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The miracle that is vagina

Can the vagina get back to its size after having sex? What makes the vagina become large? Are there ways to keep it smaller?

Oh wow! It’s myth-busting time! The un-aroused vagina is between 2.5 and 3 inches long. Once aroused, it stretches to about 4 inches, and any additional stretching is in response to the size of the penis. This is why we can have great sex with men who have different sized penises. So the short answer: the vagina returns to size after sex.

Let’s flex

The vagina is a muscular tube surrounded by pubococcygeal (PC) muscles that start at the tip of your spine and stretch all the way to your pelvic bone. Strengthening these muscles is done through exercises that were formulated by a doctor named Arnold Kegel. They work to strengthen the walls of your vagina and give you better control of everything that involves your pelvis: from gyrating to urination to orgasm.

There’s one simple exercise you can begin with. The next time you are urinating, stop the flow of urine. The muscles you use to do this are the PC muscles and that’s what we want to strengthen. To exercise it, simply flex for about two seconds. You should feel a tightening going from your anus down to your vagina.

Your Kegel work-out should involve a minimum of two sets of 15 repetitions three times a week. After a few weeks, you can increase the number of repetitions and the frequency of your work-out.

And during sex, you can relax these muscles as the man pulls out and flex as he pushes in – you will then both experience more friction.

No to vagina tighteners

You must stay away from those so-called ‘vagina tightening’ soaps and lotions. They affect the vaginal lining, sometimes drying it out so that you get little cuts during sex and thus making you more prone to infections. Kegels are really the best way to firm and tighten your vagina.

As most fathers will attest, there are few things more wondrous than the vagina – how it expands for childbirth and then later shrinks back for pleasure. This is why all men who’ve visited keep applying for another visit.


Do you have questions about the vagina? Our discussion board moderators can tell you more about this miraculous organ. 

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Recent Comments (154)

  1. Pls wat is kegel work-out?
    Pls wat is kegel work-out?

    1. Hi Halimukta,

      Hi Halimukta,
      kegel exercises are exercises that strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. You can feel what it feels like next time you urinate- just stop your urine mid-flow. That’s flexing your pelvic floor muscles. It’s the pelvic floor that stops the urine from flowing.
      To exercise the pelvic floor muscles, simply flex for about two seconds. You should feel a tightening going from your anus down to your vagina.

      1. Mine is really tight my man…
        Mine is really tight my man always finds trouble to penetrante wtf it’s so painful I mean duhh am not a virgin anymore

        1. Hi Kylie, 

          A vagina is…

          Hi Kylie, 

          A vagina is capable is stretching for up to 4-8 inches when you’re aroused. Your vaginal canal also gets longer to accommodate penetration. It could be that your and your man are not investing more time for foreplay. During forepay, your partner should stimulate you so that you get wet, or what we call lubricated. This lubrication moistens the vagina and its entrance, making penetration easier. Read this article to get tips on foreplay: Top tips for foreplay. It is also possible that you are not fully relaxed during sex and this means that you experience difficulty getting aroused/wet. It is important to relax and be present during sex. Finally, consider using a lubricant to increase sexual comfort, and pleasure.  A large penis can still cause discomfort when having sex. Read more about lubrication here: Things you should know about lubricants 

          1. Hi Oduar, 

            How do you feel…

            Hi Oduar, 

            How do you feel when you do what? Feel free to reach out to us. We are happy to engage with you. 

  2. mine is always tight,I do the
    mine is always tight,I do the kegel,it works 100%,ladies try it

    1. Thanks for your comment,
      Thanks for your comment, Milly!

    1. Hi there,
      thanks 🙂

      Hi there,
      thanks 🙂

  3. what am understanding is the
    what am understanding is the kegel and tightn of the vagina can you pliz explain 4 m thanks!!

    1. Hi Rose ,

      Hi Rose ,
      Kegel exercises will help keeping your pelvic floor muscles in shape, which means your vagina will remain tight and healthy.
      You exercise them flexing the pelvic floor muscles, for about two seconds. You should feel a tightening going from your anus down to your vagina. You can test if you are doing it right next time next time you urinate- just stop your urine mid-flow. That’s flexing your pelvic floor muscles.

  4. Pls cn u xplain more. I cnt
    Pls cn u xplain more. I cnt undstnd d exercse. Wots flexin?

    1. Hi Ann,

      Hi Ann,
      flexing in this case means squeezing.
      The next time you go to the toilet, squeeze your muscles so that your urine stops flowing- that’s what the exercise should feel like.
      Does this help?

