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Kunyaza: African secret to female orgasm

Kunyaza is a traditional sexual technique used in central Africa. It’s said to be the secret for women to have incredible wet-sex orgasms.

Dr Nsekuye Bizimana, a Rwandan sex expert working in Germany, has made a study of the Kunyaza technique.

Tapping

The basic principle is simple and has been passed on by word of mouth in central African countries for at least 150 years. The man takes hold of his penis and uses the head to tap the woman’s clitoris, labia, and vaginal opening.

He can move the rhythmic tapping around the vulva in circular or zigzagging movements. The tapping can be varied with rubbing, also using the tip of the penis.

It’s important that there’s plenty of lubrication from the start. Otherwise, the tapping can be too sensitive – a little saliva works wonders.

If, after a while, the man’s wrist gets tired, the woman can get hold of his penis and take over. And women also sometimes help out by holding open their labia to intensify the sensation.

Advanced

In a more advanced version, the man puts his penis inside the woman’s vagina, again takes hold of it, and then moves it from side to side or round and round to stimulate the vagina on the inside. He can vary this with more conventional in-and-out thrusting.

In what Dr Bizimana describes as the ‘classical’ kunyaza position, the man sits down and the woman sits in his lap facing him. But he says ‘less sportive’ people might prefer easier ‘modern’ positions, for example with the woman lying on her back and the man kneeling between her legs.

Squirting

All this penis tapping and wiggling is supposed to have wondrous effects on women. For one thing, it’s said to trigger orgasm after orgasm. But its main reputation is that it produces female ejaculation – it makes women squirt.

The name kunyaza actually means ‘to urinate’. However, it’s not urine that women squirt from their vaginas, but lashings of milky vaginal fluid.

In fact, it is also known simply as ‘wet sex’. And much as they love it,

Rwandan men apparently have a none-too-flattering nickname for women who are prone to lavish squirting: shami ryıikivu, meaning ‘put a bucket under her’.

Rivers

If you’re wondering whether it’s worth a try, sex researcher Sylvia Tamale says one Ugandan sexuality teacher gave it the following glowing review:

‘I myself was truly ignorant about female ejaculation until I met my current lover. If your lover knows what he is doing, you’ll pour rivers and experience multiple orgasms at the same time.’


If you’ve tried it, let us know your experiences! Leave a comment or join the discussion on our Facebook pages for Love Matters Naija and Love Matters Kenya.

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  1. Kunyaza it’s very common even
    Kunyaza it’s very common even in Kagera region in Tanzania by the name of KATERERO. For the haya people if you make love or if you are found to be iunfamiliar to katerero a woman will not agree ta sex with you again.It has nowadays spread to many tribes because men from that tribe have used to make it known to other weman of other ethnic origin, and so naming men fro KAGERA REGION masters of lmaking love

  2. i tried to have sex with a
    i tried to have sex with a virgin but i could not penetrate her i nown apply kunyata and she has a sguirting organs

    1. Hi Danladi,

      Hi Danladi,
      great!
      A general tips when it comes to first time sex: make sure that the woman is relaxed and sufficiently aroused and wet before you, very gently, try to penetrate her.

  3. I don’t know if it’s kunyaza,
    I don’t know if it’s kunyaza, but the man (burundi) I’ve been dating for the past year, makes me experience the multiple orgasms over and over again. The sheets are dripping wet! The term river is correct…I always wondered what the secret is, this is it!!!!

    1. Hi Indiogirl,

      Hi Indiogirl,
      enjoy :-)! You are very lucky!

    2. I would like to also give you
      I would like to also give you multiple orgasms!

  4. In Uganda it is called
    In Uganda it is called akacabari or western jazz because it is done by men from western uganda

    1. Hi Encugi, this is
      Hi Encugi, this is interesting, thank you!

    2. Hi ugandans this technique…
      Hi ugandans this technique works so join and enjoy swt sex

      1. Thank you for sharing JB! We…

        Thank you for sharing JB! We appreciate the positive response! Share it with the rest of the world! 🙂 Have a wonderful week and stay safe!

  5. It can be intense and
    It can be intense and ecstatic especially if done with chikipadi(elongation of the labia).

    1. Hi Mola, that sounds painful-
      Hi Mola, that sounds painful- tell us more!

  6. i did kunyaza on my lady and
    i did kunyaza on my lady and up to now she cant stop talking about it. the sheets were soaked and she says its the loveliest love making she has ever experienced in her life.

    1. Congratulations, Oliver!
      Congratulations, Oliver!

  7. i have never experienced
    i have never experienced kunyaza. i wish to one day.

    1. Hi Chebel, you really should!
      Hi Chebel, you really should!

    2. came across ths old post n
      came across ths old post n think we shld

      1. Hi Simon,

        Hi Simon,
        Go for it! Try it out and enjoy!

  8. it’s a wonderful fuck
    it’s a wonderful fuck technique that leaves behind histories to tell.I did kunyeza to one of my friends lover which made her to forget that it was not me and told my wife how wonderful am in bed.This made us to break our relationship.

    1. Hi Onbaso, and, are you going
      Hi Onbaso, and, are you going to cheat on a woman again after this?

    1. Hi Nesh, let us know how it
      Hi Nesh, let us know how it goes!

  9. Feel like im missing out on
    Feel like im missing out on something so great! Could any lady with experience on this offer me some private lessons?

    1. Haha, Demateo, this is the
      Haha, Demateo, this is the most creative request for a ‘ lesson ‘ we have seen here so far 🙂

  10. anyone in Kenyan coast who
    anyone in Kenyan coast who needs kunyaza? am liking this n its a must try….

    1. Hi Chirchir, will you give it
      Hi Chirchir, will you give it a try?

  11. I need 2 knw more abt kunyaza
    I need 2 knw more abt kunyaza plz

    1. Hi Anto, just give it a try!
      Hi Anto, just give it a try!

  12. i think i need more practical
    i think i need more practical on that.

    1. Hi Kevin, practice makes
      Hi Kevin, practice makes perfect! Keep trying!

  13. i think i need more practical
    i think i need more practical on that.

  14. For those who are affected
    For those who are affected with masterbating, and now wants to try it out with their wife, is it going to work out?

    1. Hi Badul, masturbating is a
      Hi Badul, masturbating is a very natural thing, and it doesn’t affect your sex drive or sexual abilities, so it won’t change anything about giving Kunyaza a try, enjoy!

        1. Oops… Spell check wasn’t
          Oops… Spell check wasn’t kind to us! Thanks for pointing out our mistake, we fixed it!

  15. Will try this “kunyaza” with
    Will try this “kunyaza” with my lady…

  16. i am waiting to try it if i
    i am waiting to try it if i get a chance

    1. Hi there, why not give it a
      Hi there, why not give it a try? Enjoy!

  17. Never tried..maybe i need
    Never tried..maybe i need more info to be perfect.

    1. Hi George! nobody is perfect,
      Hi George! nobody is perfect, but practice makes perfect, so keep working on your skills!

  18. Am a virgin guy 20yrs n i
    Am a virgin guy 20yrs n i want to start havin sex plz do i just deep my dick in a girl’s vagina after it erects.

    1. Hi there, Henry, why don’t
      Hi there, Henry, why don’t you check out our Making Love section, there is lots of information on first time sex. Let us know if you have any more questions!

  19. Am a virgin guy 20yrs n i
    Am a virgin guy 20yrs n i want to start havin sex plz do i just deep my dick in a girl’s vagina after it erects.

  20. I hav bn missing alot, am now
    I hav bn missing alot, am now sure no gal wil ever boot mi!

    1. Hi Chris, haha! Just keep in
      Hi Chris, haha! Just keep in mind that there is more to relationships than good sex :)!

    2. Hi Chris,

      Hi Chris,
      we are so happy to hear this!

