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What women like in a penis

What makes a penis attractive? Women of all ages weigh in on what matters most penis-wise, in a study from Switzerland. Are you curious?

Tons of lads worry about the size of their penis, and even at Love Matters, men are constantly asking questions about length and girth. But what do women consider handsome when it comes to a penis?

Swiss scientists decided to look into that, for a rather simple reason. They wanted to know if women thought penises looked normal when they’d been operated on to correct a common birth defect. But this led the researchers to scratch their heads and wonder, ‘What is a good looking penis?’

Size or looks?

So… they showed 100 women between 16 to 45 pictures of penises, elegantly posed from every angle. And they also asked the women to rate what mattered most when it came to penis good looks. Some did this before they perused the penis pics and others only afterwards. Was a bigger penis more attractive? Or did things like the head, scrotum, skin or pubic hair make or break a sexy penis?

On penis size, the women were unanimous: bigger is not necessarily better when it comes to a fine-looking schlong, they all said. In fact, length was one of the least important characteristics, while girth was rated third out of eight by half the women.

Interestingly, the women who had to say what mattered most before they inspected the penis parade were more likely to put size higher on the list. For women who checked out the penises first, and saw all the variety that was on offer, size became even less of an issue.

What did they rate as the number one factor? ‘General cosmetic appearance.’ It’s not entirely clear what that entails. But the women also said the appearance of a guy’s pubic hair is very important. Close behind in the rankings of what matters most is the way the skin looks.

Besides length, other things that women didn’t seem to find all that important were the head of a penis, the scrotum, and the opening at the end.

The whole package

All in all, it seems like guys’ penises are a bit like their faces. No two are the same, and there are many aspects that can make them more or less attractive to different women. Clear skin and the right hairstyle helps, but it’s the overall impression that counts. And of course, it’s nice if you can tell they’re pleased to see you!

So if you’re a guy who’s ever worried about the looks or size of your penis, here’s the take-home message: don’t get hung up on any one factor. Especially not size. If you’re concerned about something like blisters or spots or bumps, pluck up courage and see the doctor. For the rest, remember it’s the whole package she’s interested in.

Related: Do Women Prefer A Big Penis?

Do you like the look of your, or your partner’s, penis? Leave a comment below or join the discussion on Facebook.

Source: What is a Good Looking Penis? How Women Rate the Penile Appearance of Men with Surgically Corrected Hypospadias, Norma Katharina Ruppen-Greeff, Daniel M. Weber, Markus A. Landolt

This article was originally published on 2 December 2015.

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  1. I Like It Very much and its
    I Like It Very much and its attractive,i thank God 4 That.

      1. Why do other lads use to cry
        Why do other lads use to cry when it is big?

        1. Hi Herry, different people…

          Hi Herry, different people like different things. There are some women who do not like large penises as they may cause discomfort and pain.

  2. i like the size of a penis
    i like the size of a penis(big like 5cm)

    1. i think u mean 5′ (five
      i think u mean 5′ (five inches) not 5cm!

        1. Hi Piky, size is relative…

          Hi Piky, size is relative. However,  according to a study by the British Institute of Urology, the average size of an erect penis is about 5.5-6.2 inches (14-15.75cm), and the average girth is about 4.7-5.1 inches (12-13cm). At Love Matters we’re a bit more cautious – we just say an erect penis is usually somewhere between 2.7 and 6.7 inches (7-17cm). When it comes to condom sizes, ‘average’ counts as 4.7-5.9 inches (12-17cm)

    2. 5cm is an equivalent of the
      5cm is an equivalent of the smallest finger Mathematically speaking.

      1. Thank you for your…

        Thank you for your contibuion Lewis

    3. Big penis sweeter the sex
      Big penis sweeter the sex

      1. Thank you for your…

        Thank you for your contribution Castro, have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!

    4. 5cm it’s too small,that is…
      5cm it’s too small,that is for a very young boy,like 5yrs

  3. All penis are the same small
    All penis are the same small or big

  4. I hate small and short penis
    I hate small and short penis i feel very good with a man of fat and long penis coz the short one can not be flexible when doing technical styles

    1. It’s all about what you
      It’s all about what you prefer…

    2. No it matters which style
      No it matters which style

  5. My penis is very soft and wen
    My penis is very soft and wen my gal touches it i feel like jumping away. Is this a disease?

