Long penis gives women vaginal orgasms
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Long penis gives women vaginal orgasms

For women who have vaginal orgasms during sex, a long penis might increase pleasure, an international study found.

Almost 30 percent of women never reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, the study of 321 participants found. The researchers were interested in the rest – the 160 women who had either vaginal or clitoral orgasms during intercourse.

Length

In the study, women of different ages, backgrounds, and nationalities filled out a survey about their orgasms over the past month, answering questions like how often they’d had a vaginal or a clitoral orgasm and whether it was during sexual intercourse or masturbation.

The women were also asked how important actual intercourse was compared to other things like foreplay. The researchers were especially curious to find out whether these women thought the length of a penis mattered for their pleasure during intercourse.

How long is the average erect penis? The women were told to imagine it was about the length of a US dollar bill. In reality, an erect penis is on average between about 4.7 and 5.9 inches (12-17cm), though smaller or larger is also normal.

Vaginal orgasms

Sixty percent of women say penis length makes no difference – they’re just as likely to get off during intercourse if their partner has a long penis or an average one.

But the researchers dug deeper and found that the almost 34 percent of women who prefer a longer penis probably do so because they have more vaginal orgasms compared to other women. What’s more, these women say that sexual intercourse is more important than other things like oral sex or masturbating with their partner.

A longer penis could stimulate parts that an average penis might not reach, like the cervix and the vagus nerve, say the study’s authors.

Erotic sensations

But it’s not just a longer penis that ups a woman’s chances of having a vaginal orgasm during sexual intercourse. There may very well be some truth to the saying, ‘It’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean,’ since better and harder erections and having intercourse for longer can make a difference when it comes to vaginal orgasms. Being in a sexually healthy and intimate relationship and lots of sexual desire also go a long way. So too does having a masculine, and super attractive lover, research has shown.

Even with all these factors in place, it seems some women have vaginal orgasms all the time, while others never do. Differences in certain parts of a woman’s genital anatomy, like the vagus nerve, which carries signals from the cervix and vagina to the brain, could be part of the reason. Women who are more aware of erotic sensations in their vaginas, and can control their pelvic muscles well might also have more vaginal orgasms.

 

So what do you think? Does size matter? Leave a comment below or on Facebook.

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  1. you can use”kitunguu saumu”u
    you can use”kitunguu saumu”u’ll see the different during sex intercourse.

    1. Hi Katende,

      Hi Katende,
      we will look into that!

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    1. Congratulations, Stephen 🙂
      Congratulations, Stephen 🙂

  2. The size of pennis does not
    The size of pennis does not matter,what matters is how many times can a pennis stand.

    1. Hi there,

      Hi there,
      we disagree- we think quality matters more than quantity. It’s better to do it once or twice well than to hurry through a few more mediocre times in one night!

  3. no it does not matter n wat
    no it does not matter n wat matters most is how you play with it.

    1. Yep, that sounds about right!
      Yep, that sounds about right!

  4. The size does’nt matter bt
    The size does’nt matter bt wot matters is hw u play or use it.

    1. Yes, the quality of the
      Yes, the quality of the intercourse is that really matters, not how long the penis is!

  5. Size matters bt then it
    Size matters bt then it depends wit the game b4 penetration

    1. Hi Racheal,

      Hi Racheal,
      that sounds like a healthy way to sum the discussion up!

  6. yangu n big bt ijawai fanya
    yangu n big bt ijawai fanya job!!

    1. Haha, Symon, in the end, that
      Haha, Symon, in the end, that’s all that matters, isn’t it?

  7. Size doesn’t matter.what
    Size doesn’t matter.what matters is how the game is played.

  8. sex is more psycological than
    sex is more psycological than physical !

    1. A very good point, Wilson!
      A very good point, Wilson! And sex is about connection and communication, as well. Penis size is sometimes really overrated.

  9. Its how u mix foreplay with
    Its how u mix foreplay with gud stimulation girth matters most.

    1. Hi Jay,

      Hi Jay,
      indeed, girth is really important! As is foreplay. And knowing what excites your partner.

