Meeting online
You usually flirt online with people of your own age, whom you already know, perhaps through school, work, holiday, or mutual friends. But what do you do if you get to know someone on the internet?
You’ve no way of knowing that someone you’ve met on a social networking site is really the person they say they are. For example, someone who pretends to be a teenage girl online could in reality be an adult man.
So if you arrange to meet someone whom you’ve got to know on the internet, you’re taking a risk.
If you’re really planning to find a date on the internet, it’s safest to use a paid internet dating site – the people you come across are probably more likely to be serious and genuine.
Online flirting tips for him
- Show you’re interested in the other person. Don’t ask things like ‘what colour are your panties?’ Just have a pleasant conversation like you would face to face!
- Make jokes.
- Don’t use sexy language, not even as a joke.
- Give compliments, but don’t go over the top.
- Ask questions, and talk about yourself.
- Make the other person feel special. Don’t send the same messages to different people.
Online flirting tips for her
- Give compliments, but don’t go over the top.
- Be yourself. Don’t pretend to be different from the way you are in real life.
- Don’t go along with things if you don’t want to. Don’t just try to please the other person – set your limits.
- Remember that men often aren’t such great talkers. Try and find a topic that interests both of you.
- Don’t fish for compliments too much.
Internet dating tips
If you decide to go ahead and meet someone you’ve got to know online:
- Never go alone when you meet someone for the first time. Always go with a friend. He or she can always leave you if you want.
- Take a mobile phone with you. Then you can send a text message to your friends or parents if your date goes wrong.
- Arrange to meet in a public place with a lot of people around.
- Arrange with someone to call you during your date. If you’re not happy, you can always say you’ve been called away urgently.
- Don’t promise anything until you’ve met in person. For example, don’t agree beforehand that you’re going to kiss someone.
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I am looking for a sexy…
I am looking for a sexy curvy African girl. Connect me.
Hi Joash, Sorry to say, we…
Hi Joash, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.
Please hook me up to someone…
Please hook me up to someone. I am 21 years in Nairobi looking for a white man from any part of the world. Age is not am issue. Please.
Hi Gabby, Sorry to say, we…
Hi Gabby, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.
absolutly true
absolutly true
Thank you the feedback Og.
Thank you the feedback Og.
True talk
True talk
Welcome, Fayokemi.
Welcome, Fayokemi.
Connect me
Connect me
Unfortunately Vicky, we are…
Unfortunately Vicky, we are not a dating service and for this reason we are not able to help you meet someone. We wish you all the best.
would like someone here, am…
would like someone here, am serious
Dear Amoh, Sorry to say, we…
Dear Amoh, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.
Which legit sites can I get…
Which legit sites can I get white men please?
Hey Alicia, there are no…
Hey Alicia, there are no sites we can recommend her, however sites that one has to pay for the service mostly provide better dating services. All the best. Check out the following article for additional information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/meeting-someone/online-dating-dos-and-donts
I am looking for a white guy…
I am looking for a white guy to date from anywhere in the world. Link me up.
Hey Agnes,
Sorry to say,…
Hey Agnes,
Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.
Can you have a good…
Can you have a good relationship with someone you found each other on Facebook? Can the relationship be true?
Hey Winnie, people meet in…
Hey Winnie, people meet in different places including social media and go on to have great and fulfilling relationships. So yes, you can meet on Facebook and go on to have a strong relationship. Have a look at this article for additional information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/meeting-someone/should-you-marry-someone-you-met-on-facebook
Does relationship on social…
Does relationship on social media lead’s to marriage
Hey Adamma, yes people can…
Hey Adamma, yes people can meet on social media platforms and go on to have a long fulfilling relationship like marriage. Check out the following article for tips on dating on social media;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/meeting-someone/should-you-marry-someone-you-met-on-facebook
I met a girl on facebook we…
I met a girl on facebook we have been chatting for sometime now but we have never been able to do a video call with me something about her phone. We decided to meet, she suggested but two times she failed to show up with may excuses. I am not sure whether to trust her anymore please advice.
Hi Johnn, it is difficult to…
Hi Johnn, it is difficult to determine whether her reasons were genuine and whether indeed there is a problem with her phone that stops her from having a video call with you. You will need to exercise your own judgement, should you choose to meet, choose a time and venue you are comfortable with. Have a look at the following article for more tips on online dating;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/meeting-someone/online-dating-dos-and-donts
can i have a beautiful lady…
can i have a beautiful lady that get good behaviour.