    1. We are not quite sure we
      We are not quite sure we understand what you mean.

  6. mwanaume ni penis kuwa kubwa
    mwanaume ni penis kuwa kubwa

    1. If you are wet and aroused,
      If you are wet and aroused, it shouldn’t hurt.

    2. Mimi niko na kubwa sana
      Mimi niko na kubwa sana sikudanganyi!!!

    3. Everyone has their preference
      Everyone has their preference but size is not an issue for most women.

  7. Actually It Has Never Crossed
    Actually It Has Never Crossed My Mind That The Appearance Really Matter Rather It Size I Guess Africans Will Go For Size And Its Effectiveness

    1. Do you think size really
      Do you think size really matters?

    1. What should it look like?
      What should it look like?

  8. according to me {African},
    according to me {African}, the beauty of a penis depends on the length, shape of the head, somebody’s skin colour and presence of fore skin. possibly, a medium penis in length looks more attractive than extra long/short penis. guys with brown skin also tend to have attractive penis and finally, a circumscised penis is more attractive since it clearly brings out the real shape of the penis. irregularly, an errect penis is more attractive and causes arousal in women. BY A PCM STUDENT FROM UGANDA.

    1. Thanks for your comment.
      Thanks for your comment.

  9. sized penises are the best
    sized penises are the best,then it should b full erect,not half erect.

  10. no matter hw big or small itz
    no matter hw big or small itz,wat matter’s u enjoy de game!

  11. seize doesnt matter,bt what
    seize doesnt matter,bt what matters z hw 2 use ur seize 2 satisfy ur partener

  12. Penis is the strenth of a man
    Penis is the strenth of a man!
    Big one is correct.

  13. smal is good and gals like
    smal is good and gals like

    1. What matters is knowing what
      What matters is knowing what to do with it, anyway!

  14. Love size penis of 16cm make
    Love size penis of 16cm make women to stick to man for swallowing that penis again and again

    1. Sorry, we don’t understand
      Sorry, we don’t understand what you are trying to say.

  15. Size doesn’t matter what
    Size doesn’t matter what matters is satisfactory

  16. it’s the best thing i have.
    it’s the best thing i have. thank God.

  17. the moderate the penis the
    the moderate the penis the sweetest the sex

  18. the moderate the penis the
    the moderate the penis the sweetest the sex

  19. Women shuld play a big role
    Women shuld play a big role direct da pen

  20. Haha.. i like the views..
    Haha.. i like the views..

  21. size doesn’t matter what
    size doesn’t matter what matters is how it play..

    1. And, do you know how to play?
      And, do you know how to play?

  22. I think the size does’t
    I think the size does’t matter alot ,how you use it is the big deal.

  23. am confused of the look of ur
    am confused of the look of ur face to be the same of ur penis is this realy true thanx

    1. We doubt it! Just like the
      We doubt it! Just like the size of the feet isn’t related.

  24. Medium penis does it for me
    Medium penis does it for me as long as clean,good colour skin and also the type of pubic hair

    1. Thanks for sharing, Esther!
      Thanks for sharing, Esther!

  25. the use of it is what brings
    the use of it is what brings it goodness or badness

  26. long or short dsnt mater,all
    long or short dsnt mater,all are best if they cn be used in th ryt way

  27. To me I think girth is
    To me I think girth is important and not length. I like a penis wide enough to stimulate my inner walls and at the same time rub my G-spot. Length and looks to me is a non-issue.

    1. Many men will be happy to
      Many men will be happy to hear that!

    2. Victoria, what and where is
      Victoria, what and where is the G spot?

    3. Mine is wide mayb u kan prove
      Mine is wide mayb u kan prove if it will reach your G spot

  28. do u have methods to enlarge
    do u have methods to enlarge my boyfriends penis

    1. There are no effective
      There are no effective methods. But why do you think it needs to be longer?

    2. I have many effective ways to enlarge your man’s junk.

  29. small penis works fo along
    small penis works fo along tim tan long

    1. We are not sure size and time
      We are not sure size and time to orgasm are related.

  30. is ther any side iffect of
    is ther any side iffect of mursturbestion?

