Hahahah, well played, James!
Hahahah, well played, James!
it kams automatic and ma guy
it kams automatic and ma guy loves it
Thanks for sharing, Kim!
Thanks for sharing, Kim!
Wow! Interesting topic there
Wow! Interesting topic there loving it!
Yay! Happy to hear that!
Yay! Happy to hear that!
icry bcoz of sweetnes & how
icry bcoz of sweetnes & how the man bring secondly im crying bcoz of the burial im giving him in the deep hole wen aman iz ontop
Ha! Interesting!
Ha! Interesting!
I cn say my gal screens coz
I cn say my gal screens coz she enjoys coz she I cn tel,,
Thanks for sharing, Denno!
Thanks for sharing, Denno!
even men screens in away….I
even men screens in away….I gves a certain sound wen I feel gad
That’s true!
That’s true!
he can tell when am honest or
he can tell when am honest or not,,,he knows my voice IF its too loud,its fake,if normal with bits of hiccups,its sincere. i don know how he does it but he alwats gets it right when we talk about my orgasm. #i don know how he does it.
That’s great, thanks for
That’s great, thanks for sharing, Rayseen!
i lav it when my gal does it
i lav it when my gal does it cos it makes me fuck much harder!
Which shows that the article
Which shows that the article might be right- women do it to encourage their partner!
Just happen
Just happen
Thanks for your input, Fridah
Thanks for your input, Fridah!
I love it when she make the
I love it when she make the noisy cz she raises my morale
Guess that shows the article
Guess that shows the article is right 🙂
I love it when she make the
I love it when she make the noise cz she raises my morale
Am learning alot. Thank you
Am learning alot. Thank you
You are welcome, Lee!
You are welcome, Lee!
I do it on purpose an if I’m
I do it on purpose an if I’m on top it just happen
That’s interesting!
That’s interesting!
….sometimes i fake it to
….sometimes i fake it to boost my mans ego…
Yep, we can imagine.
Yep, we can imagine.
i lov it wen woman screems..
i lov it wen woman screems…it cheers me up
That proves the article is
That proves the article is right, doesn’t it?
Yes I scream cz I feel good
Yes I scream cz I feel good.he’s at his best when he fucks harder
🙂
🙂
i think if you really know
i think if you really know your patner you can tell if she’s faking the scream and when shes really feeling you… I know my girl, guys you should try to know then too
Great point, thanks for
Great point, thanks for sharing, Tshepo!
good topic.and want to see
good topic.and want to see how this ladies scream when I marry inshaalah.
Hehe, Abdullahi, learn all
Hehe, Abdullahi, learn all about it now, then you can start practicing when you are married!
infact av held enough 4 2day
infact av held enough 4 2day just keep it up
We will, Kazzy!
We will, Kazzy!
TO be sincere its been 4 to 5
TO be sincere its been 4 to 5 years nw that i had sex i cant even remember
No worries, KC!
No worries, KC!
I REALLY LOVE IT WHEN MY LADY
I REALLY LOVE IT WHEN MY LADY SCREAM, WHEN SHE DOES I MAKE SURE I GIVE HER THE BEST I CAN TO MAKE HER FEEL ME DEEP INSIDE HER
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
some ladies do fake the noise
some ladies do fake the noise jst 2 kip u intact but sincerely it’s for enjoyment.
Very good point, Donald!
Very good point, Donald!
besides she screaming she
besides she screaming she also scratches my back………… but I have never known why.
Passion, Edu!
Passion, Edu!
i jus fnd myself screamin
i jus fnd myself screamin whle abt to come
Voluntarily, or as
Voluntarily, or as encouragement for your partner?
I do enjoy when my gyal
I do enjoy when my gyal screams., it makes me screw her harder!
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
i luv it when she screams coz
i luv it when she screams coz she makes me know am satisfying her
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
I scream when am so tired am
I scream when am so tired am running out of gas…whn i use mouth to breath nd dont want him to stop…. ikihit g spot… its crazy…nd pleasure
That’s really interesting!
That’s really interesting! Thanks for sharing, Tamul!
Screaming has become a
Screaming has become a natural thing, u dnt do it in bed n trust me tht man wont come back to u.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Rose!
Learnt something new
Learnt something new
Hope it was interesting,
Hope it was interesting, Isaac.
I make noise when enjoying
I make noise when enjoying sex n he loves it!
That’s great Matilda!
That’s great Matilda!
I Like It When My Girl Makes
I Like It When My Girl Makes Alot Of Of Noise Coz ‘Huwa Ananipa’ Morale So I Do Increase My Speed
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
My woman normally cumz during
My woman normally cumz during foreplay n she always mks noise whn she cumz. Also mks noise wen she cumz during our 2nd round of penetration.
Thanks for sharing, Kabelo!
Thanks for sharing, Kabelo!
Wonderful to hear from the
Wonderful to hear from the players.
Are you a player, Paul?
Are you a player, Paul?
true
true
Thanks for your comment,
Thanks for your comment, Evans!
Mmmh its lyk they want 2 feel
Mmmh its lyk they want 2 feel as if they virgin
Hi Bonny,
Hi Bonny,
why, do virgins scream?
I can tell wen she’s faking
I can tell wen she’s faking it cz
how can ur body be relaxed n yet ur screaming in the same sound n ur eyes not closed,
all I lov abt it is the real sound track of the xexual pleasure,
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for sharing!
I enjoy it when my gal
I enjoy it when my gal screams…I feel the real man in me.
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
i rarely don scream..but wen
i rarely don scream..but wen i do he knos am fakin it!!hao i dn kno…buh he always asks me 2 change our position 2 wan i enjoy!!
Hmm, that’s interesting,
Hmm, that’s interesting, Piere!
it just happen coz am carried
it just happen coz am carried away but wen am quet my hubby thinks am nt enjoying so sometimes i do make him happy even though am down
Awww, Dorcas, that’s sweet,
Awww, Dorcas, that’s sweet, but it would also be good if you just shared with your hubby that some days things just aren’t working…
I scream when am enjoying
I scream when am enjoying
I scream when am enjoying
I scream when am enjoying
🙂
🙂
That noisy thing drives me
That noisy thing drives me crazy especially when am on top cos it pushes my effort and i ejoy more than ever.
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
For i think it depends with
For i think it depends with an individual towards sex ,how u do it,what u feel.
That’s true, thanks Soera!
That’s true, thanks Soera!
I am nt experienced in this.
I am nt experienced in this. But sincerely i wil love my partner to be truthful. If i dnt fuck well, i will appreciate it if i am told and assisted to do better. I wil lik to make her very happy, even on bed.
That’s the perfect approach,
That’s the perfect approach, Jerry!
Guys fake it too ….More
Guys fake it too ….More especially when shez not good at it
E.g. BJ
Yep, men fake, too, very true
Yep, men fake, too, very true!
i do it wen am enjoying it
i do it wen am enjoying it and want him to do it harder mwaaaahhhh
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for sharing!
Haha I fake to make him happy
Haha I fake to make him happy sometimes
Haha I fake to make him happy
Haha I fake to make him happy sometimes
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
i do it wen am enjoying it
i do it wen am enjoying it and want him to do it harder mwaaaahhhh
🙂
🙂
I just like sex a Girl scream
I just like sex a Girl scream on a bed xo that put more energy fore more sex
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
i love it wen my girl moan..
i love it wen my girl moan…It gv me alot of courage..I just keep going
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
My queen dose n it makes me
My queen dose n it makes me fll like born again it give moral to continue n continue nonstop
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
Both of as enjoy. Xo no need
Both of as enjoy. Xo no need of making noise ata bed
Thanks for your comment,
Thanks for your comment, Ryankar!
my lady scream whn she enjoy
my lady scream whn she enjoy it but whn she is not in mood she is so silent. i enjoy it.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience, Humphrey!
shouting n screaming out his
shouting n screaming out his name dats da sweetness of fuckin
Thanks for sharing, connie!
Thanks for sharing, connie!
it comes automatically i do
it comes automatically i do find ma self making noice when ma man start it
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience, Mourine!
I scream when my partner
I scream when my partner takes it the way I want it,and sumtymz I scream am it hurting me, telling my partner to take it easy but not to stop.
Hi Mizzy Joy,
Hi Mizzy Joy,
and, does he know the difference between the different kinds of screams?
I make noise because I enjoy
I make noise because I enjoy wen a man drives me wild en when I’m enjoying the moment
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
just to cheer him up
just to cheer him up
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
ma gal enjoys it & screamz
ma gal enjoys it & screamz wen i hit her g spot and she begs for more hard fuck
Thanks for sharing, Marto!
Thanks for sharing, Marto!
Her Noise Makes me Want Her
Her Noise Makes me Want Her More N More
Thanks for your comment,
Thanks for your comment, Henry!
i screem wen he goes deeper
i screem wen he goes deeper and fast wow xoo sweet…..
Thanks for sharing, Angelou!
Thanks for sharing, Angelou!
its true ladies do
its true ladies do
scream,for real it makes sex enjayable.
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
I jst lov screming bcz he gv
I jst lov screming bcz he gv it al 2me..nd wn Its dt tym 4m 2cum out I jst hld hm tyt n strt Syng Bby bby…nd he wud jst…goo wth de fool he real enjyz dt oart most
Thanks for your comment, Bite
Thanks for your comment, Bite!
I make noise when am enjoying
I make noise when am enjoying it and when am not.when am enjoying its natural n when am not to get him to finish up quickly.
Hi there,
Hi there,
and, does he know the difference?
My man can only tel wat am
My man can only tel wat am saying during orgasm.he likes the noise much,it makes him strong.
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
Its true,it boosts the morale
Its true,it boosts the morale of my guy even though I don’t quite enjoy it.
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
I luv da topic bt i know one
I luv da topic bt i know one moans when she feels wooow
Thanks for your comment!
Thanks for your comment!
I l0ve it when my gurl scream
I l0ve it when my gurl scream or m0an, it makes me go faster and wild
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
i love the noise but nt
i love the noise but nt excess noise
There is a thin line, you are
There is a thin line, you are right!
Screaming comes on its own.
Screaming comes on its own..esp wen he is hitting my G-spot
Thanks fir sharing!
Thanks fir sharing!
She screams sometimes so loud
She screams sometimes so loud that I have to kiss her mouth to minimize the noise lest the police come!
I dont think that can be pretence! I doubt…..
Haha!
Haha!
I love it when a girl screen
I love it when a girl screen but do you know the funny type my girl is a virgin and l don’t know if she will or not but l love it all the same
Hi Paul,
Hi Paul,
well, I guess you will find out at one point!
Wen ma gal doing such a noise
Wen ma gal doing such a noise,itis easy for me to come.
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
my galfiend dont scream at
my galfiend dont scream at all she’s always silent.
Some people don’t make any
Some people don’t make any noise at all, that’s fine!
my gal likes 2 scream alot n
my gal likes 2 scream alot n makes noise til she become unconcious.
Oh wow! How does she regain
Oh wow! How does she regain consciousness?
I alwyz do it wen i feel wow
I alwyz do it wen i feel wow en my man lv it.
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
Surely she gives me
Surely she gives me motivation when she scream
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
I lv it
I lv it
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
I jst find my self screaming
I jst find my self screaming bt it’s make my guy if great
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
love hurts
love hurts
Oh no, Deno, what happened?
Oh no, Deno, what happened?
jaz supryzd wit tis facts,,,
jaz supryzd wit tis facts,,,
What surprised you most?
What surprised you most?
jaz supryzd wit tis facts…
jaz supryzd wit tis facts…
am now awea abt sex
am now awea abt sex
Check out our resources, like
Check out our resources, like Making Love, there is lots to learn!
It just happen without
It just happen without knowing
That’s great!
That’s great!
U have said xo i have
U have said xo i have experience several tyms.
Great, anything you want to
Great, anything you want to add, Natho?
It’s very emvarrazing and
It’s very emvarrazing and unfortunate if ladies fake orgasm through any act. Yed, I dont have any problem with screaming if it’s real but if I realize that she has been faking then my feelings will die forever.
Thanks for sharing, Alande,
Thanks for sharing, Alande, Why do you think ladies feel the urge to fake orgasms?
wow! wagwaan!
wow! wagwaan!
🙂
🙂
Am enjoying the topic. .n how
Am enjoying the topic. .n how about those who don’t scream
That’s totally fine, too Chif
That’s totally fine, too Chif!
my wf was screaming and
my wf was screaming and shouting woi mum,woi mum….when we finished i asked her what was she saying,she told me i hv satisfied her very well and thats takes back to her mothers love,thats y she was calling mum.
Huh, that’s interesting. How
Huh, that’s interesting. How does that make you feel?
Its interesting,that cry”ha!
Its interesting,that cry”ha! ha! ha! haaa!” speeds me up and i go deeper
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
i love that noise from ma gal
i love that noise from ma gal.she just motivates me n i fuck her even herder.
thanks for that topics keep it up.
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
she moans and that makes me
she moans and that makes me fuck hard harder…but don’t know how to distinguish wheather she’s faking
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
Hmm, maybe you could ask her to tell you when she isn’t going to have an orgasm, so that she won’t feel the need to fake?
Ok av heard u bt am hvng a
Ok av heard u bt am hvng a problem, last weekend i slept wid a gal who cries alot evn if ma pen has nt entered fully n it waz nt easy to get in so i failed to understand her den i also av 1 who never make noise iz dat a problem? Tenks.
Hi Reagan,
Hi Reagan,
if she is in pain, you shouldn’t continue. Check for the most common causes of pain here:
http://lovematters.co.ke/news/sex-hurts-help
it is dependent hw ur lover
it is dependent hw ur lover does fucking
Thanks for your comment,
Thanks for your comment, Frewel. But as you can see from the article, many women just do it to please their partner.
Ohhhh dats cool men. I enjoy
Ohhhh dats cool men. I enjoy more when she creams during sex. i love that.
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
my favourite topic thnx, wen
my favourite topic thnx, wen she streams:-
> makes me concentrate more & drive harder
> makes me feel am a man enough
> makes me Kam faster
> I enjoy it
Proves that the article is
Proves that the article is right, doesn’t it :-)?
My wife never make noise, is
My wife never make noise, is there a prblm?
No, some women are just quite
No, some women are just quite.
But you can ask her if she enjoys sex, and if there is anything she is missing in bed!
y do pple hu ar in luv ech
y do pple hu ar in luv ech ada do sex…nd same dnt do nd ignore it evn if fwelingz are high
That’s a great question!
That’s a great question!
I guess it all depends on the person, and how much sex means to them, and how much sex and love to them are related.
mostly hv a purpose
mostly hv a purpose
fake or real.
Can you distinguish?
Can you distinguish?
it would be disheartening
it would be disheartening should my lady be quiet during sex which automatically means she’s not loving it….and next time i would think twice before i do it…so the noise is good…
Hi Navid,
Hi Navid,
don’t forget that not all women make noise. So she might enjoy it, regardless of noise.
I normally go wild when my
I normally go wild when my partner maked it hard for me & I really enjoy it.
Thanks for your comment,
Thanks for your comment, Nancy.
automatic noise wen u r in a
automatic noise wen u r in a dip doing?haha interesting!!!!!!
Thanks for your comment!
Thanks for your comment!
I normally go wild when my
I normally go wild when my partner maked it hard for me & I really enjoy it.
i moan…i dnt make much
i moan…i dnt make much noises u knw.bt wen am about to orgasm i scream.it happens naturally.
That’s fine 🙂
That’s fine 🙂
4 me my guy tells me i scream
4 me my guy tells me i scream! Ive neva noticed!am always lost in my own world 2 even notice! I argued until one day he recorded the whole episode! But he luvs it that way!
That’s pretty funny, Wendy!
That’s pretty funny, Wendy!
Its automatic 4 me!!
Its automatic 4 me!!
That’s great, thanks for
That’s great, thanks for sharing, Josephine!
I do scream bcz he fucks so
I do scream bcz he fucks so nice
🙂
🙂
Yes Its True
Yes Its True
We are glad you agree!
We are glad you agree!
well got a lil’ problem here
well got a lil’ problem here,my guy took my virginity early this year and thats where our sex life began,the problem is when having sex i dont enjoy but al alws fake a scream..sometime i got a friction,could there be something wrong with me?or when will i start enjoying sex???.please help
Hi there,
Hi there,
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Most women have trouble having an orgasm without the clitoris being stimulated- and most men don’t know this. This has nothing to do with size, as the in-and out movement of sex alone won’t get you enough clitoral stimulation. Check out this section to learn more about the clitoris, and have your man stimulate it during foreplay and intercourse: http://lovematters.co.ke/resource/vulva
when she sream i do enjoy
when she sream i do enjoy fucking hard and i lyk it
Proves the point of the
Proves the point of the article, doesn’t it!
wen am enjoyin it i moarn n
wen am enjoyin it i moarn n he lvx it,bt wen am nt enjoyin,i tel hm n he improvx xo i kan enjoy
That’s the perfect approach,
That’s the perfect approach, Shi!
Want to understand wat a
Want to understand wat a gsport is coz am intrested .n way we screem bcoz of enjoyment
Hi James,
Hi James,
have a look here: http://lovematters.co.ke/news/g-spot-top-five-facts
i avnt tasted any chiq WHO
i avnt tasted any chiq WHO scream
You might at some point. And
You might at some point. And you can pay lots of attention to their clitoris, that might get you somewhere!
But in my case its totally
But in my case its totally different coz its my guy who makes the noise and i really wonder coz he never talked about it,but i truly enjoy when he moarn.
That’s not an issue, Marry,
That’s not an issue, Marry, all good 🙂
i find myself noisy
i find myself noisy unknowingly though i hate being whom am not so idnt do it to please someone it happens out of enjoyment but when am not am just quite dead
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for sharing!
we just lk it ad makes sex
we just lk it ad makes sex more enjoyable mostly during organism
Hi Millie,
Hi Millie,
thanks for sharing!
i scream to boost my mans ego
i scream to boost my mans ego….although i dnt really enjoy sex.av never enjoyed i dnt understand why…
Hi Liz,
Hi Liz,
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Most women have trouble having an orgasm without the clitoris being stimulated- and most men don’t know this. This has nothing to do with size, as the in-and out movement of sex alone won’t get you enough clitoral stimulation. Check out this section to learn more about the clitoris, and have your man stimulate it during foreplay and intercourse: http://lovematters.co.ke/resource/vulva
i never knew its such a lie
i never knew its such a lie.thanks
Hi Lala,
Hi Lala,
well, some of it is definitely real!
My gal don scream
My gal don scream
That’s okay, not every woman
That’s okay, not every woman does.
wee it coms automatic imgn
wee it coms automatic imgn when u feel that uchungu utamu!
🙂
🙂
he luvs when i scream so i
he luvs when i scream so i give it to him bt it works he keeps coming back bt i also luv how he makes love to me
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Esther.
one never knows when making
one never knows when making noise…but i can say its when i feel real good and satisfied.
That’s great, Maggie.
That’s great, Maggie.
Yea somtymz wi du cz guyz get
Yea somtymz wi du cz guyz get insecure wen u dnt scream or moan ..thy thnk u r nt enjoying it…moanz n screamz motivate men
Hi Passa,
Hi Passa,
thanks for your input!
I just like don’t realize
I just like don’t realize when she ‘s faking or being real
Hi Shitemu,
Hi Shitemu,
does she have any reasons for faking?
ooooh may mine screames so
ooooh may mine screames so much but what she says is that its sweet and damn hard and painful!
Umm, Nesh, painful isn’t good
Umm, Nesh, painful isn’t good!
so how long does it take a
so how long does it take a normal woman to reach orgasm
Hi Ivan,
Hi Ivan,
there is no straight answer to this.
Some women take longer, some are quicker. It can also differ from day-to-day, just like you sometimes need longer than other times.
But women generally need longer than men do.
itz just but assumation.
itz just but assumation.
Hi Bonny,
Hi Bonny,
this is based on scientific research, as you can read in the article.
I lik seeing my girl doing it
I lik seeing my girl doing it
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for sharing!
