Masturbation: top five facts (part 1)
Masturbation – pretty much everybody does it, but nobody seems to talk about it. That’s too bad, because masturbating is fun and good for you! But then there are some uncertainties and myths.
What is masturbation?
When you masturbate, you touch and caress your genitals to give yourself sexual pleasure. Often you do this until you’re fully aroused and have an orgasm. Masturbation is one of the safest, easiest forms of sex. It’s about getting to know your body and your likes and dislikes. This way, you can also teach your partner what you enjoy when you have sex. And no matter what you may have heard, there’s nothing shameful or unhealthy about it!
Myths busted
There are many, many myths about masturbation out there. But trust us – you will not become blind, skinny, weak or mad from masturbating! No stomach aches and fevers, either. It will have no effect on your fertility. There is no age limit to masturbation. And you can do it as often and as long as you want to, even if you are in a relationship or married!
There’s nothing wrong with fantasising while masturbating either. You may even think about things you wouldn’t consider actually doing in real life. This is normal, too!Why masturbate?
So now that we’ve busted the myths, we’ll go a step further and tell you that masturbation is actually good for you! It’s good for your physical and sexual health. It’s a safe way to satisfy your sexual needs, even if you don’t have a partner. And if you are in a relationship, you can still masturbate to release some sexual tension. In general, you’ll realize that masturbating will help you to relax, become more concentrated and feel happier!
Masturbation for girls
To masturbate, rub your fingers around your clitoris or over it. When you get turned on your vagina becomes wet. You can use the moisture from your vagina to make your clitoris more sensitive. Rubbing or stroking your clitoris can make you have an orgasm. You can also use a hand-held shower head, directing the stream of water around your vagina. Or use a vibrator or a dildo in your vagina or for stimulating your clitoris.
By the way, just because you masturbate it doesn’t mean you’re not a virgin any more. True, you could stretch or tear your hymen if you put your fingers or a dildo in your vagina. But that can happen in other ways too, and it doesn’t mean you’ve lost your virginity.Masturbation for guys
Hold your penis in your hand or between your fingers. Stroke your penis in an up-and-down movement. When you’re aroused a little clear fluid will come out of your penis, which will make it more slippery and sensitive. You can also use spit or lubricant to make your hand or fingers glide up and down more easily.
Once you begin to feel aroused, try varying the speed and pressure, until you have an orgasm. You can also try to rubbing or stroking up and down over the head of your penis. Or you can vary between short and long movements or using your whole hand or just two fingers.Since masturbation is such a huge subject, here’s ‘Masturbation, top five facts (Part 2)’.
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Recent Comments (187)
HI…thanks for the info. I
HI…thanks for the info. I heard it also causes pre-mature ejaculation in men….Is it true?
Hi Kevin,
Hi Kevin,
thanks for the comment.
Actually, masturbation doesn’t cause pre-mature ejaculation. In fact, men who have problems with pre-mature ejaculation can teach themselves to last longer through masturbation.
What a fuckin lie!!
What a fuckin lie!!
What is the lie?
What is the lie?
True!
True!
Hi Waves,
I am glad we are…
Hi Waves,
I am glad we are on the same page! Keep it here for more interesting and factual content.
this thing is a sin,,one…
this thing is a sin,,one will hv spiritual husbands and wives,,,think em talking shit,buh hv seen this
Thank you for sharing your…
Thank you for sharing your opinion Julius. Click here to help understand the concept of masturbation in relation to sin : https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/knowing-yourself-the-biblical-way `Cheers!
stop lying to people tell…
stop lying to people tell people the truth from practical perspective not theoretical point of view
Hello ejkfkdck, thank you…
Hello ejkfkdck, thank you for getting in touch and we are sorry you feel this way. Could you please explain to us what aspect of our content is not practical? We would really like to hear your thoughts on the subject.
i rily enjoy it though am
i rily enjoy it though am married n it rily relieves me from sexual desires
Hi Tonny,
Hi Tonny,
Even in a marriage, it’s okay to masturbate. Sometimes, people’s sexual desires differ, and maybe your wife sometimes wants sex when you don’t or the other way around. Then masturbation can be a great way to work on sexual desire.