  21. must try it some minutes
    must try it some minutes later…

    1. Hi Suares, and, have you
      Hi Suares, and, have you tried yet?

  22. hehehe i’l try kunyanza a.k.a
    hehehe i’l try kunyanza a.k.a katerero a.k.a Akacabari with a magical tourch of “chikipadi”…..lets do thz yow../lol

    1. Hi Papa Shark,

      Hi Papa Shark,
      And, have you given it a try yet? Any feedback?

  23. it sounds more satisfyng
    it sounds more satisfyng style …needs experts

    1. Hi Ali, nobody is an expert
      Hi Ali, nobody is an expert at the beginning, practice is what counts!

    2. Hi Ali, nobody starts as an
      Hi Ali, nobody starts as an expert- practice makes perfect!

  24. Wish to try this with love of
    Wish to try this with love of my life…kunyaza,sounds great!!

    1. Hi Roy, do you have a lover
      Hi Roy, do you have a lover yet? Make sure you keep it in mind!

  25. i really lyk Kunyaza,it works
    i really lyk Kunyaza,it works well,it meks a woman never 2 4gt u,coz its grt,here in Zimbabwe we call it Kutunda,

    1. Hi Nezzy, and, have you tried
      Hi Nezzy, and, have you tried kutunda?

  26. i too hope to employ this
    i too hope to employ this technique

    1. Hi Kiprono, what keeps you
      Hi Kiprono, what keeps you from trying? No partner at the moment?

  27. can’t wait to try.
    can’t wait to try.

    1. Hi Asha, let us know how
      Hi Asha, let us know how things go!

  28. I’ve tried it ma self it
    I’ve tried it ma self it makes girls go wild

    1. Hi Teddy, great to hear that
      Hi Teddy, great to hear that it works!

  29. Cant wait 2 mit ma 2nd wife 2
    Cant wait 2 mit ma 2nd wife 2 give a trail,,,

  30. Ghai am so wet cnt wait to
    Ghai am so wet cnt wait to have one..!

    1. Hi Mendos, haha! let us know
      Hi Mendos, haha! let us know if it goes well!

  31. This makes my wife go wild.
    This makes my wife go wild. It s true. It works!

    1. Hi Opiyo, good to hear that
      Hi Opiyo, good to hear that it works!

  32. this is intresting bana! any
    this is intresting bana! any body out there wilin 2teach me..??b4 i try it on her

    1. Hi Sam, why not try it with
      Hi Sam, why not try it with her? practice makes perfect!

  33. I hv tried it several times
    I hv tried it several times by holding my guys p and rubbing it on my clit and its so satisfying its heavenly…

  34. Look, some people don’t know
    Look, some people don’t know what they talk about, kunyaza is the best sexual performance and practice I have ever, ever experienced in my life. The best of it is just you both man and woman enjoy it. Even in Africa where women are shy in term of sexuality, but they ask for it. I love it and am pretty sure you love if you haven’t already

    1. Hi Loi, thanks for your
      Hi Loi, thanks for your comment. It’s good to hear opinions like yours!

  35. I really want to experience
    I really want to experience this.I think it would it awesome..Can all females ejaculate or its limited to only afew?

    1. Hi Jedra, there are different
      Hi Jedra, there are different scientific studies done on this, with varying results, but most think that at least 50% of women can ejaculate. Other studies say 70%. Why don’t you try it with your partner and see what happens?

  36. Jedra, it can be achieved by
    Jedra, it can be achieved by most of female it is a matter of who does it for you and how he does it. But also first female have to be confident that it is not urinating and let it came out

    1. Hi Loi, that’s a really good
      Hi Loi, that’s a really good point Some women will be too tense to let go or be embarrassed by it.

  37. My first advice for first
    My first advice for first time female is to go to the loo and empty yourself before sex so you know that nothing else will come out in both end. Then have sex as usual for a few minutes in your preferred position, then when you feel you you are going to ejaculate, then your male partner will start to rub his penis on your vagina up and down in a slow movement gradually going fast. Again you need to be prepared to wet your bed, so towels are needed, or move to an area like bathroom, but this require different positions

    1. Thanks for the tips, Loi.
      Thanks for the tips, Loi.

  38. I was introduced to it by a
    I was introduced to it by a ugandan lady from that time i hv done it to several ladies.they always fight for a replay

    1. Hi Big B, congratulations!
      Hi Big B, congratulations! Keep making the ladies happy!

  39. You may consult the research
    You may consult the research and publications of Dr Nsekuye Bizimana

  40. You may like where kunyaza
    You may like where kunyaza come from. Once upon a time, Rwanda was ruled by a King and a Queen.They use to have severe punishment to their subject to deter any wrong doing, to the point that they own life of their citizen and could kill anyone who they see fit. One day, the King was away on battlefield and the Queen was bored at the palace. She got horny one day and she called upon one of her servant to come to the palace. As the servant rushed to the palace, he feared that he may face a death penalty as he did not know why he was being summoned . Once he arrived, the Queen asked him to come inside, then to the bedroom, where he has never set foot before. Fear and fright was getting him at the point all his body was shaking. The Queen ask him to remove his clothes, and she remove hers and ask him to have a sex with her. As he was shaking and don’t know what will happened next, he had to obey, as disobedience could get him in more trouble, even a death punishment. So when he tries to penetrate the Queen, of course his penis was not erect, he failed, and the Queen keep asking him to fuck her. He tries to hold he penis so he penetrate her, but because of shaking he was rubbing his penis on Queens,s vagina. It turn out to be the best fuck the Queen have had so far, as she splash out the liquid of ejaculation. First she thought it was urine, but didn’t smell. But she felt so relieved and happy and she rewarded him with 20 cows(a cow was a measure of wealth and strong friendship in Rwandan culture) So the news spread all over the country that everyman started to rub his penis on women’s labia, thus kunyaza become official culture in Rwanda

    1. Ha, thank you Loi, for
      Ha, thank you Loi, for enlightening us even further!

  41. We cant talk about kunyaza
    We cant talk about kunyaza without talking about “gukuna” that is a preliminary practice of kunyaza. Gukuna is a sexual practice in the region of Great Lake Region f Africa and consist of pulling or elongating the labia minora. Whilst I haven’t een any scientific research, the more a woman has practiced gukuna the more she is likely kunyara. Girls start gukuna at young age, 14,15,16 and some can get 5 to 10cm of labia called imishino. It has a primary reason for enjoying much sex, and also female think it is a way of like putting a lid to their vagina. Female are very proud of their elongated labia minora, but also is a powerful turn on for men. When a woman lets a man touch the long labia before sex he get so excited and hornier thus making sex very enjoyable for both

    1. Thanks Loi, for another
      Thanks Loi, for another enlightening and interesting post.

  42. Hi m in south africa where
    Hi m in south africa where can i get unyanza

    1. Hi Rey, you just need to find
      Hi Rey, you just need to find a sex partner who is willing to give it a try. And seeing that kunyaza is very satisfying for the ladies, that shouldn’t be much of a problem. Good luck and let us know how it goes!

