G-spot: top five facts
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G-spot: top five facts

G-spot is the cherry on the cake when it comes to women and sex. Stimulating it supposedly gives sensational orgasms. But there is one problem: few people can find it. And some even claim it doesn’t exist. Check out the facts!

  1. What is the g-spot?

    The g-spot is a super-sensitive area inside your vagina. It’s made of erectile-like tissue, similar to the clitoris. It’s about the size of a small coin, but it can get bigger when it’s being stimulated. And stimulating it will feel very nice and can even lead to intense arousal, exciting orgasms, and even female ejaculation.

    But don’t expect instant explosions by just touching it. It takes some time, practice and persistence to understand what makes your g-spot tingle. Think of your clitoris: there are certain things you like, others you don’t, some are painful, and some will drive you over the edge. The same goes for the g-spot. But, keep in mind that all this trial-and-error will eventually be rewarded with pleasure, so don’t give up!

  2. Where can I find the g-spot?

    The g-spot is located on the inside of the vagina, about one to three inches from the vaginal opening on the front wall. If you want to find it, you should lie down on your back, take a few deep breaths and relax. Gently insert your finger about a finger-length into your vagina, with your palm facing up. Press firmly on the front wall of your vaginal wall or make a tickling move with your finger. If you feel a spongy area, you are on the right spot. It may feel a bit weird and wrinkly. But it should definitely feel a bit different than the surrounding areas. If you find the area, keep pressing or ‘tickling’ it and hopefully, you will start feeling aroused.

  3. Your g-spot, your partner and fantastic orgasms

    Once you have found your g-spot, it’s time to introduce your partner to your new-found pleasure hotspot. Guide them and help them find it with their fingers first, as part of foreplay, for example.

    You can also try to stimulate your g-spot when making love. Thankfully, this doesn’t mean that you have to perform acrobatic stunts in the bedroom. Often, it’s enough to just alter the angle of the penis a bit. When you are on top, for example, lean backwards a bit, to make sure that the penis strokes the front wall of the vagina, where your g-spot is located.

    Just like finding your g-spot, this might take some practice. Don’t expect fireworks the first time you try; but keep going. Practice makes perfect!

  4. G-shot surgery for more pleasure?

    Special injections can make the g-spot bigger and easier to find, an American plastic surgeon claims. According to him, 87 per cent of women get more aroused after having the shot. He even hosts ‘G-shot parties’, where groups of women come to see him to get their injections together. The effects of the injections only last for a few months, however, and so if you want to keep enjoying the benefits, you need to cash out over one lakh rupees or US $1850 every four months.

    Other health experts have serious doubts about the procedure and warn women against it. It’s invasive and has neither been tested by independent scientists, nor has it been approved by government bodies. So you should really think twice about getting yourself into something that could be a risk for your health, even if it promises to improve your sex life.

  5. But really now… does it exist?

    If you look at the scientific literature, you will soon see a divided world – those scientists who believe in the existence of the g-spot, and those who don’t. Take a recent study from the UK, for example. Scientists interviewed 900 women and their twin sisters, just over half of whom reported having a g-spot. They concluded that the g-spot experience is most likely due to openness in bed, rather than an anatomical feature.

    Other scientists defending the g-spot immediately jumped at the study’s results, claiming that they weren’t reliable. They said because the women should have been observed or examined.

    And the same seems to happen every time a new g-spot study comes out – one camp of scientists will tear apart any study that claims the g-spot exists, while the other camp will find ever-new reasons to prove its existence.

    So until now, the scientific world hasn’t decided whether or not the g-spot exists.  



    What about you: do you think the g-spot exists? Have you found it? Leave us a comment, or join our Facebook discussion.

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Recent Comments (79)

  1. There is a g spot,l have seen
    There is a g spot,l have seen it and touch it.

    1. Hi Daniel,

      Hi Daniel,
      Thanks for your comment. Where do you think the G-Spot is?

      1. Why is that my girl does not…
        Why is that my girl does not want fingering or even being touched on the vagina n the vulva? She only allows penis penetration n tongue licking?

        1. Hi Haman, 

          Different people…

          Hi Haman, 

          Different people like different things! It is okay that your girlfriend does not like being fingered or touched in the vagina. You should respect it since she has expressed that she does not like it. It could also be that she has had a bad experience with these sexual activities and this may explain why she does not like them. Either way, respect her wishes! 

    1. Hi Vinny,

      Hi Vinny,
      thanks for the praise!