    1. Relaxation, satisfaction,
      Relaxation, satisfaction, happiness!

  31. for me,its the power,to play
    for me,its the power,to play the game for long,

    1. Thanks for your comment!
      Thanks for your comment!

  32. infact i think it doesnt
    infact i think it doesnt matter whether big or small forexample me i have a 6.3inch lonh and 2inchs wide bt women crave to have me just becaus am agud fucker who knws wat to do

    1. It’s all about the clitoris.
      It’s all about the clitoris.

  33. i think a penis with bumbs is
    i think a penis with bumbs is good

  34. i think a penis with bumbs is
    i think a penis with bumbs is good

  35. appearance does not matter
    appearance does not matter but lenth matters alt actually mine is short and may gal always complain abt it so i have decided to avoid sex

    1. It’s important to remember
      It’s important to remember that most women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone, but need stimulation of the clitoris. And for that, you can best use your fingers or mouth.

  36. this is a very interesting
    this is a very interesting discussion, I have never thought about it, attached is my dick, please rate it

    1. We are so glad we don’t do
      We are so glad we don’t do attachments 🙂

  37. vwhat about curved medium
    vwhat about curved medium penis…whats ur talk ?

    1. Have you asked your partner?
      Have you asked your partner?

  38. along one catalyse the
    along one catalyse the arection process.

  39. That was a successful
    That was a successful research…Congratulation researchers..Here the hint is,Size is out of question!

  40. mhh i recomed big one alwalz
    mhh i recomed big one alwalz

  41. mhh i recomed big one alwalz
    mhh i recomed big one alwalz

  42. medium and fat one are the
    medium and fat one are the best

  43. I think Honestly ladies do
    I think Honestly ladies do not like small size penises whatsoever the content of this article.

  44. The game c da best not da
    The game c da best not da size

  45. A Circumcised penis is much
    A Circumcised penis is much better_ coz it shows the real shape and its always clean

    1. Thanks for your thoughts.
      Thanks for your thoughts.

  46. It’s not all about penis
    It’s not all about penis sizes,but each one must be prepared and ready to enjoy right from their minds

  47. May be ladies can clarify
    May be ladies can clarify this big size penis, how many inches or centimeters??

    1. Let’s see if anyone replies :
      Let’s see if anyone replies 🙂

  48. May be ladies can clarify
    May be ladies can clarify this big size penis, how many inches or centimeters??

  49. i think wat matters is hw u
    i think wat matters is hw u play around not te siz of te do te

  50. My penis is extreamly large
    My penis is extreamly large when i have a sex with my partner she cries alot. She some times reach to an extent where by she wil disapeare nd run away what can i do?

    1. Abalom,

      Abalom,
      make sure she is very wet and super aroused, and use extra lubrication. Try positions where penetration isn’t deep, or she is in charge of the depths. Also, be very slow and gentle.

  51. I Have Gone Through All The
    I Have Gone Through All The Comments And I Think My Penis Is The Most Beautifull Hahaha,all Factors Given I Hve Them Waooooo..

    1. Good for you, Denis 🙂
      Good for you, Denis 🙂

  52. mine is fat and long gals
    mine is fat and long gals scrumble for it ,i dont know why!

    1. Maybe you use it well!
      Maybe you use it well!

  53. mine has all te qualities i
    mine has all te qualities i’ve seen here,so i need a lady to proove these.

    1. let us know how it goes!
      let us know how it goes!

  54. mine is short round n fat

    mine is short round n fat
    ges they like it

  55. My penis is small and I want
    My penis is small and I want to make her screa which is the best position

    1. The easiest way is to use
      The easiest way is to use your fingers on her clitoris.

  56. mine is fat,and i like the
    mine is fat,and i like the size

  57. Pronto, am quite certain with
    Pronto, am quite certain with the dogma and the cults of the removal of the clitoris in the past. The great folks had concrete reasons for carring out the activity. I believe its due to the extreme libido. Once the clitoris is cut-off the sexual athletism is definately halted. But, its pitiful nowadays, women are killing their men for unsatisfied conjugal need.

    1. Dickson,

      Dickson,
      Cutting off the clitoris will definitely affect the way a woman has sex, but having a clitoris does not mean that a woman has extreme libido!