  43. Hi Rey, while I am not
    Hi Rey, while I am not advocating any culture, but in SA there is a number of foreigners from the Great Lake Region of Africa, where kunyara is very predominant that is Rwanda, southern part of Uganda, Eastern part of DRC that is Kivu, western part of Tanzania(possibly few people) that is Karagwe and northern Burundi. Please try these women first but you may find as well some south African able to do it,but don’t rush please

  44. From Zim, Im tryin it ryt now
    From Zim, Im tryin it ryt now…Hey babes wake up…sorry wasnt for u

    1. Haha, Niz, good luck and
      Haha, Niz, good luck and greetings to Zim!

  45. Let’s have a laugh. In Rwanda
    Let’s have a laugh. In Rwanda, there is a story that everyone has heard so many time. The story of dog drinking water. So, what is it? Because of in the rural area of Rwanda, housing is one big bedroom made of clay and grass on roof. So when parent want to have sex, they usually had it early in the morning after waking up older children and sending them to get water from the river(no running water inside house) leaving the little one asleep. However, sometimes the little one (3yo)
    may be awake when parent start to have sex, and kunyara too. So the little kid call her Dad and say “Daddy ,daddy there is a dog drinking water inside the house” Dad reply, it is ok go back to sleep. Guess what? When you practice kunyara the sound of the penis rubbing the opening of the vagina and the liquid splashing out , it sound exactly like a dog drinking water. So today when Rwandan hear a dog drinking water they all laugh and foreigners will never know why they laugh. So if you are doing kunyara and the sound is like a dog drinking water, you know that you have mastered the kunyara technic.

    1. Hi Loi, you are just a
      Hi Loi, you are just a walking encyclopedia on kunyaza!

  46. cant wait to give it a try…
    cant wait to give it a try….

    1. Hi Joan,

      Hi Joan,
      let us know how it goes 🙂

    1. Hi Wai,

      Hi Wai,
      I’m sure your partner wouldn’t mind!

  47. i had never heard its name
    i had never heard its name before.wat do we call in kenya?

    1. We call it kunyaza 🙂
      We call it kunyaza 🙂

  48. i had never heard its name
    i had never heard its name before.wat do we call in kenya?

  49. Very interesting would love
    Very interesting would love to learn more.

    1. Hi Roland,

      Hi Roland,
      why not give it a try?

  50. Ive done kunyaza and my woman
    Ive done kunyaza and my woman gets really wet but she has neva squirt and i want her to

    1. Hi Tush,

      Hi Tush,
      keep trying and see what happens. Some women need time, and others will never squirt. That doesn’t mean you should stop though, if she enjoys it.

  51. danks alot guys 4 dat xecret
    danks alot guys 4 dat xecret a must try

    1. Hi Francine,

      Hi Francine,
      enjoy, and let us know how it goes!

  52. tried it with this gal i had
    tried it with this gal i had admired for ages and since then i have never lost her,we usually have lotsa fun together
    thanks

    1. Hi Hilla,

      Hi Hilla,
      that’s so great to hear! Glad it has worked out for you so well!

  53. I have to try this tonight
    I have to try this tonight

    1. Enjoy and let us know if you
      Enjoy and let us know if you liked it!

  54. i need to experience this!
    i need to experience this!

    1. Hi Che,

      Hi Che,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  55. Waw! It seems so nyc… Wil
    Waw! It seems so nyc… Wil try soon… Need som1 2 try with

    1. Haha Kemei,

      Haha Kemei,
      with such skills, you shouldn’t have an issue finding someone!

  56. wow additional experience
    wow additional experience

    1. Hi Bennie,

      Hi Bennie,
      you can never have too much experience!

    1. Hi O’Jay,

      Hi O’Jay,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  57. Would to experience this
    Would to experience this feeling

  58. that is great i will try
    that is great i will try tonight.

    1. Hi Bonny,

      Hi Bonny,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  59. ths sounds great…i must try
    ths sounds great…i must try it…kunyaza

    1. Hi d one,

      Hi d one,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  60. If my man doesn’t jazz me, i
    If my man doesn’t jazz me, i tell u i can’t reach orgasm. You people try it and you won’t regret.

    1. Hi Joan,
      have you tried it?

      Hi Joan,
      have you tried it?

  61. Love it, enjoyed, and have
    Love it, enjoyed, and have really practiced, it is really wonderful.

    1. Hi Geoffrey,

      Hi Geoffrey,
      that’s so great to hear!

  62. i need to take loi’s number
    i need to take loi’s number Loi pliz help inbox me your number

    1. Hi Vinrossy,

      Hi Vinrossy,
      you do realize people can’t inbox you on a website?

    1. Hi Jagia,

      Hi Jagia,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

    1. Hi Nanis,

      Hi Nanis,
      thanks for your comment!

  63. I am a kenyan when it first
    I am a kenyan when it first happend to me i felt lyk i was in heaven bt the shocking thing is that the guy said i was Too “majimaji”so nawadays am even afraid of tryng again

    1. Hi Caro,

      Hi Caro,
      are you still with the guy? Being majimaji is great, and you should definitely go for it, if you enjoy it!

  64. 4 the period of time i’ve bn
    4 the period of time i’ve bn doing that 4 several ladies even they real appreciate.

    1. Hi Luchimba,

      Hi Luchimba,
      it’s great to hear it works!

  65. This should be a lesson to
    This should be a lesson to central kenyan men who barely satisfy their women. Think i should start a “kunyaza” campaign since am a central kenyan young man

    1. Hi Kenny,

      Hi Kenny,
      the ladies of Central Kenya would be very pleased, no doubt!

  66. Have done it and true sex is
    Have done it and true sex is fun.

    1. Hi IZO,

      Hi IZO,
      it’s great to hear that it works!

  67. Hv hv done it n ma lady cant
    Hv hv done it n ma lady cant stop askg for more. wonderful experience. Chebet, u can try mi….

    1. Hi Derick,

      Hi Derick,
      that’s so great to hear, keep it up!

  68. kunyaza,katerero,kachabari
    kunyaza,katerero,kachabari all means the same. was married to a man from kagera but. thats wat i enjoyed mooost.not rivers alone but ocean .hahahaha.sweet
    .

    1. Hi Shiruu,

      Hi Shiruu,
      that’s great, lucky you!

  69. kunyaza,katerero,kachabari
    kunyaza,katerero,kachabari all means the same. was married to a man from kagera but. thats wat i enjoyed mooost.not rivers alone but ocean .hahahaha.sweet

  70. Actually tried it and it’s
    Actually tried it and it’s breathtaking! Rivers of joy!

    1. Alfy, wow, that sounds
      Alfy, wow, that sounds fantastic!

    1. Hi Leonard, have you tried?
      Hi Leonard, have you tried?

  71. Wouldn’t it lead to premature
    Wouldn’t it lead to premature ejaculation?or its not necessary to insert the penis into the vagina?

    1. Hi Jeffa,

      Hi Jeffa,
      no, it’s not necessary to insert.

  72. Thnks a lot!!!. Am nw
    Thnks a lot!!!. Am nw indepndnt about sex affairs. I wsh U more succss, progrss& constnt cmmttments ahead!. D strong kunyaza!!!

    1. Haha, thanks for your comment
      Haha, thanks for your comment!

  73. Can somebody tel me how to do
    Can somebody tel me how to do it plz?

    1. Hi Fred,

      Hi Fred,
      there are instructions in the article!

  74. oh have never experienced
    oh have never experienced such

    1. Hi Janet,

      Hi Janet,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  75. Ihv not heard it in Kenya and
    Ihv not heard it in Kenya and ihave wondered why congolese ladies dont like kenyan men

    1. Maybe Kenyan men need to get
      Maybe Kenyan men need to get up to speed!

    1. Hi Marcus,

      Hi Marcus,
      have you given it a try?

  76. it seems to be great, i will
    it seems to be great, i will try.

    1. Hi Tobias,

      Hi Tobias,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  77. is the saliva a must add#
    is the saliva a must add#

    1. Hi there,

      Hi there,
      try it with and without and see what works better!

    1. Hi Slim,

      Hi Slim,
      have you tried it yet? Give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  78. call me mshamba wa mapenzi.am
    call me mshamba wa mapenzi.am a kenyan in Namibia and met this Ugandan guy a few weeks ago and we got alittle intimate on saturday n he was doing the kuyanza( i did not know the name till today) so it reached a point i really felt an urge like i want to pee and hey he told me thats good but i did not hear him cz i did not want to mess his sheets so i ran to the bathroom…..so sad i did not know but thanx to u guys. but bfor n after the ‘peeing’ i had multiple orgasms like crazy. my legs n lower body were really shaking like a vibrator and he was so excited and all he could say was wow!…… maybe this weeknd i will be so ready for the kuyanza.
    thank you love matters for educating some of us…….