I lyk dat game n i enjoy it
I lyk dat game n i enjoy it by screaming
Thanks for your comment,
Thanks for your comment, Pauline!
Some men make noise2 is it
Some men make noise2 is it normal?
Hi Levy,
yes, absolutely!
Hi Levy,
yes, absolutely!
Hw kan u know uv reach at da
Hw kan u know uv reach at da g spot???
Hi Fred,
Hi Fred,
have a look at this article, it might help you find it: http://lovematters.co.ke/news/g-spot-top-five-facts
My gal doesn’t rem screamin,i
My gal doesn’t rem screamin,i find it funy
That is funny!
That is funny!
i jst feel waoh shez enjoying
i jst feel waoh shez enjoying
That’s great.
That’s great.
this screaming depends on the
this screaming depends on the partners coz some enjoy while others do not
That’s absolutely true, Barno
That’s absolutely true, Barno!
me I do scream coz I enjoy de
me I do scream coz I enjoy de game, n when I don’t my hubby will definitely go on to satisfy me even him when he screams I know hav played right. n may be next time I try to repeat to make him enjoy n be happy.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Mwesh.
we communicate and lough on
we communicate and lough on process and we realy enjoy it all long.noise is mini more and she loves low soul music during sex.
we communicate and lough on
we communicate and lough on process and we realy enjoy it all long.noise is mini more and she loves low soul music during sex.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your insights, Eric, that’s really interesting.
i like oral sex more,,,fuck
i like oral sex more,,,fuck with the tongue as i suck tje pennis
Thanks for sharing…
Thanks for sharing…
Am love it wild it drives me
Am love it wild it drives me crazy,en mostly am not myself during “noise making” though I love calling my hubbys name en am sure I somehow go silent during orgasm but it feels much sexier she he says am calming…..en tha noise we both make as we calm en when the lovemaking is over@iloveit.
Thanks for sharing your story
Thanks for sharing your story, Daisy!
AM A MAN BUT I ALSO SCREAM
AM A MAN BUT I ALSO SCREAM LIKE CRAZY WHEN AM AT ORGASM
Hi there,
Hi there,
that’s totally fine 🙂
i dont lyke noisy chic
i dont lyke noisy chic
Everybody has their own
Everybody has their own personal preferences, Hassan.
Its weired n i don’t enjoy at
Its weired n i don’t enjoy at all some do flatter us
Hi Griffins,
Hi Griffins,
what don’t you enjoy, noisy sex?
yah.it’s painful that’s y we
yah.it’s painful that’s y we smx scream
Hi Joy,
Hi Joy,
we are talking about screaming from pleasure. Screaming from pain isn’t good!
Its true coz even my girl
Its true coz even my girl friend scream,bt they can scream to enjoy it,,yap
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Julius.
I do moarn and scream when he
I do moarn and scream when he takes me on cloud 9 or wen he s down there wth his tougue and I jst want him inside . Do u knw wat I mean
Yep, we sure do 🙂
Yep, we sure do 🙂
am noisy cuz i enjoy it
am noisy cuz i enjoy it
Thanks for sharing, Rael.
Thanks for sharing, Rael.
i like it when she makes alot
i like it when she makes alot of noise and that can make me remain still for around 2hrs on top of her.i
So you are teasing her,
So you are teasing her, Robert?
I really like noise
I really like noise
Hezbon,
thanks for sharing.
Hezbon,
thanks for sharing.
I Do T Because T S Sweet And
I Do T Because T S Sweet And I Enjoy T
Thanks for sharing, Jayne.
Thanks for sharing, Jayne.
my gal always do it while am
my gal always do it while am teasing her
Haha, thanks for sharing,
Haha, thanks for sharing, Eric.
he starts it slowly and very
he starts it slowly and very swit but after 10mins he becomes wild and it becomes very swit especialy wen he pumps like crazy i cant control the mourning n he loves it
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Sly.
I do it coz i want her 2 stop
I do it coz i want her 2 stop it….Bt smtym i enjoy do it??????
What do you want her to stop?
What do you want her to stop?
I agree 1001 tyms..I simply
I agree 1001 tyms..I simply want to motivate him to cum first..sometime I get pains during sex..wen I scream he feels he’s done it all n he’s sure he can now cum..otherwise he might just do it whole night. ..
Hi Shish,
Hi Shish,
Thanks for giving your input.
Wah specialy wen iam comin
Wah specialy wen iam comin idnt fake noises all over
Haha, thanks for sharing,
Haha, thanks for sharing, Hekma.
He drives me wild……and i
He drives me wild……and i feel like im floating in the air and sream out without knowing:-))
That sounds exciting, Niels!
That sounds exciting, Niels!
it give u more strength
it give u more strength
So you confirm what the
So you confirm what the article says, Korir?
ak it kams without notice.
ak it kams without notice..especially whn he fucks harder
ak it kams without notice.
ak it kams without notice..especially whn he fucks harder
Thanks for your input,
Thanks for your input, Shantel!
i just sream becoz am
i just sream becoz am enjoying the act n my guy loves it.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Rozzy.
i just enjoy wen she makes
i just enjoy wen she makes that noise
Hi Larry,
Hi Larry,
so you agree with what the article says?
why do some scream too
why do some scream too
Sorry, we don’t quite know
Sorry, we don’t quite know what you are asking?
Am in a long distance rlntshp
Am in a long distance rlntshp of which we meet after months nd i enjoyd it nd i dnt evn remembr if i scrmd out loudly,cz i doz off aftr until he wakes me up nd was lyk woooooooooow THANKS HUNY 4 da satisfaction sex is life oh!
Thanks for sharing, Joy!
Thanks for sharing, Joy!
this topic is realy educating
this topic is realy educating, at least I have gained s/thing from it
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
my ex made me scream like hel
my ex made me scream like hel coz evry step he fuck made me crazy even b4 orgasm and i could reach several in asingle round, n we cud hav sex daily day n nyt. nowadays i hv a partner who has neva satisfy me and i jst scrim 4 da sake of it and av lost intrest in sex, coz av given out al da styles of wich he enjoys and cnt let me go coz of my cool game! advice me too, can i cheat on him 2 satisfy maself. am 25 yrs
Bintu,
Bintu,
our expert Valentine recently answered a similar question: http://lovematters.co.ke/news/sorry-dear-you-cant-make-me-orgasm
In fact is a moment we like
In fact is a moment we like especialy climax!
Wen she noise too sex we forget we wa in the
Act
Thanks for your comment!
Thanks for your comment!
Yes i do,coz am enjoying
Yes i do,coz am enjoying
That’s the best reasons to
That’s the best reasons to make noise.
I mek noise when feel
I mek noise when feel pleasure but can’t fake to please when not in fun… maybe noise to mean enaff
Thanks for your input, Jullie
Thanks for your input, Jullie
Ts wow!i do moan n my man
Ts wow!i do moan n my man moans too n i love t n he luvs t too
Thanks Lydia.
Thanks Lydia.
I Sreem When I Feel Pain N I
I Sreem When I Feel Pain N I Want Him To Stop
That’s definitely a reason to
That’s definitely a reason to scream.
To be sincere when my gal
To be sincere when my gal screams she actually boosts me just like fans do it in the stadiums
Jeff,
Jeff,
Proves the point of the article, doesn’t it?
My gal always make noise nd
My gal always make noise nd screams wen she is nt nt njoying d sex or wen am too hard on her
It’s good that you can
It’s good that you can distinguish between pleasure and pain.
I never took my organ into a
I never took my organ into a woman yet. But when I’m having good time with my girl she always moans. That makes my feelings very intense.
Sounds great!
Sounds great!
thanks team love matters
thanks team love matters
You are welcome!
You are welcome!
Rarely do I do bcz he’s hit
Rarely do I do bcz he’s hit sth good..it’s mainly just to please him..and Yes,to hurry it along when I’d rather sleep. It’s an ego booster for the men, when I reach my orgasm you won’t hear me scream exactly.
Christine,
Christine,
Thanks for sharing.
true coz i do scream wen am
true coz i do scream wen am bored n i want him to think he’s done so well n finish up i slp
Thanks, Lucie. Would you ever
Thanks, Lucie. Would you ever consider telling him.
Some make noise wen the glans
Some make noise wen the glans (penis head) is too wide due scratching inside while others its enjoyment.
I like the silent once.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Dennis.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Dennis.
For me it just happen
For me it just happen
Thanks for sharing, Jacky
Thanks for sharing, Jacky
my chiq says,shez really at
my chiq says,shez really at the peak wen she screams or groans…that again turns me on fr anather round
Do you think you could tell
Do you think you could tell the difference between her being genuine and just trying to move things along?
Very true on the faking
Very true on the faking sreaming
🙂
🙂
I make noise when my guy
I make noise when my guy fucks hard and reaches my g spot,,i even never realize but he tells me later,,but he oves it
Good one, Fridah.
Good one, Fridah.
I have seen this happening on
I have seen this happening on several occasions such that she would hold me so tight n whn i ask her she says the Angels were falling down hence the noisy.
Awww, that’s cute!
Awww, that’s cute!
Is their a drug which can
Is their a drug which can stumulate water during sex
What kind of water- like
What kind of water- like vaginal fluids?
What about us men who moan at
What about us men who moan at times
Do you moan to please women?
Do you moan to please women?
it`s true and i really love
it`s true and i really love it wen she screams my name
Can you tell the difference
Can you tell the difference between genuine moans and her cheering you on?
it’s ok cozz it mortivate
it’s ok cozz it mortivate rythymical penetration while having it..
Thanks for sharing, that’s a
Thanks for sharing, that’s a new aspect!
its true I do it to boost him
its true I do it to boost him coz I cant reach orgasm four tymes a night maybe da first round only
But wouldn’t it be better if
But wouldn’t it be better if you were honest, Eunice? There is no shame in that.
I sometimes find it boring
I sometimes find it boring when my girl don’t scream during the game
Obedo,
Obedo,
Would you rather have her fake it or be bored?
it happen when u really u
it happen when u really u feel it
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience!
av lrnt alot…gud job…
av lrnt alot…gud job…
Thanks!
Thanks!
a true story 4rm xperince men
a true story 4rm xperince men
It’s great to hear it’s being
It’s great to hear it’s being confirmed.
sometyms the mourning and
sometyms the mourning and screaming is out if pleasure ,, how good the guy is riding u….bt sometyms its fake to mek the guy think ur enjoying…bt funny enough sex would be boring if their is no mourning and screaming!! heeher
Haha, you are right, Annete!
Haha, you are right, Annete!
Thanx 4 enlighting us @lst
Thanx 4 enlighting us @lst nxt tym I wil be accurate when makin luv to her
🙂
🙂
i also love making some noise
i also love making some noise it make me feel sexy 2
That’s great to hear!
That’s great to hear!
he knos wen am jst cheering
he knos wen am jst cheering him up n wen it is real depending n haw i have “ejaculated”
That’s great, and good that
That’s great, and good that he can distinguish.
Well i never know am
Well i never know am sctreaming infact it feels wired when my man shut my mouth but the only thing i know he soo swt n i never even think of fucking anyone else
Thanks for sharing, Y
Thanks for sharing, Y
if she screams and moans to
if she screams and moans to me its a turn on,,,,oh yeah
Guess that reinforces the
Guess that reinforces the article, doesn’t it 🙂
Nice article
Nice article
Yay!
Yay!
i love it when she screems!it
i love it when she screems!it makes me go wild in bed
Bob,
Bob,
Can you distinguish between pleasure and pain screams?
I disagree. If I am into it,
I disagree. If I am into it, I make more noise than when I am not. Mainly because, well, it feels great! If my husband gets off on it then that’s great but I don’t ‘make noise’ to hurry up the process or make him feel better about himself. To me, that’s ‘faking it’ which in my eyes goes hand in hand with deception. If you can’t be comfortable and free in bed, how can you in day to day life with each other?
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. And yes, we agree. Sex is about communication, and telling your partner what works for you and what doesn’t.
Wahuu It’s the best thing she
Wahuu It’s the best thing she’ll do to me I feel good and give me morality of fucking her
Glad to see you agree with
Glad to see you agree with the article.
Why my wife never scream?.
Why my wife never scream?..she only breath deeply at orgasm.
That’s okay. Different people
That’s okay. Different people act differently in bed, and if she doesn’t scream it doesn’t mean she is not enjoying it.
its true,an i enjoy when it
its true,an i enjoy when it scremx that i can fuck harder.
Let’s hope ‘it’ is a person..
Let’s hope ‘it’ is a person…
Well sometimes its not for
Well sometimes its not for purpose but truly feeling the love and the way the guy is doing it you know and its feels great to scream and moan just to show how much you r enjoying
That proves what the article
That proves what the article is saying, isn’t it?
she once screemed and I didn
she once screemed and I didn’t stop so she trucked me she wants to pee then ran away living her clothes so I had to stop and call her back to pick her clothes
Oops. Thanks for sharing your
Oops. Thanks for sharing your story, Joseph!
I make noise wen it touches d
I make noise wen it touches d sweetest part inside, lol
That sounds nice…
That sounds nice…
thts great I tht thy scream
thts great I tht thy scream bcs thy r feeling pain but it’s good 2 knw
Wilson,
Wilson,
some women, without doubt, do feel pain. So it’s always best to ask.
Actualy guiz ur totaly wright
Actualy guiz ur totaly wright on this,its realy chrearing both in action ,thank u.
Thanks for your input, Mike!
Thanks for your input, Mike!
hahaha for mi av never
hahaha for mi av never screamed
Neither from pain nor
Neither from pain nor pleasure?
He feels grate en motivated
He feels grate en motivated wen i scream
That confirms what the
That confirms what the article says then, doesn’t it :-)?
if thats the case i nao know
if thats the case i nao know y i kant fuck her even for 30mins
Not sure we understand what
Not sure we understand what you mean, John.
I feel so good wen she is
I feel so good wen she is coming….
I feel so good wen she is
I feel so good wen she is coming….
🙂
🙂
coz thy ussualy flls gwd
coz thy ussualy flls gwd
Thanks for your comment.
Thanks for your comment.
i love it wen she screams
i love it wen she screams,because it boosts me
Thanks for your comment,
Thanks for your comment, Lekinsen.
alot nd trth, good job i alxo
alot nd trth, good job i alxo never undrxtond why i d xo !
We are glad it was helpful,
We are glad it was helpful, Lucy!
After sex I always tell her
After sex I always tell her to be honest to me of how was it? Being honest I dnt like my gf when she screams bcoz its like I’m hurting her nd I dnt wanna c her getting hurt
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience, Neto.
i had sex with my guy
i had sex with my guy recently and gosh it was hot. When his anaconda got into my cunt i knew i was screaming bt didnt care.
Thanks for sharing…
Thanks for sharing…
I love it wen a lady scream
I love it wen a lady scream in wile makin sex ,coz it makes me feel am the number1 expert fucker they have ever meet,,because of hardfurck,ladies likes me so much,,and they call me “PLAYBOY”
That proves that the article
That proves that the article is right then, isn’t it?
good guidance n i appreciat
good guidance n i appreciat ur job,now with the required tips i guess we know hw to go about it
That’s great to hear!
That’s great to hear!
I do it to pliz ma guy n he
I do it to pliz ma guy n he lyks it especially wen he reaches ma gsport
Thanks for sharing Anitah.
Thanks for sharing Anitah.
I luv it
I luv it
That’s great, Melisa.
That’s great, Melisa.
my gal says she does
my gal says she does know wat is G spot
Steve,
Steve,
does or doesn’t?
If you need more information, check this article: https://lovematters.co.ke/news/g-spot-top-five-facts
I never knew dat I scream wen
I never knew dat I scream wen we make love coz honestly I du enjoy
🙂
🙂
only when d guy doesn’t know
only when d guy doesn’t know wat he is doing
Is that screaming in
Is that screaming in frustrating then, KS ;-)?
I’ve never had sex with a guy
I’ve never had sex with a guy that has made me scream.
I scream when I’m terrified.
I’ve had the most a most amazing sex, and sexual pleasures that any women could ever wish for.i didn’t need to scream .when a women I totally turned on.her body language, says everything
Abbie,
Abbie,
everybody is different, and some women scream when they experience pleasure- that doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with them; nor is it wrong when women don’t scream.
I lyk it when he fuck it
I lyk it when he fuck it harder ,i end up screaming without having any idea how high is de voice, he usually says” stop dats too much” and laugh.. Thanks with ecstasy
🙂
🙂
i actually thnk sm gals mak
i actually thnk sm gals mak noises during sex whn thy r in pain…wat do u thnk guys???????
Glen,
Glen,
yep, it’s really important to distinguish between pain and pleasure noises.
And wen ur dude moans louder
And wen ur dude moans louder den you?
then he is probably really
then he is probably really enjoying it!
Why do they close theır eyes
Why do they close theır eyes also
It could be due to enjoyment!
It could be due to enjoyment!
Ey i enjoy it n i scream
Ey i enjoy it n i scream during sex because i feel so good wen my man fuck me it feels heaven
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for sharing!
Hey I agree too
Hey I agree too
🙂
🙂
I find mi self doin it n he
I find mi self doin it n he loves its
Thanks for sharing, Pronio.
Thanks for sharing, Pronio.
Her screams motivate me,so i
Her screams motivate me,so i like it
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for sharing.
I scream bcoz i go crazy, n i
I scream bcoz i go crazy, n i enjoy soo mch tht i dnt evn realize tht m screeming… I jst go ovr the moon… Lol
Thanks for sharing, Latoya!
Thanks for sharing, Latoya!
I scream when am enjoying sex
I scream when am enjoying sex
🙂
🙂
I love when a woman screens
I love when a woman screens it give me energy that I have made it she’s happy am happy rather than having a boring sex it kill every thing in the game
Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for sharing!
Yeah
Yeah
🙂
🙂
When having Sex I scream very
When having Sex I scream very very loud usually because the feeling is unreal and really good but sometimes I make a lot of noise because I’m in pain and need him to hurry up. I’m never bored tho, well not yet…
DD,
DD,
wouldn’t it make more sense to tell him to stop when you are in pain?
It just comes naturally bcoz
It just comes naturally bcoz I will be damn enjoying my man
That’s great, Kay!
That’s great, Kay!
lag smtym it jst dat u dnt
lag smtym it jst dat u dnt fck hm very wel enough
And what is well enough?
And what is well enough?
I scream bcos of pain cos my
I scream bcos of pain cos my man has a lage one and ofcos enjoyment
Triplem,
Triplem,
excitement is one thing, but your partner should be very careful if he is causing you pain! Be gentle and make sure you are very aroused and wet.
I do,mostly when he’s
I do,mostly when he’s aggressive
Does he understand that,
Does he understand that, Queen?
i do it wen am about to cum
i do it wen am about to cum
Keep enjoying that, Shiks!
Keep enjoying that, Shiks!
Yea I scream when he fuck or
Yea I scream when he fuck or pound me too hard and I moan when he fuck my g spot to com. And while I moan we com together….that makes it so so sweet I enjoy it most with my hubby….
Thanks for sharing, Wealth!
Thanks for sharing, Wealth!
I scream when his touch
I scream when his touch ignite the flame in me and am in the middle of ecstasy
Wow, nice, Zeal!
Wow, nice, Zeal!
i do enjoy hearing a woman
i do enjoy hearing a woman moaning dat is i increase my speed of strocking her.
Nice!
Nice!
As for me it just happens..
As for me it just happens…even with just dirty talk lol
And how does your partner
And how does your partner like it, Elizabeth?
i learn alot to day becuase
i learn alot to day becuase when my gal scream i feel sorry for her i thought it was painful i dont knw she what me push in all. Nice topic ever
Thanks, Ujah.
Thanks, Ujah.
You should always talk about things like this with your partner- because it could still be that she is in pain.
I enjoy wen she screams coz
I enjoy wen she screams coz it gives me strength to pound her harder
Jeff, as long as you know if
Jeff, as long as you know if’s enjoyable for her, great!