    1. Hi Ann,
      you are welcome!

      Hi Ann,
      you are welcome!

  5. My pal tld me once he starts
    My pal tld me once he starts sexing it takes hm jst 1 min 2 shot n afterwards his dick relax cant erect again.whats his problem

    1. Hi Mas, those things are
      Hi Mas, those things are quite normal. Especially men with little experience often ejaculate quickly. What can help is practicing not to ejaculate for as long as you can while masturbating. Or, while your friend is having sex, try to get close to ejaculation and then stopping all movement. Until the urge passes. Repeat that until he really ejaculates. And it’s also normal to have some time pass between two erections. The penis and the body need time to recover. Does this help?

  6. does kegel exercise av any
    does kegel exercise av any importance in men

    1. Hi there, kegel exercises can
      Hi there, kegel exercises can help prevent and treat urinary incontinence in men.

  7. Its true,i have been doing
    Its true,i have been doing this

    1. Great! We are glad to hear it
      Great! We are glad to hear it works for you!

  8. Nyc advise..didnt knw..wanna
    Nyc advise..didnt knw..wanna try it..

    1. Hi Willy, we are glad you
      Hi Willy, we are glad you liked Valentine’s article. You can also read her column every Saturday in The Star, where Love Matters has its very own page.

  9. Nyc advise..didnt knw..wanna
    Nyc advise..didnt knw..wanna try it..

    1. You are very welcome!
      You are very welcome!

  10. Am a virgin bt am afraid i
    Am a virgin bt am afraid i hav alredy broken it coz i exercise alot,how does 1 know dat she is a virgin n is it true dat small breast pruvs virginity?i hav small breast too

    1. Hi Pamela, please don’t be
      Hi Pamela, please don’t be afraid. first of all, virginity doesn’t need to be broken. Thats a common misconception, that force needs to be applied. The more gentle your partner is, the more relaxed and wet you are, the more likely it is that it won’t be all that painful. Also, because you exercise a lot, it is possible that your hymen is already stretched, which makes the chance of pain ever smaller. And here is no way of telling,seeing or feeling that someone is a virgin. Even experienced doctors cannot tell. Small breasts are genetic, and not a sign of virginity. Please check our ‘Making Love’ section, there you will find more information about first time sex. But just relax- the more you worry, the more you will cramp up and the more likely you will experience pain. Does this help?

      1. All my dating time;Av never
        All my dating time;Av never had sex with a virgin, but am so inluv with this newly found prettyAngel, luv her so much, at first wen we wanted tomake luv, It happened to be that she’s V” nd I hv lots of prbs making luv with V”z, I feel heart_down doing that, cnt stnd such pain on her, cnt imagine me watch her get hurt, nd she rili needs me soo bad, she begs me for it, like always… Wts the best way to give to her, pain_free, cos she luv’s me so much nd needs me.

  11. I feel nothing wen aving sex
    I feel nothing wen aving sex wit ma hubby

    1. Hi Linet, what is it that you
      Hi Linet, what is it that you are missing? Is he not attentive enough, or too fast? Have you ever made suggestions to him? Some men don’t really know much about women’s bodies, and are grateful for some suggestions along the lines of ‘honey, I really love it when you touch me here’. You can even show him! For this, of course, you need to know what you want. Have you ever masturbated to get to know your body? Also, be proactive. For example, touch your own clitoris when you are on top. It might take some courage, but that way, you will get what you need. But most important is communication – if he doesn’t know what you want and need, he won’t be able to give it to you. So be brave, and tell him what you want! Does this make sense?

  12. AM GETTING MARRIED SOON THE
    AM GETTING MARRIED SOON THE PROBLEM IS HE DOSENT CERTISFY ME WHEN IT COMES 2 SEX COZ HIS PENIS IS SO THIN AND SMALL PLIZ WHAT CAN I DO TO TYTEN MY VIGINA?

    1. Hi Lucy, you can do the Kegel
      Hi Lucy, you can do the Kegel exercises Valentine describes in the article above. Also, is your partner paying attention to your clitoris? The majority of women doesn’t get an orgasm through the in-and-out movement of sex alone. Tell him what turns you on. Of course, for that, you really need to know your body and what you want. Men sometimes are a bit confused when it comes to what women need, so you need to tell him what you want, and help him learn how to satisfy you. And by the way, a bigger or thicker penis doesn’t mean more satisfaction- the size of the penis is not necessarily relevant for the female orgasm. Good luck and let us know how it goes!

