Love Guru

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Can I make my penis bigger?

Can I make my penis bigger?

‘Will exercise or medicines enlarge my penis? I’ve seen websites that say you can increase your penis size with medicines or “ancient” techniques to strengthen and lengthen it through exercises. Is it possible.’

Causing pain for pleasure?

Causing pain for pleasure?

For some people, spicing things up might mean having sex in new places, or trying different positions. For others, it might be a form of BDSM. Whatever your sexual cup of tea is, however, there should always be consent and respect.

My husband wants to have a threesome

My husband wants to have a threesome

My husband wants to include others in our intimate sessions. I’ve told him I have no desire to be with another man or woman. He says it would be a real turn on to see me with someone else and him with a different woman. I don’t mind sharing – except my man! It’s tearing our relationship apart. I’m so confused and heartbroken. What do I do?

Does size affect your sex life?

Does size affect your sex life?

Does your partner’s body size matter during sex? As a ‘huge, fat’ woman with a slim guy, can you still have pleasurable sex, a reader asks.

My boyfriend stabbed himself

My boyfriend stabbed himself

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. A few months ago, we were having dinner at his place we got into a big fight. He stabbed his leg with a steak knife because he was very upset. Should I be concerned that he is not stable? He’s never been like that before or after. All I can think of is how much blood there was!

Coming too soon?

Coming too soon?

My girl always climaxes after about 20 minutes before I have climaxed. Is it normal for a girl to climax that quickly or is it fake?

Mood Swings

Mood Swings

Can you please explain to me this thing of girls reacting differently at different times of the month?

Should I lose weight for my boyfriend?

Should I lose weight for my boyfriend?

I am desperate. I am slightly overweight and my boyfriend told me that if I don’t lose weight he will leave me and I’ll never hear from him again. That broke my heart. I have been thinking of using slimming pills that can help me reduce faster but I don’t know if they can be helpful or dangerous. Please help me!

Feeling gay, feeling abnormal

Feeling gay, feeling abnormal

I’m having these feelings of being gay. I don’t know what is happening to me but I know it’s not normal. I have kissed a guy. I also love women. I’m just confused.

Elongating the labia

Elongating the labia

Sexual practices vary per culture, even from tribe to tribe. Some practices are harmful, others are intriguing. How does Valentine respond to elongating the labia?

He talks to other women

He talks to other women

We quarrel every day because bae likes chatting to other women. I don’t like it. I get jealous; he says I don’t trust him but it’s only that I don’t want to lose him.