Hmm she scream cuz she enjoy
Hmm she scream cuz she enjoy it and all women cannot resist dat scream y
Not all women scream, and
Not all women scream, and some will scream from pleasure, others to encourage their partner, and yet others due to pain. It’s important you talk to your partner about why they scream.
I give soft moans bt ma bf
I give soft moans bt ma bf complains abt it that he wants me to yell
Lyz,
Lyz,
everybody is different. and if you are not a yeller, but you are a moaner, that’s totally okay, and your bf needs to accept that.
I never did…made noises
I never did…made noises
Ieesa,
that’s okay!
Ieesa,
that’s okay!
whenever she screams i fuck
whenever she screams i fuck harder. she loves mentioning my name
Ebenezer,
Ebenezer,
as long as she enjoys it!
My girl does it whenever she
My girl does it whenever she wants me to increase my gear
As long as she enjoys it,
As long as she enjoys it, Badoo.
Most men are not true lovers
Most men are not true lovers and really don’t know how to get a woman aroused so the woman needs to fake it. Most women need foreplay Kissing touching rubbing all over her body getting a woman aroused is part of the sexual experience being open and honest with your partner about sex plays a huge role in being able to satisfy your partner sexually. Sex should be an experience that leaves your partner wanting more of you not wanting you to leave them alone.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Snapback!
British studies are all crap,
British studies are all crap, if they really made this study that means they used only prostitutes that are all faking orgasm :))
it amuses me so much how all this British studies are made and how far from truth they are :))
We would love to hear where
We would love to hear where you heard this, Adrian. Would you mind sharing?
I do bcoz i luv him
I do bcoz i luv him
That works, too! Hope you are
That works, too! Hope you are also enjoying it!
Haha,u people are hilarious..
Haha,u people are hilarious…well my woman turns me off when she moans,even seein the grine on her face,I can tell she’s in pain or not enjoyin at all and I pull out pronto…
Great that you can tell the
Great that you can tell the difference between pleasure and pain.
I bang where hard n fast so
I bang where hard n fast so my gal screams so gud an my dck touches her gspot.
Good for her Barry, as long
Good for her Barry, as long as you can distinguish between pain and pleasure.
I make noise bcoz it makes me
I make noise bcoz it makes me enjy sex,more specialy whn he fucks me harder.
Thanks for sharing what’s
Thanks for sharing what’s going on in your bed 🙂
I love it when she screams,
I love it when she screams, it gives me the urge to go on as I feel encouraged otherwise I finish as soon as possible not to bore her. My ex was really wild, she must have implanted that feeling in me.
Jymo,
Jymo,
that kind of goes with that the article says, isn’t it?
She luv it wen i fuck her
She luv it wen i fuck her hard
Let’s hope you interpret that
Let’s hope you interpret that right.
It jst happen mostly wen iam
It jst happen mostly wen iam enjoyin it
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experiences, Vicky.
I enjoy more when somebody
I enjoy more when somebody screams
Denix,
thanks for sharing.
Denix,
thanks for sharing.
Pls i want a guy dat can fuck
Pls i want a guy dat can fuck me to moan
Good luck with your search!
Good luck with your search!
I luv moaning but my guy dont
I luv moaning but my guy dont like fucking me hard
Have you asked him to?
Have you asked him to?
Ι luv wen my girl screams
Ι luv wen my girl screams oooh. It gets me turned on instantly and motivates me to fuck her harder and give her great pleasure. I’m a guy who loves sex,so when my girl screams Ι love it cause Ι can also ejaculate in her faster. And cause of that Ι can give her what she wants… My baby. So girls! Keep screaming.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experiences!
Even if m angry bt wen I
Even if m angry bt wen I reach orgasm scream or breath harder
I guess that’s what an orgasm
I guess that’s what an orgasm does 🙂
helo everyone here you know
helo everyone here you know something those having sex with men now without engagement ring it is very bad and you know something when you watch our films i mean america films they dnt scream if u watch the empire there is no bad fim there i hate watching bad films i watched the film bcos it is all abt music shouting is just a sign of illetracy when having sex and if i may ask there is a frnd of mine her name is tiana she have sex with pillow remote but it does not enter her private part is she a virgin or not
Cookie,
Cookie,
a virgin is someone who has had no penile-vaginal intercourse, by most people’s definition. So she is a virgin, but it all depends on what ‘being a virgin’ means to you.
I find it wired I don’t make
I find it wired I don’t make any sounds I just keep quite
Tina,
that’s totally okay!
Tina,
that’s totally okay!
Because i enjoy it
Because i enjoy it
🙂
🙂
wen ever my gal moans i fuck
wen ever my gal moans i fuck harder like never b4
Thanks for your comment.
Thanks for your comment.
i dnt aware bcz i feel shy to
i dnt aware bcz i feel shy to seduce gals and lucky sex experience may be profissionalist culd tell
I’ve read more about this
I’ve read more about this study and relate to it a lot. I figure guys get more excited if they feel like they’re turning you on and you’re having a good time. To be honest, I’d be quiet during sex if I had my way about it, because in don’t get much stimulation from (I guess it’s called vaginal?) sex. To me it’s boring and I don’t feel a lot, even if my partner is of a large size. I don’t care what position it is, or what kind of toys are involved, it’s not exciting. So I act like its is, because I’ve made the mistake of being honest with some partners, and they’ve held that against me for our entire relationship. I prefer foreplay (oral sex or using hands), and the intimacy of sex, but I think it’d be great if it only lasted like two minutes or something. Therefore, the noises and moaning, so he feels he can just finish because I’ve had a good time (some partners are considerate and want to make sure I have a good time – I wish I could just tell them in a nice way that they don’t have to worry about it and just get it done with).
Dear commenter,
Dear commenter,
it’s actually very normal for women to get not all that much excitement out of normal intercourse, because the clitoris doesn’t get stimulated. Try to have him do it while having intercourse, or do it yourself! That can make a huge difference.
Well screaming for me its
Well screaming for me its like I am raping while moaning like a humble bird would be more appreciative but we as boys won’t do nothing
Pedro,
Pedro,
have you discussed this with your partner?
noise enhance my fuk harder
noise enhance my fuk harder
Thanks Ivho.
Thanks Ivho.
I scream when reaching orgasm
I scream when reaching orgasm and it happens even before he comes
That’s totally fine, enjoy!
That’s totally fine, enjoy!
I.love.screamin
I.love.screamin
lol
lol
Its Real I Luv It When My
Its Real I Luv It When My Girl Is Making Those Sweet Sounds To My Zone Of Climax
Great, Mathy!
Great, Mathy!
wow, i love it more when i
wow, i love it more when i sceam. hmmm
wow, i love it more when i
wow, i love it more when i sceam. hmmm
🙂
🙂
i moan during sex nt cos am
i moan during sex nt cos am enjoying it bt to make him happy.though i sumtym enjoy it.
Anita,
Anita,
thanks for your comment!
i scream cos i enjoy it
i scream cos i enjoy it
Fantastic!
Fantastic!
wow…so thats why my gal was
wow…so thats why my gal was moaning…she felt sweet
or she wanted to please you..
or she wanted to please you…
..not everythng said above is
..not everythng said above is correct .. Personally speaking?,I mourn in pleasure…esp if I’m bout to climax..,and I love it when he keeps going hard nd harder when I mourn..,cuz he’s hitting my gspot..its kinda hard not to mourn/ when the pleasure is good.., and I guess my mourning makes him go deeper and faster … He once told me ,u gotta “cry”…nd touch me when I give it to u… Don’t be quiet… I wanna know I’m doing work…
U gottta love my man.. THATS MY BABY…
PhranBel,
PhranBel,
it’s important to note that research is a generalization that doesn’t necessarily apply to all people, so it’s okay that you have a different experience.
Ummmh…Oky
Ummmh…Oky
🙂
🙂
Nice one dude, I really like
Nice one dude, I really like your work..
Thank you!
Thank you!
I moan and say my parents
I moan and say my parents name only when im being pleasured and that’s always
Carly,
Carly,
I sincerely hope this is a typo and you mean partner…
Sometimes I Do It Because It
Sometimes I Do It Because It Hurts And I Want Him To Stop. But Things Only Get More Aggressive, And I Don’t Know How To End It.
Jordan,
Jordan,
have you told him this? Sex is about pleasure for both partners, and he needs to respect that when you are in pain, he needs to stop!
I screem to make him fuck me
I screem to make him fuck me more and harder
Thanks for sharing, Lilian
Thanks for sharing, Lilian
i love screamy girls
i love screamy girls
🙂
🙂
i lyk it wen girls scream to
i lyk it wen girls scream to me i proove myself as a man
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience!
I just do it cuz my babe’s D
I just do it cuz my babe’s D is so thick and feels so good
Thanks, Alexis.
Thanks, Alexis.
Pump dem had that gets them
Pump dem had that gets them girlies screaming
We guess you haven’t read the
We guess you haven’t read the article…
I scream bcz onfa ha monate
I scream bcz onfa ha monate hleng
Sorry, why do you scream?
Sorry, why do you scream?
Thank you because you made me
Thank you because you made me know more….keep up
We will, thanks!
We will, thanks!
I scream when I’m enjoying
I scream when I’m enjoying what he is doing
🙂
🙂
mine doesn’t scream or moan I
mine doesn’t scream or moan I don’t knw why
Have you asked her if she is
Have you asked her if she is enjoying herself? And, not all women moan.
Hei Guys, its all abt pain
Hei Guys, its all abt pain and gain to both sides coz screaming has two meanings thats enjoyment or pain so in order to come up with good results play the game hahaha bye.
Thanks for your comment.
Thanks for your comment.
I am very noisy – and it isn
I am very noisy – and it isn’t for his benefit. It just happens –
🙂
🙂
🙂
I dnt know why but my wife
I dnt know why but my wife does it.
Have you ever asked her?
Have you ever asked her?
I Make the loudest noise when
I Make the loudest noise when the dick is too big nd he fucks me from the anus…. I enjoy it
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience.
screaming z gd ed i feel gd
screaming z gd ed i feel gd ed powerful wen mi gal z doin it
Thanks, Wilson.
Thanks, Wilson.
I believe if your making
I believe if your making noise just to cheer your partner on in a relationship, you should be honest and tell your partner that. I’m 44 years old, but maybe I’m somehow naïve or something here. To me sex has always been an extension of my feeling’s for my partner. Heck, it’s difficult for me to discuss, maybe because it’s when my truest emotions for my partner comes out, and that’s when a person should be most honest. I think some women, have different ways of being passionate. I had someone ask if I moaned and yelled. I told them, yes I do. This was a 24 year old girl. She said, I’m really quiet, and I don’t understand why women put on an act. My word’s to her was as follows. There is nothing wrong with you, if your silent, as long as you are being true to yourself, and your partner. So, I know some women, just do it because other’s do, and to me it’s dishonest. For myself, I even have to talk about protection ahead of time, because I can’t control myself or my passion. It’s so difficult for me to understand people who can. I never could, once I get so hot, I loose myself completely, there are so many time’s, I can’t even remember what I say. It’s like a different person takes over. It’s like nothing else matter’s but that moment in time. I can’t fake that, and I don’t understand people who do, at all! Maybe, my way of thinking is old fashioned, I don’t know. This article really bothers me. Have we as society lost what’s real and true? To fake what is the most beautiful thing’s in life. I don’t want my partner to distrust me, because of an article like this. So gentlemen please, don’t believe that all women are this way! I want men out there to know, although maybe it’s a minority it seems. That there are us women out there whom are truly passionate, and completely honest with there partner. I may not climax every single time, but I can tell you, I do most of the time, and I get lost in the feeling’s every time! If you truly care about yourself and your partner, be your true self, just truly let yourself go. It doesn’t matter if your silent or you yell, because if your the quiet type, you can use touch to display your true emotions. Whatever you do, just let that be a time of complete honesty, between you and your partner, because in the end, that should be what matter’s most!!!!
Thank you for sharing your
Thank you for sharing your experience and thoughts.
Thanx Deloris for sharing
Thanx Deloris for sharing your experience and let me say I do believe you 100%. I have noticed emotions takes over my wife whenever we make love and i can tell she totally loses herself. the other day we broke her glass jag then after sex she was like, what happened to my jag? then it was ma fault!
my girl alway make noice and
my girl alway make noice and cry wen am on motion and dis make me poud her more and at d end she tells me she did not no when she cries or make noice
Thanks for your comment,
Thanks for your comment, Sunflex.
my chick do the noise as long
my chick do the noise as long as we are into it, b@ she’z open, she tells me th@ my game drives her wild & she cant just afford not to enjoy the thing her own way, so I tolerate the the noise, I’m used to it!
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Vinnie.
I only screams when am feelin
I only screams when am feelin pain cz my bf’s dick its too big shame
Tiriri,
Tiriri,
even with a big penis, you shouldn’t be feeling pain. Have you talked to him about this?
It just happen esp when he
It just happen esp when he touches gspot ad am enjoying it.Even if he tells me to reduce I just can’t help it bt continues.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience, Mso.
I love it coz she make me
I love it coz she make me energized and go faster than fast
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience!
both of us scream
both of us scream
From enjoyment :-)?
From enjoyment :-)?
Can’t you just tell him off,
Can’t you just tell him off, that its boring, so he can do what you like?
You can :-). But many people
You can :-). But many people would feel bad doing that; you need to be a bit delicate.
i love wen she does n feel i
i love wen she does n feel i’m de bst guy ever.
Great 🙂
Great 🙂
Well my partner does make
Well my partner does make noise more especially when she squirts.
sometimed when she’s very wet..
But is it normal for her to make sounds like moaning when sucking my Dick?
Sure, if she enjoys it!
Sure, if she enjoys it!
so they do fake it for real
so they do fake it for real
Faking a moan to cheer on
Faking a moan to cheer on your partner is not the same thing as faking an orgasm, is it?
I mek noise wen am enjoying t
I mek noise wen am enjoying t or near orgasm…..
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
GIRL MOARING OR JERKING IS
GIRL MOARING OR JERKING IS LIK A SWT MELODY DAT MAK ME TO DANCE MORE
Haha, that’s a nice way to
Haha, that’s a nice way to put it!
i do scream alot during sex
i do scream alot during sex coz i enjoy it
🙂
🙂
my neighbours think its a
my neighbours think its a fight..bt a friend of hers..neighbour told me she says am the man!
Hehe. Good for you!
Hehe. Good for you!
I scream moan and or yell
I scream moan and or yell because it’s a release of stress, plus it helps to verbally show how he makes you feel. Masturbation no, why? Because most of that time it’s during a time no one is supposedly knowing your doing it or else you wouldn’t be doing it alone it would be with your partner, than you can express , verbally, how, good THEY make you feel.
Thanks for your input,
Thanks for your input, Christina?
I scream moan and or yell
I scream moan and or yell because it’s a release of stress, plus it helps to verbally show how he makes you feel. Masturbation no, why? Because most of that time it’s during a time no one is supposedly knowing your doing it or else you wouldn’t be doing it alone it would be with your partner, than you can express , verbally, how, good THEY make you feel.
Thanks for your input,
Thanks for your input, Christina!
I scream moan and or yell
I scream moan and or yell because it’s a release of stress, plus it helps to verbally show how he makes you feel. Masturbation no, why? Because most of that time it’s during a time no one is supposedly knowing your doing it or else you wouldn’t be doing it alone it would be with your partner, than you can express , verbally, how, good THEY make you feel.
Some cried bcoz of hurtness
Some cried bcoz of hurtness and others becoz they feels good.
Do you think you can
Do you think you can distinguish between the two?
I make noises when I’m
I make noises when I’m enjoying it. If Im quiet it’s usually because I’m not into it. I like it when my man moans too.We ladies have egoes too.
Does your partner know that?
Does your partner know that?
I hardly make a peep when it
I hardly make a peep when it’s a solo session but when I’m with my partner, I like to make noises just so that he knows that I’m enjoying it. I also sometimes like listening to myself, I’m a pretty auditory person so I think hearing myself, even if it’s artificial at first, heightens my arousal. But also, the louder I become, my partner responds with his own moans and I LOVE that especially. Great article, very thought provoking!
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience, Rosie.
I love such ladies.
I love such ladies.
🙂
🙂
I alwaiys do it wen he on da
I alwaiys do it wen he on da foreplay n much more wen hes in his climax. OMG its tooo sweet. Ogasm is da best
Enjoy, Peace.
Enjoy, Peace.
She screams coz she feel lt!
She screams coz she feel lt!
Are you sure? Have you asked?
Are you sure? Have you asked?
I do like when she screams. I
I do like when she screams. I just feel like swallowing her at that tym heh. sex is sweet than the best meal in the world!!
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Oga.
i do it wen am enjoying it nd
i do it wen am enjoying it nd it makes him go crazy, wen i dnt my guy knws am not in moad.
Thanks, Victoria.
Thanks, Victoria.
I scream to make him fast
I scream to make him fast when especially if I’m not enjoying. I’m calmer when im enjoying n will call his name on purpose for him not to stop. I like telling my hubby if I’m satisfied or not
Hehe. Does it work?
Hehe. Does it work?
Yeah ts true most of da women
Yeah ts true most of da women do it t boost their guyz
Have you experienced that
Have you experienced that with your partners?
it jus happens wen feelin so
it jus happens wen feelin so excited en wen u ask me wat i said , idont know.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
The act itself is sweet, you
The act itself is sweet, you find yourself screaming
Thanks for your input.
Thanks for your input.
ilike it wen she screams!!
ilike it wen she screams!!
Fantastic!
Fantastic!
ilove it when she scream
ilove it when she scream
How do you feel, when she
How do you feel, when she screams?
she screams calling my name
she screams calling my name loudly bt when am almost finishing she almost faints. Bt i have a problem of finishing my race faster, hw wil u help me?
Gero,
Gero,
how much time are you spending on foreplay? The more aroused you are, the faster you will orgasm.
I have slept with two ladies
I have slept with two ladies in my lifetime , what surprises me is i dont cum easily
Michael,
Michael,
how fast do you get to intercourse, and how much time are you spending on foreplay?
it will be lies to say that
it will be lies to say that men wont know when it is faked and when not.
Are you sure?
Are you sure?
Is that a problem to be noicy
Is that a problem to be noicy wen ejaculate
We don’t think so- do you?
We don’t think so- do you?
She makes me dig her dipper
She makes me dig her dipper when she screams.
Do you think that’s her
Do you think that’s her intention?
She makes ma love so
She makes ma love so blustiful wen she does that n i also enjoy de screaming
🙂
🙂
I love it when he goes harder
I love it when he goes harder it makes me scream and wana cum
XRcNq
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience!
its da sweetest experience
its da sweetest experience
And when she doesn’t scream,
And when she doesn’t scream, it isn’t sweet?
Never had sex bt i think the
Never had sex bt i think the louder the noise the sweeter it is
One day, you will find out :-
One day, you will find out 🙂
I like it quite bt my keeps
I like it quite bt my keeps telling me to scream his name and that turns me off:-(
Nice,
Nice,
have you told him you don’t want that?
infact i feel so great and
infact i feel so great and stronger when she screams…… which makes me engage on a high gear
Do you think that’s what she
Do you think that’s what she is trying to do?
itz xo sweet wen de gal
itz xo sweet wen de gal scream
Why do you think that is?
Why do you think that is?
Screaming is part of sex
Screaming is part of sex which really motivates me,being silence when having sex its jst like you are you are there physically bt mentally out of the act,as in you don’t feel anything
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience!
Ese, I want you :::; I
Ese, I want you :::; I scream & moan when my girl do so then I can touch the sky
Thanks for your comment.
Thanks for your comment.
I do whn am enjoying it and
I do whn am enjoying it and sometimes i do it jst to cheer him
Does it help?
Does it help?
Ese, I want you :::; I
Ese, I want you :::; I scream & moan when my girl do so then I can touch the sky
My girl us to scrm wen
My girl us to scrm wen namwaga..