    1. You are welcome, lynn!
      You are welcome, lynn!

  13. Hae there…i just broke my
    Hae there…i just broke my virginity in apri…i dnt feel anythin wid my guy..wat cud b de problem…then wen i stay for long widout hvin sex…its alwyz painful…is it normal????

  14. I am afraid.hv lived a virgin
    I am afraid.hv lived a virgin lady till the age of 22 years.hv never slept with a guy sinz birth n am afraid wen i had sex with mi boyfriend,as mi first time,i realized tht i was not a virgin.where could i hv lost mi virginity plix.am worried.

  15. I thought tht every bleeds.n
    I thought tht every bleeds.n could i hv lost it as i was undergoin mi military course bcz the course ix soo tough n many exercises r involved.?

    1. Hi Jackie,

      Hi Jackie,
      you need to distinguish between the hymen and virginity.
      Being a virgin means you haven’t had sex before. That all women bleed the first time is a huge myth!
      The hymen is a stretchy piece of skin at the entrance of the vagina, that is still intact in many people who haven’t had intercourse. But it can rupture during other activities, such as, indeed, exercise, or using a tampon.
      Having a hymen or not is by no means an indication of someone being a virgin.

  16. Can a virgin lady still
    Can a virgin lady still engage in kegel exercise? Hope it wil nt deprived her baby frm enjoying the ride whenever they hv sex?

    1. Hi J,

      Hi J,
      yep, sure, that’s no problem.
      The pelvic floor muscles have nothing to do with the pelvis.

  17. i ave a boyfred whodoes nt
    i ave a boyfred whodoes nt rily satisfy me. i ave tried to talk to him bt its in vain, i lov him but i also want to enjoy sex cz when he ejaculates am left stil wanting more what do i do

    1. Hi Rose,

      Hi Rose,
      We hear this a lot.
      Most women have trouble having an orgasm without the clitoris being stimulated- and most men don’t know this. This has nothing to do with size, as the in-and out movement of sex alone won’t get you enough clitoral stimulation. Check out this section to learn more about the clitoris, and have your man stimulate it during foreplay and intercourse: http://lovematters.co.ke/resource/vulva

    2. ITS EASY DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO
      ITS EASY DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO POWER IN YOUR VAGINA JUST TRY OUT WITHDRAW HE WILL REMAIN STRAIGHT

  18. What can increase a mas dick
    What can increase a mas dick size and whats the problem with me, i get tired after few minutes and stops erecting?

    1. If I understand you correctly
      If I understand you correctly, you want to increase the size of your penis. Unfortunately, that’s impossible. All products that claim to do so will not help.
      In terms of lasting longer, are you ejaculating or do you just lose your erection?

      1. My husband just loses his
        My husband just loses his erection or at times he doesn’t even erects. Also my observations though, haven’t disclosed to him is I wonder if he actually ejaculates. If yes, then the quantity should be very insignificant hence not producing pregnancy.

  19. second round is the time i
    second round is the time i cum,alot of water comes out ad i feel sweet bt am i okey?ad mostly when am on top help me

    1. Dot,

      Dot,
      that is totally fine! It’s a good thing, and shows how much you enjoy it!

    2. I cam so soon, is there a way
      I cam so soon, is there a way to prolong it?

    3. Thanks Dot, for your input.
      Thanks Dot, for your input.

    1. Ben,

      Ben,
      ejaculation in men means sperm coming out of the penis

  20. this was very helpful thank
    this was very helpful thank you.

  21. my girl vagina becomes
    my girl vagina becomes extensively watery when we are having sex. what can she do?

    1. Hi that is normal, it only
      Hi that is normal, it only means she is turned on. If you do not like too much wetness you could always wipe off some of it and continue enjoying.

  22. I love ua advise n am
    I love ua advise n am enjoying

    1. Thank you Mirriam, we
      Thank you Mirriam, we appreciate your feedback.

  23. my fellows it really works.It
    my fellows it really works.It makes u fit for every sizes ov dicks.Bt whoever enters wil feel like doing it again and again.

    1. Thank you Joan for affirming
      Thank you Joan for affirming this. That is great to hear.

  24. mi wen am n da game en once i
    mi wen am n da game en once i realiz da first round, t takx mi some gud tym 2 erect again. wat cld bi da prob 4 mi en hw cn i ova com t??