Hey Sunday, you can, only…
Hey Sunday, you can, only that we can’t help you meet someone since we are not a dating service. We hope you can meet someone soon. All the best.
how can i inbox a girl on my…
how can i inbox a girl on my first day to meet her?
Hey Justus, if you like a…
Hey Justus, if you like a girl, let her know that you do to see if she is interested. You may find she is interested and willing to to date you or not. If she is not interested you will have to respect her choice. Check out the following article for some tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/meeting-someone/asking-someone-out-dos-and-donts
That’s very true,and how can…
That’s very true,and how can I find someone to love
Hi Evans, you can begin by…
Hi Evans, you can begin by getting into situations that will give you a chance to meet new people like social events. If and when you spot someone you like, you will need to be brave enough to approach then to see if they are willing to date you. If they are not, move on and hopefully soon you will meet some who will be willing to get into a relationship with you. Have a look at the following article for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/meeting-someone/how-to-date
Interested
Interested
Hey Zado, what can we do for…
Hey Zado, what can we do for you?
I am looking for a lover…
I am looking for a lover… Anyone here today?
Hey Daizy, Sorry to say, we…
Hey Daizy, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.
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very true pals
tanx
tanx
We are always pleased to…
We are always pleased to help.
Am new here
Am new here
Hello Titilayo, welcome! 🙂
Hello Titilayo, welcome! 🙂
absolutely right
absolutely right
I m interested
I m interested
Hi Soso what are you…
Hi Soso what are you interested in?
It really helped a lot thanks
It really helped a lot thanks
We are really glad to hear…
We are really glad to hear this and are always pleased to help.
Love is kind
Love is kind
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Hello Anonymous, thank you…
Hello Anonymous, thank you for getting in touch and love is incredible, how can we help you?
confident talk
confident talk
Hi Kush, how do you mean?
Hi Kush, how do you mean?
im single i need a lover
im single i need a lover
Hi Mikey, sorry to say Love…
Hi Mikey, sorry to say Love Matters Africa is not a dating site and we cannot help yuou in this regard
I just need someone to love…
I just need someone to love me
Hello Confidence, thank you…
Hello Confidence, thank you for reaching out to us. Being single is okay. It gives you time to work on yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love, and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence (just like your name!) are attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you.
Have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!
Playing save
Playing save
Hello Oforbike, thank you…
Hello Oforbike, thank you for getting in touch, could you please tell us more on what you mean when you say ‘playing safe’?
need a mature man to love
need a mature man to love
Hello Jay, sorry to say, we…
Hello Jay, sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner but do not despair, here is a guide to how to meet people online: https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/meeting-someone/meeting-online
Looking for a serious person
Looking for a serious person
Hello Mercy, sorry to say we…
Hello Mercy, sorry to say we are not a dating site and cannot help you in this regard.
Hello good morning house
Hello good morning house
Hello there. Good morning to…
Hello there. Good morning to you too!
I have got an idea of such…
I have got an idea of such meet
Hi Dismas,
Great! Kindly…
Hi Dismas,
Great! Kindly share your experience. I would be happy to hear it.
Can I get one mummy pliz
Can I get one mummy pliz
Hi Issa,
Oops!…
Hi Issa,
Oops! unfortunately, Love Matters can’t help you with that BUT we can give you tips on how to flirt with women you like. Here is an example: How To Flirt and also how to ask her out: The Perfect Way To Ask Someout Out
Hey I need a lady aged 19…
Hey I need a lady aged 19 years,,, anyone out there
Hi Vickencee,
Let me…
Hi Vickencee,
Let me cheeeck…Uummh not available. Love Matters is not a dating or hookup site. Luckily, we can provide information that can help you get the lady you’re looking for. Check this one out for instance: Top flirting tips
I need a lover
I need a lover
Hi Kelvin,
We are not a…
Hi Kelvin,
We are not a dating or hookup site. Perhaps you could check other sites that offer such services online or look around you, your lover may just be someone near you. Luckily though, we can offer tips on how to flirt and how to know you’ve found the right person. Read these articles to learn more: Top tips on how to flirt and 8 signs you’ve found the one