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Pls somebody help I can’t do
Pls somebody help I can’t do it morethern 10minit. Infact if I just release I feel like am tired.
Eze,
Eze,
10 minutes is actually not bad.
But have a look here: https://lovematters.co.ke/news/how-overcome-premature-ejaculation
Pls somebody help I can’t do
Pls somebody help I can’t do it morethern 10minit. Infact if I just release I feel like am tired.
Some make noise before I even
Some make noise before I even stick it in
What are you doing before? It
What are you doing before? It seems to work!
I do scream just to boost the
I do scream just to boost the mood of my husband and I enjoy too when I hear him trying it out
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience.
my gal scream bt once in a
my gal scream bt once in a wild y?
Ask her! She will be able to
Ask her! She will be able to tell you. We aren’t.
Hehe…i lik that answer.
Hehe…i lik that answer.
#it just happend u never know
#it just happend u never know since u feel lyk ua mind is blowing,he becomes too sweet nd u reach a point u play along flexiblely till both rich oganism……ull only realize wen u wake up aftrwads nd thank ua patner 4 evry move he makes u
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience, Joy.
I scream because my boyfrind
I scream because my boyfrind knowz how make me feel great…
Aww, that’s great!
Aww, that’s great!
I lways scream when my man
I lways scream when my man shags me harder…it drives me nuts and i cant even know whether am screaming ,crying or not…i bet sex is sweet
Thanks Mary.
Thanks Mary.
I fuckd more than half and
I fuckd more than half and hour
Hope both of you were
Hope both of you were satisfied Ajay.
When she gat tew scream it
When she gat tew scream it gives me more moral to continue
Thanks for sharing that
Thanks for sharing that Humble.
I pump my girlfriend pussy so
I pump my girlfriend pussy so raw and hard that her pussy swells tight around my dick. She moans especially when she squirts and sometimes she squirt so much it splashes in her face. Her pussy sound gushy and juicy while I’m dunking my dick in in. She go crazy on my dick like she can’t breathe trying to hold on. Her ass be clapping tho like her pussy tryna swallow my dick. I never had pussy like that.
Thanks for sharing that Larry
Thanks for sharing that Larry.
I am very loud in bed and I
I am very loud in bed and I cannot control it. I have consciousy tried not to make noise but have found it impossible. It just feels too damn good and so intense to be quiet.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience Love.
Why are all the commenters
Why are all the commenters not native English speakers when it’s obvious that the article was written in English by someone who speaks English either regularly or as their native language?
Hi, our articles are meant
Hi, our articles are meant for everyone, native and non native speakers of English. Since this is Love matters Kenya most of our readers are non native speakers of the Language.
it feels good when she
it feels good when she screams, she makes you wanna go deeper
Thanks for sharing that
Thanks for sharing that Jackhammer.
You sampled by only 70 women
You sampled by only 70 women and draw a conclusion over trillion women??? Where did u study statistics??
Hi Con, a sample is normally
Hi Con, a sample is normally a good way to get a general feel of what people think but its not necessarily true to all women.
So true
So true
What is Bill?
What is Bill?
I agree that moaning and
I agree that moaning and screaming is usually done when the Lady is enjoy sex….but believe me, this article has alot of true in it….especially if one has been in a relationship for some time… I don’t need a study to know it’s true…jus some gal talk is enough to believe the studies to me true.
Thanks for your input Meg.
Thanks for your input Meg.
i moan when my boyfriend fuck
i moan when my boyfriend fuck me harder with his big dick, i feel good when he fuck me hard pound me to death. sex is really sweet especially when you are being fucked hard, when you are being pounded until to the last.wowwwwww sex is sweet
Wow Good for you Monica.
Wow Good for you Monica. Thanks for sharing that with us.
I like it when he screams nd
I like it when he screams nd push his dick harder into my pussy.Thats wat he already knew.sex is sweet no doubt
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us.
My wife does not scream
My wife does not scream during sex but she enjoy And she does not feel the peak time Whats the reason behind its. She tell me when she discharge her body gets loose And she get sleep then.
Hi HK does discharge mean
Hi HK does discharge mean orgasm in this case?
My girlfriend and I tend to
My girlfriend and I tend to have a lot of sex, however given that we both live with our parents we try to keep the noise down so as not to scar them. She usually hasa difficult time containing her pleasure, where she is quietly moaning -or as quietly as she can manage but often a loyder one escapes her lips.
Like most women she gets off on the foreplay or through rubbing herself while we’re doing it, while she has an even harder time maintaining quiet moans during orgasm, she is much louder after she gets off when I am reaching climax. She claims it’s involuntary, but that by doing it she feels sexy, however I don’t think it’s ever for the sake of boosting my ego.
I agree with you Justin, its
I agree with you Justin, its not always about boosting the ego. Thanks for the input.
I know most girls do do it to
I know most girls do do it to boost their mans ego or to sound sexy and show they’re enjoying. But for to be honest I can’t help that I’m very loud and like scream. It’s very difficult for me to be quiet. We tried once and I had to hold my breath within seconds I screamed and moan lol so there’s no point in even trying. Tbh
I wish my boyfriend would make some noise to boost my ego lol. Like he’s really quiet in bed and during oral sex- I know he enjoys it Bc we have aex a lot! Like 6 times a day. And he initiates it everytime time- I’m always horny and so is he. But like it’s really hard for me to know if I’m pleating through oral sex and handjobs or even in bed Bc he’s so quiet 🙁 but his facial expression shows he’s enjoying it its just during sex I tend to close my eyes a lot when moaning all the time so I don’t look much lol but I do it’s so sexy cause he’s always starring at me so intensely it’s so hot. Same with oral but hearing he make noise makes me happy and it helps me climax. So I don’t get why guys don’t moan much? I mean I know some guys do I gues it depends on the guy.
Thanks Amanda for sharing
Thanks Amanda for sharing your story with us.
Sex is good
Sex is good
yes it is.
yes it is.
mine do it and I lk that.good
mine do it and I lk that.good education .
You are welcome and thanks
You are welcome and thanks for sharing.
My girlfriend screams always
My girlfriend screams always coz i finger fuck her which gets her hot, eventually insertion of fimbo which makes her scream until i ejaculate, and she wont let me go she keeps on holding me tight on thighs as fimbo remains inside
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us Victorious.
My wife doesn’t moan…. I
My wife doesn’t moan…. I don’t see any reaction even while having Sex
That’s normal Nirbhay, not
That’s normal Nirbhay, not all women moan or react the same. You could always talk to her and find out if she enjoys the sex. If she does then there is no need to worry.
cause it is always sweet at
cause it is always sweet at some point…. I am team #scremers
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us Daizy.
how can make a lady scream in
how can make a lady scream in bed my bid dick is too small
Hi James, size is hardly ever
Hi James, size is hardly ever an issue. Its how well you are able to satisfy your partner. Screaming is not always a measure of how good you are. Not all ladies are screamers.
I always scream so that my
I always scream so that my bfriend can see that i’m enjoying the sex so as he can continue fucking me anyway sex is so sweat that u don’t feel to stop doing it.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience with us Lizz.
i tend to have sex with my
i tend to have sex with my bestie. we did it several times actually. she love missionary positon cuz she told me that it can make her feel more pleasure and doggy style too. everytime we have sex, she usually moan 5 min later after she ask me to move faster and harder. whenever my dick is getting hard, i can feel like her pussy is getting thigh and juicy inside. is it normal for her to scream/ moan if she’s having sex with her bestfriends not her boyfriend?
Hi Ralph women don’t moan
Hi Ralph women don’t moan because of whom they are with but rather because they are enjoying he sex or want to encourage you.
I don’t moan loud but when I
I don’t moan loud but when I reach orgasm I feel like holding my breath . Mmmm that feeling is nice and I tend to hold him tight so that his dick will stay inside me
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience Melody.
I always moan and scream
I always moan and scream during sex I don’t fake it I just love sex it feels so good!!l
Thanks Leslie for sharing
Thanks Leslie for sharing that with us.
I Stay quite when I
I Stay quite when I masturbate…..
Thanks for sharing Luna.
Thanks for sharing Luna.
When I have sex I don’t
When I have sex I don’t scream….. I love the feeling. But don’t scream 8=========D is good!
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience with us Luna.
my girl screams through sex
my girl screams through sex and that’s not her choice it just happen automatically
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience Inno.
So my ex wanted me to give
So my ex wanted me to give him a blow job i hesitated cuz i was afraid to choke and overwhelmed
Is that required?
Hi Gothi, you can learn
Hi Gothi, you can learn through trying and practice will help you become better. Talk to your partner and work together to help you through it.
My girlfriend also screams a
My girlfriend also screams a lot and even screams my name. I asked her if she does this to make me feel good and she said “No”. She said she will be enjoying herself during the act and can’t hold the intense feelings back 🙂
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience Jones.
Sex is good i also moan too
Sex is good i also moan too bcz am enjoying it to the fullest
That’s Great! thanks for
That’s Great! thanks for sharing.
I always am loud during sex,
I always am loud during sex, since being with my husband. I don’t fake it or do it to boost his ego or to make myself climax faster. If I am somewhere that I have to be quiet it’s really really hard for me. That’s when I tend to scratch him. I personally don’t think the article is true, I know it isn’t for me. I can say that it’s pretty much almost impossible for me to be quiet, ive tried it and I can’t.
Thanks Lexi for sharing your
Thanks Lexi for sharing your experience. Different people have different experiences.
im 19 and my gf is 18. we sex
im 19 and my gf is 18. we sex roughly. she started screaming and i asked why. she said im hurting her. and then she said she likes it though.
Thanks for sharing your story
Thanks for sharing your story Max.
Am a virgin guy, but ur
Am a virgin guy, but ur comments are much contributing factor to my preparation. Gudos
Thanks for your feedback Son.
Thanks for your feedback Son.
Dear Sir,
Dear Sir,
Am marry for 4 years now. But my wife she still called ex-lover.
Thanks
Hi thanks for your comment.
Hi thanks for your comment. Have you talked to her about it?
ma gal goes to extend of
ma gal goes to extend of biting ma ear.wow that’s funny
Hahaha that is funny. Thanks
Hahaha that is funny. Thanks for sharing.
i was a vargin, but when i
i was a vargin, but when i had sex with her her i really shouted so loud during climax i don`t know why?
Thanks Isaac for sharing your
Thanks Isaac for sharing your story. The excitement of climaxing can give yo an amazing sensation that can make some people shout.
Iz it bad dat i only moan wen
Iz it bad dat i only moan wen i get pegged in the bum hole by my Gf while i think of a walrus penetrate me with its long toof?
Kindly expound on what you
Kindly expound on what you are saying for better understanding.
Wel I’m 19 yrs old and my
Wel I’m 19 yrs old and my boyfriend is 21 I’m still a virgin so my boyfriend touches m alot when we are kissing and I don’t lie I do get horny and I’m enjoying but afterwards he wants us to do sex then I tell him I’m not ready,then he says im showing sings that I am ready,so my question is how do u see or feel uslf that r ready?
Thats a good question Mbali,
Thats a good question Mbali, check out this article to find out how to know when you are ready https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/talking-about-sex .
https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/tips-her .
Are there side effects of
Are there side effects of mustabation. If any what are the effects?
Hi David, there is no effects
Hi David, there is no effects on masturbation. Read more here https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/masturbation .
Can anyone just imagine
Can anyone just imagine having sex with someone and reach orgasm? I did it once and i exactly had the same symptoms! I felt so cold and my whole body was shaking the next day… I never got that feeling again, though.
P.s : i am a virgin.
Hi Melissa were you
Hi Melissa were you masturbating while imagining?
No, I’ve never masturbated
No, I’ve never masturbated actually!
So is what i said possible?
Hi Melissa one can be able to
Hi Melissa one can be able to reach orgasm bt mere imagination. For men they have wet dreams where they dream of sex and they wake up having ejaculated.
YEAH BUT ITS NOT GOOD TO
YEAH BUT ITS NOT GOOD TO REACH TO SUCH A PLACE WHEREAS THERE ARE STILL SOME LADIES ASKING 4 IT
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us Patrick.
My girl loves my big cock
My girl loves my big cock inside her even after sex,she love sleeping wìt it.but why?
Thank you for sharing your
Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
Iam Mustabating Too Much Plz
Iam Mustabating Too Much Plz Help
Hi Josephat,
Hi Josephat,
How would you want us to help you. Do you want to reduce the number of times yo masturbate or would you like to stop all together?
Check out this article to find out more on masturbation https://lovematters.co.ke/news/cant-stop-masturbating .
Hi am a virgint 16 and i
Hi am a virgint 16 and i relly wanna have sex i can feel it should i go for it
Ps: i have a boyfriend
Hi Adele,
Hi Adele,
That is totally up to you. If you feel you are ready mentally physically and psychologically then go for it.
Here’s an article on first time sex that can help https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/sex-first-time .
When I pounce in and out of
When I pounce in and out of my girl pussy I feel ejaculating very fast but when we both just rub each other inside with our genitals I last long. but I love the pouncing but I can’t hold myself on it.
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us Chris.
my wife and i have sex every
my wife and i have sex every night and i know she enjoys it but she always ask me to cum, but i will not until i can feel her ready, her thighs tighten as well , holds me in, then when she is ready she bites my neck and we both explode. coming together is how she likes it.. I wish more of you do enjoy the experience
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experience with us.
Moan Is What I Lyk So When
Moan Is What I Lyk So When Having Sex We Enjoy Most.God Blss U All
Thanks Jared for sharing.
Thanks Jared for sharing.
I always get really hard when
I always get really hard when I think of sex with my girlfriend. Or when I touch her. Eventually I masturbute. But not often. I do it after two weeks or three. Is there a problem with this,?
There is no problem with that
There is no problem with that Laven, keep enjoying and exploring.
I dont knw hw 2 do it.pls
I dont knw hw 2 do it.pls ,wat cn i do
What is it that you don’t
What is it that you don’t know how to do Emmy?
Gettin a strange feelin which
Gettin a strange feelin which i cant even explain,feelin hot nd cold at the same time,makes me crazy nd feelin gud,screaming nd moaning
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us.
I am a moaner, it’s
I am a moaner, it’s unintentional of course. My boyfriend always tells me afterwards how loud I was.
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us Zama.
I was married to a
I was married to a.masturbater but at the end, my marriage never lasted since it was sexless coz he was used to masturbate. I wish I would.get a life partner who will be making love to me daily. I really miss it.
Thanks for sharing your story
Thanks for sharing your story with us Kiki.
Yes me too exact same
Yes me too exact same situation, I never had a man who wanted to make love to me, only wanted to masturbate pr4ph
Thanks for sharing Tarina.
Thanks for sharing Tarina.
aaggrrrh… am a perfom in
aaggrrrh… am a perfom in love making. hate it wen I here a partner musterbate leaving anatha one unattended to
Thanks for sharing that.
Thanks for sharing that.
Where can i get u pliz
Where can i get u pliz
We are always available
We are always available online Cruz. How would you like us to assist you?
Ooops, i wish u get married
Ooops, i wish u get married to a type like me so that i can give it to u on hourly basis
Sorry dear, but u can link up……..on facebook kojo agbo.
need help i am ready
need help i am ready
im quite through out bt i
im quite through out bt i moans loudly when am about to climax…like someone who has been sprashed with cold water
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us Anita.
Love Matters….I wish to
Love Matters….I wish to differ with you on the above matter…You just went for SEXUAL WORKERS who have known how to work out Men so that they earn their Living…Real Worm Scream very well when the Job is well done…Casual Workers are just out to Entertain men just for the first 10 Mins and earn what they had agreed upon…Kindly next time go for REAL WOMEN and not CASUAL WORKERS…
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us Dennoh.
Hello Love Matters…
Hello Love Matters…
Thanks a lot for the Pieces of Advice that you give people on your Page.
But i wish to DIFFER with you on the matter of Moaning by Ladies on Bed…
The Research carried out above was done on the wrong People…It states that SEXUAL WORKERS were Interviewed and gave their Comments….and thus gave the wrong Material….When a Woman is well screwed and the game is Hot and well done…she appreciates by moaning which comes out Automatically and some Sweet Screams that i really love – from Experience.
Sexual Workers are very well known for this Business…they will want to moan so that they give the Impression that the Man on top doing a wonderful game and within 10 mins it’s over and they get what is due to them…and walk out to Queue outside for the next Customer…
I wish to confirm that Women do Moan due to Satisfaction and other inner Feelings that cannot be mentioned…and it comes out AUTOMATICALLY!
Women also say that moans and screams are one way to hurry sex along when you’re not particularly enjoying it…..This is where i am basing my Argument!
Hi there,
Hi there,
You need to check the article again, The researchers asked over 70 heterosexual women. Meaning Women who have sex with men and not exclusively to sex workers as you suggest.
Its ok to differ with us, but you have to realize we are depending on an actual research that gave us this results.
Again its does not also mean its true for all women everywhere.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us on this.
Hello love matters my
Hello love matters my girlfried holds my kneck too tight when on the process are we heading on a good direction
3ZN3y
Hi Andrew,
Hi Andrew,
Have you talked to her about it? If not you should talk about it with her.
Am loving it guyz, 22but
Am loving it guyz, 22but still a virgin any help
Hi Kofi, what kind of help do
Hi Kofi, what kind of help do you need?
Can I share with Kofi. She
Can I share with Kofi. She sounds interesting
Glad that you do Kofi. What
Glad that you do Kofi. What kind of help do you need?
So good
So good
Thank you.
Thank you.
I scream so loud during love
I scream so loud during love making its embarrassing I don’t do that to boost my boyfriends ego it just happenes I can’t control it it just happens I scream like I am singing soprano I am going to see if I can get help to stop this to me it’s not normal
Thank you for your website
Thank you for sharing your
Thank you for sharing your story with us Jane.
I wish to take a woman who
I wish to take a woman who cries in love making as moaning.. I will be very happy
Hopefully you will find one
Hopefully you will find one soon.
If you’re hot in bed I would
If you’re hot in bed I would like you
I’m so jealous of you! I want
I’m so jealous of you! I want a boyfriend to share that with so badly :'(
Hi Livy, you don’t have to
Hi Livy, you don’t have to scream to enjoy sex. But if screaming is your natural reaction, then hopefully you will find a partner that satisfy you.
Did you say you need a boy
Did you say you need a boy friend?
for me i take moaning as the
for me i take moaning as the sign of enjoyment to my girlfriend
Thanks for your input Alex.
Thanks for your input Alex.
I unintentionally am loud my
I unintentionally am loud my boyfriend doesn’t like it but it feels so good I can’t help it.
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us.
Nice
Nice
Thanks.
Thanks.
I’m a virgin and i can say
I’m a virgin and i can say not all women moan and fake it. Most of us are truly sexually overwhelmed. I’m involuntarily loud when I cum and there’s not a man present. And that’s just with the thought of him. So I don’t think there’s reason to questioning why most women moan loud upon apex when being penetrated by a man. It’s because it feels inexplicably amazing
Thanks for that Noelle.
Thanks for that Noelle.
hw do u cum en u said u r a
hw do u cum en u said u r a virgin? Do u masterbate? anyway I would enjoy wen my woman moans in players en even cry wen lovemaking
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us Noella.
It comes naturally
It comes naturally
Thank you for your…
Thank you for your contribution Jackie.
OK,that settle the issue at…
OK,that settle the issue at once
I just love this site. So…
I just love this site. So honest with the way it deals with sex. can’t wait to share this with my wife and find out if she moans for me or her ;D
We are glad Andrew.
We are glad Andrew.
Can I join
Can I join
Hi Leonard, you are welcome…
Hi Leonard, you are welcome to Love Matters Africa. You can interact with us here or on our Facebook pages, Love Matters Kenya or Love Matters Naija.
Wow so nice i like it
Wow so nice i like it
You are welcome Risper.
You are welcome Risper.
It just happen
It just happen
Thank you for sharing…
Thank you for sharing Elizabeth.