  10. Size does not matter..
    Size does not matter…experience ndio muhimu…there are so many ways of killing a rat..try diffrent styles and love what u are doing..

    1. Hi Cammy,

      Hi Cammy,
      it’s true, size doesn’t matter all that much, but that’s also not what the article is saying. And let’s face it, more women have clitoral orgasms, as it is, anyway.

    1. Of being able to have sex?
      Of being able to have sex? That depends on many factors, like health, age, physical condition…

    1. Hi Karis,

      Hi Karis,
      have you experienced a difference?

    1. Hey there,

      Hey there,
      we are curious to hear what makes you think that? Let us know 🙂

  11. Composure and mind set is the
    Composure and mind set is the sole solution to sex.

    1. Hi Tobias,

      Hi Tobias,
      sex certainly isn’t all about size. It’s about connecting with your partner and knowing what pleases them and you!

  12. The size of the dog doesnt
    The size of the dog doesnt matter; wat matters is the size of the fight in that dog.

    1. Hi Njugush,

      Hi Njugush,
      could we maybe replace fight with love :-)?

  13. If you understand how the
    If you understand how the woman’s body is, you can make her “scream” in minutes even if yours is small

    1. Hi CK,

      Hi CK,
      absolutely true, knowledge of what gets women off is more important than size!

  14. it doesnt matter bt how you
    it doesnt matter bt how you play

    1. Hi Berverlyne,

      Hi Berverlyne,
      that’s absolutely true. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  15. The size matters but also the
    The size matters but also the period of time u stay on erection

    1. Hi Tush,

      Hi Tush,
      what matters most is listening to your partner and finding out what turns them on!

  16. The size matters but also the
    The size matters but also the period of time u stay on erection

  17. i thnk size is just an added
    i thnk size is just an added advantage to the best player.

    1. Haha, Emmanuel, well put.
      Haha, Emmanuel, well put. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  18. It matters a medium one is
    It matters a medium one is quit ok..small size aint ma thng..

    1. Hi Marie,

      Hi Marie,
      that’s interesting to hear. Tell us more- what’s better about the medium one? And how important is girth?

    1. Hi Stephen,

      Hi Stephen,
      tell us more about that- why is it true, and why is size so important? We are curious to hear!

  19. Wat matters is the
    Wat matters is the cordination btwn the man n the woman n not leave the whole job 2 the man!!!

    1. Hi Dan,

      Hi Dan,
      that’s absolutely true. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  20. size does not matter…
    size does not matter…

    1. Hi Oluwaseye,

      Hi Oluwaseye,
      What matters are good communication, connection and trust, that’s absolutely true. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  21. Size doesnt mata @ll…it hw
    Size doesnt mata @ll…it hw gud 1 can do it…

    1. Hi Nana,

      Hi Nana,
      it’s true that there is a lot more to good sex than just size. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  22. I’m Strong nd fight like a
    I’m Strong nd fight like a tiger during sex time and even after sex my penis still stay thigh for more than 8minutes after sexuel intercourse

    1. Hi Norman,

      Hi Norman,
      that sounds like you are quite strong in bed. Keep in mind though that sometimes sweet and slow is also very nice!

  23. Size dont matter it’s
    Size dont matter it’s definetly how he use it!!!!

    1. Hi Pam,

      Hi Pam,
      it’s true that there is a lot more to good sex than just size. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  24. it dpends with how u approach
    it dpends with how u approach the act & the quality of ur output

    1. Hi Njiru,

      Hi Njiru,
      it’s true that there is a lot more to good sex than just size. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  25. The ‘actor’ with the largest
    The ‘actor’ with the largest ‘gun’ in any movie scene dies first. There is absolutely no point whatsoever to having a large,lengthy pole when you cannot finish the jump.
    What i mean is,you can be endowed,and greatly for that matter of fact,but lack of coordination and control makes just but yet another waste of flesh and blood.