  2. i have gone through what a .G
    i have gone through what a .G spot is and understand .Now my issue is the location of it,where ,its found is on the peak of clitory that is supersensitive part of The women ask them.To prove ask circumcised ladies if they have g-spot they dont.coz clitory is down.

    1. Hi Iesupa,

      Hi Iesupa,
      don’t confuse the g-spot with the clitoris. The g-spot is located inside of the vagina, while the tip of the clitoris is outside of the vagina.

  3. I think it exits but hav not
    I think it exits but hav not exprienced it.

    1. Hi Hiesto, keep looking, then
      Hi Hiesto, keep looking, then you will find it 🙂

      1. How deep is gspot and what…
        How deep is gspot and what is the best position to strike it hard

        1. Hi Jamal, thank you for your…

          Hi Jamal, thank you for your question. The article says “The g-spot is located on the inside of the vagina, about one to three inches from the vaginal opening on the front wall.”

          1. What’s the best style of…
            What’s the best style of getting gspot

          2. Hi Jamal, the article says “…

            Hi Jamal, the article says ” You can also try to stimulate your g-spot when making love. Thankfully, this doesn’t mean that you have to perform acrobatic stunts in the bedroom. Often, it’s enough to just alter the angle of the penis a bit. When you are on top, for example, lean backwards a bit, to make sure that the penis strokes the front wall of the vagina, where your g-spot is located.”

  4. I enjoy reading lovematter,n
    I enjoy reading lovematter,n it teach me something,Tanks.

    1. Hi Blessing,

      Hi Blessing,
      we are so glad to hear that! Please keep coming back!

  5. I tried it secretly with my
    I tried it secretly with my wife and she felt something different. It’s existing, we realy enjoyed ourselves.

    1. Hi isaac,

      Hi isaac,
      it’s good to know it worked for you! Keep it up!

  6. big up too…i usually enjoy
    big up too…i usually enjoy the information..?

  7. its really nice to know that.
    its really nice to know that…let put it into practise..

    1. Hi Stan,

      Hi Stan,
      good luck and let us know how it goes!

  8. Yes, it exists but is a rare
    Yes, it exists but is a rare occurrence. I have only realized it with my partner on few occasions. Not all ladies give you the pleasure. Is it the case.

    1. Hi Moses, are you talking
      Hi Moses, are you talking about vaginal orgasms or the g-spot?

    1. Hi Debby,

      Hi Debby,
      have you found it? That’s great!

  9. What can really arouse
    What can really arouse circumcised girls. my woman is circumcised, i try much to finger her but its as if there is nothing. what works best for the circumcised?

  10. my partner loves me but she
    my partner loves me but she has abig vagina and i fil like not enjoying

    1. Hi Frank,

      Hi Frank,
      it’s all about making it work. Have you tried different positions that allow for different angles of penetration? She can also do Kegel exercises to tighten her vagina. Check the instructions here:
      http://lovematters.co.ke/news/miracle-vagina

  11. mi nko 23yrs n i try to look
    mi nko 23yrs n i try to look my nxt rib bt I don’t av that courage to express myself .when i notice a lady na shy-off regardless am hardsome.plz advice what will I start ?

    1. Hi Issak,

      Hi Issak,
      Reaching out to people that you are attracted to can be difficult because of the fear of being rejected. However, they are no different than how would approach a friend, family or other person. The initial hello and coming up with small talk is the same idea except the person is front of you is attractive.

      The best way to do this when you are nervous is to talk to people who share interest. Do they go to school with you? Are they working? Did you meet them at the movies? This way there is already a commonality between you an it gives you the first conversation topic. Find other people who like what you like and try to mingle from there.

      Otherwise, just be honest. Tell them who you are, why you approached the (they said something smart, they like the same team, you find them beautiful etc) and then build the conversation from there. Tell them about yourself, and ask questions about them. You are attracted to them and ideally as you learn more about them you will become interested in them.

      Everyone has nerves and the girls know that. They will be flattered that you even tried to reach out and talk.

  12. Am 24yrs en stl virgn,cn it
    Am 24yrs en stl virgn,cn it affct mi. Now fil i nid sw1 kbxa

    1. Hi Dennis,

      Hi Dennis,
      it’s totally okay to be a virgin at your age. There is nothing wrong with it and it won’t affect you negatively at all.

  13. Hi, why do some women refuse
    Hi, why do some women refuse having sex with their husbands. my woman refuses to have sex with me

    1. Hi Elly,

      Hi Elly,
      have you asked her, why? Maybe she isn’t enjoying it, or worse, she has pain?