Does consistency in
Does consistency in musterbating have a -ve effects on human health?
No John, on the contrary.
No John, on the contrary. Masturbation has a positive effect on human health!
what is the use of penis if
what is the use of penis if we all masturbate?
Hi there, masturbation is of
Hi there, masturbation is of course no substitute for sex. But in situations where you might not be having sex but you want it, you can masturbate. What do you think?
i heard that masturbating can
i heard that masturbating can cause prostate cancer to men in old age days.is it true?
Hi Driver,
Hi Driver,
this is not something you should worry about. In fact, some scientists actually suggest that masturbation protects against prostate cancer.
hw many tyms shld one do it
hw many tyms shld one do it lets say in a week coz i read samwhere that if u do it more than 3 tyms a week then u r addicted z t true?
Hi Walter,
Hi Walter,
you are addicted when masturbation (or anything else, really) gets in the way with your daily activities. For example, you can’t go to work or a party because you feel the need to masturbate. As for the three times a week rule, we disagree. If you enjoy it, even three times a day isn’t a problem. No harm done!
I love dx.
I love dx.
Good for you!
Good for you!
Is true that masturbation
Is true that masturbation reduces the strength or energy during intercourse?
Hi Ken,
Hi Ken,
no, that’s a myth. Masturbation will not impact your strength or energy during intercourse. Unless you masturbate right before having sex, of course.
Mustarbation is a psychatric
Mustarbation is a psychatric problem needs conselling!
Hi Wilson,
Hi Wilson,
where did you hear that? We are curious, as, scientifically, masturbation is a normal part of a healthy sex life.
is it true if you masturbate
is it true if you masturbate you won’t be able to last long in bed?
Hi Daniel,
Hi Daniel,
not, that’s not true. On the contrary- men, especially those with little sexual experience, can actually practice to last longer with masturbation.
it is very OK to do it
it is very OK to do it
Yes, absolutely okay to do it
Yes, absolutely okay to do it!
F u bkam adictd to t,du loose
F u bkam adictd to t,du loose interest in sex
Hi Martin,
Hi Martin,
this is a very low risk associated with masturbation. Very, very few people become addicted. And let’s face it, masturbation will never be as good and enjoyable as actual sex with another person.
i do it regularly but of late
i do it regularly but of late i can’t last long when making love to my girlfriend.is it as a result of this or its in mind the problem.
Hi Victor,
Hi Victor,
how about during masturbation, are you able to last long then?
And how long is ‘not long’ when you are making love?
Really.
Really.
Really 🙂
Really 🙂
Thank you for your tips…
Thank you for your tips…
You are most welcome, Jorgez!
You are most welcome, Jorgez!
haha….I love this topic
haha….I love this topic
That’s great Kelvin. Tell us
That’s great Kelvin. Tell us more about why you like it!
I like your explanation on
I like your explanation on marsturbation and it educate me alot
Hi Enos,
Hi Enos,
we are so glad to hear that!
is it through that masturbing
is it through that masturbing reduce body weight?
Hi Nur,
Hi Nur,
that is very unlikely! Unless you masturbate so much that you stop eating; in which case, I don’t think the weight loss will be the biggest issue…
Hi Nur,
Hi Nur,
that is very unlikely! Unless you masturbate so much that you stop eating; in which case, I don’t think the weight loss will be the biggest issue…
Is sexual arousal and orgasm
Is sexual arousal and orgasm subject to temperatures?
Hi JJ,
Hi JJ,
that’s an interesting question. And yes, it is! The warmer it is (as long as it’s not too hot), people do feel aroused more easily. So it’s okay if, with the weather right now, you just want to curl up with your blanket.
can masturbation cause weak
can masturbation cause weak erection?
Hi Peter,
no, not really.
Hi Peter,
no, not really.
Does it mean dat masturbation
Does it mean dat masturbation is likely 2 increase da tym taken whyl makin lv wid a partner, if so hw is it enhanced through masturbation
Hi Jacques,
Hi Jacques,
yes, it can. You can practice delaying your ejaculation with masturbation. Just by trying to last longer, and to suppress ejaculation. You can also try to get close to ejaculation, stop all movement until you feel the urge die down, and then start going again. This way, you can practice lasting longer.