    1. Hi Kira,

      Hi Kira,
      haha, that’s a great metaphor, we love it!
      And of course it’s true that there is a lot more to good sex than just size. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  26. I think size doesnt matter
    I think size doesnt matter,what matters is how long pennis can remain standing and how you play up

    1. Hi Prince,

      Hi Prince,
      you make a good point here! Keep in mind that the article only talks about the better chances of having a vaginal orgasm, which is a specific type of orgasm.

  27. The size doesnt matter,what
    The size doesnt matter,what matters is how you us it n the techniques u know abt it

    1. Hi Dan,

      Hi Dan,
      it’s true that there is a lot more to good sex than just size. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  28. Its not on the penis…its
    Its not on the penis…its how u make 8 good in foreplay…

    1. Hi Just,

      Hi Just,
      it’s true that there is a lot more to good sex than just size. Keep in mind thought that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm.

  29. I have aproblem on my penis
    I have aproblem on my penis of short size .wat I do?

    1. What I am hearing from you is
      What I am hearing from you is that you are uneasy about your penis size and that you are worried that your partners aren’t enjoying physical pleasure and your looking for tricks to please your partner. First it is important to acknowledge that size is relative. Everyone body is different and both penises and vaginas range in sizes. What might be big for one woman is small for anther. So don’t worry to much about the size but they way you work with your partner. Communication leads to the best sex!

      Enjoyment comes from experimenting and communication. Try new things, tell your partner what feels nice and what doesn’t. Take time to pay attention to their body and find the special spots that they love. But most of all have fun.

      Here is some information on penis sizes and enlargement:

      https://lovematters.co.ke/news/small-penis-its-all-mind

      https://lovematters.co.ke/news/penis-enlargement-doesnt-work

      https://lovematters.co.ke/news/penis-top-five-facts

  30. size das nt marter bt the
    size das nt marter bt the sounds of th woman cn mek it sweeta en th sound from th vagina its self

    1. Hello there,

      Hello there,
      that certainly is an interesting point!

  31. can syphilis affect the size
    can syphilis affect the size of the penis?!if yes,how?

    1. It shouldn’t. However, if you
      It shouldn’t. However, if you suspect you have syphilis, we strongly advise you to see a healthcare professional as soon as possible to get treatment.

  32. size doesn’t matter,, what
    size doesn’t matter,, what matters is the foreplay n how he does it

    1. Hi Loise,

      Hi Loise,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  33. How Can I Mak My Penis Long
    How Can I Mak My Penis Long Dan It Is?

    1. What I am hearing from you is
      What I am hearing from you is that you are uneasy about your penis size and that you are worried that your partners aren’t enjoying physical pleasure and your looking for tricks to please your partner. First it is important to acknowledge that size is relative. Everyone body is different and both penises and vaginas range in sizes. What might be big for one woman is small for anther. So don’t worry to much about the size but they way you work with your partner. Communication leads to the best sex!

      Enjoyment comes from experimenting and communication. Try new things, tell your partner what feels nice and what doesn’t. Take time to pay attention to their body and find the special spots that they love. But most of all have fun.

      Here is some information on penis sizes and enlargement:

      https://lovematters.co.ke/news/small-penis-its-all-mind

      https://lovematters.co.ke/news/penis-enlargement-doesnt-work

  34. I enjoy it…4rounds is good.
    I enjoy it…4rounds is good.

    1. Hi Vinecha,

      Hi Vinecha,
      keep in mind that when it comes to sex, quality is often better than quantity…

  35. As for me my dick wen relaxed
    As for me my dick wen relaxed is soo small…but wen erect 8.2inches…my girlfriend really complains dat am reaching to her cervix….niko na shida???

  36. I used to think size matters
    I used to think size matters but its about the quality of the game if the penis is small but i feel good then thats it.

    1. Hi Suzie,

      Hi Suzie,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  37. cn uncircumsides penis gve
    cn uncircumsides penis gve birth

    1. Hello there,

      Hello there,
      of course, circumcision (or no circumcision) will not affect fertility at all. Nothing to worry about!