    1. Wow, Lorato, that’s amazing!
      Wow, Lorato, that’s amazing! Great to hear!

  79. i must try it with my lady cz
    i must try it with my lady cz i want both of us to enjoy th experience tht seems to b xo sweet…i avent heard of it here in kenya

    1. Hi ken,

      Hi ken,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  80. I don’t know if I can bt I
    I don’t know if I can bt I will try it with my lady according to the comments it’s sounds good I will try it one day

    1. Hi David,

      Hi David,
      give it a try soon! Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  81. Can i try kunyaza with my
    Can i try kunyaza with my babie?

  82. In rural areas they wouln’t
    In rural areas they wouln’t either bcoz of their shae.
    how can i do then.

    1. Hi Mugambo,

      Hi Mugambo,
      sorry, what’s a shae?

  83. Hav not understand u deeply
    Hav not understand u deeply and i need to know more & enjoy this style called,kunyaza.

    1. Hi Benasu,

      Hi Benasu,
      the instructions are in the article, have another look.

  84. I need more information so
    I need more information so that am well vast so as 2 hv really practical

    1. Hi Badman,

      Hi Badman,
      there are instructions in the article, have a look there.

  85. I must try out kunyanza n av
    I must try out kunyanza n av the experience,it sounds to be a sweet experience

    1. Hi Francis,

      Hi Francis,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  86. me wana try ths wt my man..
    me wana try ths wt my man…seems interesting

    1. Hi Faridah,

      Hi Faridah,
      give it a try. Enjoy and let us know how if it works for you!

  87. Am at mombaxa ad am 21 yrs
    Am at mombaxa ad am 21 yrs nilifanya sex twice ad since then nko na almost 4yrs kama cjafanya.naogopa kufeel pain coz nimekaa xana.nifanye aje

    1. I am sorry to hear that you
      I am sorry to hear that you experiencing pain during sex. Sex is supposed to be a wonderful fun experience and be pleasing, not hurt. For women the pain can come down to two things, being relaxed and lubrication.

      Your body needs to receive someone else and stretch to fit them. You need to be in the mood, turned on and relaxed. Sometimes just taking more time kissing and foreplay will do a lot for your body. You need to be excited. Take time caressing each other, touching each other bodies and genitals, maybe even do oral sex on each other. Then you will be more likely to have pain free sex!

      We do not always have the time for to work ourselves up and have not self lubricated enough and then using lubrication can help a lot for sex. 

      Check out:
      https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/wetter-better

  88. I have tried it several times
    I have tried it several times and am very sure it’s perfect.To me i much like it.But advice me about a woman sucking a man’s penis until ejaculation.What can it help or is it good?

    1. Hi Bingwamsafiri,

      Hi Bingwamsafiri,
      it doesn’t have to be until ejaculation. It can be, but also just some oral sex feels great. Search for oral sex here on our website, and you will find lots of information.

    1. Hi irene,

      Hi irene,
      have you tried it yet?

    1. Hi Reeves,

      Hi Reeves,
      that’s so great to hear, keep it up!

  89. very good in kunyaza,

    very good in kunyaza,
    Ladies contact me

    1. Hi Bizimana,

      Hi Bizimana,
      it’s great to hear that you enjoy providing the service 🙂

  90. For me it is something very
    For me it is something very common and the most joyful.

    1. Hi Bahati,

      Hi Bahati,
      it’s great to hear you enjoy it!

  91. it’s now high time that i
    it’s now high time that i have to try kunyaza

    1. Hi Samson,

      Hi Samson,
      give it a try! We are looking forward to hear how it goes.

  92. This wat I have been doing
    This wat I have been doing since I experience in ma life, I do stay with her for 30minutes then I ejaculate side by side n tip on G-post. Any more advice for me please?

    1. Hi Daniel,

      Hi Daniel,
      that sounds great- but if you want advice, talk to her and see if anything is missing or could be improved!

  93. I thought I know nothing
    I thought I know nothing about Kunyaza now I understand,it is awesome it got me thinking 🙂 but in SA we call it ukuchamisa 😉

  94. which planet hav i been
    which planet hav i been living in? Now i knw iv been doing it all wrong despite my ladies coming back for more.with kunyaza being the standard n dick size being an added advantage i nw knw my lady will make her river flow.anyone willing to help out a brother reach me on [email protected]

    1. Hi Walter,

      Hi Walter,
      give it a try! Good luck!

  95. my girlfriend has gone
    my girlfriend has gone through FGM..can this work on her??

    1. Hi Isaac,

      Hi Isaac,
      give it a try, but pay close attention to her reactions- you will see if she likes it or not. And be gentle an tell her to let you know if there is any pain!

  96. i tried it to my lady up to
    i tried it to my lady up to now he is always demanding

    1. Hi MArtin,

      Hi MArtin,
      well done, great job!

  97. it’s getting hard for my wife
    it’s getting hard for my wife to lubricate during sex It takes me almost 30 mnts to make her ready

    1. Hi Putin,

      Hi Putin,
      that’s quite normal. And why don’t you ask her if there is anything you can do to get her excited faster- like use your mouth and tongue!

  98. I haven’t tried it before but
    I haven’t tried it before but only romanced her and she flooded (went wet)

    1. Hi Alex,

      Hi Alex,
      give it a try when you have sex. And let us know how it goes!

  99. tell chebet tu luk for me I
    tell chebet tu luk for me I will show her

    1. And yet you are not even
      And yet you are not even telling us your name…

    1. Hi Jose,

      Hi Jose,
      the instructions are in the article, have another look.

  100. never experienced that, wish
    never experienced that, wish one day my ‘kunyanza dream will come true ‘

    1. Hi Phen,

      Hi Phen,
      keep dreaming and make sure your dream will become true one day!

  101. i easily come what can i do
    i easily come what can i do to stay long when making love with my lady

    1. Hi Stan,

      Hi Stan,
      It sounds like you are coming earlier than you would like, this often happens to young men who don’t have a lot of sexual experience because they get very aroused very easily. With more sexually experienced men, it might be due to psychological problems, like fear, stress or depression.
      Generally though go slow, enjoy the buildup of touching and caressing each other. Make time for oral sex during your physical interactions. Take time focusing on your partner as well as yourself. Communicate together about what feels nice, what doesn’t and what you would like to try together. Experiment, explore and try new things!
      Make sure to use lots of lube and switch up the fun. Even if you do orgasm you can take some time to have oral sex with your partner until your body is ready to go again. Change positions and mix it up.
      Some people say condoms help them last longer, while others may use cock rings (just make sure it is the right size and not too tight!).
      Generally just remember that sex is more than just penetration and there are lots of ways to enjoy each other.
      If you are finding that you really cannot maintain an erection then it might be time to see a doctor. There are some medical conditions that can affect your performance but would need to be looked by a professional.
      You can also keep masturbating, however challenge yourself to last longer. Go slow, feel the way your body changes when you are getting closer to climax. Tease yourself, find tricks that help you delay the finish.

  102. I av neva tryed it.Bt i would
    I av neva tryed it.Bt i would like, bt sina man

    1. Hi Flosh,

      Hi Flosh,
      next time you have a man, make sure you give it a try!

  103. hahaha learning neva seez lyk
    hahaha learning neva seez lyk it.

    1. Hi Illy,

      Hi Illy,
      you never should stop learning.