      1. Sure? It’s the one part the
        Sure? It’s the one part the sky high the copulative sensations in a woman. You will agree that most of the women whether stabled or unstabled are surely after sex, and are employing efforts to grip any idle young man and confine him as a sex machine. It’s due to clitoris. Historically ladies are different by large margin contrasting from the trending ones’ in terms of sex. Nowadays you must be good in beed to be compliant.

  58. i have small one most girls
    i have small one most girls do not like it help me!

    1. Spence,

      Spence,
      It’s important to remember that most women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone, they need stimulation of the clitoris. And for that, you don’t need a penis, but fingers or a mouth.

    2. Spence,

      Spence,
      It’s important to remember that most women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone, they need stimulation of the clitoris. And for that, you don’t need a penis, but fingers or a mouth.

  59. Experience is very important
    Experience is very important

  60. Mine is big with all
    Mine is big with all characteristics but i don’t understand

  61. Mine is big with all
    Mine is big with all characteristics but i don’t understand

    1. What do you not understand?
      What do you not understand?

  62. medium size and big z da
    medium size and big z da best but long ones are out

    1. Why do you think so, Roberto
      Why do you think so, Roberto :-)?

  63. i like the discusion and
    i like the discusion and still follwing.

  64. my gal is a virgin n she
    my gal is a virgin n she doesnt lyk wen i seduce her or touch her boobs.. wat can i do to f*ck her and i really need it….

    1. Sparta,

      Sparta,
      Have you spoken to her and asked her why she’s doesn’t feel uncomfortable and doesn’t want to have sex?

  65. I have all that everything
    I have all that everything

  66. Its true long pens r good
    Its true long pens r good wen lovemaking my ladies love it coz i stimulate the by playing with the glitories.

    1. Seeing that the most
      Seeing that the most sensitive part of the clitoris is on the outside of the body, you thankfully don’t need a large penis for that!

  67. I think the size does not
    I think the size does not really matter but what matters is the way you play it

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  68. I think the size does not
    I think the size does not really matter but what matters is the way you play it

  69. Playing long n rubbing
    Playing long n rubbing clitoris matters alot…..foreplay n making tha lady wet is big turnoff….lots of kiss fo good kissers is acharm……..touching is akeypoint..gve me chance huny n iwill spoil you……………..iwill mek you go gagga

    1. Foreplay is a turn off or
      Foreplay is a turn off or turn on?

  70. Mine is very small, what is
    Mine is very small, what is the solution to make it big??

    1. Sorry, there are no methods
      Sorry, there are no methods that work.
      But it’s important that for your partner’s pleasure, stimulation of the clitoris is important, and for that, you don’t need a penis at all, but fingers or your mouth.

  71. A circumsised panis and
    A circumsised panis and uncircumsised,which one fucks better?

    1. The guy who knows that good
      The guy who knows that good sex is about communication.

  72. i think it dependhow

    i think it dependhow
    long u last on bed,if u have huge and long penis and yuh cant last long is meaningless

    1. And knowing the clitoris!
      And knowing the clitoris!

  73. Victoria let’s talk n see if
    Victoria let’s talk n see if I can reach your g spot

  74. it about how n where u tease
    it about how n where u tease her…u can av a long big tool buh got no skills…so the size doesnt matter…..u can av orals n yet have the craziest orgasim ever so guys dont be fooled….

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  75. I now realize ywhy women look
    I now realize ywhy women look at my penis and marvel

  76. I think the best way to make
    I think the best way to make a women come is how u play the game not rough and always making sure she’s wet by touching the clitoris.The size of the penis is not a big deal wen u can do all that

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your experience.

  77. I think, length of the penis
    I think, length of the penis doesn’t matter since the sensitive part in the vagina is not right there inside but in the clitoris itself. If you can play sex with your fingers stimulating the clitoris I think that will make the woman to enjoy and reach orgasm.

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us.

  78. I think, length of the penis
    I think, length of the penis doesn’t matter since the sensitive part in the vagina is not right there inside but in the clitoris itself. If you can play sex with your fingers stimulating the clitoris I think that will make the woman to enjoy and reach orgasm.

  79. is there side effect of using
    is there side effect of using viagra to perform sex……

    1. Erin,

      Erin,
      Unless viagra has been prescribed by a doctor for problems with erections, you should not use it.

  80. my is always niet, bcos if i
    my is always niet, bcos if i leave it dirty if i bend down my self d odoo makes me hat my lack of leaniness, but i want to add more size hw can it be pls?