  38. How much time is satisfied to
    How much time is satisfied to a woman per round

    1. Hi Simza,

      Hi Simza,
      first of all, please remember that quality is better than quantity when it comes to sex. Take your time, instead of rushing through 4 or 5 times in one night. Your partner will thank you for it. To your actual question- between 0 and multiple times. Sometimes a woman won’t be able to have an orgasm during sex- just like with you, sometimes, it just won’t work. And some women, many in fact, can’t get an orgasm through penetration alone- they need clitoral stimulation. Other times, she will have one orgasm, maybe two. And other women even report having multiple orgasms. So there is no fixed number- it depends from woman to woman from time to time!

  39. What matters is dah time the
    What matters is dah time the penis erects.

    1. Hi Hillary,

      Hi Hillary,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  40. It matters coz u don’t take
    It matters coz u don’t take time to feel it, as 4me I can come even 3tyms b4 him but as 4the small size eish I take more tym to me coz the big size touches my critoris also during the game.

    1. Hi Jowie,

      Hi Jowie,
      you mention a really important point- the clitoris. But you will see that the article actually talks about vaginal orgasms- a different type of orgasm.

  41. The only time it really
    The only time it really matters is when the penis is extremely small. Like almost nonexistent small. That’s never good. 🙁

  42. yae,the size can also matter.
    yae,the size can also matter. some have very short that even cant pass the pubic area of a woman. am yet to measure mine…..even though i knw am almost 17cm

    1. Hi Patty,

      Hi Patty,
      and also keep in mind that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm, the vaginal orgasm.

  43. Is it good 2 put some1 in
    Is it good 2 put some1 in style and which style is tha best

    1. Hi Joel ,

      Hi Joel ,
      changing positions can definitely make sex more exciting! Which position you prefer is up to you and your partner. There is no better or worse position.

  44. My babe told me dat she don’t
    My babe told me dat she don’t enjoy big and long penis at all dats 4rm her x boy frnd she don’t like sex at all bt now she so much like sex b’cos my penis is so sweet to her dat is not big, is not Short or long.

    1. Hi Anibe,

      Hi Anibe,
      true, there are also downsides to big penises, like pain! Keep in mind that this article doesn’t talk about orgasms in general- only about vaginal orgasms.

  45. Is By pressin the end bottom
    Is By pressin the end bottom of the penis prevents quick ejaculation during intercuarse?

    1. Hi Jackson,

      Hi Jackson,
      yes, you can do that! Give it a try and see if it works for you.

  46. it is not the size of the
    it is not the size of the penis that matters…rather it is the foreplay & the repetitivenes of the pennis to erect for the game to play for one night.

    1. You are absolutely right,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  47. Size does’nt matter,it
    Size does’nt matter,it matters with how the one is doing it,whether he is touching ur sensitive part,but still it might become important because when a woman reaches organsm,she wants a man 2 touch a cervix part 4 her 2 come down

    1. You are absolutely right,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.
      And as for touching the cervix- ouch, that’s generally pretty painful. Are you confusing it with the clitoris, by any chance?

  48. How u gave her is what matter
    How u gave her is what matter, her mode also

    1. Hi Churchill,

      Hi Churchill,
      you mention an important point, thanks for this!

  49. will check the motion of the
    will check the motion of the ocean

  50. not neccessary.lenght is not
    not neccessary.lenght is not what matters

    1. Hi Bonny,

      Hi Bonny,
      keep in mind that this article talks about the improved chances of a vaginal orgasm. Many women actually have clitoral orgasms only, and there, penis size shouldn’t have much influence.

  51. Ladies at my work place
    Ladies at my work place suggests that ,big dicks gvs maximum satisfaction unlike the Caterpillar size dicks.They even went further saying If different sizes of penises wr 2 b placed in a bowel & ladies are asked 2 pick wat they want,guess wat only the small caterpiller size will remain,in the bowel Lol!

    1. Hi Nesbert,

      Hi Nesbert,
      keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, while most women will actually have a different type of orgasm alltogether, a clitoral one.

