Noise or quiet, assertive or reserved?
Every woman is different! Some are noisy during sex, others are quiet. Some are energetic, others are calm and relaxed, or even still. Some prefer to always let you take the lead, while others are more assertive and like to tell you what they want. Some prefer lots of emotional intimacy and foreplay as part of making love. While others are more direct and prefer ‘quickies’ to long romantic evenings.
So there’s no easy answer to your question.
Especially as most of a woman's physical responses when making love are pretty much automatic and subconscious, and don’t depend on whether she’s enjoying herself.
So for example, her pupils will dilate, her heart rate and breathing will increase, her skin will be flushed – all completely automatically.
In fact, almost all women will also get wet when there’s a possibility of sex, even when that might be most unwelcome. And most won’t even know they’re wet. So you can’t rely on these physical changes to tell you whether she’s enjoying sex with you.
Instead, the best sign that a woman is enjoying herself with you is the way she approaches the whole subject.
And that starts with her being enthusiastic about sex, rather than just consenting to it!
So if you can see in her eyes that she is really looking forward to making love, and not just agreeing to it to keep you quiet, then you can be pretty sure she’s enjoying herself.
Watch to see whether she’s organising the evening so that there’ll be plenty of time for sex. Or trying to do the opposite. Is she obviously looking forward to bedtime, or trying to put it off as long as possible?
A woman who’s enjoying sex will be emotionally relaxed. She’ll be happy getting physically close to you, will touch you and encourage you to touch her, and will gradually start to talk about your intimate moments together.
You’ll notice that she starts to feel free to move and change position as you make love. She’ll be more and more emotionally close to you, and with your encouragement, she’ll start to discuss her sexual fantasies and so on, even the ones that are completely crazy. And will suggest that you try them out. And when she does? Go for it!
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