Wow I have learnt that that…
Wow I have learnt that that is y I love watching and doing sex
Interesting …
Interesting …
welcome
welcome
Hello millicent, thank you…
Hello millicent, thank you for getting in touch with us, how can we help you?
Thanx u really helped me
Thanx u really helped me
We are so glad to hear this,…
We are so glad to hear this, Nirvana.
Inspiring to hear about…
Inspiring to hear about feelings women have during this bodly need
Hi Shikuku Ouma, thank you…
Hi Shikuku Ouma, thank you for your feedback.
I learnt something thanks…
I learnt something thanks for the information
Hi!love matters…Am moaning
Hi!love matters…Am moaning and screaming for the first time i don’t know why?coz am virgin 22 years it was my first time to do sex with my boyfriend i love him so much but after doing sex i feel like i don’t love him i don’t know why?…but why doing sex is so painfull?or am not normal?…please i need your answer…
Hi Pauline,
Hi Pauline,
Sorry that your first experience was not the best. First time experiences can be panful if not done right. You should not despair it gets better after that if you are more gentle.
You should think about talking to your partner about it and find out how you can be able to have a better experience.
Check out this article to find out more https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/talking-about-sex .
l like sex so much but l can
l like sex so much but l can only do one round then the feeling goes off,what could be the cost
Hi Okello,
Hi Okello,
Erections deflate following ejaculation in a process called detumescence. It is essentially the reverse of an erection: the penile muscles and arteries contract, the blood flow to the penis decreases, the veins open up, the trapped blood begins draining and soon the penis has returned to its idle state of slight contraction.
At this point, called the refractory period, it is usually difficult for a man to have another erection. This stage can last anywhere from a few minutes to a few days, depending on factors such as age and how frequently the man has sex.
Read more on erections here https://lovematters.co.ke/news/erection-top-five-facts .
this is great and also true
this is great and also true girls moan and scream when they enjoy but us guys we get encourage to improve our performance when we hear girls moan and scream and I wish I can get a gal with no string attached relationshp from Middleburg emhulzi
Thanks for your input. All
Thanks for your input. All the best finding a partner.
i love my boyfriend so much,,
i love my boyfriend so much,, bt we hv one problem,,, we r in along distance rltn/ship,,, it teksme five to seven months wn we r to meet,, usually we hv phone sex wn we feel lyk having one another,,, we do musturbation,,,, is it healthy or???? coz i have much love for him and can’nt cheat on him,,,, thx
There is nothing wrong with
There is nothing wrong with having a long distance relationship or phone sex. Check out this article to find out more https://lovematters.co.ke/news/long-distance-love-keep-it-hot-proven-technique .
This is true some even moan
This is true some even moan when u r almost inserting i concur with you!!some go into silent only clicks when getting their share of pleasure!!
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us.
what causes a woman not
what causes a woman not having sexual appetite
It could be different reasons
It could be different reasons like relationship issues to not being in the mood. Always talk to your partner to find out what she feels.
I have my girlfriend but the
I have my girlfriend but the only problem she has is that! she dont scream and moans but am now confused because i started thinking may be im’nt satisfying her so well but i owe ladies who scream and moans so much! please advice me.
Hi,
Hi,
Screaming and morning does not always show satisfaction. Talk to your partner before, during and after sex to find out about her experience.
I alwaz have the urge of
I alwaz have the urge of mustabating despite having a wife…..doest it mean she doesnt satisfy me???
Hi,
Hi,
The question should be are you satisfied after having sex with your partner? Masturbation does not also mean you are not satisfied. Check out this article to find out https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/masturbation-relationship .
Hi love matters,i’m a novice
Hi love matters,i’m a novice when it comes to sex..meanwhile my girl has so much experienced and i find it hard to satisfy her sexually,also she complains about my d**k being small. Pls wat should i do??
Hi Jeffy’s
Hi Jeffy’s
It sounds as though you have not talked to your partner about what you both like. Talking about sex with your partner helps in dealing with a lot of issues. Check out this article to have more insight https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes .
It just comes but good thing
It just comes but good thing he loves it…he even says its fun when I scream
Good for you Gladys. Thanks
Good for you Gladys. Thanks for sharing.
How can i know that my
How can i know that my partner is screaming?
screaming means they will be
screaming means they will be sounding out a sound which one can be able to hear.
hi…have been having sex
hi…have been having sex with my girl bt she has never screams when I like hearing a girl scream during sex is that I don’t sartify her?
Hi there,
Hi there,
Every girl is different and just because she does not scream does not indicate she is not satisfied. It would be best to talk to her about this and find out if she is sexually satisfied. Check out this article to learn more https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/keep-talking-why-its-important .
It may be coming at different
It may be coming at different times of the inter course for different people because of different reasons but for me it comes naturally at only two different times: when coming and when both of us reach orgasm at the same time
Thanks for sharing your story
Thanks for sharing your story with us Beatty.
i hv a dffrent qz…is it a
i hv a dffrent qz…is it a must for a virgin to breed during brake up?
Hi Jm,
Hi Jm,
Do you mean to ask if it a must for a girl to bleed during first time sex? If so check out this article to find out https://lovematters.co.ke/news/busting-hymen-myth .
nosence ue guys ts a nature t
nosence ue guys ts a nature t comes ts self wich kind ov biology du ue hve
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. We majorly base our articles on facts and research but everyone has their own opinion and its okay.
hi love matters i am a virgin
hi love matters i am a virgin , i feel not ready for sex but my boyfriend pressures me to have sex. i only want to have it with the right man at the right time. thankyou
Hi Shanty,
Hi Shanty,
You should stick to what you believe and feel is right. No one should pressure you to do anything you are not ready for. Continue being assertive in your stand. If he loves you enough he will wait. All the best.
why beign in relationship
why beign in relationship when u are virgin and unhappy about sex. I will only advice u to stay away from that…. I had stay away from that and not in relation and it is helping. Ok
Thanks for your input Zak.
Thanks for your input Zak.
Yes when u are in game ad u
Yes when u are in game ad u gal screams it gives u cofidence to believe in yourself dat u are doing aright job.
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us Nelo.
Thanks a lot for advice
Thanks a lot for advice online.
You are most welcome Prince.
You are most welcome Prince.
Everytime we want 2 play sex
Everytime we want 2 play sex I find myself that I can’t Esh erect ,plz help
Hi Okoth,
Hi Okoth,
It sounds as though you are suffering form erectile dysfunction, Check out this article to find out all about it https://lovematters.co.ke/news/erectile-dysfunction-what-do .
My gf we have long distance
My gf we have long distance relationship what should i do to work
Hi Nik,
Hi Nik,
Check out how to keep long distance relationships here https://lovematters.co.ke/news/long-distance-love-keep-it-hot-proven-technique .
i cum very fast for the first
i cum very fast for the first round n also take long to erect for the second round wat can i do
Hi Moses, that is not
Hi Moses, that is not uncommon for most men. Check out this article to learn more https://lovematters.co.ke/term/premature-ejaculation .
I cum fast during d 1st round
I cum fast during d 1st round while d 2nd round last longer. I want to knw if it is normal. Thanks
Hi Fleck,
Hi Fleck,
That is normal so you do not need to worry abt it.
it just happens I’m so loud
it just happens I’m so loud and when he’s about to come I pinch him i don’t enjoy sex when I’m moaning its like I’m pretending but when I’m screaming OMG the feeling it’s out of this world
Thanks for sharing that with
Thanks for sharing that with us Walane.
I love having sex but love
I love having sex but love matters are you a girl if so I want to make love with you
(No subject)
Love Matters provides honest information on Love, Sex and Relationships. Feel free to ask any question and we shall be more than glad to respond to you.
How do i sustain sex for a…
How do i sustain sex for a longer time without enjaculting
Hello Ronald,…
Hello Ronald,
See some tips below:-
Eat healthy- a healthy diet of fruits and veggies does help in lasting longer in bed.
Exercise- Exercise improves blood flow in general, and that includes to the genital region!
Pay attention to your body- Pay attention to your sensations. If you’re about to – cum, slow down. Slow way down, or stop altogether; give yourself a breather before starting again.
Fancy a squeeze- This will push blood out of the penis and momentarily decreases sexual tension, calming your ejaculatory response.
Use de-sensitisers- Applying a topical spray to your penis can lessen sensation and help you gain control of ejaculation.
Distract yourself- Try distracting yourself by thinking of something unrelated to sex. You could also pull out and switch positions. Switching around your bodies gives you some time to regain vigour and also allows you to explore new positions.
All the best.
Thank u so much.. that’s…
Thank u so much.. that’s was my worry
Hello Jimmy, we are so glad…
Hello Jimmy, we are so glad to be of assistance and are always pleased to help. 🙂
Hello what’s this topical…
Hello what’s this topical spray expound on it please.
Hi Jeremy, thank you so much…
Hi Jeremy, thank you so much for reaching out to us. You have asked a great question. Topical creams are those applied directly to the particular body part in this case the penis. The topical creams in this case are anesthetic agents that reduce the sensetivity on the penis.
Sex is. just some women…
Sex is. just some women bleed and cry making noise during sex
Hi Tinnala,
Making noise…
Hi Tinnala,
Making noise and mourning is okay. But if she screams or cries, you should stop and check whether she is okay. Also, bleeding during sex when it is not first time sex or when she’s not on her periods could indicate a problem such as vaginal dryness and infections.
Thanks it works
Thanks it works
Always pleased to help…
Always pleased to help Harrison. Feel free to go through more of our content to help you make more informed decisions and do not hesitate to get in touch with us in case you have any questions. Have a wonderful week and stay safe!
Well man…its all about…
Well man…its all about Psyche …a while ago, I was in that kinda boat which at one truly hurt my ego. But then when I ventured into balanced diet plus subtle work outs…it worked!
I performed even better when I tried to stay positive and focused prior to and during foreplay and subsequent phases of every particular encounter.
Also every girl is unique…and therefore don’t forget to always remember why/how the two of you met/came together.
U could try my method: It maybe can bail you out…if you do, ALL THE BEST BRO! #FELT_U
Thank you Jay Junior for…
Thank you Jay Junior for your contribution.
Love is temporarly cool when…
Love is temporarly cool when the woman sustains for long
without having it.
Thank you Sniper for your…
Thank you Sniper for your contribution.
Get married 🙂
Get married 🙂
We appreciate your…
We appreciate your contribution Joe.
Eats lots of watermelon
Eats lots of watermelon
Hi James, what about the…
Hi James, what about the watermelons?
Don’t fantasies during the…
Don’t fantasies during the action
Hey Rynex, thank you for…
Hey Rynex, thank you for your contribution.
When fucking,do it until you…
When fucking,do it until you start feeling to ejaculate and then remove your organ do this for atleast several times
Thank you for sharing your…
Thank you for sharing your thoughts Dell.
I can maintain two hours or 3
I can maintain two hours or 3
قرص تاخیری بخور.
من قرص…
قرص تاخیری بخور.
من قرص تاخیری میخورم یکی فایده نداره دوتا میخورم تاچندروز نمیزاره ابم بیاد.
متاستفانه اسمش یادم نیست بگم.
عوارض قرص تهوع ویا گشنگی دراواسط شبه
سلام ، فارسی زبانی نیست که…
سلام ، فارسی زبانی نیست که ما در این سایت استفاده می کنیم. با این حال ، در صورت تمایل به سایت خواهر ما مراجعه کنید
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make her take the turn, let…
make her take the turn, let her take control and that would also help in boosting yo strength during sex cos sex in male is like skipping and would loose more energy so let her ride on u and don’t determine to getting yo self to cum even if u feel like to, stop for a while and switch to foreplay.thanks
Hi Jonathan, thank you so…
Hi Jonathan, thank you so much for your input.
masturbating helps try it…
masturbating helps try it mayb coz i had the same problem
Thank you so much for your…
Thank you so much for your contribution Desmar!
If you want to sustain in s…
If you want to sustain in s*x just go slow don’t hurry up. Fort the first time you’ll be there for almost 15mns orso?
Hi KAISIERI,
Great tips. I…
Hi KAISIERI,
Great tips. I agree that it’s god to go slow during foreplay and also during sex. Avoiding too much stimulation may help one last longer. First time for 15 minutes?! That’s commendable! Do you have other tips you can share? We would love to hear from you.
I show ur pussy u said to be…
I show ur pussy u said to be honest
Hi, welcome to Love Matters…
Hi, welcome to Love Matters Africa. Feel free to ask any questions and we shall be more than glad to respond to you.
Sometimes l fail to get…
Sometimes l fail to get orgasms what should l do
Hey Olive, this happens to…
Hey Olive, this happens to most people sometimes, it can be concerning if it happens often. The causes include psychological issues like stress, fear or anxiety or physical issues. The key to having an orgasm is knowing what gets you to orgasm during sex. It is also important to try and enjoy every moment of the sex as you build up toward the orgasm. Have a look at the following articles for additional information;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/difficulties-with-sex-women
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/difficulties-with-sex-men
Am so happy and most…
Am so happy and most impressed by the research you guys made at least now i know the truth
Hey Allan, we are glad that…
Hey Allan, we are glad that you found this article you useful. Keep exploring the website for other well research and informative articles.
Is it good a man suck a…
Is it good a man suck a women breast
Hey Lilly, many women enjoy…
Hey Lilly, many women enjoy this and there is nothing wrong with it as long as both partners want it. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/five-facts-to-know-about-erogenous-zones
Hello, ihave stay one year…
Hello, ihave stay one year without sex lcan get problems?
Hi Ken, there is no problem…
Hi Ken, there are no problems associated with abstaining from sex for a period of time. There are lots of benefits with this including protection from Sexually Transmitted Infections and unplanned pregnancies. Check out this article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/virginity/my-junk-stays-in-my-trunk
Will u except me
Will u except me
Leonard, you are welcome to…
Leonard, you are welcome to Love Matters Africa, feel free to interact with use here or through our Facebook pages Love Matters Kenya or Love Matters Naija.
what makes ladies to make…
what makes ladies to make noise
Hey Mega, have you looked at…
Hey Mega, have you looked at the article above?
Hello
Hello
Hello Anonymous, thank you…
Hello Anonymous, thank you for getting in touch, how can we help you? 🙂
I have a question.. Can I…
I have a question.. Can I email you? My relationship is going down hill and I need help
Hello Chez, thank you for…
Hello Chez, thank you for reaching out to us and we are so sorry you are going through a difficult time. What is it about the relationship that you feel is making it go downhill? Talk to us, we are here for you. You also need not feel ashamed about sharing as we treat every inquiry with the utmost confidentiality and respect.
It’s great when girls make…
It’s great when girls make noise when we are having sex
Hi Team Ke, what do you like…
Hi Team Ke, what do you like about it?
Nuds images
Nuds images
Come to me
Come to me
What do you mean?
What do you mean?
come and see me plz
come and see me plz
In box me
In box me
For a woman to get fully…
For a woman to get fully satisfied when doing sex you must prepare her fast for the real game
Thank you for your…
Thank you for your contribution Joseph.
not really
not really
I am ahead of my partner…
I am ahead of my partner what should I do leave him but i love him
Hi, what do you mean when…
Hi, what do you mean when you say you are ahead of your partner?
https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/breaking-up/knowing-when-to-break-up
but i think some women…
but i think some women sreams during painful sex
Hi Cate, thank you for your…
Hi Cate, thank you for your contribution. Screaming can be the result of pain or pleasure and for this reason when it happens and it is not clear why, one should inquire to be certain.
Why its not right
Why its not right
Hey Squash, this really…
Hey Squash, this really depends on the partners involved.
I love sex
I love sex
Hey Purity, thank you for…
Hey Purity, thank you for sharing.
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Tht s gud
You are welcome Christopher.
You are welcome Christopher.
Am a girl but I make love…
Am a girl but I make love with a man not girl
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing.
I am a boy
I am a boy
Thank you for sharing Samuel…
Thank you for sharing Samuel, what would you like for us to do for you?
M a girl
M a girl
Hey Dee! Nice to meet you,…
Hey Dee! Nice to meet you, how can we help?
Love for life
Love for life
Amen ro that chriss! Sending…
Amen ro that chriss! Sending love right back to you 🙂
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Hello Your ex, thank you for…
Hello Your ex, thank you for your contribution.
lv u dear, lv sex too
lv u dear, lv sex too
I love sex
I love sex
Thank you for sharing Kayyyy…
Thank you for sharing Kayyyy! Have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!
Yes
Yes
We are glad Tasha, please…
We are glad Tasha, please feel free to go through more content on our site and let us know what you think. Have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!
I also like sex and some…
I also like sex and some times i fuck myself
Hi Joy,
Super! Glad to…
Hi Joy,
Super! Glad to gear you love sex, I do too! It is great that you also explore your body since this ensures that you are confident about what turns you on. Keep at it!
i too want you
i too want you
Hi Cate,
I am here. Talk…
Hi Cate,
I am here. Talk to me…
sometime it happen
sometime it happen
Thank you for sharing Derick.
Thank you for sharing Derick.
Why do u like to do sex
Why do u like to do sex
Hey Tasha, people love sex…
Hey Tasha, people love sex for various reason including, the pleasure it provides, enhanced intimacy in the relationship among other reasons. Have a look at the following article for more information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/why-sex-is-good-for-you
Can I get girl here
Can I get girl here
Hello Leonard, Sorry to say,…
Hello Leonard, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.
VAGINA AND ANUS WHICH AMONG…
VAGINA AND ANUS WHICH AMONG THEM LOOKS ATRACTIVE TO FUCK
Hi Seth, well that really…
Hi Seth, well that really depends on the person. Whatever a person likes to do with consent of course and an adult(s), is right for them.
My Gf Can’t Ask Me For Sex
My Gf Can’t Ask Me For Sex And She Love Me, Why?
Kena,
Kena,
Talk to her and find out why? Having a honest and open discussion on sex, may open her up and starting talking and asking for sex.
am a boy n want to have sex
am a boy n want to have sex wth my girlfrnd fo de fist tym,how can i satisfy her
Chichi,
Chichi,
Check this article with tips on first time sex:- https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/sex-first-time
sex is great and i scream
sex is great and i scream every time
Great, continue enjoying it
Great, continue enjoying it safely.
i had sex wif my gf but she
i had sex wif my gf but she keeps on crying is it my fault?
Khrizmax,
Khrizmax,
Crying could mean that she is enjoying sex or it could be that sex is painful. Find out why she cries. If it because of pleasure then that is okay.
I don’t have any feelings for
I don’t have any feelings for sex at all am 32 of age even l have a baby girl but l can’t tell how l conceived bse l never felt anything during sex that day or it’s bse l took long to break my virginity or it’s abnormal pliz help am now in another relationship but am scared it might not work for me thank you
(No subject)
Hi Judy,
You need to get to know what feels good for you when it comes to sex. What gets one person aroused may not for the next person. After you determine what feels good for you, go on and tell or even show your partner what to do and how to do it. Sex is better when there is communication between partners. Check out the following articles for more information:-
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/orgasms/her-orgasms
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/foreplay-turning-up-the-heat
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
Thats shws ulikukua umehave…
Thats shws ulikukua umehave sex beleni coz no tym that u cant fill either pain or something else jst kubuka poa am pato from nakuru
(No subject)
We appreciate you contribution Pato.
You either enjoy the game or…
You either enjoy the game or else u feel pain
(No subject)
Thank you for your contribution Peter.
Hahaha come I show u may be…
Hahaha come I show u may be you did not get the right man
If u dont feel anythjng like…
If u dont feel anythjng like that i can make u feel it better than b4. If u are afraif that it wont work out the way u exprcted it am here 4 u 2 make u feel sex si much and enjoy it more than ever b4.
I Need girl who is interested
I Need girl who is interested in phone sex
Sorry Travis Love Matters
Sorry Travis Love Matters Africa is not a dating service and as such we cannot get you girl. However it is our hope that you will find the girl you are looking for.