    1. Sunday,

      Sunday,
      Sorry, there are no effective ways other than surgery to increase size.

  81. Does mursturbestion reduces
    Does mursturbestion reduces the rate Of ejaculation?

    1. What do you mean by rate of
      What do you mean by rate of ejaculation?

  82. sex is all about the mind not
    sex is all about the mind not aout the size .and more so how much you love your partner.

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  83. I think to me a longer fat
    I think to me a longer fat penis does it well coz of satisfaction,I like it tight and deep..

  84. Mine is so good and beautiful
    Mine is so good and beautiful.

  85. did u knw dat da lenght ov yo
    did u knw dat da lenght ov yo foot is equal 2 da lenght ov yo penis

    1. I think science has disputed
      I think science has disputed it.

  86. Can do sex for 4 minutes only
    Can do sex for 4 minutes only and my penis is very short…can that cause a lady to become pregnant?

  87. Loving the comments….
    Loving the comments…..following

  88. haha i like this, mine is
    haha i like this, mine is just medium size n ladies love it

  89. How can you stimulate a
    How can you stimulate a female who have undergone FGM hence no critoris, and breast is not an option since she is breast feeding

  90. If both parties are willing
    If both parties are willing then, the results are good

    1. And if they know what they
      And if they know what they want!

  91. mine is long but small in
    mine is long but small in size mostly women’s like it what is the reason?

  92. thot my length helps…..
    thot my length helps…..

  93. I don’t like sex,am I normal?
    I don’t like sex,am I normal?

    1. Why don’t you like it?
      Why don’t you like it?

  94. Big penis are just tearing
    Big penis are just tearing someone down…I dont prefer them

  95. Smilin’ at every insight!
    Smilin’ at every insight! Foreplay is indispensable, and a good one! Size has a 14p/c effect on product

    1. Thanks for sharing your
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Ronnie.

  96. A times pubic hair grows all
    A times pubic hair grows all the way to almost kiss the head as for the case of gene inheritance. How do you stop the pearcing caused by the hair during copulation?

    1. You could try to very
      You could try to very carefully shave, or try to wear a condom? Just try different things and see what works best for you!

  97. my penis is 7.6 inches and it
    my penis is 7.6 inches and it is banana shaped can it cause a my girl to feel pain

    1. Vaginas can be very flexible,
      Vaginas can be very flexible, but generally, just make sure you communicate well, and that she is very wet, aroused and ready for sex.

  98. if one has gone through FGM..
    if one has gone through FGM.. are there specific sex styles that can make her get orgasm and get satisfied in bed

  99. stimulation of the clitoris
    stimulation of the clitoris is wat matters….

  100. my girl does not lyk finger.
    my girl does not lyk finger..is it health or wat should i do..?

    1. Have you asked her why she
      Have you asked her why she doesn’t like it?

  101. is it health 2 kiss da vagina
    is it health 2 kiss da vagina…e

    1. As long as both of you are
      As long as both of you are healthy, nothing speaks against it!

  102. I find the discuscussion
    I find the discuscussion intresting but not adventurous at all, I hope I can learn from you (here)

    1. What are you looking to learn
      What are you looking to learn? Happy to help 🙂

  103. The black medium size penis
    The black medium size penis is the best coz it visits every conner so this is brings your lady to a satisfaction positive way. so the medium size i gues is the best.

  104. wats the normal length of the
    wats the normal length of the penis? btw thx 4 being informative,w love t

  105. how can my wife get wet doing
    how can my wife get wet doing sex,,
    can romancing girls breasts make her demand for sex

    1. It depends bcoz women r
      It depends bcoz women r different! So try to find out which part wen touched makes her wet.., or ask her if u cn becoz she knws which part of her body turns her on wen touched…

      1. Thanks Jack for your input,
        Thanks Jack for your input, its much appreciated.

    2. Yes Danx,romancing,sucking a
      Yes Danx,romancing,sucking a lady’s breast can make her ask for lovemaking,if you continue kissing and sucking her breast while you are inside her,you will definite bring to orgasm/climax and you will not forget the experience.

      1. Thanks Onyi for your input.
        Thanks Onyi for your input.

    3. Danx, yes caressing on
      Danx, yes caressing on touching on a woman breast can turn her on and make her wet. That is what is called foreplay.

