Love Guru

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I had unsafe sex, do I have HIV?

I had unsafe sex, do I have HIV?

‘I had unprotected sex. It just happened somehow. How can I find out if I have contracted HIV? I am very worried. Please help me out.’

Violence: the dark family secret

Violence: the dark family secret

‘I grew up in a family where my father beat my mother and us kids all the time. Now I suspect that my older brother is hitting his wife. Is there any way we can break this cycle?’

My husband is insecure and jealous…

My husband is insecure and jealous…

‘I just got a promotion and now I am earning more than my husband. Since the time I’ve received this news, my husband has been aloof. Is he insecure? What can I do? I really want us to be like before.’

Serious erection problems

Serious erection problems

‘It’s embarrassing but I am having serious problems with getting erections. Not always but sometimes. This wasn’t the case earlier though. Am I getting some condition? What can I do? It’s really embarrassing! Help!’

Will having sex keep us together?

‘I am going abroad for a year. I want to have sex with my boyfriend before I leave so that we remain committed to each other. Am I right?’

Does true love still exist?

Does true love still exist?

‘These days it seems everyone is either cheating or getting divorced. I wonder what’s happening to this world. Is there still hope for true love?’

What does an orgasm feel like?

What does an orgasm feel like?

‘My boyfriend asks me how often I’ve come after sex. But I don’t have an answer. How do I know when I am having an orgasm?’