Hi am 24 a virgin I started
Hi am 24 a virgin I started masturbating at the age of 14 till now I still do I love and fantasize about women tho but only when am masturbating in fact have never had a galfriend before. I want to know if am really normal plus I get immature ejaculations and get weak too after doing it. thanks
(No subject)
Hi Joshua,
There is nothing wrong with you. Masturbation is great and safe way to explore your own sexuality. During masturbation the main goal is to ejaculate but when you get a partner you will learn to control your ejaculation. Check out the following article for more information:-
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/orgasms/his-orgasms
I think masturbation is a…
I think masturbation is a spiritual issues so you need to see a powerful man of God to help you more over you are not a virgin any more since you are masturbation thank you
(No subject)
We appreciate you contribution Frank.
Do more plactise my frend…
Do more plactise my frend and dont fear anybody
you are normal but you…
you are normal but you should try working out with a dick for better experiences and pleasure since you are already a sex addict
Josh ur very normal although…
Josh ur very normal although stop doing it regularly athawise it is healthy
Pls dear, masturbation is nt…
Pls dear, masturbation is nt good 4 ur heath, psyche and spirituality especially whn it is prolonged and habitual. I’d love to give u details on this. U may contact me.
Thank you Tony for your…
Thank you Tony for your contribution, however masturbation has no medical effect. We do agree however that one should try not to over do it.
They feel good while they
They feel good while they cheat us.
(No subject)
Hi Jeg,
Why do you feel cheated?
i feel good noise to be
i feel good noise to be honest i love sex when am only with my husband but no one eles
Thank you for sharing Liann.
Thank you for sharing Liann.
infact females vocalize to…
infact females vocalize to announce sexual availability. This has the effect of attracting other males so she can mate with more than one at a time. Having multiple partners is a great way to ensure genetic variance in offspring, which can ensure higher survival rates. And did u know that the action of the basic f….. which is putting dick in and out of vagina, is just clearing another sperm guys.
Some research findings are…
Some research findings are suspect.This one must have been conducted by NUNS!
Thanks to let us knw bt…
Thanks to let us knw bt sometimes u cream because of pain
Hy am Rabby blinkz 22 years…
Hy am Rabby blinkz 22 years of age i have a girlfriend but any time I get issue with her
I want to know what’s is wrong
(No subject)
Hey,
Fighting consistently is a sign of some discontent in the relationship. It is important for you both to talk about what could be causing the fights. This way you can find a solution and decide how to proceed in the relationship. Check out the following articles for more information;-
https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/relationship-problems/jealousy-and-other-problems
https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/relationship-problems/good-fights-versus-bad-fights
Ladies mourn just to make d…
Ladies mourn just to make d guy feel good……. Me if I Dont enjoy your sex I make noisy just for u to be fast . …. When d sex is good mehn you screem like never before …..dats is if it is good sex..
Thank you Fedelia for your…
Thank you Fedelia for your contribution.
Please seek medical advice…
Please seek medical advice sister.im sorry for that
Sounds a good conversation
Sounds a good conversation
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I love sex alot…
I love sex alot…
(No subject)
Thank you for sharing with us Benah.
4sure i want a babe who…
4sure i want a babe who screams in any way she wants my number is +256756820963 plz try me
(No subject)
Hey Rama,
Unfortunate we are not a dating service and we can help you get hooked up. We wish you well though.
I am really into masturbation
I am really into masturbation
(No subject)
Thank you for sharing with us.
I fill good when I was with…
I fill good when I was with some body
Hi Ssekyanzi,…
Hi Ssekyanzi,
What happened to your relationship? We hope you meet someone soon.
Can you help men get a girl…
Can you help men get a girl friend
Unfortunately we do not…
Unfortunately we do not Kirimo since we are not a dating service. We wish you well.
I think one should try it…
I think one should try it with different partners to find the joy in sex
Thank you for your…
Thank you for your contribution Renie. Sex is better when you know what you like and communicate that to your partner. It may not be as good if you are with different people who do know what you like. Check out this article on more tips on talking about sex:-
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
For me I love sex more than…
For me I love sex more than any thing in this world, I never get tyd,& I never ever use a family planing,so what it clbe a problem,
There is nothing wrong with…
There is nothing wrong with you Virginia, you just love sex perhaps alittle more than the next person. There is no relationship between your love for sex and the use of Family Planning or Birth control methods. It is important to use birth control so that you prevent unplanned pregnancies and Sexual Transmitted Infections.
Hi am felista,i never get…
Hi am felista,i never get tyd of having sex i like having sex all the time,but i have no one to have sex with,so can you help me with one pliz,
Unfortunately we are not a…
Unfortunately we are not a dating service and for this reason we cannot get you a sex partner. We do wish you well though.
Hae am cate sometimes I feel…
Hae am cate sometimes I feel pain when my man insert his penis and immediately he releases the sperms I can’t continue anymore I feel pain help plz
Hi, We are so sorry that sex…
Hi, We are so sorry that sex causes pain to you. Pain maybe caused by a number of reasons including a condition where muscles in or around the vagina shut tightly, making sex painful for both partners or even impossible, a lack or lubrication at the time penetration or fear/anxiety based on a previous experience. It is important to spend more time on foreplay to get the vagina to self lubricate and also to relax during penetration. Communication makes sex better, talk about sex with partner before, during and even after sex. Check out this article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/painful-sex-time-to-listen-up
I have learnt.
I have learnt.
We are glad.
We are glad.
my wife ua a cry but i use…
my wife ua a cry but i use tu said that pole pole.i dnt y.?
Hi, Did you ask her why she…
Hi, Did you ask her why she cried?
Love
Love
What about love Hassan?
What about love Hassan?
Thanks for agood advice.What…
Thanks for agood advice.What if u make love with a man and fails to ejaculate at the second round!What might be the problem?
Hi Imani,…
Hi Imani,
This does happen to men at times. It can be caused by Physical, Psychological issues or the use of alcohol and drugs. At time the ejaculation is delayed and it takes longer then 30 minutes to ejaculate or one fails to ejaculate. It is important if this happens regularly to get to find out what could be causing this to find an appropriate solution.
From Kenya
From Kenya
Hi Hassan, What can we do…
Hi Hassan, What can we do you for you?
Some times it comes…
Some times it comes naturally and at times they just fake it.
Thank you for your…
Thank you for your contribution Bright.
Each time I scream he…
Each time I scream he shouting at me
What is your reason for…
What is your reason for screamin? Maybe you need to help him understand this way he maybe abit more relaxed. Some people however prefer to have sex with minimal noise for various reasons. Talk about what you each enjoy and find a middle ground.
am 20 and am really affected…
am 20 and am really affected by this act of masterbation can it have an effect on me since av never had sex.
Hey Sixtus, Masturbation has…
Hey Sixtus, Masturbation has no medical effect, it can be a great and safe way to explore your own sexuality. Check out this article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-myths-busted
I really enjoyed it. I like…
I really enjoyed it. I like having sex so much.
You are welcome Fred.
You are welcome Fred.
The day we did it together…
The day we did it together,she made me think alot, she cried and left the bed unwilling to tlk abt the problem, pls what maybe the problem?
Hi Tom, First time sex may…
Hi Tom, First time sex may have been painful for your partner, you can still find a good time and talk about what happened on that day so the future experience will be one that both of you enjoy. Check out this article;- http://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts
I love loud sex!!! It turns…
I love loud sex!!! It turns both me and my partner on when we’re both vocal and making noises. For me it just enhances the experience
Great! I am glad that you…
Great! I am glad that you know what you and your partner like.
how can you stop…
how can you stop masterbation?
Hi Nick, a good place to…
Hi Nick, a good place to begin is to think about what is leading to the masturbation and start by avoiding that trigger. Check out this article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-your-burning-questions-answered
Yeah, so i moan for 3…
Yeah, so i moan for 3 reasons. 1, Ultimate pleasure.I have the BEST orgasms. 2, pain. sometimes, my partners huge dick hurts a bit. 3, To turn them on more. I can get more out of them.
Thank you Amber for sharing…
Thank you Amber for sharing with us. I am glad you can identify why you moan and your ultimate pleasure. But don’t forget to always show and tell what really makes you go wild!
I have such devastating…
I have such devastating orgasms that I scream sometimes. It is very embarrassing and I wish I didn’t. it ‘s almost like pain and too much to bear. How can I stop this?
Hi Iceni, So sorry about…
Hi Iceni, So sorry about this. Orgasm should be pleasurable and not painful. Check out this article to learn more about female orgasms: https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/orgasms/her-orgasms.
Should you have any questions you can post them on our discussion board and you will be responded to: https://letstalk.lovematters.co.ke/forum
Hey, how does one keep his…
Hey, how does one keep his erection hard till the intercourse is over?
Hello Johnathan, first you…
Hello Johnathan, first you need to identify what is making the erection not to last longer; are there underlying issues such as lifestyle, your partner? Once you identify the cause, then you address it. Check out this article :https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/serious-erection-problems
sex
sex
Hey Laureen, what about sex?
Hey Laureen, what about sex?
Why do I still have an…
Why do I still have an erection even after ejaculation and can still play sex for a longer period before ejaculating……… Am I abnormal???????
Hi Redox, some men have this…
Hi Redox, some men have this experience where they don’t loose their erection immediately after ejaculation and this maybe advantageous if you their partner has not yet experienced an orgasm or wants to keep going. One is said to have a delayed ejaculation if it takes longer than 30 minutes each time to ejaculate during sex. The cause maybe physical or psychological. If this is happening frequently, it maybe important to seek the services of a health provider for a closer examination and possible treatment.
Nice
Nice
Welcome.
Welcome.
Hello love matters,
I have…
Hello love matters,
I have never had orgasm and this makes me feel bad about myself whenever I think about sex..do I need any medical checkup?.. I need to experience this..kindly help
Hey Liliana, orgasm is a…
Hey Liliana, orgasm is a great experience, however, one can still enjoy sex even if they do not orgasm. It takes learning your own body and how it responds to sex and then teaching your partner or even showing them exactly what and how to do it for you to have the experience. Some women won’t get an orgasm from vaginal intercourse only, since it doesn’t focus on what is one of the most sensitive sexual parts-the clitoris. Your partner may need to either user their finger or tongue to stroke/lick it to bring you to possibly orgasm. Take sometime to learn you own body and then talk to your partner about what they can do. It may not work out perfectly the first time but keep trying until you find what works for you and your partner. Check out this article for more tips;- https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/orgasms/her-orgasms
I Don’t Reach Orgasm…
I Don’t Reach Orgasm Whenever I Have Sex, Is It Normal Or Something Is Wrong With Me?
Hey Lami, the reasons that…
Hey Lami, the reasons that may cause one not to get to orgasm maybe physical or psychological. Other times it’s a lack of information as to what will get them to orgasm, both by the person themselves and their partner. It’s helpful to begin by getting to know what will get you to orgasm and then share this with your partner. Check out the following articles for more tips;-
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/orgasms/her-orgasms
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/orgasms/his-orgasms
I don’t do it intentionally…
I don’t do it intentionally. I am just really turned on to the point of screaming and pushing him away. I didn’t even know it did anything to my husband.
Hi Jeel, talking about sex…
Hi Jeel, talking about sex with your partner will help make the experience better for you both. Talk to your husband, let me know what really goes on so he doesn’t misinterpret your actions. Check out this article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
I fear to start relationship…
I fear to start relationship because am studying at the same time when I see my age mate,classmate,frinds having girlfriend I fell jealous help me plz
Hey Abduhu, you have to make…
Hey Abduhu, there is nothing wrong with you feeling not ready to get into a relationship. This is really a personal decision, you have to think and
make a decision about what is important to you at this stage of your life. A relationship can sometimes be emotionally draining and this, if not well addressed can negatively affect your studies. Take sometime and think about what is important to you and then give that your attention. We wish you well.
How do you know where to put…
How do you know where to put your penis in case the girl is a virgin and doesn’t want you to see her vagina?
Hi Johnson, if you are…
Hi Johnson, if you are having vaginal sex it wouldn’t really matter whether the girl is a virgin or not. One way is to have her direct the penis into her vagina. Communication is an important part of sex, talk about sex before having it, during sex and even after. Remember there are issues to consider like prevention of both unplanned pregnancies and Sexually Transmitted Infections. During sex, you want to know that for instance she is ready and in your case the penis is in the right direction. Check out the following articles for additional information;-
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/virginity/first-time-sex-what-to-expect
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
How to fuck
How to fuck
Hi Brian, is this the new…
Hi Brian, is this the new thing you learned?
Is it normal pain during sex…
Is it normal pain during sex?? And having a stomach ache after sex?
Hi Mellisah, it is not…
Hi Mellisah, it is not normal to feel pain during or even after sex. Sex should be pleasurable for both partners. There are a number of reasons that can lead to pain during or after sex, including a lack of or insufficient foreplay which leads to dry sex making sex painful, the position during sex and also anxiety before and during intercourse. Communication between you and your partner before, during and even after sex will go along way toward making the experience better for both of you. Check out the following articles for more tips toward addressing the pain;-
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/painful-sex-time-to-listen-up
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
How do I deal with premature…
How do I deal with premature ejaculation. Can I use viagra??
Hey Pt, Premature…
Hey Pt, Premature Ejaculation is caused by a number of reasons including fear, anxiety or even stress. Anxiety that one will not perform can make him ejaculate much earlier or stress from home or work. In other cases, particularly in young men it could be the result of sexual inexperience, and so as the young man gets older he also gains more experience in controlling ejaculation.
There are a few things you one can do to improve control and last longer. In the short term, you can take short breaks during intercourse, you can also apply firm pressure underneath the penis during intercourse to push blood out of the penis hence decreasing sexual tension, distract yourself to think about other non sexual things or use penis desensitizers. Penis desensitizers come in the form of sprays and creams that can be applied on the penis minutes before intercourse and they help to delay ejaculation. Sometimes a condom can help reduce the sensitivity on the penis. Try out these suggestion and practice them. Consider seeking the services of a health provider before choosing to any medicines for advice.
Check out the following articles for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/how-to-overcome-premature-ejaculation
Love it.it’s real have to…
Love it.it’s real have to try it
Enjoy Barry!
Enjoy Barry!
I’m usually screaming…
I’m usually screaming because I love rough sex and I love my cervix being slammed so I’m moaning and screaming out of pleasure.
Thank you for sharing…
Thank you for sharing Kaylynn.
thanks for the information,…
thanks for the information, my question is how can j make sex enjoyable with gal in the bed
Hey Ronalds, a good place to…
Hey Ronalds, a good place to start is to find out from your partner what they like or enjoy during sex. You also need to share with your partner what you like and then enjoy, and then communicate during sex. Talking about sex before, during and even after, helps to improve the experience for both partners. Check out this article for more information;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/orgasms/her-orgasms
I had the most mind blowing…
I had the most mind blowing sex yesterday. I was screaming! But it just happened. I’ve never done that before.
Hey Renee, than you for…
Hey Renee, than you for sharing. There is nothing wrong with you expressing yourself during sex, sex is better when there is some form of communication and feedback. This may be one of the ways to do this. Hopefully you partner understood this to be as a result of the pleasure.
i dnt know whats wrong with…
i dnt know whats wrong with me even if we make a foreplay with my b friend i dnt become wet at all am afraid he might leave me bt i dnt want to lose him coz i love him
Hi Pretty, your vagina…
Hi Pretty, your vagina getting wet during sex is as a result of arousal. Foreplay is what needs to get you aroused. It may help yo talk with your partner and let him know what gets you aroused. Spending time in foreplay is not sufficient if its not being done right. Sex is better enjoyed by both partners when the vagina is wet, you can also consider using artificial lubrication like KY Jelly which can be purchased at a pharmacy. Check out this article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/lubricant-top-five-facts
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/difficulties-with-sex-women
How do l toon a girl when…
How do l toon a girl when she’s not in the mood of sex?
Hey Simo, if she says she is…
Hey Simo, if she says she is not in the mood for sex you have to respect that. However, the best way to know how to get her into the mood is to find out what turns her on. You could do this by asking her what turns her on. Talking about sex makes the experience better for both partners. Check out the following article for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/my-girlfriend-is-never-in-the-mood
You can thing you are doing…
You can thing you are doing it well because of the screening and she is just stroking your ego ?
Mhhh…Haron are you saying…
Mhhh…Haron are you saying that screams are only for stroking the man’s ego?
In comparison between man…
In comparison between man and a woman, which of them experience the most pleasure during sex…
Hello Adulkudus, many…
Hello Adulkudus, many factors come into play during sex, including emotional attachment. So, it depends, however in most cases men get to sexual climax unlike women. Check out this article for more information: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/orgasms/men-love-it-when-a-woman-orgasms
I love this site it educates
I love this site it educates
Hey, we are glad that you…
Hey, we are glad that you find the information here useful.
iam not always free if I…
iam not always free if I take long for sex why is it like that
Hey, your question is not…
Hey, your question is not clear, do rephrase?
Interesting, I will be keen…
Interesting, I will be keen next time. ?
You are welcome.
You are welcome.
I love sex but i csny
I love sex but i csny
Hey Tisna, your comment is…
Hey Tisna, your comment is not clear. Anything we can do for you?
Thank you for sharing
Thank you for sharing
You are welcome Liz.
You are welcome Liz.
Point well taken
Point well taken
You are welcome Lodwine.
You are welcome Lodwine.
need help,many ladies i fuck…
need help,many ladies i fuck complains that my sperm-count is high,and it comes out in high presure
Hi Marsu , first the ladies…
Hi Marsu , first the ladies cannot tell what your sperm count is. Also the average amount of Semen is about 3.5 millilitres. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/male-body/ejaculation
my girl has two long…
my girl has two long forsking on her virgina even her breasts are like as if she is been nursing , and she told me that she only had sex once, does it mean she is been sleeping with different men or its normal???
Hey Wiseman, vaginas come in…
Hey Wiseman, vaginas come in different sizes and shapes and so do breasts. First, girls do not have foreskin but they have vagina lips which protect the vagina. The lips come in different shapes and sizes, in some cultures and Countries they practice a tradition of pulling the lips which makes them longer. The breast, in terms of their size and shape is determined by a persons genes and not how many times or how many people they have had sex with, you cannot tell if a person has had sex with multiple people by looking at their vagina or breast. Check out the following articles for additional information;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/female-body/vulva-and-vagina
https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/female-body/breasts
My new one makes alots of…
My new one makes alots of noisy she even cries I dont understand?
Hey Kigen, have you asked…
Hey Kigen, have you asked her what the noise and even crying means? Sex is better when you talk about it with your partner. Find a good time and talk with her to get to know what it means then you can together agree on how to proceed. Check out the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
Hahaa am sory
Hahaa am sory
Hi, Why are you sorry?
Hi, Why are you sorry?
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0729723717
Hey, what can we do for you?
Hey, what can we do for you?
Yeah its cool
Yeah its cool
Why does men sounds…
Why does men sounds differently while ejaculating
Hi Cynthia, it is perhaps…
Hi Cynthia, it is perhaps the result or intensity of the orgasm. It may help to get an even better understanding by talking to ones partner. Check out this article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/orgasms/his-orgasms
Always when I do sex with my…
Always when I do sex with my partner she really enjoy but the worst is that i go six to seven round and it didn’t enough to Me…while she releases More than than me….
Hey Aden, do you have an…
Hey Aden, do you have an ejaculation every time you have sex? Sex is better when partners talk about it, let your partner know what you want and have her also share with you what you want. Sex is not only about quantity but more important quality, which can be established through talking about what you each like. Check out the following articles for additional information;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/difficulties-with-sex-men
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/quantity-vs-quality-what-matters-when-it-comes-to-sex
I word my girfrend im single
I word my girfrend im single
What do you mean John?…
What do you mean John? Kindly clarify.
I like your teachings.
I like your teachings.
You are welcome Shamim.
You are welcome Shamim.
How about men, why do they…
How about men, why do they also make noises or moan?
Hi Shei, it could be for the…
Hi Shei, it could be for the same reasons women make noises… It may help to talk to ones partner to get to know what the noises or mourning means.
which position will get a…
which position will get a girl screaming and satisfied as well?