  104. first i had this luhya man
    first i had this luhya man who used to make me squirt but by then i did not know what was happening but him he was so exicted about it, anytime we had sex i could wet the bed and get embarrassed till i decided to break up with him, then for the next 10 yrs have not gotten any man who has made me wet the bed again until recently i got a Congolese man who makes me wet the bed and now am more comfortable and enjoying sex life again

    1. Hi Mama Africa,

      Hi Mama Africa,
      that’s so great to hear, congratulations!

  105. Been doing this bt didn’t knw
    Been doing this bt didn’t knw how it worked.or what it was!
    thanks for clearity!

    1. You are most welcome!
      You are most welcome!

    1. Hi Young,
      good luck!!!

      Hi Young,
      good luck!!!

  106. Whr are u lady if u nt get
    Whr are u lady if u nt get enough try m

    1. Hi there,

      Hi there,
      you might want to tell the ladies your name for it 🙂

    1. Hi Jenala,

      Hi Jenala,
      with those skills, you shouldn’t have trouble finding a partner 🙂

  107. Theory we have it practical
    Theory we have it practical is what i want and i will be the specimen

    1. Hi Osome,

      Hi Osome,
      good luck with finding partners to try it on!

  108. Kunyaza takes how long 4 a
    Kunyaza takes how long 4 a woman to squirt? How do u call that fluid? I swear i wil 1 day try it.

    1. Hi Mark,

      Hi Mark,
      you can call is vaginal fluid. As for how long it takes- it will differ from woman to woman and time to time. So give it a try.

  109. Exactly why I don’t date
    Exactly why I don’t date Kenyan men. Ever since akachabali/kunyanza

    1. Hi green,

      Hi green,
      maybe you can start dating them and teach them?

  110. it makes women shake as if
    it makes women shake as if they were hit by thunderbolt

    1. That sounds very exciting!
      That sounds very exciting!

  111. Hehee pple shuld try thz,i
    Hehee pple shuld try thz,i alwayz do it with my guy n trust me its the sweetest feelin ever,am even gona do it more n more today! ,aww finally found the name,kunyaza,me love it!!

    1. Hi Valentina,

      Hi Valentina,
      that’s great to hear, enjoy!

  112. how can u increase your penis
    how can u increase your penis size….pliiz

    1. Hi Ramon,

      Hi Ramon,
      why do you think you need to increase your penis size? It is a huge myth that size matters. First of all good sex is a mixture of chemistry, movement and bodies you cannot just be great at sex because one of these things is there- you really need to meet the other person on multiple levels. Also everyone’s bodies are different. Penises vary in size as do vagina. What might be small for one person is large for another- its all relative. So there is no one magical shaped or sized penis for every person out there.

      Check out some of these articles to to learn more about penis size:

      http://lovematters.co.ke/news/small-penis-its-all-mind

      https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes#section-1

  113. my girl is a vigin she want
    my girl is a vigin she want to live me because of not being able to disvigin her. what should I do?

    1. Hi Ibellary,

      Hi Ibellary,
      why are you not able to do so? Do you not want to have sex yet?

  114. Will u b able to make it uf
    Will u b able to make it uf ur lover is vagin.

    1. Hi Masta,

      Hi Masta,
      why wouldn’t you be able to do so?

    1. Hi Princess,

      Hi Princess,
      we are so glad to hear you are enjoying it!

  115. my chic is very shy wen it is
    my chic is very shy wen it is bed time. What shld i do to apply this method best on her?

    1. Hi Andrew,

      Hi Andrew,
      we suggest first talking to her. Why is she shy? Is she not comfortable with something?
      Talking is important, because chances are she won’t enjoy it if she doesn’t feel comfortable. Good luck!

  116. yeah, i’ve tried it and tiz
    yeah, i’ve tried it and tiz so sweet and comortable to the girl while doing it!

    1. we are so happy to hear that,
      we are so happy to hear that, Godfrey!

  117. Mine fears bt i want 2
    Mine fears bt i want 2 practise

    1. Hi Wilfred,

      Hi Wilfred,
      nobody is perfect- chances are it might not work out the way you imagined it the first time. But then you do it again. And again, until you get it right! That’s the way sex works 🙂

  118. Av bin duin this to my chiq
    Av bin duin this to my chiq en on day she splashed on me 3times..en she was in full screams..waaah we endup changing bedings!ilove duin t…xo its meaningful hivi!!!guyz giv t atry en u wl fel swtest thng ever!!!

    1. Hi Kelvoh,

      Hi Kelvoh,
      it’s so great to hear that your partners pleasure is important to you! Keep it up?

  119. would luv this but will na
    would luv this but will na gal allow me????

    1. Hi Kevin,

      Hi Kevin,
      why wouldn’t she? Why wouldn’t she want all that pleasure?

  120. Have never experienced the
    Have never experienced the squirting thing though my sex life with my partner is okay and very satisfying… Can this be a problem for me??cause I wish to experience that

    1. Hi Aliyaa,

      Hi Aliyaa,
      no, please don’t worry. Try to technique described above and see if you can squirt. But even if it doesn’t work- as long as you are satisfied with your sex life, all is good!

  121. Some women dry up with
    Some women dry up with kunyaza y?

    1. Hi Kay,

      Hi Kay,
      if things take too long, women can lose their wetness. Use some extra lubricant, if she is still up for continuing.

  122. am a versity student aged 25
    am a versity student aged 25 n i have never let any day go wihout maturbating since the age ov 15 n its now a habbit. Wont it affect my future marriage in any way?

  123. am a versity student aged 25
    am a versity student aged 25 n i have never let any day go wihout maturbating since the age ov 15 n its now a habbit. Wont it affect my future marriage in any way?

  124. I tried it & my wife keeps
    I tried it & my wife keeps singing about it…..

  125. Its great, I once had a girl
    Its great, I once had a girl who responded very well to Kunyaza. That’s when I learnt it and since, I lay a girl once and subsequent games are guaranteed. It’s a spoiler coz girls won’t enjoy anything less later.

    1. Haha, Kibe, oh what a tough
      Haha, Kibe, oh what a tough life you have :-)! Your ladies are very lucky to have you!

  126. nice one with a rwandan.
    nice one with a rwandan. squirted and river kivu is an understatement!

    1. Haha! Well done, Naomi!
      Haha! Well done, Naomi!

  127. i date a ugandan…wow..river
    i date a ugandan…wow..river flow on our bed kachabali is the best xpirience

  128. Mhh! Bed wonders indeed.
    Mhh! Bed wonders indeed.

  129. Mhh! Bed wonders indeed.
    Mhh! Bed wonders indeed.

  130. kunyaza is the best technic
    kunyaza is the best technic used here in Rwanda, i ‘ m telling the truth, if u make it to a lady she runs after u.

    1. Keep it up then, the ladies
      Keep it up then, the ladies will be happy!

  131. Gotta try this with ma girls.
    Gotta try this with ma girls…

    1. Girls? We hope they are aware
      Girls? We hope they are aware you have more than one.

  132. wow!!!it called “layo” in luo
    wow!!!it called “layo” in luo dat iz kenya,,,kunyaza is de symplst ting ever it mekx a woman to begg 4r de action (sex)

  133. how can you help a guy whu
    how can you help a guy whu coms fast

    1. Hi John,

      Hi John,
      It sounds like you are coming earlier than you would like, this often happens to young men who don’t have a lot of sexual experience because they get very aroused very easily. With more sexually experienced men, it might be due to psychological problems, like fear, stress or depression.
      Generally though go slow, enjoy the buildup of touching and caressing each other. Make time for oral sex during your physical interactions. Take time focusing on your partner as well as yourself. Communicate together about what feels nice, what doesn’t and what you would like to try together. Experiment, explore and try new things!
      Make sure to use lots of lube and switch up the fun. Even if you do orgasm you can take some time to have oral sex with your partner until your body is ready to go again. Change positions and mix it up.
      Some people say condoms help them last longer, while others may use cock rings (just make sure it is the right size and not too tight!).
      Generally just remember that sex is more than just penetration and there are lots of ways to enjoy each other.
      If you are finding that you really cannot maintain an erection then it might be time to see a doctor. There are some medical conditions that can affect your performance but would need to be looked by a professional.
      You can also keep masturbating, however challenge yourself to last longer. Go slow, feel the way your body changes when you are getting closer to climax. Tease yourself, find tricks that help you delay the finish.