  52. hi,is masturbation a healthy
    hi,is masturbation a healthy habit?

    1. Hi there,

      Hi there,
      yes, absolutely! It can help you concentrate better, relax and feel satisfied. All the myths, like you become blind or infertile, are not true at all!

  53. Ladies at my work place
    Ladies at my work place suggests that ,big dicks gvs maximum satisfaction unlike the Caterpillar size dicks.They even went further saying If different sizes of penises wr 2 b placed in a bowel & ladies are asked 2 pick wat they want,guess wat only the small caterpiller size will remain,in the bowel Lol!

  54. Size matters but as well how
    Size matters but as well how the pennis is being rolled in and duration before enjaculation.

    1. Hi Jeff,

      Hi Jeff,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  55. most of the women say that
    most of the women say that the head of the penis is sweet but not the size.is it true???

    1. Hi Modi,

      Hi Modi,
      for a man, the head of the penis is the most important part, because it’s most sensitive. For a woman, it shouldn’t make that much of a difference. Also keep in mind that the article speaks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general.

  56. Size matters!! Foreplay doesn
    Size matters!! Foreplay doesn’t matter & neither does good oral before penetration!! Smaller, or as the article states, average, doesn’t always reach the G-spot & when larger/longer than average just enter the canal they’re stimulating all kinds of things immediately!

    1. Hi Momma Bird,

      Hi Momma Bird,
      what you say would be true when we talk only about vaginal orgasms. But let’s face it, most women will only have clitoral orgasms, and for them, foreplay and oral will play a huge role- while size is secondary.

  57. Realy the size doesn’t matter
    Realy the size doesn’t matter bt wat matters is d skill n the period

    1. Hi Arthur,

      Hi Arthur,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  58. The size doesn’t matter, what
    The size doesn’t matter, what matters is how you play and entice the game

    1. Hi Inflegee,

      Hi Inflegee,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  59. That was informative, that
    That was informative, that vagus nerve connection and the oceanic motions! I was wondering though, if the size is inclusive of both length and width, the ‘diameter’, coz long thin is not like long broad…literally?

    1. Hi Joicelyne,

      Hi Joicelyne,
      very good question!
      When it comes to orgasms in general, girth can definitely be an advantage- with vaginal orgasms, what the article speaks about, we aren’t sure. We will look into it!

  60. That was informative, that
    That was informative, that vagus nerve connection and the oceanic motions! I was wondering though, if the size is inclusive of both length and width, the ‘diameter’, coz long thin is not like long broad…literally?

  61. yo can have long penis but yo
    yo can have long penis but yo will be unable to play de game,becose girls like some game before penetration start

    1. Hi Mberwa,

      Hi Mberwa,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  62. I know the size of penis
    I know the size of penis doesn’t matter but I need a big one.

    1. Hi Trey,

      Hi Trey,
      personal preferences are okay 🙂

  63. wat matters is heart and were
    wat matters is heart and were it belongs btn the two parties

  64. a long penis worth less. The
    a long penis worth less. The main is how long it stands during the work.

    1. You are absolutely right,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  65. The Game An Also The Size
    The Game An Also The Size Matter.

    1. Hi there,

      Hi there,
      keep in mind that the article speaks of a specific type of orgasm, the vaginal one, not orgasms in general. And of course, the game is really important!

  66. Sex is all about the brain,
    Sex is all about the brain, if ur mind is more focused on size, the size matters, n if its all about the game, the game matters bt for me, my wife love it big n she always reach the orgasm each time we do it, she says that my size makes her feel like she is going insane.
    Point to note, most guyz with big D.s have the thirst of punishing them who havent experience big size

    1. You are absolutely right,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  67. i have a shorter one and
    i have a shorter one and girls dont complain

    1. Hi Brian,

      Hi Brian,
      please keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, a specific type, not orgasms in general. So for clitoral orgasms, size doesn’t matter- technique does 🙂

  68. It doesn’t matter it’s
    It doesn’t matter it’s depends with how you play the game and make her feel it

    1. Hi Castro,

      Hi Castro,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  69. sex is frm the mind and there
    sex is frm the mind and there is nothing lyk sizeable penis…

    1. Hi John,

      Hi John,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  70. a gun is a gun no matter ta
    a gun is a gun no matter ta type as long as it kills the enemy and have bullets

    1. Hi Frederick,

      Hi Frederick,
      we wouldn’t mind have a different, more peaceful approach to sex, but yes, that kind of sums it up :-). Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  71. Yes size doesnt matter for
    Yes size doesnt matter for quality awesome game.
    But having a big one with quality game is an added advantage.