Is it true that mustabation
Is it true that mustabation can cause weak erection
Hi Shawa,
Hi Shawa,
no, that’s a myth.
hey u so it has no effect??be
hey u so it has no effect??be honest
We are always honest. No, it
We are always honest. No, it does not have negative effects. It’s part of a normal, healthy sex life.
Is mastubation a sin
Is mastubation a sin
Ah, Cat, now that’s a good
Ah, Cat, now that’s a good question. That Is really up to interpretation. Some people say yes, it is, others say it’s okay. So we can’t tell you- you have to decide it for yourself. We believe that masturbation is part of a normal, healthy sex life. All the best.
hi cat, if you really believ
hi cat, if you really believ that sex is asin
automatically masturbation will be asin too
but its ones decission to go for it or live it.
i heard it from many sorces
i heard it from many sorces that prolonged mastarbetion leads to serios importent especialy to men is it tru? if yes whats the cure?
Hi Kasozi,
Hi Kasozi,
that’s a myth. Check out more myths here: http://lovematters.co.ke/news/masturbation-myths-busted
Y z t dat sam guyz stil go 4
Y z t dat sam guyz stil go 4 masturbation even after enjoying sex wit their patner?
Good question. We don’t know.
Good question. Do you mean generally or immediately after sex? Can you think of any reasons?
thenk u sana 4 u lesson..my
thenk u sana 4 u lesson..my gal tiz kind of she waz adicted,.so afta searching abt sex matas,.mostly i offered to opt ha to masturbation,nao she has a sex ctr n no longer addicted,.dd i du the rght thng
Hi Jose,
Hi Jose,
can you describe more what you mean by being addicted to sex?
I think masturbation will
I think masturbation will make someone not to feel sastfied during normal sex with apartner.
Hi Eboso,
Hi Eboso,
masturbation can feel great, but it’s nothing compared to being with another person!
ok love matters about eboso…
ok love matters about eboso’s comment about someone not feeling satisfied during normal sex with partner I think I am a victim too how can i go about that.It is due to masturbation.What can you advice because i need to go back to my normal life
Hello Kamau, thank you for…
Hello Kamau, thank you for reaching out to us and sharing. Feeling satisfied during sexual intercourse is not simply about the physical sensations you experience during it but also the mental and emotional connections you share with your sexual partner as you have sex with them. Masturbation can be a contributing factor yes, in the sense that you could have developed lower sensitivity towards your penis during stimulation but satisfaction requires just as much emotional and mental stimulation as it does the physical buddy so our best advice would be to try and understand not just yourself physically, but mentally and emotionally too and understand the kind of connection you have with your partner and vice versa. We hope that helps, have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!
Thanks you guys.. for your
Thanks you guys.. for your advice i do it and i like it.
Thank you, Macha.
Thank you, Macha.
i heard masturbation can
i heard masturbation can cause infertility if done for so long period of time..is that allegation true about masturbation?
Aljuhani,
Aljuhani,
no, that is a myth.
Men will produce sperm throughout their lives and masturbation won’t affect your fertility.
you have educated me guys..am
you have educated me guys..am proud of you
Thank you!
Thank you!
but it weaken sperm
but it weaken sperm releasment
Nope, that’s a myth.
Nope, that’s a myth.
Does masturbation make spers
Does masturbation make spers run out from me?
No, Gombs, it won’t.
No, Gombs, it won’t.
All u say is just bt truth
All u say is just bt truth
Great to hear you agree with
Great to hear you agree with us.
Good experience of course
Good experience of course
And even healthy!
And even healthy!
hi, i started masturbating
hi, i started masturbating at a very tender age. i dont know why and when but as long as i can remember i was around 7 or 8. i still do it even today though am married but i don’t seem to enjoy sex that much bt i enjoy spooning alot.
i noticed that my hubby too musturbates alot sometimes when we are in bed and not havin sex he presses his manhood on my butt and…… ejaculate.
i may feel like wanting to have sex during the day @work the i would masturbate to 3 times bt when i get home i dont feel like havng sex thou i wont show him. is it because of masturbation i dont enjoy sex with my husband?