  14. am single.my problem is I dnt
    am single.my problem is I dnt have the courage to approach a lady.I love older women.my cell 0713390520..

    1. Hi Joe,

      Hi Joe,
      Reaching out to people that you are attracted to can be difficult because of the fear of being rejected. However, they are no different than how would approach a friend, family or other person. The initial hello and coming up with small talk is the same idea except the person is front of you is attractive.

      The best way to do this when you are nervous is to talk to people who share interest. Do they go to school with you? Are they working? Did you meet them at the movies? This way there is already a commonality between you an it gives you the first conversation topic. Find other people who like what you like and try to mingle from there.

      Otherwise, just be honest. Tell them who you are, why you approached the (they said something smart, they like the same team, you find them beautiful etc) and then build the conversation from there. Tell them about yourself, and ask questions about them. You are attracted to them and ideally as you learn more about them you will become interested in them.

      Everyone has nerves and the girls know that. They will be flattered that you even tried to reach out and talk.

  15. I always dnt enjoy havng sex
    I always dnt enjoy havng sex wth my guy that much…afta we are done and am alone fantasizng is when i get so much aroused n i fil good.plz hlp

    1. Sex is about communication.
      Sex is about communication. You need to tell your guy what you want and need and how he has to touch you. You can just expect him to know!

  16. after first release i bcome
    after first release i bcome weak n start to hate wet vagina kabxa n cnt go fo nxt shot.wht is it?

    1. Could you tell us some more
      Could you tell us some more about what you mean about ‘hating wet vagina’?
      But generally, what you describe is the refractory period.
      This is completely normal for men to have what is called a refractory period, where it cannot get hard after ejaculation. Honestly, your body is just telling you that it needs some time. There is no real way to change it or make it happen less, so just try to work with your body. If you are really hoping to have more sex, then take the time to recharge and focus on your partner. This is a good time to focus on them and give them pleasure. You will become hard again in no time and continue.

  17. hey like this..

    hey like this..
    how can a man with a penis bent downwards reach the gspot?

  18. I love the comments. ..what
    I love the comments. ..what foods should you avoid when u want to have sex?

    1. Kaka,

      Kaka,
      generally, there isn’t anything you want to avoid. But if you have oral sex, pineapple, alcohol, tobacco and coffee can make sperm and genitals taste sour or ‘funky’.

  19. I have a problem immediately
    I have a problem immediately I insert my penis in her pussy I last a few seconds n ejaculate how can I solve this problem? is there a medicine to use? if yes give me the names…..

  20. pls help! help! how do I
    pls help! help! how do I prevent pre ejaculation

  21. I don feel my man but i love
    I don feel my man but i love him wats the problem??

    1. Shiko,

      Shiko,
      can you tell us a bit more about what you mean by not feeling him?

  22. When having sex with my hubby
    When having sex with my hubby. He reaches at my g spot it’s so sweet.

  23. I like the topic but now the
    I like the topic but now the g-spot if you don’t mind give us a diagram

  24. i believe g-spot exist i hv
    i believe g-spot exist i hv to use my tongue inorder for her to get aroused and there is that part i always touch using my tongue she screams and jumps over me demanding for sex

    1. Thanks for sharing that with
      Thanks for sharing that with us Prince.

  25. i always make sure my partner
    i always make sure my partner emily will experience it everytime we makelove

    1. Thanks for sharing that with
      Thanks for sharing that with us Mike.

  26. When i do sex while wearing a
    When i do sex while wearing a condom i dont injaculate nd enjoy. What might be the problem?

    1. Glad that you did Micheal.
      Glad that you did Micheal.

  27. I always cum quick…not up
    I always cum quick…not up to 10mins i wil drop …fnt knw wat to do ……..tnks

  28. Have found this g-spot,its…
    Have found this g-spot,its hard or when tickling it you feel some roughness n when doing it even a lady squirts

    1. Thank you for sharing Simon,…
      Thank you for sharing Simon, enjoy.

  29. I really like this Love…
    I really like this Love matters, it is teaching me a lot and I don’t get tired of reading it.

  30. From now henceforth i will…
    From now henceforth i will be very keen to look for it,,,,,THANKS

    1. Hi Brian, thank you so much…

      Hi Brian, thank you so much for your feedback.

  31. Hi thankyou for educating us…
    Hi thankyou for educating us on our bodies.. kindly touch on a health issue regarding fibroids n ovarian cyst. Thankyou

    1. Hi Glo, 

      Thank you. We have…

      Hi Glo, 

      Thank you. We have noted your topic suggestions and will put them under consideration. 

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