  134. sounds agood way of making
    sounds agood way of making awoman happy in bed

  135. Anybody in Zimbabwe to teach
    Anybody in Zimbabwe to teach me kunyaza pliz contact me on 0772917401

    1. Hi Joe,

      Hi Joe,
      why don’t you just give it a try with someone you like?

  136. Can one do it with o condom
    Can one do it with o condom on?

    1. Shouldn’t be an issue at all,
      Shouldn’t be an issue at all, Alex!

  137. I hav tried it severaly..it
    I hav tried it severaly..it sure works bt i thought ma gal was pouring more.i thought she had abnomality

  138. I think have tried this
    I think have tried this technique without knowing ..but a gal squirts after how long?

    1. It really depends on the
      It really depends on the woman, it will be different for everyone.

  139. Have bn doin it to my lady by
    Have bn doin it to my lady by my own explorations in bed n the feeling is very great from her reactions. She asks for a towel b put under her when its abt to flow n riggles in pleasure. Its great n she’s jelous of me doing it to another lady as she keeps on montoring me. Didnt knw its called ‘kunyaza’tho. Now i know.

  140. Wow Kunyaza thats a new term
    Wow Kunyaza thats a new term to me, and am gratefuk for that sweet sexy lesson

  141. hav experienced with my
    hav experienced with my husband en i luv him

  142. Oh yeah des kunyaza thng
    Oh yeah des kunyaza thng sound rlly intrstng.1st tym hearing abt it…..I’ll defenatetely try it ones I grab my self a chance.its a must try

    1. Let us know how it goes!
      Let us know how it goes!

  143. I just wsh that could happen
    I just wsh that could happen 2 me, or find someone to explain 2 much better.

    1. It’s all about trying and
      It’s all about trying and finding out what works for you and your partner.

  144. I wonder how it could be if i
    I wonder how it could be if i try it with ma lady…but it sounds great.

    1. Why don’t you suggest trying
      Why don’t you suggest trying it to her? After all, it’s for her pleasure.

  145. Isn’t there a way to do it
    Isn’t there a way to do it without having to hold your penis?(I mean stroking her clitoris) so that you can simultaneously do other things like kissing her neck or sucking her nipples?

    1. Why don’t you give it try,
      Why don’t you give it try, Wicky?

  146. Gosh this is too wonderful.
    Gosh this is too wonderful. Have never experienced it. Wake up to the game kenyan men!

  147. to m it was the opposit,
    to m it was the opposit, after weting the bedings my man sent m to hell and termed m as dirty…
    ,he went back to his xgirl…i wad vry much ashamed and even afraid to get next lover

    1. Ruth,

      Ruth,
      no offense to your ex, but he didn’t understand anything about women.
      Being very wet is a compliment! It means that a woman is aroused, so the man did something very right.

  148. Kunyaza is very sweet for
    Kunyaza is very sweet for ladies I simply penetrate her like 5times then hold the head of my dick And rub it on the clitoris ,liabia and intrance of it (up/down…circular/zigzag ) first. slowly then faster and faster as they wanna swallow me. then my ladies go crazy Urinating/squirting over the bed with their sweet noise with visible multiple orgasms.. try it I swear if a lady fails this leave her alone get a hotter one (Make sure you protect your bed from that exagereted wet humidity)

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your experiences!

  149. I have been doing this for a
    I have been doing this for a long time n my wife loves it

  150. this is my first time of
    this is my first time of hearing such a name. Hope to give it a try

    1. Let us know how it goes, Ben!
      Let us know how it goes, Ben!

  151. Do u have a cli to further
    Do u have a cli to further elaborate??

  152. wish i get a lady shows up
    wish i get a lady shows up and gives a try.

  153. How can i have multiple
    How can i have multiple organism during sex

    1. By having your partner
      By having your partner continuously stimulate your hot spots. But it’s not easy!

  154. How can i have multiple
    How can i have multiple organism during sex

  155. But can it apply when using
    But can it apply when using condom

  156. never tried it but it seems
    never tried it but it seems to be great!

  157. i always thought we r d best
    i always thought we r d best bt i hav learnt sth new. am a mugisu frm mbale eastern uganda

    1. But now you can make it part
      But now you can make it part of your routine!

  158. I like doing kunyaza
    I like doing kunyaza especially before n after my periods, critoral stimulation does wonders when u put saliva on it in addition I squirt when the penis is inside my vavajay but it takes 30+ mins.

    1. Thanks for sharing your story
      Thanks for sharing your story, Towera!

  159. My husband don’t like kunyeza
    My husband don’t like kunyeza I met someone wHo make love to me and practice kunyeza that make me have orgasms after orgasms and he love my labia hypertrophie

    1. Kevina,

      Kevina,
      sorry, my dear, but you do realize you are cheating on your husband, right? is it worth it? Have you every told your husband what it takes for you to have an orgasm?

  160. am xo old dat i lost ma man
    am xo old dat i lost ma man hood~ah wish ah had a chance of kunyaza

  161. I need more information on
    I need more information on this!! Always wanted something special for my wife. Those with more details please email me at [email protected].

    1. Hey Vegas,

      Hey Vegas,
      all the information you need should be in this article

    1. Call me on +254717365596
      Call me on +254717365596 thank you

  162. is there a book from
    is there a book from lovematters?

    1. No, sorry! Just our websites
      No, sorry! Just our websites and social media pages!

  163. haven’t tried this before but
    haven’t tried this before but guess it works right

    1. Why not give it a try, Ben?
      Why not give it a try, Ben?

  164. Its fantastic in Uganda since
    Its fantastic in Uganda since our women here enlongate there labia minoras .

  165. Dis Z Adaily Practise In
    Dis Z Adaily Practise In western Uganda & Ts Called ”kachabali” We Enjoy Like Nothing…Hoooh!

    1. Great, thanks for sharing!
      Great, thanks for sharing!

  166. I Can’t Wait For My Girl To
    I Can’t Wait For My Girl To Come. I Must Try This.

  167. I will try kunyanza. when I
    I will try kunyanza. when I have sex with my wife,i give her time so that she can ejaculate first then mine follow. we usually good.

    1. Make sure you spend plenty of
      Make sure you spend plenty of time on her clitoris.

  168. We don’t have a specific name
    We don’t have a specific name for it in South Sudan but when I did it with my fiancé, she awoke all the neighbors due to moaning and screaming due to the enjoyment. All the bedsheets were wet.

    1. Haha!, That’s great, keep it
      Haha!, That’s great, keep it up!

  169. I did 2 my fiancé n he
    I did 2 my fiancé n he promised not 2 leave mi BT av more orrgsmz 4 ever

    1. That’s great, Gideon!
      That’s great, Gideon!

  170. I used to hear about it for a
    I used to hear about it for a longtime before I tried it one time on my Ugandan girlfriend. I was new to it and so she had to take the lead, it was an amazing experience to me and even when I tried it on my other girlfriends, they all liked and some even cried to tears from the pleasure it generated.

  171. i done it many times with
    i done it many times with different girls succesfuly and now every gal wats me to fuck their pussies every time they come home what should i do?

    1. Seems like you are really
      Seems like you are really satisfying them!
      But of course, relationships aren’t just about sex. Do you have a relationship with one of them?