    1. Hi Morsh, that is normal for
      Hi Morsh, that is normal for most men. When most men ejaculate it takes them sometime before they can regain their erection. You need not be worried about that.

    1. Great! tell us how it goes
      Great! tell us how it goes Anne.

  25. wat meks a vagina fail to
    wat meks a vagina fail to regain its tightness after a month with out sex

    1. Sasha lack of sex does not
      Sasha lack of sex does not loosen the vagina. If you want to regain tightness you can try the kegel exercise as explained in this article.

  26. My girl frend like to be
    My girl frend like to be eaten something dat is full of sugar all days,,example,evry two two day pepsi drink.and there is a buscuite call cookies she love to eat dat buscuites evry day,egg roll like four a day,am evry day complaining to her that this things she was eaten is not good for her health..pls what can i do to prevent her from eaten all dis sugar stuffs..and what can dis cause toi her health??thanks.reply.

    1. Hi Kazeem, its a good thing
      Hi Kazeem, its a good thing that you are concerned about your girlfriends health, but you still have to understand everyone makes a choice about what they want. You have done your part in telling her about it. Its uto her to decide what to do.

  27. I havent girl frnd so tahat i
    I havent girl frnd so tahat i feel more erecting what i cant do??

    1. Hi Platnumz, i don’t
      Hi Platnumz, i don’t understand your question. Can you kindly clarify.

  28. thnks alot for d good work
    thnks alot for d good work

    1. We appreciate your feedback
      We appreciate your feedback Jaky.

    1. Thank you Cornel. We are glad
      Thank you Cornel. We are glad you like it.

  29. Pls i need ur help,,anytime i
    Pls i need ur help,,anytime i had sex with my husband, i used to cry seriously because is too painful,because of this,,,i hate sex and my husbad like it seriously,,,pls what cause this? And what is d solution

    1. HI Motunrayo, sorry for what
      HI Motunrayo, sorry for what you are going through. Sex during pain could be because of different reasons including lack of enough lubrication and infections. Check out this article to learn more about it and get possible solution https://lovematters.co.ke/news/when-sex-hurts .

  30. iam facing a vry big problem
    iam facing a vry big problem whereby my vagina doesnt produce enough fluids during sex.attimes its totaly dry and my man doesn enjoy sex even me.Wat can i do to have/produce alot of fluids like any other women who wet their beds during sex?thx

    1. Hi Jaky, dry sex can be very
      Hi Jaky, dry sex can be very painful and uncomfortable.It can be cause by different reasons. Sometimes it could be something that’s natural. You can try a lot o foreplay and if does not work you can opt for use of lubricants like the KY jelly.

  31. Mst all ladies have that kind
    Mst all ladies have that kind of water like the one i see in blue movie? Is it real? I mean dat water dat flows like a tap ..?

  32. my penis is small n short
    my penis is small n short what i can make it large?

    1. Hi Forjo, there are no known
      Hi Forjo, there are no known safe remedies or medication for enlarging ones penis. But what’s the reason for wanting to enlarge your penis? Its important to know that size does not matter during sex. Check out this articles and learn more https://lovematters.co.ke/news/penis-top-five-facts .

  33. wen i have sex ejaculation
    wen i have sex ejaculation usually comes very first on my in and out bt i tighten my dick n prevent the process .n i can fuck for twenty mints before the real ejacurition .is it heathy really

    1. Hi P, there is nothing wrong
      Hi P, there is nothing wrong with that. Its a trick most men have been unable to grasp.

  34. Thañks for advs ddnt know
    Thañks for advs ddnt know much thät ave seen iñ yua page…..but plz wat is kegel

    1. Hi Pauline, thanks for being
      Hi Pauline, thanks for being part of the love matters family. Kegel is Strengthening the vaginal muscles through exercises that were formulated by a doctor named Arnold Kegel. They work to strengthen the walls of your vagina and give you better control of everything that involves your pelvis: from gyrating to urination to orgasm.

      There’s one simple exercise you can begin with. The next time you are urinating, stop the flow of urine. The muscle you use to do this is the PC muscle and that’s what we want to strengthen. To exercise it, simply flex for about two seconds. You should feel a tightening going from your anus down to your vagina.