Noni,
Noni,
if you have been masturbating for a long time, enjoying sex can be a bit tricky. When you touch yourself, you know exactly what works for you; however, when someone else touches you, they don’t feel what you feel.
Talk to your husband- make sure you both understand what each of you needs and wants, and keep talking while having sex. Gently guide and encourage each other!
Good luck!
Hi love matters how do i
Hi love matters how do i intiate mutual masturbation with my girlfriend
Do you have an idea if she is
Do you have an idea if she is open to it? Are you having sex yet, or should this be an initiation of your sex life?
i like your education about
i like your education about musterbation but why after musterbation u tend to be guilty about it and when in bed u dont enjoy sex with your partner are you realy honest that musterbation is healthy?
hey. I am a virgin but I am
hey. I am a virgin but I am rilly getting addicted to sex coz my galfrd believes in sex after marriage and when I told her that I do masturbate she discouraged me to stop but I find it difficult to stop. help me.
Andrew,
Andrew,
masturbation is a normal part of a healthy sex life. While some people do get addicted to it, it’s very rare. Addiction means that you can’t go to school or work anymore, because you’d rather masturbate.
If you masturbate once or twice a day though, there is nothing wrong. It’s a great way to get satisfaction, particularly if you can’t have sex with your gf.
You’re girl is hella selfish
You’re girl is hella selfish Andrew, look for a new one
Thanks for the input.
Thanks for the input.
Can mustarbation makes the
Can mustarbation makes the penis small?if no tgen what can make the penis small?
Hi Ajo, masturbation can not
Hi Ajo, masturbation can not make a penis small that is just a myth. Penis does not reduce in size when grown. read more here https://lovematters.co.ke/news/masturbation-myths-busted .
Dose mansturbation have a
Dose mansturbation have a side effect to your health?
Hi Kiseka, masturbation does
Hi Kiseka, masturbation does not have any negative effects on ones health. Read more here https://lovematters.co.ke/news/masturbation-myths-busted .
What benefits are there in
What benefits are there in masturbation??? I do it daily
Hi Nyagah, research has shown
Hi Nyagah, research has shown that masturbation can help relieve stress, lift your mood up and give you good health.
Thanks 4 Dat Education But Is
Thanks 4 Dat Education But Is It True Dat Masturbation Keeps Mans Sperms New And Fresh.
Hi Mugisha, men’s sperms are
Hi Mugisha, men’s sperms are reproduced every time they are discharged and therefore new one are created but that does not mean the old ones are not productive.
Hello… Am adcted to
Hello… Am adcted to masturbation,,i do it almst twice a day..n wen i finish it i get slipy vri fast..azn i lyk it..bt i hve a problem why iz it that iv lost intrest in galz,could masturbation b tha rizon
Hi Eddy, Masturbation does
Hi Eddy, Masturbation does not cause one to lose interest in women. Masturbating twice a day does not mean you are addicted or not normal. Read more on masturbation myths here https://lovematters.co.ke/news/masturbation-myths-busted .
masturbation affects sexual
masturbation affects sexual perfomance coz u u dont ejaculate eazily it delays too much
That is just a myth Jony.
That is just a myth Jony. Read more here https://lovematters.co.ke/news/masturbation-myths-busted .
Thanks Alot 4ur Educatioh 4as
Thanks Alot 4ur Educatioh 4as…
You are welcome Victor.
You are welcome Victor.
Hi can it make u loose
Hi can it make u loose interest in sex?
Hi Destiny,
Hi Destiny,
Masturbation can help reduce the urge for sex when you cannot have it, but by no means does it make you loose interest for sex.
Ok for me l always do
Ok for me l always do masturbate but when l get a girl l spend less than 5 minutes on her what causes that?
Hi,
Hi,
It sounds as though you are ejaculating sooner than you would like to. Here is an article that ca assist with premature ejaculation. https://lovematters.co.ke/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts .
When the hymen is being tear
When the hymen is being tear by sex toy, isn’t the virginity gone. If not what is then virginity?
The Hymen can be broken by
The Hymen can be broken by many things including vigorous exercises, swimming bike ridding. One is considered to have lost virginity when they have penetrative sex for the first time.
wanking is a perverted act.
wanking is a perverted act..its for loosers and queers.
Thank you for sharing your
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
y aft masturbation u fll
y aft masturbation u fll headarch and guilty?
Masturbation does not cause
Masturbation does not cause headaches, if anything it helps one relax. As for feeling guilty that could be due to personal beliefs.
Did regular masturbation make
Did regular masturbation make man unable to impregnate woman?
Hi Franc,
Hi Franc,
That is just a myth. Read more here https://lovematters.co.ke/news/does-masturbation-cause-infertility .
if I masturbate using a sex
if I masturbate using a sex video, did I cheat on my patner
For most part that is not
For most part that is not cheating. But it all depends on what you and your partner have agreed on.
Cheating means breaking the rules you have agreed on in a committed relationship. Usually cheating refers to sexual infidelity or adultery. If you’re making out or having sex with someone outside of your committed relationship, it means you’re cheating on your partner.
what are the importances of…
what are the importances of masturbation????
Hi Myk, Have a look at point…
Hi Myk, Have a look at point number three (3) in the article above.
Thanks alot for That…
Thanks alot for That information…..
Is not considered as a din
You are welcome, Peter.
You are welcome, Peter.
I really wonder,the reason…
I really wonder,the reason why i musterbated which lead to my hymen tested.I really get ashamed of how i will explain to my bae cz he left me virgin.
Hello Sabina, what do you…
Hello Sabina, what do you means by your hymen being tested? One doesn’t loose their virginity by masturbation since a virgin is one who has not has vaginal intercourse. If you however have used sex toys like like dildos, this might have stretched the hymen. On the other hand, activities such as some sports and even using tampons can cause the hymen to be stretched and this doesn’t as well mean one is no longer a virgin. Check out the following article for additional information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts
Hi!thanks for your advices…
Hi!thanks for your advices.
So Incase someone is addicted to this,how could that person help to avoid the situation?
Hi Joseph, one can start by…
Hi Joseph, one can start by thinking about what triggers the masturbation and the try and avoid these causes. Some people maybe addicted to porn as well which leads to masturbation and this is what they need to avoid. Addressing any addiction takes time and so take one day at a time and take small steps toward the change you are looking for. It is also important to fill your free time with other productive activities including hobbies. Have a look at the following article for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/i-am-addicted-to-porn-and-masturbation
I do it upto 5 times daily…
I do it upto 5 times daily.is it cool?
Hey Zac, speaking from a…
Hey Zac, speaking from a purely medical point of view, there is nothing wrong with masturbation. Infact it can be a great and safe way to explore ones sexuality. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-myths-busted
its looks like your campaign…
its looks like your campaign for it…everything has advantages and disadvantages..i don’t encourage those who no partners cause they will never get married
This is not a campaign. We…
This is not a campaign. We just offer honest information about Love, Sex and Relationships.
If you masturbate and you…
If you masturbate and you are not circumcised the doctor who will circumcise you will he know you masturbate
This is not true.
This is not true.
a very big lie masturbation…
a very big lie masturbation has a lot of -ve efffects ….Dont be cheated
Hello, there is no…
Hello, there is no scientific evidence of any adverse health effects.
it’s a sin,,trust me
it’s a sin,,trust me
Thank you for your feedback…
Thank you for your feedback Julius. Follow this link to help understand your body, masturbation and its relation to sin: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/knowing-yourself-the-biblical-way
i’ve heard n am enjoying it
i’ve heard n am enjoying it
We are so glad Maraka and…
We are so glad Maraka and thank you so much for your positive feedback! Have a wonderful and blessed Easter weekend and stay safe!
I like masturbating but when…
I like masturbating but when i do it i feel guilty.
What’s your advice??