  172. In Kenya no one can talk on
    In Kenya no one can talk on such things openly.. stop ushamba and learn from others. We need to teach others about such things. Some say if your husband goes out with a mdigo or mganda then your marriage is over. Definitely it will be over coz very fee know about squirting and the men say nothing ciz what they know is just ejaculating in the woman’s hole.

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Dama.

  173. its called nyesha in kenya.
    its called nyesha in kenya.

    1. Thanks Ras. Makes sense 🙂
      Thanks Ras. Makes sense 🙂

  174. Squirting is real. Though it
    Squirting is real. Though it calls for total surrender by both parties.

    1. Working with your partner is
      Working with your partner is always the best way to achieve desired results.

  175. I have liked it, i just feel
    I have liked it, i just feel like it trying now.

  176. Can this happen to every
    Can this happen to every woman ?

    1. Moses every woman is capable
      Moses every woman is capable of reaching orgasm even though it won’t be the same way.

  177. i av experienced squirting bt
    i av experienced squirting bt not with the kunyaza style immediately after sex. Is it normal?

    1. Yes Gigi that is normal.
      Yes Gigi that is normal.

  178. i can attest to this, but
    i can attest to this, but total concentration should not be forgotten.it goes hand in hand….kunyaza,

    1. Thank you for your input
      Thank you for your input Lombardo.

  179. bt u’l ejaculate while u r
    bt u’l ejaculate while u r stil rupping her pussy with ur dick…

    1. Rafail it could happen, but
      Rafail it could happen, but if you are able to hold until the last minute it would be the best thing.

  180. where can I get it I’m in
    where can I get it I’m in south Africa my man is always complaining

    1. Noma what is it that you are
      Noma what is it that you are asking for kindly clarify.

  181. This is the best feeling ever
    This is the best feeling ever, I really enjoy my sex game

    1. good to hear that lliz..
      good to hear that lliz..

  182. I always enjoy this kunyesha.
    I always enjoy this kunyesha…it’s like miracle,and she can’t stop asking for more…no wonder the call me wonder boy

    1. Good for you Wonder Boy 🙂
      Good for you Wonder Boy 🙂

  183. haven’t tried this before but
    haven’t tried this before but guess it works
    right

    1. It does Kubi, you should try
      It does Kubi, you should try it sometime.

  184. I havent tried sex yet, but
    I havent tried sex yet, but am impressed about the article, I would wish to read more articles orgasm and fulfilling sex. Kind someone share with me more article via my email: [email protected]. or via whattapp: +254705114927,

    1. Hi John glad you enjoyed it.
      Hi John glad you enjoyed it. Kindly feel free to read our other articles here on the love matters website.

  185. If you haven’t tried please
    If you haven’t tried please do, my first time thought this chic is urinating on me. But guys wow… Yesterday had one n the sitting room got messed. I want to work on some Kenyan chics,many of them are blind! Super dad is coming soon gals..

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your experience Derrick.

  186. In western Uganda we call it
    In western Uganda we call it western jazz or kacabali! its really for a good sex orgasm other tribes in Uganda they like to taste it so much!

    1. Thanks Tom for sharing that
      Thanks Tom for sharing that with us.

  187. my gf has gone through fgm bt
    my gf has gone through fgm bt i make her squirt like a river

    1. Glad to hear that Winner.
      Glad to hear that Winner.

    2. I intend to marry my gf who
      I intend to marry my gf who underwent FGM…! I really need her to enjoy sex, especially “kunyaza” (make her squirt). So how can i…! I need your help, please…!

  188. This is an eye opener.
    This is an eye opener. Owesome!

    1. Glad to hear that Romeo 🙂 .
      Glad to hear that Romeo 🙂 .

  189. its abond in our 5yearz r
    its abond in our 5yearz r/ship

  190. Am loving this. I must try it
    Am loving this. I must try it

    1. Great! tell us how it goes
      Great! tell us how it goes Betty.

  191. I personally don’t think
    I personally don’t think every woman can squirt, there are dry women more like firewood..

    1. Thanks Obed for sharing.
      Thanks Obed for sharing.

  192. it realy works,,,i was once
    it realy works,,,i was once invited to a orgy,,guess what?!!..i made five ladies rain like elnino..!

    1. Great! Thanks for sharing
      Great! Thanks for sharing that with us Mwalimu.

  193. i does it evertime were
    i does it evertime were together with my dea its a wonder

    1. Great! thanks for sharing.
      Great! thanks for sharing.

  194. I have some very unusual sex.
    I have some very unusual sex. Rivers flow and the feeling is magical. What scares me is at the peak of my orgasm I begin to speak in what sounds like an African language. I keep asking others if they have had this experience. It’s unbelievable. Have you heard of this throughout your research? My husband was in shock the first time but it happens often. Help!

    1. Hi Kim,

      Hi Kim,
      There is nothing wrong with you. Different people react differently to orgasm. Just enjoy them!!

  195. Orgasim is some sort of
    Orgasim is some sort of climax of sex and when ur partner expirence it urs just comes easily coze it is worm.

    1. Thanks for sharing that with
      Thanks for sharing that with us Atine.

  196. I really enjoyed with my gf
    I really enjoyed with my gf same way its it’s true

    1. Great! Nice to hear that.
      Great! Nice to hear that.

  197. I and my gal have had
    I and my gal have had multiple orgasm, she likes it but the problem comes when a man ejaculates when hers is about to,, it disturbs her very much,what could be the cause?

    1. Hi Roudo, have you tried to
      Hi Roudo, have you tried to ask her why she does not like it when that happens?

  198. I think I should try it out
    I think I should try it out.sounds amazing

    1. Great! tell us how it goes
      Great! tell us how it goes Cee.

    1. Share with us how it goes
      Share with us how it goes when you do Dianah.

  199. Oops.Kunyaza Is Good.We Call
    Oops.Kunyaza Is Good.We Call It Akachabali In Western Ug.Bt I Hv A Problem Of Releasing Sperms The First Tym I Penetrate.Any Solution?

  200. my girl friend hate kunyaza
    my girl friend hate kunyaza that it makes her vagina lose elastic

    1. Thanks for sharing, but
      Thanks for sharing, but kunyaza does not cause loss in vaginal elasticity.

  201. Am going to try this and see
    Am going to try this and see

    1. Kindly tell us how it goes.
      Kindly tell us how it goes.

  202. I have learned this today am
    I have learned this today am going to start using it

    1. That good to hear 🙂 .
      That good to hear 🙂 .

  203. would love to try it. never
    would love to try it. never experienced orgasm

    1. Tell us how it goes. All the
      Tell us how it goes. All the best.

  204. I read abt dis in de morning
    I read abt dis in de morning n jst nw in few minutes ago we jst mk love n I use dis “kunyaza” technique and I mk her squirt like river flow wow sh stil surprise hw i do dat. Wow thank u dis thng its for real indeed

    1. Thank you Mr Best for sharing
      Thank you Mr Best for sharing you experience with us. We are glad it worked out for you and that you enjoyed it.

  205. I tried this with my girl
    I tried this with my girl lover, every time she do praises me for making her feel the most important point of love making

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your experience with us Sir. Glad you are enjoying 🙂 .

  206. I’ve real enjoyed it..
    I’ve real enjoyed it…something i was just wondering why do i nat notice when my gal reaches her orgasm during sex
    Thank u for dc article i’m now sure she’s going to make it loudly

    1. Thanks for the feed back
      Thanks for the feed back Donnie. But you know you can always talk to her about it and find out.

      All the best .

  207. Now I understand better it
    Now I understand better it feels in another world

    1. Glad to hear that Joan.
      Glad to hear that Joan.

  208. Am kenyan studied from ug I
    Am kenyan studied from ug I know what kunyaza is iknw what kakyabali is. .
    And I can assure you its lovely it’s sweet ..
    It takes you to heavens trust me. .