  35. sometimes, i hate to have sex
    sometimes, i hate to have sex, because when i penetrate i ejeculate first n become weak. But sometimes, i become active and i dnt get satisfied and the woman cries that am too much and i still need more. what might be the problem?

    1. Hi Benedict, there is no
      Hi Benedict, there is no problem, all that is normal. Sometimes ejaculation comes prematurely other times it might take a while.

  36. very educating I like it
    very educating I like it thanks guyz

    1. You are welcome Anita. We are
      You are welcome Anita. We are glad you like it.

  37. I av been aving sex 4 long
    I av been aving sex 4 long but i av never get te one whom i av enjoy well and 4 me i take long to relese wat can i do to enjoy

    1. Hi Kibet, it sounds as though
      Hi Kibet, it sounds as though you are concentrating on the wrong things. When you are enjoying sex it does not have to take long. You need to pay more attention on the art of love making and your partners needs as well as your own. Enjoying sex is more mental than it is physical. Check out this article and learn more https://lovematters.co.ke/resource/ways-make-love .

  38. I tried to hv sex with my
    I tried to hv sex with my girlfriend bt I failed to enter. What could be da problem?

    1. Hi there, why were you unable
      Hi there, why were you unable to penetrate? Kindly explain a bit more.

  39. Hi, i last for long before
    Hi, i last for long before ejaculation when making love, do i have a problem?

    1. Hi Jere, how long do you feel
      Hi Jere, how long do you feel yo last using time as a frame of reference?

  40. I don’t know why dis happens
    I don’t know why dis happens to mi, i don’t com when i fil like am finishing-up da game en mi boyfriend iz alwayz questioning mi ov dat, so wat can i do?

  41. What is kegel please and did
    What is kegel please and did it work?

    1. Kegel is Strengthening the
      Kegel is Strengthening the vaginal muscles through exercises that were formulated by a doctor named Arnold Kegel. They work to strengthen the walls of your vagina and give you better control of everything that involves your pelvis: from gyrating to urination to orgasm.

      There’s one simple exercise you can begin with. The next time you are urinating, stop the flow of urine. The muscle you use to do this is the PC muscle and that’s what we want to strengthen. To exercise it, simply flex for about two seconds. You should feel a tightening going from your anus down to your vagina. Yes kegel exercise work.

  42. Ae hw cn I do to increase
    Ae hw cn I do to increase ijaculation,

  43. Pls can you explain more
    Pls can you explain more about kegel work -out?

    1. Hi Excellent, Kegel exercise
      Hi Excellent, Kegel exercise consists of repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles that form part of the pelvic floor, now sometimes colloquially referred to as the “Kegel muscles”. Exercises are usually done to reduce urinary incontinence especially after childbirth and reduce premature ejaculatory occurrences in men, as well as to increase the size and intensity of erections

  44. when am by ma self my
    when am by ma self my erection is normally bt when i have alady sometimes i dnt erect,it’s week

    1. Hi Brigade, sex is very
      Hi Brigade, sex is very mental than it is physical, if for example you have something on your mind that is bothering you it could prevent you from gaining an erection. For example if you are tensed or have reservations it could be difficult to be turned on. You should try and relax and be easy about the whole process.

  45. Ever Since I Circumcised Ma
    Ever Since I Circumcised Ma Dick. It Demandz For Sex Alot Than Usual Bt I Hate Havin’ Sex Wiz Evry girl Coz Ar Nara Trustworthy Till I Find Ma True Luv. So Wat Can Do…..?

    1. Hi Cool, it is good that you
      Hi Cool, it is good that you are enjoying sex more but as you have suggested you can wait to find a good partner that you love whom you can enjoy sex with.

  46. My gilfrnd dose not sastify
    My gilfrnd dose not sastify me, what would be the problem?

    1. Hi Brian, you can teach her
      Hi Brian, you can teach her what you like and how to satisfy you. That will be the best way for her to learn.

  47. Hallo ?

    Hallo ?
    When having sex with my girlfriend the vagina start producing bad smell .
    That smell makes mi loose sex appetite…
    whats that?

    1. Hi Oliver,one can have vagina
      Hi Oliver,one can have vagina odor for several reasons like bad hygiene or infections. You should talk to your partner about this and find out what the issue might be and then resolve it together.

  48. Satisfactory 4 ol in ailments
    Satisfactory 4 ol in ailments of sex madness. Really interesting.

  49. Why Is It That I Ejaculate
    Why Is It That I Ejaculate Very Fast Of Which I Think Doesn’t Make My Girl Satisfied.I Can Play As Many Rounds As I Want That Same Day But All Not So Long Enough,do I Have Any Problem?