    1. Hi Fidel,

      Hi Fidel,
      You are absolutely right, there is much more to good sex than just penis size. It’s a lot about communication and knowing what makes your partner happy. Keep in mind though that the article speaks about better chances of getting a specific type of orgasm.

  72. Changing positions meks love
    Changing positions meks love making sweeter

    1. Hi Kim,

      Hi Kim,
      definitely- changing routines will make it more exciting, too!

  73. Foreplay and size matters for
    Foreplay and size matters for me. I love them big and a good length.

    1. Hi Queen,

      Hi Queen,
      that’s great for you! It’s good to know what you want!

    1. Hi Abel,

      Hi Abel,
      indeed, size only is one aspect. Keep in mind that this article only talks about a certain type of orgasms.

  74. I love your page,its very
    I love your page,its very educative and complete

    1. We are so glad to hear this,
      We are so glad to hear this, Connie!

  75. hop,wat matters alot is the
    hop,wat matters alot is the skills of playing the game

    1. Hi Luta,

      Hi Luta,
      you mention an important point. Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  76. size does nt matter bt it iz
    size does nt matter bt it iz the way u play or use it that matters

    1. Hi Vincente,

      Hi Vincente,
      you mention good points. Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  77. What matter is how the game
    What matter is how the game is played. How long it takes 4 each partner to get 2 the climax.

    1. Hi Kelly,

      Hi Kelly,
      those certainly are important when it comes to sex. And keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  78. let’s understand that sex or
    let’s understand that sex or wat makes a woman ask for more is not hw long is the dick is but hw u cooperate as both but also the dick should b average

    1. Hi Jerry,

      Hi Jerry,
      you are absolutely right. Keep in mind though that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  79. Size doesn’t matter a lot.The
    Size doesn’t matter a lot.The game matters.
    You can have a bigger knife that cuts nothing.
    Ladies too a becoming resistance to normal size penis,this force men to find ways of enlarging.

    1. Hi Lewis,

      Hi Lewis,
      we would love a more pacifistic metaphor, but yes, you are right! Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  80. size doesn’t matter,what
    size doesn’t matter,what matters is how you play the game

    1. Hi Felix,

      Hi Felix,
      that’s absolutely true, but keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  81. what matter is energy and the
    what matter is energy and the streangth to make one feel it and be satisfied.

    1. Hi TrueBoy,

      Hi TrueBoy,
      you certainly mention important points. Sex is more than just penis size. Keep in mind though that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  82. Size does matter but size
    Size does matter but size alone won’t do you have to study and pay closes attention to your lover body, stroke by stroke you can tell if you hitting a spot she love. So all you got to do is keep hitting that spot, also 4 play helps a lot to start here off

    1. Hi there,

      Hi there,
      you hit it right on the spot. Sex is not all about penis size. But this also isn’t what the article says- it talks only about one specific type of orgasm.

  83. Size does really matter just
    Size does really matter just most important is paying close attention to your love body, with 4 play and all to get her off

    1. Hi Gully,

      Hi Gully,
      you mention really important aspects for good sex. Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  84. Size n skills matters,ur
    Size n skills matters,ur indept foreplay b4 penetration

    1. Hi Martins,

      Hi Martins,
      you are right, you mention really important aspects for good sex. Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  85. Size daz nt mater…….bt e
    Size daz nt mater…….bt e game bfore u hv sex

    1. Hi Roylin,

      Hi Roylin,
      of course, there is lots of truth to this, and you mention really important aspects for good sex. Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  86. Size matters,women don’t feel
    Size matters,women don’t feel in the small size making it hard 2 reach orgasim.

