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A distant long-distance relationship

A distant long-distance relationship

I am in a long-distance relationship. But my girlfriend doesn’t want me to visit her or for her to visit me. But she claims to love me. What is the way forward in this relationship?

In love with a lesbian

In love with a lesbian

There’s a girl I love. I want her in my life but she doesn’t want that because she is a year older and a lesbian. We go out to lunch, dinner… Please, I need your help!

Sex is a gift, not a right

Sex is a gift, not a right

I wasn’t in the mood for sex but my boyfriend insisted until I accepted. The following day, he told me that I was denying him his rights and we broke up. Now what?

Is masturbation cheating?

Is masturbation cheating?

Is it true that masturbation is cheating on your partner? An advocate for masturbating, Valentine believes it’s only cheating when it feels like cheating.

6 helpful tips to deal with painful sex

6 helpful tips to deal with painful sex

My girlfriend screams sometimes during sex and says she feels pain, even after breaking her virginity. I find this very disturbing and at times I don’t believe her. Is she lying?

My wife doesn’t like sex (but I’m perfect)

My wife doesn’t like sex (but I’m perfect)

I’ve been married since 2012. My wife doesn’t like sex. Sometimes I go without for over a month. Is this normal in a marriage? When I recently went astray, I was told I was perfect in bed.

Can porn make me frigid?

Can porn make me frigid?

Valentine, a friend of mine has been watching porn since form 2 and now she is in university. She was wondering if it can lead to impotence.

Does age difference matter?

Does age difference matter?

My boyfriend is nine months younger. At first, it wasn’t serious; now he wants to meet my family. I’m starting to love him. But I’m worried the age difference will ruin the relationship.

Bored in bed

Bored in bed

My boyfriend seems to be bored when we are in bed. Sometimes he doesn’t satisfy me. What may be the problem?

Desire fades quickly

Desire fades quickly

I’ve been masturbating since I was 12. When I’m with my guy it’s only for minutes and the strong romance fades. I’m afraid I won’t be able to keep a man by my side if I can’t satisfy him in bed.