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7 reasons your partner hasn’t said ‘I love you’

7 reasons your partner hasn’t said ‘I love you’

Alaaar! 22 months?! Well, first, don’t say 22 months, just say 1 year 10 months. That will give you a clearer picture of exactly how much time we’re talking about here. Same thing but well… Second, I feel you, it […]

Can I change my gender?

Can I change my gender?

I was born with male body parts but I am attracted to men. I don’t identify as a man. I want to be and live like women. What should I do?

What exactly is wife material?

What exactly is wife material?

Isn’t it ridiculous how life seems to always be skewed towards one side? Rich people over poor people, straight people over gender minorities… Men over women? We’ve all talked or heard about ‘wife material’.

Dating for the money

Dating for the money

Is it good to go for expensive first dates and to experience someone with money or maybe gifts? a female reader asks. Yes. But only if you are interested, answers Valentine.

Are all Nigerian women fake?

Are all Nigerian women fake?

Many Nigerian girls are fake. How do I know which ones are for real? I have fallen into the trap too many times. I’d just like to meet a real girl.