Hey Kobe, the important…
Hey Kobe, the important question is which position will get the girl you are with to react in that way. How you get to know is by asking her and even trying out different things and different positions to see which one works. Check out the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
My fiance complains about…
My fiance complains about pain everytime we have sex sometimes she cries tears and I have to stop. Is there a solution to this problem?
Hi Lennox, there are a…
Hi Lennox, there are a number of reasons including, having dry sex where one penetrates before the vagina is sufficiently lubricated, the presence of an infection in the vagina, the position during sex or the girl may just not be relaxed during penetration which could be caused by the expectation that sex will cause pain. It is important to determine what could be causing the pain for an appropriate solution;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/sex-hurts-help
one day i felt so sad coz i…
one day i felt so sad coz i was realy interested to have sex with acertain lady whom i longed for for along time bt when we reached in a room i totaly failed to erect then i searched for away to convince her that i was feeling severe headache for her not to discover the case and this continues the secnd day bt i am not eunuch plz hlp me knw the reason
Hey Otis, aside from time it…
Hey Otis, aside from time it happened with this lady, has it continued to happen? Also, was this the first time this happened or it has happened before? It is normal for men to fail to get an election sometimes and this maybe caused by stress and fear of being unable to perform in bed. If it however happens frequently, there maybe another issue that could be causing it and it is important to get medical advice. Check out the following article for more information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/difficulties-with-sex-men
Love matters
Love matters
Hey Clevas, what can we do…
Hey Clevas, what can we do for you?
How can you ow for sure your…
How can you ow for sure your gal was satisfied when you had sex?
Hey Kim, you could ask her…
Hey Kim, you could ask her. Sex experience is better when partners talk about it. Find a good time and talk with your partner about what your like and also have them share with you what they and perhaps what will get them satisfied. This way you won’t be guessing or misinterpreting their actions and reactions. Check pout this article for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
I feel pain in my vagina…
I feel pain in my vagina everytime I have sex and sometime I see blood what is causing this?
Hey Joy, so sorry about this…
Hey Joy, so sorry about this. Sex shouldn’t be painful, but pleasurable for both partners. There are a number of reasons that may cause pain or even bleeding during sex. These include, dry sex where your partner penetrates before the vagina is well lubricated. To address this partners may need to spent more time in foreplay to ensure the vagina is well lubricated before penetration. Pain could also be caused by the presence of an infection in the vagina or at times you are just not well relaxed. Anxiety arising from past experiences may make one not to relax during sex making intercourse difficult and painful. It is important to determine what could be leading to the pain to figure out what will help address it. Have a look at the following article for additional information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/sex-hurts-help
I need a beautiful girl for…
I need a beautiful girl for me.
Hi Deno, unfortunately we…
Hi Deno, unfortunately we are not a dating service and for this reason we are not able to help you meet someone. We do wish you well.
Does the size of penis…
Does the size of penis affect if your lady will be satisfied when love making?
Hi Otoyo, having a bigger…
Hi Otoyo, having a bigger penis doesn’t make one a better lover, understanding what their partner needs are does. It is important that ones talks to their partner to get to know what they like and what they want during sex to try and satisfy such needs. Check out the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/male-body/small-penis-its-all-in-the-mind
my wife is very boring in…
my wife is very boring in bed these days, zero participation. Does this happen when a woman gives birth or?
Hey Francis, sex changes…
Hey Francis, sex changes after the birth of a child but this doesn’t mean that partners will not enjoy sex after pregnancy. It is important that partners recognize that changes are taking place and what specific changes have happened and how they can affect their sex life. Talking about sex helps to improve the experience for both partners. It is therefore important that you find a good time and talk with your partner and agree on how to make the experience better. Check out the following article for additional information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/pregnancy/sex-after-pregnancy-top-five-facts https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
Does weed improve sexual…
Does weed improve sexual power?
Hi there, to improve your…
Hi there, to improve your sexual performance adopt a healthy lifestyle which includes eating healthy and exercising regularly. There is no evidence that weed will increase sexual performance, infact it has negative effects on the fertility of the user. Check out this article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sexual-performance-enhancers-top-facts
My partner was moarning I…
My partner was moarning I thought it was pleasure when we talked I realized it was pain. Good to talk about this stuff sometimes.
Hey Izaac, we do hope you…
Hey Izaac, we do hope you and your partner were able to address the pain. Talking about sex is key to improving the experience for the better for both partners.
What can make a woman feel…
What can make a woman feel pain in her vagina when you are making love sex?
Hey Peter, a number of…
Hey Peter, a number of reasons can cause a woman can experience pain during sex including, having dry sex where penetration takes place before the vagina lubricates. It’s important to spend sufficient time in foreplay to ensure the vagina is moist and lubricated. One can also utilize lubricants to supplement. Another reason maybe the woman is not relaxed, or she is anxious or she is stressed and this may cause the pain. Another reason maybe the presence of an infection in the vagina. In which case one needs treatment to address this. Knowing what’s causing the pain is the first step toward addressing the pain. Have a look at the following article for more information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/painful-sex-time-to-listen-up
My libido is very down I don…
My libido is very down I don’t know why?
Hi Kimei, low lidido or low…
Hi Kimei, low lidido or low sex drive is often caused by psychological factors which may include stress, depression or anxiety, or by the body not producing enough of the hormone testosterone in men. In men it is more common in older men, or in men who drink a lot of alcohol and who are malnourished. Smoking and drugs can also play a role, as well as some medications used to treat conditions such as prostate cancer. The first step is getting to know what could be causing the low libido after which one can determine an appropriate solution. Check out these articles for more information;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/difficulties-with-sex-men
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/difficulties-with-sex-women
I just had first time sex…
I just had first time sex but it wasn’t much enjoyable.. Is it gonna be the same next time?
Hey Veryann, so sorry about…
Hey Veryann, so sorry about this. First time sex can be uncomfortable because of the stretching of the hymen. Also, if one is not well prepared and relaxed during intercourse it may lead to the discomfort. It is important that in future you try and relax during sex, you spend time in foreplay to ensure the vagina is most and lubricated which makes intercourse easier and enjoyable. Lastly, remember to communicate during sex which also helps to make the experience better. Check out the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/virginity/first-time-sex-what-to-expect
TAKE CARE ALL
TAKE CARE ALL
You too Don.
You too Don.
After first ejaculation I…
After first ejaculation I feel so bored to continue… How can I boost my feeling
Hey Rockie, it is completely…
Hey Rockie, it is completely normal for men to have what is called a refractory period, where the penis cannot get hard after ejaculation. Honestly, your body is just telling you that it needs some time. There is no real way to change it or make it happen less, so just try to work with your body. If you are really hoping to have more sex, then take the time to recharge and focus on your partner. This is a good time to focus on them and give them pleasure. You will become hard again in no time and continue.
Becouse of the feeling one…
Becouse of the feeling one gets…when he pushes it in i feel a sergicall tenant that make me arouse and i start removing such sounds…
Thank you Sarsha for sharing.
Thank you Sarsha for sharing.
meaning of love
meaning of love
Dear Esther, Love is an…
Dear Esther, Love is an intense feeling of deep affection towards another person. Love is warm, it is kind and patient. Love is forgiving. Love is a feel of a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone. Check out the following article for additional information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/meeting-someone/is-it-love
is porn real???
is porn real???
Hi there, porn is acting and…
Hi there, porn is acting and so alot of what you see has been edited to make a certain presentation. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/porn/porn-myths-busted
Hi am 24 a virgin I started…
Hi am 24 a virgin I started masturbating at the age of 14 till now I still do I love and fantasize about women tho but only when am masturbating in fact have never had a galfriend before. I want to know if am really normal plus I get immature ejaculations and get weak too after doing it. thanks
Hi Sammy, first there is…
Hi Sammy, first there is nothing wrong with you. Masturbation is a great and safe way to explore ones sexuality including relieving sexual tension and stress. Also, the only goal during masturbation is ejaculation but with a partner one can learn to better control and delay ejaculation. Lastly, after ejaculation you will not be able to get another erection for sometime and this is completely normal. This period where you are unable to get an erection is also known as Refractory Period, there is no real way to reduce this time. Have a look at the following article;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-myths-busted
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/how-to-overcome-premature-ejaculation
Now I need to ask mine?
Now I need to ask mine?
Hi there, you need to…
Hi there, you need to. Talking about sex helps to improve the experience for you and your partner. https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
Some scream because of pain…
Some scream because of pain others it is pleasure you have to know why yours screams.
Indeed Kim, thank you for…
Indeed Kim, thank you for your contribution. Talking about sex is an important part of sex.
Do girls also get wet dreams…
Do girls also get wet dreams? Just asking? How?
Hey Gitosh, a significant…
Hey Gitosh, a significant number of women do have ‘wet dreams’ at some point in their lives. Their vagina becomes wet and lubricated in their sleep. They even have intense orgasm at night, which may or may not be triggered by sexual dreams just like men do. Check out the following article for more information on wet dreams;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/male-body/wet-dreams-top-five-facts
I have never had an orgasm…
I have never had an orgasm with my boyfriend I just moan to make him feel good. Most of the time I experience pain during sex, what can I do to reduce the pain and increase my chance of climaxing during sex?
Hi Lillie, so sorry about…
Hi Lillie, so sorry about this. Sex should be pleasurable for both partners. A good place to begin is to find out what is causing the pain. Pain can be caused by a number of reasons including, dry sex, which is when intercourse takes place before the vagina is sufficiently lubricated. Another reason could be the position during sex, which means changing positions may help address this. Sex may also be painful as a result of psychological issues like stress, fear or anxiety. Getting to know exactly what is causing the pain will greatly help to reduce it. Secondly, to get an orgasm during sex, let your partner know what will get you there. This will greatly increase you chance of getting one during sex. Lastly, sex is better when partners talk about it. Instead of faking it, communicate which will help enhance the experience for you and your partner. Check out the following article;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/painful-sex-time-to-listen-up
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/orgasms/her-orgasms
My girlfriend broke up with…
My girlfriend broke up with me because she says I have a big penis. This is the first time this happened to me. Girls I dated before didn’t complain at all. It boosted my esteem about my penis size but I felt she lied and just looked for an excuse to leave I don’t know why!
Hi Eliud, it is difficult to…
Hi Eliud, it is difficult to tell if there was another reason that made her leave. On the other hand, a huge penis can cause pain during sex and this might push someone away. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/huge-penis-painful-sex-whats-the-way-out
My partner always…
My partner always complainabout pain when we have sex. Sometimes it’s very much we stop the sex. What makes this to have and what should we do?
Hey Ali, there are a number…
Hey Ali, there are a number of reasons that may lead to pain during sex. They include the following, the position during sex, dry sex which is where intercourse takes before the vagina is moist or lubricated, there could be an infection in the vagina and some cases it could be the size of the penis. Have a look at the following article for tips to address the pain;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/painful-sex-time-to-listen-up
Is it be that a man has big…
Is it be that a man has big penis that why she moans? Quiz 2 if you have a big penis does this make you good in bed?
Hi there, penis size can…
Hi there, penis size can cause pain during sex but there are also other reasons like having dry sex or the presence of an infection in the vagina. Secondly, having a big penis doesn’t make one a better lover. Talking about sex with ones partner and getting to know what their needs, what they and alike is what makes one a better lover for their partner. Have a look at the following articles for additional information;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/when-sex-hurts
https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/male-body/penis-size-myths-busted
thank all forthix lessonn
thank all forthix lessonn
Hey Jackson, you are welcome.
Hey Jackson, you are welcome.
It’s true
It’s true
Thank you Jane.
Thank you Jane.
I wish to know my women make…
I wish to know my women make noise during sex
Hey Rey, there are different…
Hey Rey, there are different reasons that a woman maybe mourning during sex. It could be they are enjoying the sex or they just doing it to encourage you. The best thing to do is to find out from your partner what makes them do it. Have a look at the article above for more information.
That is a good explanation…
That is a good explanation but you have not exhaustively done it because there are some ‘juicy’ n hot ladies that can make you ejaculate prematurely…
Hi Wanyonyi, premature…
Hi Wanyonyi, premature ejaculation is caused by a number of reasons including fear, anxiety or even stress. Anxiety that one will not perform can make him ejaculate much earlier or stress from home or work. In other cases, particularly in young men it could be the result of sexual inexperience, and so as the young man gets older he also gains more experience in controlling ejaculation. There are a few things he can do to overcome this;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/how-to-overcome-premature-ejaculation
How can I make my Pe is…
How can I make my Pe is larger?
Hi Dennis, there is no real…
Hi Dennis, there is no real way to make your penis larger other than by having surgery and even this may come with complications. Having said that, having a larger penis doesn’t make one a better lover, what does, is getting to know what your wants and likes. Talking about sex helps to improve the experience for both partners. Have a look at the following articles for additional information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/male-body/six-myths-about-increasing-penis-size
If she makes noise because…
If she makes noise because of pain what can you do?
Hi Jo, you may want to start…
Hi Jo, you may want to start by figuring out what could be causing the pain. Pain can be caused a number of reasons including an infection in the vagina, the position during sex, when a woman is not well prepared for sex and before penetration or in some cases the size of the penis. Have a look at the following article for more information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/painful-sex-time-to-listen-up
I personally I don’t shout…
I personally I don’t shout but I scream and my partner loves it that way
One day I day I decided to be silent and he thought that am sick may be till he requested me to scream for him atleast…but it’s gud to scream but shouting am not supporting it….unless wen u have enough privacy
Hey Zari, thank you for…
Hey Zari, thank you for sharing what works in your relationship.
mine is usually very quite,…
mine is usually very quite, I think she enjoys but never makes any sound. I hope this is also ok?
Hey Steve, this is okay if…
Hey Steve, this is okay if you both are happy about it and enjoy it.
She moans and that makes me…
She moans and that makes me fuck hard harder…but don’t know how to distinguish whether she’s faking?
Hey Joe, is there a reason…
Hey Joe, is there a reason you feel she could be faking? Talking about sex helps to make the experience better for both partners. If you have any concerns, do talk with your partner. Have a look at the following article for additional tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
What causes pain in my ball…
What causes pain in my ball after I have sex?
Hi there, does this happen…
Hi there, does this happen each time you have sex? It is important that you consult a medical professional for a check up and advice. In the meantime have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/male-body/healthy-testicles-and-penis-top-facts
When my gal screams she is…
When my gal screams she is enjoying if she is quiet she is bored and not enjoying.
Hello Davis, her screams…
Hello Davis, her screams could mean either she is enjoying or she is in pain. Communication is a key element, it’s therefore important you talk to your gal and understand why she screams.
My wife says that she feels…
My wife says that she feels pain when we have sex. She says w need to spend more time doing foreplay. How long should foreplay take for it to be enough?
Hello Jerry, there is no…
Hello Jerry, there is no specific time one should take to do foreplay. However it’s important to know that women take longer to get aroused therefore foreplay is key to getting a woman wet and ready for sex. It’s also important to find out from your partner what gets her aroused. Check this article for more tips on foreplay: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/foreplay-dos-and-donts
How man times should you…
How man times should you have sex with a guy in a night for him to be satisfied?
Dear Angel, satisfaction…
Dear Angel, satisfaction does not always come with the number of sexual acts in a night. Some people prefer quality sex even if it’s just one round, other the number of ejaculations matter, while others is a combination of both. It will be useful to know what is important to your partner. Check out these two articles for more information: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/orgasms/his-orgasms and https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/quantity-vs-quality-what-matters-when-it-comes-to-sex
My girl has just turned…
My girl has just turned recently from the way she was before,infact this days she replies whatever she likes to me,doesn’t even want to come home and if she NO CARESSES,GAMES NOR ORGASM. people are just serious and we are lovers
Hey Chris, so sorry about…
Hey Chris, so sorry about this. Have you talked with your partner about this? All relationships will have problems from time to time and this also affects sex in the relationship. Communication is essential toward addressing the issues and problems when they come up. I suggest you find a good time and talk with your partner to get to know what has led to the issues. We wish you the best, have a look at the following article for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/relationship-problems/jealousy-and-other-problems
Hey
if u feel it just pray 2…
Hey
if u feel it just pray 2 God and focus on the other important issues.
We appreciate your…
We appreciate your contribution Esther.
I have engaging in sex,now i…
I have engaging in sex,now i couldn’t last longer in bed. So help
Hey Evans, you seem to be…
Hey Evans, you seem to be experiencing what is known as Premature Ejaculation (PE). PE is caused by a number of issues including fear, anxiety or even stress. Anxiety that one will not perform can make them ejaculate much earlier or stress from home or work. In other cases, particularly in young men it could be the result of sexual inexperience, and so as the young man gets older he also gains more experience in controlling their ejaculation. Check out this article for more information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/how-to-overcome-premature-ejaculation
Yes I will scream but only…
Yes I will scream but only when he fuck me really good and when he reach my G-spot. How can you know know a man is enjoying bcz men don’t scream?
Hey Pretty, some men also do…
Hey Pretty, some men also do moan and this can tell you how they feel. It is however better to talk with your partner to get to know whether they enjoyed or are enjoying the sex experience. Have a look at the following article for tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
Which style can make a girl…
Which style can make a girl moan real good?
Hey TI, it may help to talk…
Hey TI, it may help to talk to your partner and get to know what will get her there since what will work for one may not for another person. Find a good time and talk with your partner to get to know what will get her to moan for pleasure I presume;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
Sex is nice more especially…
Sex is nice more especially when u having it with a nice it with a very romantic guy
Hey Esther, thank you for…
Hey Esther, thank you for sharing.
I love this when I hear the…
I love this when I hear the moarning I become aggressive and she like it so much.
Hey Teddybear, thank you for…
Hey Teddybear, thank you for sharing your experience.
Nice fuck
Nice fuck
We appreciate your…
We appreciate your contribution Pouch.
wow
wow
Hey Lalla, you are welcome.
Hey Lalla, you are welcome.
Am married 4 3yrs bt since…
Am married 4 3yrs bt since my yf gave birth she has never felt wet during sex.she is always having virginal-dryness.can u help me please it’s destracting my marriage
Hi Hezron, sex is not the…
Hi Hezron, sex is not the same after childbirth. There is a difference like you are experiencing and in some cases the sex drive of your partner will also change. It is important to talk about what is going on to be able to rediscover each other and what works following the changes. In the mean time however, try supplement by using lubricants that will help make sex enjoyable for you and your wife. Have a look at the following article for additional information;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/pregnancy/sex-after-pregnancy-top-five-facts
https://lovemattersafrica.com/pregnancy/sex-after-pregnancy-myths-and-facts
So do you wanna tell as that…
So do you wanna tell as that all women who cries are feeling the sex orgasm, boosting their partners, what of the pain? How can I know that my woman is crying the pain ?
Hey Mali, pain can be…
Hey Mali, pain can be another reason for the screaming or noise and this is why it is important to check with your partner what the noise ids about. To get to know, talk with your partner. Have a look at the following articles for additional information;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/when-sex-hurts
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
I like it when she moans it…
I like it when she moans it means she is feeling me and I continue until she get to climax.
Thank you for sharing Petro.
Thank you for sharing Petro.
I think this research is…
I think this research is full of holes. Ive had sex with women who arent making a single sound. it gets a bit boring. But i had sex with women who cant control themselves. Even when we fuck places we should be quiet. . Toilet at dinner partys when the husband is one floor down. they starting to scream wildly so u have to put your hand in their mouth so it dont end in divorce. and some girlsgoes into another dimension during anal sex. squirting 40 times until tey have no voice left. dont tell me thats too boost my ego. but fake screaming you notice almost the first minute. just noise. theres a difference. your article is very thin and like a half done study. of course in these days. men cant give women a full time pleasure. Where dildos with legs and women control the sexual act. both physical and mentally. i call it a bullshit study with a capital B
We appreciate your feedback…
We appreciate your feedback Bjeffe.
How do you know a guy is…
How do you know a guy is liking it if he is quiet even when he comes he is just quiet?