    1. Hi Lucy,

      Hi Lucy,
      size, in the end, is relative. Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  87. Sex is all about psycology
    Sex is all about psycology not size

    1. Hi Peace,

      Hi Peace,
      you mention really important aspects for good sex. Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  88. It is not d size dat matter!
    It is not d size dat matter! It is hw wel do u use d dic or penis! U cn hv a small dic but cn use it well more than d one who hs long dic!.!!

    1. Hi Mirabel,

      Hi Mirabel,
      you are right, size isn’t all that matters. you mention really important aspects for good sex. Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  89. It Dosent Matter the Size of
    It Dosent Matter the Size of your Penise it’s how you use it.

    1. Hi Juliandra,

      Hi Juliandra,
      you mention really important aspects for good sex. Keep in mind that the article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  90. Yea guys,all well said…but
    Yea guys,all well said…but how can one maintain a long lasting and harder erection????
    Please dont over rule this as out of topic…

  91. Yea guys,all well said…but
    Yea guys,all well said…but how can one maintain a long lasting and harder erection????
    Please dont over rule this as out of topic…

  92. s3x is in the mind not in the
    s3x is in the mind not in the penis.

    1. Hi Giddy,

      Hi Giddy,
      What you say is true. But you’ll notice that the article is talking about one specific type of orgasms only- vaginal orgasms. But, most women have clitoral orgasms anyway!

  93. How many types of orgasimas
    How many types of orgasimas are there?

    1. Hi Usuper,

      Hi Usuper,
      depends on who you ask; but in general, two. Clitoral and vaginal orgasms.

  94. I believe the angle of
    I believe the angle of penetration, position and movements is all what defines the pleasure. And thats a point

    1. Hi there,

      Hi there,
      there is lots of truth to what you are saying, of course. But please remember that this article only talks about vaginal orgasms, but orgasms in general.

  95. I do participate in the game
    I do participate in the game only once then off in the next 10mins,,but i am healthy,,do i really have a problem?

    1. Hi Ezekiel,

      Hi Ezekiel,
      I assume you mean you have sex once, and then you need some time to recover?
      This is completely normal for men to have what is called a refractory period, where it cannot get hard after ejaculation. Honestly, your body is just telling you that it needs some time. There is no real way to change it or make it happen less, so just try to work with your body. If you are really hoping to have more sex, then take the time to recharge and focus on your partner. This is a good time to focus on them and give them pleasure. You will become hard again in no time and continue.

  96. I jst wanted 2 ask…wat
    I jst wanted 2 ask…wat about d curved dick,does t give more pleasure than strght dicks?

    1. Hi Phillipe,

      Hi Phillipe,
      no, not really. Curves are normal though, so this is nothing to worry about.

  97. Size doesn’t matter
    Size doesn’t matter

    1. Hi Lucy,

      Hi Lucy,
      please note that this article talks about one specific type of orgasm, not sex in general.

  98. Hi, may I please know what
    Hi, may I please know what kind of penis helps more with clitoral orgasm?

    1. Hi Reu,

      Hi Reu,
      the penis doesn’t pay a big role when it comes to clitoral orgasms, because the clitoris isn’t located inside of the vagina. What matters to the clitoris are hands, mouth and tongue, and sometimes positions, where the clitoris rubs against, for example, the pelvis, and gets stimulated that way.

    1. You are most welcome, Reu!
      You are most welcome, Reu!

  99. the sizes matters alot……u
    the sizes matters alot……u mst b able to reach her max

    1. Hi Fiona,

      Hi Fiona,
      actually, this article only speaks of vaginal orgasms. For clitoral orgasms, knowledge of female anatomy and technique are far more important.

  100. sex is a communication
    sex is a communication process.where a confident man speaks with the body of the woman during intercourse.so whatever the size.

    1. Hi Joel,

      Hi Joel,
      you are absolutely right, sex is about communication. But also, please note that this article deals with a specific type of orgasms, not orgasms in general.