  50. i have been liking lesbian
    i have been liking lesbian then am i okey coz i always go 4shots per nait and still i dont get enough of it after sex!!so i masturbate

    1. Hi there, thanks for sharing
      Hi there, thanks for sharing your story with us.

  51. av been goin 4 shots per
    av been goin 4 shots per night en my lady dont want that coz of the pain..can i get another lady who will be comfortable for mah many shots?or stick to her??

    1. Hi Richie, you should
      Hi Richie, you should consider being more gentle with your partner. as opposed to popular beliefs quality sex is better than just quantity sex. When both of you enjoy sex its much better than when you are enjoying it alone. This would apply to even other partners you could be with in the future. Talk to your partner about this and find a way for both of you to enjoy sex.

  52. do all girls cum.if yes how
    do all girls cum.if yes how can i make her do it?or is it by hard fuck?she always trouble mi that she enjoyx sex only wen she cums.

    1. Hi Antony all girls should be
      Hi Antony all girls should be able to climax. you should encourage your partner to teach you how to satisfy her. She knows her body best and could tell you what she likes and what could make her climax. Talk to her about it and enjoy the exploration with her.

  53. Thnkz, I think my chic use
    Thnkz, I think my chic use trick.

  54. Have realized that when
    Have realized that when praying sex with my girl using codoms she does not ejoy more compared to when not using, y please?

    1. Hi Eric, have you tried to
      Hi Eric, have you tried to ask her why that is the case.

  55. How u are saying mostly men
    How u are saying mostly men ejaculate very fast due to lack of experience,whats tha solution to this

  56. I always am left behind
    I always am left behind unsatisfied, I mean the girls i have made love with get tired before i ejaculate, What can i do to avoid the delayed ejaculation?

  57. I found it hard ejaculate and
    I found it hard ejaculate and hardly have urge, what should i do ?

    1. Hi JJ kindly clarify what you
      Hi JJ kindly clarify what you mean by not having urge. And was not being able to ejaculate a one time thing or it happens all the time?

  58. Hi mine is always dry …
    Hi mine is always dry ,especially after sex, there’s any problem with that?

  59. Hi i have a problem…got an…
    Hi i have a problem…got an infections n i was told it is a UTI..i have gone to several hospitals but after i finish my medication it ceases fo two or three weeks then reoccur…how can i get help…i have gone back to hospital 4times since Aug..pliiz help..thanx

    1. Hi Ndege, perhaps you need…
      Hi Ndege, perhaps you need to see a specialist for a closer look and treatment.

  60. Is flexing applicable during…
    Is flexing applicable during pregnancy.

  61. Hi Zippy, what do you mean…
    Hi Zippy, what do you mean by flexing during pregnancy?

  62. How can you a woman had sexy…
    How can you a woman had sexy with another man in previous day

  63. It’s good advice indeed,but…
    It’s good advice indeed,but can regular engament increase the size of the vigina

  64. who feel swet when doing sexs
    who feel swet when doing sexs

    1. Hello Maish, thank you for…

      Hello Maish, thank you for reaching out to us. People feel pleasure in different ways and sex should be pleasurable for all people involved.

  65. Here by to join the…
    Here by to join the conversation

  66. Hello John Ngata, thank you…

    Hello John Ngata, thank you for your participation and you are most welcome, please feel free to contribute to our forum 🙂 It is much appreciated.

  67. Wat do u do after having sex…
    Wat do u do after having sex with a person who has a big penis & later on you bleed then have severe vaginal pains during short calls & at times even without urinating though the massive pain occurs when urinatind …….. Wat should i do to reverse this ?

  68. H Belina, thank you so much…

    H Belina, thank you so much for getting in touch and we are so sorry you are going through a hard time. It is important to note that whenever you have sex with anyone who you consider has a larger penis than you are used to, it is best to ensure that aside from indulging in foreplay, you have a lubricant with you so that during penetration, the penis does not hurt or injure you. Keep this in mind for future sexual encounters. As for your current situation, the best thing you can do is visit your gynaecologist and get a proper consultation and treatment as soon as possible. It would also be advisable or you to avoid having sexual intercourse for a while to give your vagina some time to recover and heal. Have a wonderful weekend ahead and stay safe!

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