Hello Sammy, thank you for…
Hello Sammy, thank you for reaching out to us and we are sorry you are going through a hard time. Masturbation is a very normal thing to do and is actually good for you. It helps you understand yourself and your body more and is a safe way of engaging in sexual activities in a safe and healthy manner. What about masturbation makes you feel ashamed? For more information, click here 🙂 https://lovemattersafrica.com/sexual-diversity/sex-disability/masturbation-and-sex
how can i stop masturbating
how can i stop masturbating
Hello Anonymous, thank you…
Hello Anonymous, thank you for reaching out to us. If you are absolutely sure you want to stop, you should know that it will not be easy. This is because sex leads to the release of endorphins which is better known as the pleasure hormone. Second, masturbation has now become part of your arousal template which is the total amount of thoughts, activities, stimuli, smells etc. that arouse a person sexually.
To stop masturbating, you will need to identify the things that lead you to masturbate like seeing something, or just boredom. Also, when you get the urge to masturbate occupy yourself with another activity.
Please note that it could take you 21 days to 6 months to work on this and it might not work. If you are really committed, try and find a counselor or a therapist to help you through. Good luck!
I thaugt it may cause…
I thaugt it may cause infertility but thanks it doesn’t
Hi Kelly, thankfully it does…
Hi Kelly, thankfully it does not.
Does masturbation cause…
Does masturbation cause bacterial infection?
Hi Gama, this is a really…
Hi Gama, this is a really good question. It can, especially if it is not done in a clean environment or without following hygiene protocols, as well as if the person is prone to infections. However, it is the kind of thing that would need everything to go wrong for it to happen and so it is not a common occurrence.
Wah nice to hear bu for me I…
Wah nice to hear bu for me I’m not married but i hv done mustabated for more ten years can this course me not to marry?
Hi Kiarii, thank you for…
Hi Kiarii, thank you for reaching out to us. Masturbation would not be the cause you do not get married. Why would you think this would be a reason?
does masturbation cause…
does masturbation cause wrinkling of the labia
Hi Ronnie, thank you for…
Hi Ronnie, thank you for getting in touch and asking a great question. Yes, it is definitely possible for your labia to become wrinkled during masturbation as the added wetness and moisture can be absorbed by the skin on and around the labia. This should not worry you though and is completely normal. Have a wonderful weekend ahead and stay safe!
I lv masturbating i heard…
I lv masturbating i heard it can lead to gaysim is it true
Hi Obed. Thank you for your…
Hi Obed. Thank you for your input. No, it is not true.
I used chapati rolling stick…
I used chapati rolling stick yesterday into my vigina when I was mustabating will it cause some problems?
Hi Mary, thank you for your…
Hi Mary, thank you for your question. It could, especially if it was not cleaned well. It could in fact introduce bacteria and even splinters that could hurt you. Should you consider using it again, inspect it closely for splinters and then use a condom which should keep you safe from bacteria.
can masturbation cut short…
can masturbation cut short fertility
Hi Jamar, thank you for your…
Hi Jamar, thank you for your question. There is no medical evidence that masturbation has an effect on a person’s fertility.
Thanks I have learn…
Thanks I have learn something. Sometimes you don’t get enough fuck from your partner and that’s the way to make it
Hi King, thank you for…
Hi King, thank you for sharing your opinion with us. Although what you have said is true, there are also other ways of matching sex drives with your partner. Most couples struggle matching their libido. Maybe the guy’s is higher, maybe the girl’s. Because libido varies greatly from person to person, and so they’re rarely equal. Men and women’s individual libidos also vary a lot – during the day, from day to day, over the course of a month, and over the years. Click here to find out more about what you can do: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/libido-differences-matching-sex-drives
Have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!
Does masturbation deplete…
Does masturbation deplete sperms in males body?
Hi Royniles, thank you for…
Hi Royniles, thank you for getting in touch and asking a great question! That is a popular myth and is definitely not true. Click here to find out more about myths just like this here: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-myths-bustedhttps://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-myths-busted
We hope this information helps, have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!
Is it true that it leads to…
Is it true that it leads to not lasting long in bed with a woman?
