Valentine Njoroge, Author at LoveMatters Africa

Make the second round for her

Whenever I (25) have sex, the second round lasts up to an hour. My girlfriend finds this very hard to tolerate and thinks that I am intentionally doing it to harm her.

Sorry dear, you can’t make me orgasm

How can I tell my man in a nice way that he can’t make me orgasm? wonders a reader. It’s never nice – but it is your responsibility, answers Valentine.

The art of complimenting your lady

My boyfriend doesn’t know how to compliment me. What do I do, because I really enjoy it? a reader wonders. Valentine responds: ‘You go, girl!’

Does sex hurt with a foreskin?

The foreskin of my penis is still intact, so will first-time sex be painful? wonders a reader. Valentine responds with a ‘WOW!’

Can’t provide for cheating girlfriend

My girlfriend and I have been going out since high school and are now on campus. But her family can no longer provide for her – and neither can I. Now she is cheating on me with a guy from a rich family who is helping her find a job. I don’t want to lose her but I also don’t want to share her…

How to get your man to commit (or not)

Urgent! I’ve been with my boyfriend for six years and he has never spoken once about settling down. He has never introduced me to his friends and family.

Dating your ex’s friend

Is it okay for one to date her ex’s friend? wonders a reader. Be careful, says Valentine. Such scenarios can prove to be a powder keg!

Weak after sex; orgasm order

I have two questions… After making love with my partner, we usually feel completely weak – especially him. Is this a sickness?

What makes great sex?

When do you know when you’ve had great sex? Valentine finds this a tricky question to answer since you can scream ‘I hate you!’ and still have great sex.