  101. Size is not the matter,the
    Size is not the matter,the matter is how u play the game.

    1. Hi Vusi,

      Hi Vusi,
      you are right, size doesn’t matter in general. But keep in mind that this article talks about one specific type of orgasms, vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general!

  102. Lyk me i can.play 3 tyms a
    Lyk me i can.play 3 tyms a day and night

    1. Hi there,

      Hi there,
      that’s great for you and your partner, but isn’t related to penis size. Also, please note this article refers to one particular kind of orgasm, not orgasms in general.

  103. I can play 3 tyms a day and
    I can play 3 tyms a day and night

    1. Hi Martin,

      Hi Martin,
      that’s great. Just make sure your partner is enjoying it 😉

  104. I was just axin how can i knw
    I was just axin how can i knw my chic has clitorial or vaginal orgasm?

    1. Hi Mykee,

      Hi Mykee,
      ask her, and pay attention to what is happening when she has an orgasm. Is the clitoris being stimulated? Or does it feel like the orgasm is coming from deep within?

  105. what of pussy size. Does t
    what of pussy size. Does t matter?

  106. size of the penis doesn’t
    size of the penis doesn’t matter its the ability of man t work on

    1. Hi Ibnu,

      Hi Ibnu,
      keep in mind that this article talks about a specific kind of orgasm only, not orgasms in general.

  107. Size does nothing,what
    Size does nothing,what matters is how long someones goes during s**x.

    1. Hi Peter,

      Hi Peter,
      keep in mind that this article talks about vaginal orgasms, not orgasms in general.
      And, knowing what to do with a clitoris is far more important than how long you can go.

  108. can contraceptv pls afect my
    can contraceptv pls afect my man since i startet using them he cant hav an erection

    1. Hi Jaky,

      Hi Jaky,
      your contraceptive pills will not affect a man’s ability to have an erection. They only affect your body, the hormones will have no effect on his ability to have an erection.

  109. Are there specific food that
    Are there specific food that enables it to be strong?

    1. Malack,

      Malack,
      what’s ‘it’? An orgasm or something else?

  110. Hi team love matters,
    Hi team love matters, something appears strange but doesnt ends making me uncomfortable. Most of the time i ejaculate inside the womans body, the semen actually flows out almost everytime i have sex. Is it a defect or, i need your help

  111. Hi team love matters,
    Hi team love matters, something appears strange but doesnt ends making me uncomfortable. Most of the time i ejaculate inside the womans body, the semen actually flows out almost everytime i have sex. Is it a defect or, i need your help

  112. but as for they complain…
    but as for they complain that its too big, why

    1. Hi Robert, the compaints…

      Hi Robert, the compaints could be related to pain and discomfort that comes from penetration from an above-average penis.

  113. size doe’nt matter,wat…
    size doe’nt matter,wat matter is how ur play the game

  114. How can I increase the…
    How can I increase the length of my penis? Help please!!!

    1. Hello Fwm, thank you for…

      Hello Fwm, thank you for reaching out to us. Unfortunately, penis enlargement methods are nearly all a waste of time and money, according to experts. No matter the approach, so-called penis enlargement techniques don’t work and can even do damage. And anyway, very few penises are much smaller than average. click here to find out more: https://lovemattersafrica.com/our-bodies/male-body/penis-enlargement-doesnt-work

  115. proof size does matter. This…
    proof size does matter. This is why guys would worry about their size. Imagine dating a girl whos ex had a thick 8 inch that made her have multiples every time and with your pathetic 5 inch she never comes.

    1. Mark Dixon thank you for…

      Mark Dixon thank you for your feedback and we understand where you are coming from but do nut underestimate yourself or the feelings of other orgasms she can experience buddy. Clitoral and mental orgasms are just as powerful. Click here to find out more on what you can do to give your partner an incredible sexual experience, despite her past experiences: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love/orgasms/her-orgasms

      You got this man! Have a wonderful weekend and feel free to reach out to us in case you need any more advice. Stay safe!

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