Hi Boniface, thank you for…
Hi Boniface, thank you for getting in touch with us and asking a great question. No it does not and this is a myth. Click here to find out more about these popular myths and whether they are true or not: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-myths-busted
Sexual difficulties are very common for men of all ages. Common guy problems include premature ejaculation or delayed ejaculation – either coming much sooner or much later than you’d like. Click here to find out more about this and to overcome this issue if it is something you are facing. https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/difficulties-with-sex-men
Have a wonderful festive season ahead and stay safe!
I think masturbation is…
I think masturbation is against God will
Hi Davidson, thank you for…
Hi Davidson, thank you for getting in touch and sharing your perspective. Click here to find out more about what we think about the situation. https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/knowing-yourself-the-biblical-way
how much can be too much…
how much can be too much…cause surely there is a point when it too much
Hello Teesha, thank you for…
Hello Teesha, thank you for getting in touch with us and we agree with you, too much of anything can always harm, especially if it interferes with one’s ability to go about their day to day lives in a normal way. Click here to find out more about what we think and we look forward to hearing what you have to say! https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/ways-to-make-love/i-am-addicted-to-porn-and-masturbation
Happy 2021!
Does marsturbation decrease…
Does marsturbation decrease the chances of you getting a girl pregnant
Hi Cj, thank you for this…
Hi Cj, thank you for this question. Studies have shown that frequent masturbation has no effect on fertility. However, a person produces optimal sperm if they refrain from ejaculating for about three days.
I don’t think that’s true
I don’t think that’s true
Hello Mysterious, why do you…
Hello Mysterious, why do you feel this way?
It is good.. but way is it…
It is good.. but way is it so addictive.
Hi Palmer,
I am glad to…
Hi Palmer,
I am glad to hear that you enjoy masturbation. It is a pleasurable thing. On the other hand, it is important to ensure that it does not interfere with your everyday life. If you find that you spend too much time masturbating, not spending much time working, or losing interest in social activities or things you used to enjoy, it is important to reduce the frequency. If you find difficulties reducing the number of times you masturbate or stopping, speak to a counsellor or someone you trust.
Does masturbation to porn…
Does masturbation to porn cause ED?
Hi Jim,
No. Masturbation…
Hi Jim,
No. Masturbation does not cannot cause ED.
realy i am not bealiving you…
realy i am not bealiving you peaple it
HI Sunil,
Thank you for…
HI Sunil,
Thank you for your input. What is it that you do not agree with? We are happy to discuss it with you.
This shit is the damn lie…
This shit is the damn lie motherfucker
Hi Quaviy,
Why do you say…
Hi Quaviy,
Why do you say that? Feel free to share your experiences here. We are happy to engage with you.
Masturbation isn’t gd though…
Masturbation isn’t gd though we do t. T meks ue ejaculate on uoself instead of ejaculating wth a partner
Hi Nats,
Masturbation is a…
Hi Nats,
Masturbation is a safe and pleasurable way of understanding your body. People in relationships and those not in relationships can explore masturbation. As with anything in life, it is important to do it in moderation so that it does not interfere with your day-to-day life.
these information are valid…
these information are valid but you haven’t included the side effects of masturbation. why do erectile malfunction arise1
Hi there,
There are no…
Hi there,
There are no known physical effects of masturbation. Masturbation does not cause erectile problems. Masturbation is also normal and won’t cause problems when you have sex with a partner. As long as masturbation does not affect your day-to-day life like work, relationships, and sexual life, you are good. If you have concerns that you may be suffering from erectile problems, visit a doctor for tests and treatment. Here are signs that you could have erectile dysfunction: 4 Signs You Have Erectile Dysfunction
Thanks for the information…
Thanks for the information now i know the fact.
Great Onyango! Welcome again…
Great Onyango! Welcome again!
does masturbation ave side…
does masturbation ave side effect
Hi Tecca,
No, there are no…
Hi Tecca,
No, there are no known physical side effects of masturbation. It is a pleasurable act that can help one explore their body. On the other hand, while there is no shame in a good thing, if it takes you away from work, hanging out with friends, or any activity that makes you miss important life events, it may be important to re-evaluate your choices.