    1. Thanks for sharing that with
      Thanks for sharing that with us Shai.

  209. Please what can you do to
    Please what can you do to help about premature ejaculation

  210. How Iwish U Could Help Me As
    How Iwish U Could Help Me As Fast As Possible, My Boyfriend Has Tried Dz ‘Kunyaza Style’ On Me Several Times But It Has Never Worked Out, Idon’t Squirt Plz And Da Major Prob Is Dat Am Very Dry, How Can Correct This And Make Myself Wetter? Genvivianna

  211. Can this technique work for…
    Can this technique work for women who have been circumcised? If yes, how do you go about it since they have no clitoris

    1. (No subject)
      Hi Owino,

      This technique focuses on stimulating not just the clitoris but also the inside of the vagina. For women who have been circumcised the focus would have to be the inside of the vagina. Read info under “Advanced” in the article above. More important though talk to your partner to get to know what they really like and enjoy. Check out the following article with more tips on talking about sex:-
      https://lovematters.co.ke/making-love/ways-to-make-love/talking-about-sex

  212. Someone was bored on…
    Someone was bored on Christmas Day.

  213. I want to experience this…
    I want to experience this…Do black men in America know about this technique?

    1. (No subject)
      Hey Beautei,

      You could educate your man on this technique. Talk to him let him know then try it out. You can perfect as you get along.

      Love Matters Team

  214. I’ll give it a try when I…
    I’ll give it a try when I get to marry in the next 6yrs.

  215. My neighbour next door is my…
    My neighbour next door is my friend. Now I know why the lady screams. At first we thought they were fighting. Women around gathered demanding for the door to be opened. Before long she was moaning again. They felt ashamed. Lololol. Everybody walked surprised how great the Cinemax show was

    1. Hey Clark, this experience…
      Hey Clark, this experience can be mind blowing.

  216. This happened one day when…
    This happened one day when my sex partner made the bed wet and i thought she has urinated but as well the experience was sweeter.

  217. Thank you for sharing…
    Thank you for sharing Montezizko.

  218. al have my girl’s tears…
    al have my girl’s tears dropping by “kunyazing” her..thenx for the idea

    1. Ooh Great and you are…

      Ooh Great and you are welcome Bruno.

  219. OMG I would love to try it.
    OMG I would love to try it.

  220. highly praised resource…
    highly praised resource Jarle Thorsen SiteTalk Community Inc.

  221. You stated this wonderfully…

    You stated this wonderfully.

  222. My spouse and I stumbled…
    My spouse and I stumbled over here coming from a different website and thought I might check
    things out. I like what I see so now i’m following you. Look forward to exploring your web
    page yet again.

    1. Hey Richard, you are welcome…

      Hey Richard, you are welcome to Love Matters Africa. Happy exploring.

  223. Hey. I sent a screenshot…
    Hey. I sent a screenshot. Did you get it?

    1. Hey JamieSnulp, where did…

      Hey JamieSnulp, where did you send the screen shot and what was it about it?

  224. Your way of telling all in…
    Your way of telling all in this article is in fact pleasant, all can simply know it, Thanks a lot.

    1. You are welcome Teena.

      You are welcome Teena.

  225. I like this I am going to…
    I like this I am going to try it with my wife.

    1. Great! Keep reading our…

      Great! Keep reading our articles for more information. 

  226. Me I have tried this thing…
    Me I have tried this thing it has not worked I dont know kama ni mimi ama its my partner but she once told me she felt like urinating.

  227. I tied it my gf was blown…
    I tied it my gf was blown away she cant wait for next time. If you reading this you should try it and thank love matters later like me. Thank you.

    1. Thank you for sharing Samz…

      Thank you for sharing Samz. You are welcome. 

  228. Looking for a boyfriend


    Looking for a boyfriend?

    1. Hi Tiffany, Sorry to say, we…

      Hi Tiffany, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.

  229. I am looking for a guy for…
    I am looking for a guy for sex

    1. Hey Tiffany, unfortunately…

      Hey Tiffany, unfortunately we are not able to do such a hook up. 

  230. Looking for a boyfriend


    Looking for a boyfriend

    1. Hi Tiffany, Sorry to say, we…

      Hi Tiffany, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.

  231. I am looking for a guy for…
    I am looking for a guy for sex

    1. Hi Julie, Sorry to say, we…

      Hi Julie, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.

  232. Great article. My wife loves…
    Great article. My wife loves kunyaza. She squirts alot when I do the kunyaza style on her. It also helps me control my orgasm and last longer in bedroom. I suffer from premature ejaculation. But kunyaza helps with it.

    Do you know any other African techniques or aphrodisiacs to help with premature ejaculation?

    I also read Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure by Habeeb Akande. The book has great sex tips and pictures of how to perform kunyaza. Worth checking out.

  233. how can i make a woman squirt
    how can i make a woman squirt

    1. Hi John, first, not all…

      Hi John, first, not all women will squirt during sex, still, it is worth trying. Also, partners can still enjoy great sex even when one doesn’t squirt. Talk with your partner and let them know that you want to try this. Then apply the technique that has been described above to see if this will happen with your partner. All the best.

  234. Hey.
    You can call me…

    Hey. You can call me Sabrina. I want to meet a man.

    1. Hi Sabrina,

      Sorry to say,…

      Hi Sabrina,

      Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.

  235. This is nothing more than…
    This is nothing more than Urine. There is not one shred of scientific evidence that would support the “squirting” of anything, other than urine. There is some evidence of possible fluid from the “Skenes Gland” in the vaginal wall and yes, some women can be sufficiently aroused to have healthy quantity of normal vaginal fluid that is produced under stimulation. But if there is actual “squirting” where a stream of fluid is released, It is merely urine. Notice where is origin is if possible and you will agree. Sorry to educate so bluntly.

    1. Thank you for your input,…

      Thank you for your input, Jonny.

  236. Hello to all
    In this…

    Hello to all
    In this puzzling span, I love you all
    Prize your family and friends

  237. I’m proud about our african…
    I’m proud about our african culture

    1. Hi Thapelo victor, thank you…

      Hi Thapelo victor, thank you for your feedback 🙂

    1. Hi, what is the issue?

      Hi, what is the issue?

  238. Kunyaza sexual practise is…
    Kunyaza sexual practise is found in Burundi, Rwanda, the Eastern Democratic Republic of Congo and Western Tanzania and around Great Lakes region of East Africa, Uganda and Kenya.
    It is the sacred art of worshipping a female’s body and idolising a woman’s vagina and lavishing it with attention.
    It is technique originating from Africa where female ejaculation is a matter of social importance for men.
    Ejaculation is a powerful bodily experience that has long been associated with penises and male sexuality; ejaculation from the vulva or vagina is just one part of that.
    It is the gift of the sacred art of pussy worship. The woman who is receiving can do just that; surrender to the giver who is worshipping them and receive the gift of presence and pleasure that unfolds.
    For the worshipper, it is a complete honour to give reverence to the chosen pussy. And is a physical act which provides a direct connection to the divine
    The practice is often extremely erotic and transformational for both the worshipper, and the worshipped.
    It is a domain where women can abandon ourselves in the moment and let go of our inhibitions.
    To receive the reverence, all a woman has to do is surrender to the worshipper and accept the gift of presence and pleasure that was going to unfold thereafter.

    1. Thank you so much for…

      Thank you so much for sharing this valuable information Tracy Parker, we really appreciate it! Have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!

    1. Hi Brad, thank you for…

      Hi Brad, thank you for getting in touch and asking a great question, the article above explains everything you need to know regarding this Rwandan sexual practice. Go through it and let us know if it helps. Have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!

  239. I would like to be tough to

    I would like to be tough to
    Make a woman squirt please

    1. Hi Peter, 

      Read this…

      Hi Peter, 

      Read this article to get tips on how to make a woman squirt. There are some techniques involved and you can best know about them from the article above!

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