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Meeting online

You usually flirt online with people of your own age, whom you already know, perhaps through school, work, holiday, or mutual friends. But what do you do if you get to know someone on the internet?

You’ve no way of knowing that someone you’ve met on a social networking site is really the person they say they are. For example, someone who pretends to be a teenage girl online could in reality be an adult man.
So if you arrange to meet someone whom you’ve got to know on the internet, you’re taking a risk.

If you’re really planning to find a date on the internet, it’s safest to use a paid internet dating site – the people you come across are probably more likely to be serious and genuine.

Online flirting tips for him

  • Show you’re interested in the other person. Don’t ask things like ‘what colour are your panties?’ Just have a pleasant conversation like you would face to face!
  • Make jokes.
  • Don’t use sexy language, not even as a joke.
  • Give compliments, but don’t go over the top.
  • Ask questions, and talk about yourself.
  • Make the other person feel special. Don’t send the same messages to different people.

Online flirting tips for her

  • Give compliments, but don’t go over the top.
  • Be yourself. Don’t pretend to be different from the way you are in real life.
  • Don’t go along with things if you don’t want to. Don’t just try to please the other person – set your limits.
  • Remember that men often aren’t such great talkers. Try and find a topic that interests both of you.
  • Don’t fish for compliments too much.

Internet dating tips

If you decide to go ahead and meet someone you’ve got to know online:

  • Never go alone when you meet someone for the first time. Always go with a friend. He or she can always leave you if you want.
  • Take a mobile phone with you. Then you can send a text message to your friends or parents if your date goes wrong.
  • Arrange to meet in a public place with a lot of people around.
  • Arrange with someone to call you during your date. If you’re not happy, you can always say you’ve been called away urgently.
  • Don’t promise anything until you’ve met in person. For example, don’t agree beforehand that you’re going to kiss someone.
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      Hi Evans, you can begin by getting into situations that will give you a chance to meet new people like social events. If and when you spot someone you like, you will need to be brave enough to approach then to see if they are willing to date you. If they are not, move on and hopefully soon you will meet some who will be willing to get into a relationship with you. Have a look at the following article for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/meeting-someone/how-to-date

    1. Hey Zado, what can we do for…

      Hey Zado, what can we do for you?

  52. I am looking for a lover…
    I am looking for a lover… Anyone here today?

    1. Hey Daizy, Sorry to say, we…

      Hey Daizy, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.

    1. We are always pleased to…

      We are always pleased to help.

    1. Hello Titilayo, welcome! 🙂

      Hello Titilayo, welcome! 🙂

    1. Hi Soso what are you…

      Hi Soso what are you interested in?

  53. It really helped a lot thanks
    It really helped a lot thanks

    1. We are really glad to hear…

      We are really glad to hear this and are always pleased to help.

  54. Hello Anonymous, thank you…

    Hello Anonymous, thank you for getting in touch and love is incredible, how can we help you?

    1. Hi Kush, how do you mean?

      Hi Kush, how do you mean?

    1. Hi Mikey, sorry to say Love…

      Hi Mikey, sorry to say Love Matters Africa is not a dating site and we cannot help yuou in this regard

       

  55. I just need someone to love…
    I just need someone to love me

  56. Hello Confidence, thank you…

    Hello Confidence, thank you for reaching out to us. Being single is okay. It gives you time to work on yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love, and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence (just like your name!) are attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you.
    Have a wonderful week ahead and stay safe!

  57. Hello Oforbike, thank you…

    Hello Oforbike, thank you for getting in touch, could you please tell us more on what you mean when you say ‘playing safe’?

  58. Looking for a serious person
    Looking for a serious person

    1. Hello Mercy, sorry to say we…

      Hello Mercy, sorry to say we are not a dating site and cannot help you in this regard.

  59. Hello good morning house
    Hello good morning house

    1. Hello there. Good morning to…

      Hello there. Good morning to you too!

  60. I have got an idea of such…
    I have got an idea of such meet

    1. Hi Dismas, 

      Great! Kindly…

      Hi Dismas, 

      Great! Kindly share your experience. I would be happy to hear it. 

  61. Hey I need a lady aged 19…
    Hey I need a lady aged 19 years,,, anyone out there

    1. Hi Vickencee, 

      Let me…

      Hi Vickencee, 

      Let me cheeeck…Uummh not available. Love Matters is not a dating or hookup site. Luckily, we can provide information that can help you get the lady you’re looking for. Check this one out for instance: Top flirting tips

    1. Hi Kelvin, 

      We are not a…

      Hi Kelvin, 

      We are not a dating or hookup site. Perhaps you could check other sites that offer such services online or look around you, your lover may just be someone near you. Luckily though, we can offer tips on how to flirt and how to know you’ve found the right person. Read these articles to learn more: Top tips on how to flirt and 8 signs you’ve found the one

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