  106. Any time i kiss or hug my guy
    Any time i kiss or hug my guy [anakuwa on heat] is he nomal? and why is it that he swiches so quickly.

    1. Jeyn that is normal. Men are
      Jeyn that is normal. Men are wired that way.

    2. Jeyn, trust me you will be
      Jeyn, trust me you will be more concerned when your kisses and hugs never make him hard.

      1. Thanks for your input Mel.
        Thanks for your input Mel.

  107. What about noy playing the
    What about noy playing the game more than a minute

  108. I just lyk ma darling’s penis
    I just lyk ma darling’s penis, t gives me comfort wow!!!

  109. Yea,apart from the looks,size
    Yea,apart from the looks,size,pubic hairs and all that,I’m over the moon when I see my partner’s ‘Uncle P’ acquire some kind of upward/downward and back/forward kind of motion when he is standing after being away for a while.

    1. Thank you for sharing your
      Thank you for sharing your experience with us Onyi.

  110. I think sex is all about the
    I think sex is all about the mind & how the two parties handle it.To me size doesnt matter

    1. Thank you Violet for your
      Thank you Violet for your input.

  111. so educative….keenly
    so educative….keenly following

    1. Thank you Tish, tell your
      Thank you Tish, tell your friends to join it to.

  112. mine is medium n beefy..I
    mine is medium n beefy..I like it coz it gets tight n deep wen duing it.

    1. Thank you for sharing this
      Thank you for sharing this with us Salane.

  113. Is sex health in our body
    Is sex health in our body

    1. What do you mean Linda?
      What do you mean Linda?

  114. waw that was interesting
    waw that was interesting

  115. Is it important to hard
    Is it important to hard erection of Penis? If not hard so that create problems for pregnancy…

    1. Without a good erection its
      Without a good erection its difficult to penetrate during sex. Thank you for your input Sharma.

  116. Size don matter wat matter n
    Size don matter wat matter n service ata gari n service

    1. Thank you for your input
      Thank you for your input Kinuthia.

  117. how cn ae make ma gyal scream
    how cn ae make ma gyal scream for more?

  118. i usually jam b4 touching ma
    i usually jam b4 touching ma chic,am i normal?

  119. how can i do it without
    how can i do it without hating my wife?

  120. why are a few ladies moan and
    why are a few ladies moan and says it pain?

    1. Hi Hila, sex can sometimes be
      Hi Hila, sex can sometimes be painful especially when there is friction due to lack of enough lubrication.

  121. I love a long dick that
    I love a long dick that curves upwards, with a huge pink cock head. Just the way it bounces around when a guy walks with it while erect completely gets my juices going. I have to make a guy do a small steamy ‘swinging’ dance when i see one of those.

    1. Thanks for sharing that with
      Thanks for sharing that with us Mel.

  122. hw would u improve if u r nt
    hw would u improve if u r nt satisfied with the size?

  123. Size does not matter but the…
    Size does not matter but the game with ur partner??

    1. Hey Ceasler, thank you for…

      Hey Ceasler, thank you for your contribution.

  124. Thank you for sharing, Sam. 

    Thank you for sharing, Sam. 

  125. 9 inc size iz the best 4 mi…
    9 inc size iz the best 4 mi partner.

  126. Thank you for sharing with…

    Thank you for sharing with us, Enrique!

  127. Hi John, thank you for…

    Hi John, thank you for getting in touch and asking a great question. Are you still a virgin? How old are you? Before getting into sex talk, it is important to remember that the legal age to have sex in Kenya is 18. Therefore, if you are not of age, we advise that you heed this advice. Making love, or having sex, can mean different things to different people. It can mean a man putting his penis into a woman’s vagina. Or other things, such as masturbating your partner, oral sex, or anal sex. There are many ways to have sexual pleasure. Click here to find out more: https://lovemattersafrica.com/making-love

    We hope this helps and let us know if you have any more questions! We are here for you, have a wonderful week and stay safe.

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      Why are…

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    1. Hi Dylan, 

      It is normal for…

      Hi Dylan, 

      It is normal for a penis to be bent to the right or left when erect. However, if it is significantly bent and accompanied by pain and difficulty having sex, go to the nearest hospital for treatment. 

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