Hello Patriciah, you could…
Hello Patriciah, you could ask during or even after? Talking about sex is an important step toward improving the experience for both partners. Get to know what your partner likes and share with them what you like. Remember, communication is not only verbal. Non-verbal communication can also tell you if your partner is enjoying or they want something different.
Does women need large or…
Does women need large or short penis in order to be satisfied??
Hey Meshack, different…
Hey Meshack, different people want different things during sex. A good place to start is to talk with ones partner to get to know what they like and what they enjoy. This is important since having a larger or even shorter penis doesn’t make one a better partner. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/male-body/penis-shapes-and-sizes
I Just Love It When She…
I Just Love It When She Screams, It’s Good, And She Makes Me Know How Good I Am In Bed,
Thank you for sharing Mbi.
Thank you for sharing Mbi.
This makes makes me excited…
This makes makes me excited to continue more stronger to er satisfaction.
Great.
Great.
Mourning doesn’t work for my…
Mourning doesn’t work for my partner when I mourn he get very excited he increases speed and the next thing is him ejaculating
Hey Metrine, you seem to…
Hey Metrine, you seem to have found what works for you and this is a good thing unless ofcourse you are not enjoying sex with your partner.
Can you enjoy sex when you…
Can you enjoy sex when you are playing with someone whom you dont love?
Hi Ekim, sex is better in a…
Hi Ekim, sex is better in a loving relationship. However, people who are not in love may have sex and enjoy it as well. Check out this article of Friends with benefits;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/friends-with-benefits-a-win-win-situation
I don feel anything when…
I don feel anything when having sez…what might be the problem and what should i do
Hey Hannah, have you talked…
Hey Hannah, have you talked to your partner about what you want during sex? Talking about sex helps to improve sex for partners. Find a good time and talk with your partner about what you want and what you enjoy, this will help improve sex for you and your partner. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
Hi,how can i improve my…
Hi,how can i improve my performance in bed for a longer
Hi Tush, sex is better for…
Hi Tush, sex is better for both partners when they talk about it. Talk about sex with your partner, get to know what they like and enjoy during sex as you also share what you like and enjoy to make sex better for you both. There are a few things you can do to try last longer, have a look at this article;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/how-to-overcome-premature-ejaculation
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
Thanks to you LOVE MATTERS…
Thanks to you LOVE MATTERS for your information
You are welcome Shanny.
You are welcome Shanny.
When I hit the spot, she…
When I hit the spot, she calls my name with a vibrating voice. I love it.
Hey Mike, sounds like you…
Hey Mike, sounds like you both enjoy. Thank you for sharing.
Love is good as far as is…
Love is good as far as is god given.its also mantains relationship amongst the lover.Anyway ilove sex.
We appreciate your…
We appreciate your contribution Jose.
For me is difficult to know…
For me is difficult to know whether it pain ama raha!
Hey Erick, have you tried to…
Hey Erick, have you tried to ask your partner during or even after sex? Communication is an important part of good sex. Try and talk about sex not just before but also during during and after. This will help improve the experience for you both. Check out this article for some tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
What is the difference…
What is the difference between expresso and americano? Which can help men with sex?
Hey Jones, it is the process…
Hey Jones, it is the process of making each of them that is a little different, but both are made from coffee. Coffee does not have the same effect on everyone, for some, they may feel it improves their drive while for other it does not. You will have to try for yourself to see what works for you. In the meantime have a look at this article for more information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/aphrodisiacs-top-five-facts
My girlfriend is always…
My girlfriend is always quiet how can I know if she is dlsatiscied?
Hey Da, you could try and…
Hey Da, you could try and ask her if she was satisfied. Better still you could try and get to know what she enjoys or likes during sex so you exactly what to do. Have a look at the following article for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
My fiance most of the time…
My fiance most of the time she say she is not in the mood for sex. I try to make her to be in the mood but she says she does not want sex. What can I do to make her love sex?
Hi Alex, have you asked her…
Hi Alex, have you asked her why she doesn’t want to have sex? It maybe useful to have a conversation with her to get to know why she is not interested in sex, as opposed to trying to get her to like it when you don’t know why she doesn’t like it. Have a look at the following article for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/help-me-make-my-gf-love-sex
I take long to come.. Like…
I take long to come.. Like the girl has to be so good to make me come fast. Though i tend to come quickly when i masturbate… Any reason why?
Hello Kusasira, it appears…
Hello Kusasira, it appears when you are having sex with a girl you leave the responsibility of your orgasm to her as opposed to when you are masturbating where it is your own responsibility to ejaculate. While you can teach your partner what you like, you need to know what will get you there and you need to participate in getting there. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/orgasms/his-orgasms
I want to try anal sex but I…
I want to try anal sex but I fear it will hurt me.
Hey Naomie, you can actually…
Hey Naomie, you can actually have problem free anal sex and it will not hurt you. Have a look at the following articles for more information;-
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/scared-of-anal-sex
https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/guide-to-first-time-anal-sex
Hallo. Can you tell us buys…
Hallo. Can you tell us buys which style girls enjoy the most?
Hey Mannu, different people…
Hey Mannu, different people love different things. A good place to start is to find out from your partner what they like as you also share what you like. This will help improve your experience. Have a look at this article for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
It just happens
It just happens
SEX IS BEST EXPERIENCED WHEN…
SEX IS BEST EXPERIENCED WHEN BOTH PATNERS ARE FULLY AROSSED BEYOND SELF CONTROL MOSTLY FOR THE SECOND ROUND
my partner no longer wants…
my partner no longer wants to have sex. what can do to make her like sex like before???
Hello Joel, thank you for…
Hello Joel, thank you for reaching out to us. We are sorry you are going through such a hard time.
Communication is an important part of any relationship. Have an open and honest conversation with your partner. Explain how their actions are affecting you and the relationship. Try not to be confrontational because that would put them on the defensive and the resulting conversation would not be productive. Be ready to listen to their fears and feelings and respond to them as well.
Interesting n encouraging
Interesting n encouraging
We are glad and always here…
We are glad and always here to help Joe 🙂
I disagree as I have heard…
I disagree as I have heard girls make noises that are totally involuntary.
Thank you for your input,…
Thank you for your input, Peter.
How can I be get
How can I be get
Hello Kevin, please explain…
Hello Kevin, please explain what you mean
I don’t scream when I climax…
I don’t scream when I climax when I’m fucking
Hello Francis, that is…
Hello Francis, that is perfectly fine. Everyone expresses themselves differently
I’m noisy in bed I don’t…
I’m noisy in bed I don’t fake it all that pleasure makes want to scream my throat out
Sounds like you have such…
Sounds like you have such fun! Yay for you Terrie!
When you are psychologically…
When you are psychologically prepare for sex it real become more enjoyable and you gone take long on bed
Wegesa Margaret Tagari thank…
Wegesa Margaret Tagari thank you so much for your positive feedback and we are thankful that our platform can share the same sentiment! Please take this time to continue enjoying our content, keep safe and have a wonderful week ahead!
My girlfriend keeps on…
My girlfriend keeps on telling me she feels like peeing whenever we are making love,this happens more often,can you tell me if she has a problem,or is it that she struggles on holding back her ejaculation.?
Hi Maxwell, thank you for…
Hi Maxwell, thank you for reaching out to us. You have asked a great question. The feeling to pee could mean that she is close to orgasm. It could also mean that she is irritated by something like the condom brand or the lubricant. Another reason could be that she just did not get a chance to pee before sex, having sex puts pressure on the bladder and that could make the urge worse.
does this mean women must be…
does this mean women must be noisy in bed???
Hi Emma, no it does not. lol…
Hi Emma, no it does not. lol. Some women are, and some aren’t and that is fine.
Really
Really
Hi Lex, thank you for…
Hi Lex, thank you for sharing. And yes, really 🙂
sex makes one to become more…
sex makes one to become more healthy
We completely agree with you…
We completely agree with you Anonymous, thank you for your amazing feedback and stay tuned for more epic information! Have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!
Thaks broos you are…
Thaks broos you are ambassadors
Hi wankipta, thank you so…
Hi wankipta, thank you so much for the props! Please feel free to go through the rest of the website to find other articles that you would find of help
I end up screaming when I…
I end up screaming when I orgasm, not much control over it, whether I’m masturbating or having intercourse.
Hello Nastassia, thank you…
Hello Nastassia, thank you so much for sharing with us. How does this make you feel? 🙂
thx
thx
Hi gibrator, we are always…
Hi gibrator, we are always pleased to help.
thanks and more teaching to…
thanks and more teaching to us
We are pleased to help…
We are pleased to help. Please feel free to look through thw website to find other articles that you may find of help.
Hi Eric, what about nude…
Hi Eric, what about nude images are you inquiring about?
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Love It
Love matters
Love matters
Hi johnjohn, welcome to Love…
Hi johnjohn, welcome to Love Matters 🙂
Thnks alot
Thnks alot
We are always pleased to…
We are always pleased to help.
i have a girlfriend but i…
i have a girlfriend but i dont no how to ask him about sex
Hi Prince, thank you for…
Hi Prince, thank you for getting in touch. Click on the following article to find out more: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex
We hope the information helps, please keep us posted and have a wonderful weekend ahead. Stay safe!
which is the way to male…
which is the way to male musturbate to rich your orgasm
Hello Isaac, thank you for…
Hello Isaac, thank you for reaching out to us. I’m sorry, I do not understand your question. Could you please explain?
We are glad you like it…
We are glad you like it Anonymous! Please feel free to go through more of our content and let us know what you think and if you have any questions, do not hesitate to reach out! Have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!
How do i have sex wih her…
How do i have sex wih her without releasing
Hello Emi, thank you for…
Hello Emi, thank you for reaching out to us and asking a great question.
There are a few things you can do to improve control and last longer. In the short term, you can take short breaks during intercourse, you can also apply firm pressure underneath the penis during intercourse to push blood out of the penis hence decreasing sexual tension, distract yourself to think about other nonsexual things, or use penis desensitizers. Penis desensitizers come in the form of sprays and creams that can be applied on the penis minutes before intercourse and they help to delay ejaculation. Sometimes a condom can help reduce the sensitivity on the penis.
In the long term, one can ensure they eat healthily and avoid lots of processed foods, begin to exercise which improves blood flow in the body, reduce or eliminate the use of alcohol including smoking and more importantly reduce stress during intercourse. Foreplay will also play a critical role in preparing your partner and getting them closer to an orgasm.
The following articles provide more information;-
https://lovematters.co.ke/our-bodies/male-body/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/how-to-overcome-premature-ejaculation
Love Matters Team.
I learnt a lot of thing…
I learnt a lot of thing thanks for sharing
Always pleased to help Alpha…
Always pleased to help Alpha. Feel free to go through more of our content to help you make more informed decisions and do not hesitate to get in touch with us in case you have any questions. Have a wonderful week and stay safe!
How can I maintain penis…
How can I maintain penis erection for long during sex
This is a very good question…
This is a very good question and a very common one as well. So, do not worry, you are not alone. There are some remedies that could help you last a little longer. However, if you have premature ejaculation, you should go see doctor.
One option is the stop-start method used to treat premature ejaculation but can also help a person last longer. This technique calls for the man to have sex or masturbate until you almost cum and then stop. When you’re about to climax, stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis. Apply firm pressure on the tube running underneath your penis. This will push blood out of the penis and momentarily decreases sexual tension, calming your ejaculatory response.This should be repeated many times.
Another remedy is to engage in sex styles that do not stimulate the underside of the penis like spooning and reverse cowgirl. You could also masturbate before having sex.
I rarely make noise in bed…
I rarely make noise in bed is dat okay??..isn’t dat am used to sex its my third time to have it
Hi Mitchelle, thank you so…
Hi Mitchelle, thank you so much for getting in touch with us and asking a great question. Bearing in mind that it is only your 3rd time having sexual intercourse, do not pressure yourself into moaning and becoming noisy during sex. This is something that will develop over time as you get to get to discover your body but it is also completely fine if you do not make noise. Having sex is a very intimate thing to do, it is about both of you living in the moment and enjoying yourselves in your own special ways. Moaning and noisy sex is not mandatory during these moments unless you feel you want to, naturally.
There is a different between…
There is a different between love making and having sex
I discover a lady feel love when you give a suck or lick her clitoris rather than sex
So I usually go for the suck and lick pattern and she doesn’t joke with me
That my observation
Hi Oscar, thank you for your…
Hi Oscar, thank you for your input. Indeed there are people who like oral sex but one size does not fit all. Talk to your partners to understand what they like that way sex should be fulfilling for all involved.
thank u so much i have…
thank u so much i have really learnt those i didnt know
Hi how do i get a serios guy
Hi how do i get a serios guy
Hi Lizbeth, thank you for…
Hi Lizbeth, thank you for reaching out to us. This is a difficult question. However, the best thing would be to identify what you want for yourself and your future and get with someone who you feel can help you achieve these things.
um i like to say daddy
um i like to say daddy
Thank you for your…
Thank you for your refreshing honesty, Poukur 🙂
On the issue of long lasting…
On the issue of long lasting without ejaculating,is it healthy all the same?
Hello Jeff, thank you for…
Hello Jeff, thank you for reaching out to us. Even if you do not have sex for a while your body will find a way for you to ejaculate through wet dreams.
glad why do i erect when i…
glad why do i erect when i see any woman
Hi nomie,
It is totally…
Hi nomie,
It is totally normal to get aroused when you see or stare at a woman, especially one you find attractive. However, if this happens too often and you’ve noticed that it affects your relationships, work, and other areas of your life, it could be problematic. This problem could be caused by biological factors, such as testosterone and estrogen levels or psychological factors, such as stress. The easiest solution is to find other ways to destruct yourself. Also, if you have tried to stop but can’t, get counselling services.
sex is a form of relationship
sex is a form of relationship
sex is a form of relationship
sex is a form of relationship
Hi Militia,
Yes, sex is…
Hi Militia,
Yes, sex is important in a relationship. It can help both partners bond and is also a way to show love and affection.
thanks, that’s good to hear
thanks, that’s good to hear
Hi Precious,
Glad you…
Hi Precious,
Glad you learnt something. Keep vising Love Matters for more educative content.
Hello love matters, my wife…
Hello love matters, my wife has been denying me my conjugal rights so i decided to make her jealous by placing a condom in my pockets but this is now making her leave me that i am cheating on her while i have never cheated on her.i don’t know how to tell her that it was just a joke to make her jealous. We are married with two kids. Please help me i didn’t want to lose my family especially my kids.
Hi Janam,
This is really…
Hi Janam,
This is really hard and sad. So sorry. For one, you have to admit that what you did was not good at all and you broke her trust even if you did not cheat. It will not be easy to convince her that you did not cheat but you have to do it. Just tell her why you did that and ask for her forgiveness. It may take sometime for her to ever trust you but you should continue working to earn her trust. I wish you all the best.
I have a very hairy vagina
I have a very hairy vagina
Hi Joy,
Thank you for…
Hi Joy,
Thank you for sharing this. This is totally normal and nothing to worry about. Are you comfortable with this? If not, you could just invest in regular shaving with safe options.
What’s the best position for…
What’s the best position for lasting long in bed
Hi Anthony,
This can…
Hi Anthony,
This can differ from one person to another. Either way, avoid positions that provide too much stimulation. Try positions that only allow for shallower penetration (avoid hardcore or aggressive thrusting), or that don’t allow for much in and out movement. Read this article for more tips: I want my erections to stay harder for longer!
Thank you very much LM. My…
Thank you very much LM. My question is, is it good to continue fucking even when the vagina becomes dry?
Hi Ben,
You are welcome…
Hi Ben,
You are welcome Ben. Thank you for visiting Love Matters! To answer your question, it is not good to continue having sex if her vagina is dry. This is painful for the woman. Consider using lubricant if she gets dry in the course of having sex. Also, it is important to take sometime with foreplay to ensure she is wet and well stimulated. Here are foreplay tips that can help with this: Top tips for foreplay
I love having sex with a guy…
I love having sex with a guy who knows a good foreplay. That’s a guarantee that he is good in bed. I do usually moarn or whisper in his ears how I feel during sex that makes him more motivated to continue.
Hi Ngala,
That is great!…
Hi Ngala,
That is great! Foreplay is indeed important and prepared both partners for sex. Also, open communication during sex is good for both partners. Keep at it!
And where did I get the de…
And where did I get the de-senitizers.
Hi Bisanduku,
What do you…
Hi Bisanduku,
What do you mean by de-senitizers?
OMG! Screaming just to hurry…
OMG! Screaming just to hurry S*X, wicked.
Hi Kevin,
Why do you think…
Hi Kevin,
Why do you think this is wicked? It could be that she is cheering you on!
what could be the solution…
what could be the solution for those who creams during sex?
Hi there,
It depends, find…
Hi there,
It depends, find out why she is screaming: Is it because of pleasure or pain? If it’s out of pleasure, keep up the good job! If it’s out of pain, consider taking sometime in foreplay to make sure she is wet and ready for sex. Here are tips for great foreplay: Top tips for great foreplay. You can also consider using a lubricant. Here are top facts about a lubricant: Top 5 facts about lubricant
Great intimacy insights.
Great intimacy insights.
Hi Maldine,
Great! I am…
Hi Maldine,
Great! I am glad you learnt something new! Keep visiting Love Matters for more informative content.
What does it mean when she…
What does it mean when she says harder? Does it mean u r too soft for her? Is she not enjoying how u r doing?
Hi Alex,
in most cases,…
Hi Alex,
in most cases, women say ‘harder’ to mean that they want you to her nice, hard, deep thrusts. This should not be confused with faster. However, it is great that you ask her what she means when she says harder. Open communication improves sex for both partners.
Hello
am good in bed bt my…
Hello
am good in bed bt my partner never screamed bt looked so loose
Hi Jonwah,
Not all sex…
Hi Jonwah,
Not all sex partners will scream during sex. On the other hand, it is good to have an honest conversation with your partner. Ask her whether she gets satisfied and if not discuss what you can do to improve her experience. It is not good to assume that you are good in bed yet you have not heard that from the partner you’re with. Talk to her and be ready to listen!
I am loud cuz I love to be…
I am loud cuz I love to be loud my neighbors don’t like but owell
Hi E,
Well, your nosy…
Hi E,
Well, your nosy neighbors need to mind their business. Go get it!
i have a girlfriend who is a…
i have a girlfriend who is a virgin and i have a big penis how could i faq her safely without destroying her
Hi Raymocheche,
Two things…
Hi Raymocheche,
Two things: Invest in foreplay and ensure that she is relaxed. Take time to prepare her such that she is aroused thus getting her vagina wet and expanded. It is very important to ensure that she is relaxed since anxiety can mean she will have difficulty getting aroused. Read this article for more tips: How to make first time sex a big sucess and Top tips for first time sex
IT’S NOT TRUE AT ALL that …
IT’S NOT TRUE AT ALL that “over 85 per cent of women make lots of noise simply to boost their partner’s sex self-esteem”!This is SIMPLY A BIG NONSENSE!BASICALLY ALL WOMEN MAKE NOISES BECAUSE OF THEIR OWN PLEASURE,NOT BECAUSE THEY NEED OR WANT TO “BOOST THEIR PARTNER’S SELF-ESTEEM!Women SIMPLY AREN’T CONCERNED THAT MUCH with their partner’s sex esteem when they are having orgasm,but WITH THEIR OWN PLEASURE!EVERYONE KNOWS THAT VERY WELL,so STOP WRITING SUCH FOOLISH THINGS and MISLEADING PEOPLE!Women MOAN AND SCREAM DURING SEX BECAUSE THEY EXPERIENCE PLEASURE,not because they want it to be over in a hurry!
Thank you for your…
Thank you for your experience, Ralfie! We appreciate your perspective.
I wanna have sex now
I wanna have sex now
Hi Bloxy,
Got lucky yet?…
Hi Bloxy,
Got lucky yet? We, unfortunately, don’t have people lined up ready to have sex but can give you tips on how to get one. A good example is this article: Top tips on how to flirt
teach me oooo!
I am a bad girlfriend