Female orgasms: top five facts
The female orgasm – isn’t it the most mysterious and taboo topic in all of human sexuality? What makes a woman come? Can she have multiple orgasms? Ejaculate?
How long does she take to come? And do ‘nipple orgasms’ really exist? We have answers to these questions in this edition of our top five facts on female orgasms. Read and get clues to her treasure trove…
Many ways
Now, there are many ways for women to orgasm. Intercourse is just one way to get there. And you know what, most women don’t even climax during intercourse. They could need some work on the clitoris, oral intercourse is said to be really effective and fingering her can work too.
Some women can also have orgasms when they are stimulated enough around the G-spot, a very sensitive area on the front wall inside the vagina. Basically, there’s no golden rule. Find out what works for your partner and explore the pleasure areas together.Multiple times
Unlike men, women can have multiple orgasms – one right after another. Sounds great, doesn’t it? This is how it works – the clitoris returns to its normal size 15-20 seconds after an orgasm and is ready to be stimulated once again. Men, on the other hand, need more time to recover after they cum.
Squirting
Ever heard of women ejaculating during an orgasm? Take our word – it’s real! So what comes out when women ejaculate? It could be a white, milky fluid secreted by the female prostate gland or it could be a clear fluid that resembles pee. If you want to learn how to make your partner have squirting orgasms, there’s an African technique called Kunyaza to help you out!
Timing
Women normally take longer than men to come. It’s just easier for men to reach an orgasm than women. The best way to keep in step with each other is by communicating while making love. If you need more time to get aroused, let your partner know. Guide them to indulge in sufficient foreplay before speeding to the finish line.
Another point to note: it’s very rare for both partners to come simultaneously. Simultaneous orgasms are a bonus but don’t give them too much importance. Just enjoy sex as naturally and spontaneously as it comes to you.Nipple orgasms
Yes, they exist! Some women can orgasm only through enough stimulus on their breasts, specifically the nipples. And you know what – the size of the breasts doesn’t matter – women of all breast sizes can feel aroused when their breasts get some attention. That’s because nipples have a lot of nerve endings, making them extra-sensitive to touch.
You can stroke, kiss, lick and even bite a woman’s nipples to turn her on. Whether she reaches climax or not, she’ll surely be aroused after that.Go explore her body and find out what works for her and what doesn’t. If you get stuck along the way, why not ask her?
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Wow! Unbelivable..
We are so glad you like it!
We are so glad you like it!
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very educative have learnt something
We are glad Eric. Please…
We are glad Eric. Please feel free to reach out to us in case you have any questions regarding love, sex and marriage and don’t hesitate to go through more content on our website for more interesting information.
if a woman is fucked in her
if a woman is fucked in her ass does it leads to anyting
Hi Horlardeyjor,
Hi Horlardeyjor,
check out your top five facts on anal sex: http://lovematters.co.ke/news/anal-sex-top-five-facts
i think am begining 2 lyk
i think am begining 2 lyk this page! u peaple do make my day thanx
Hi Tata,
Hi Tata,
we are so glad to hear this. Have you liked us on Facebook yet? We are Love Matters Africa.
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GOOD
Hi Oscar,
Hi Oscar,
we glad you like it!
I have my own ways that
I have my own ways that sometimes I massage her before doing the kunyaza thing,she feels so sweet and makes her attain orgasm faster.
Hi Ronny,
Hi Ronny,
that sounds great, keep it up!
I am sexualy weak, is there
I am sexualy weak, is there any way I can increace that?,
Hi Julius,
Hi Julius,
could you explain what you mean by sexually weak?
lets try it with mary…
lets try it with mary…
Hi Peter,
Hi Peter,
just be nice about it.
My partner does not enjoy sex
My partner does not enjoy sex with me, wat to do pliz
Hi Moleko,
Hi Moleko,
have you asked your partner why not?
My partner does not enjoy sex
My partner does not enjoy sex with me, wat to do pliz
ive learnt mo from this…now
ive learnt mo from this…now teach us about our men
Hi Miriam,
Hi Miriam,
have you checked out the top five facts on orgasms? http://lovematters.co.ke/news/orgasms-top-five-facts
I’ve got some tips
I’ve got some tips
Hi George,
Hi George,
we are so glad to hear this!
How do u control fast
How do u control fast ejaculation?
It sounds like you are coming
It sounds like you are coming earlier than you would like, this often happens to young men who don’t have a lot of sexual experience because they get very aroused very easily. With more sexually experienced men, it might be due to psychological problems, like fear, stress or depression.
Generally though go slow, enjoy the buildup of touching and caressing each other. Make time for oral sex during your physical interactions. Take time focusing on your partner as well as yourself. Communicate together about what feels nice, what doesn’t and what you would like to try together. Experiment, explore and try new things!
Make sure to use lots of lube and switch up the fun. Even if you do orgasm you can take some time to have oral sex with your partner until your body is ready to go again. Change positions and mix it up.
Some people say condoms help them last longer, while others may use cock rings (just make sure it is the right size and not too tight!).
Generally just remember that sex is more than just penetration and there are lots of ways to enjoy each other.
If you are finding that you really cannot maintain an erection then it might be time to see a doctor. There are some medical conditions that can affect your performance but would need to be looked by a professional.
You can also keep masturbating, however challenge yourself to last longer. Go slow, feel the way your body changes when you are getting closer to climax. Tease yourself, find tricks that help you delay the finish.
Also check out:
http://lovematters.co.ke/news/his-and-her-arousal-how-get-sync
How incredible! Thanks a lot.
How incredible! Thanks a lot.
However, what could be the problem with a guy who experiences premature ejaculation?
Hi Joe,
Hi Joe,
It sounds like you are coming earlier than you would like, this often happens to young men who don’t have a lot of sexual experience because they get very aroused very easily. With more sexually experienced men, it might be due to psychological problems, like fear, stress or depression.
Generally though go slow, enjoy the buildup of touching and caressing each other. Make time for oral sex during your physical interactions. Take time focusing on your partner as well as yourself. Communicate together about what feels nice, what doesn’t and what you would like to try together. Experiment, explore and try new things!
Make sure to use lots of lube and switch up the fun. Even if you do orgasm you can take some time to have oral sex with your partner until your body is ready to go again. Change positions and mix it up.
Some people say condoms help them last longer, while others may use cock rings (just make sure it is the right size and not too tight!).
Generally just remember that sex is more than just penetration and there are lots of ways to enjoy each other.
If you are finding that you really cannot maintain an erection then it might be time to see a doctor. There are some medical conditions that can affect your performance but would need to be looked by a professional.
You can also keep masturbating, however challenge yourself to last longer. Go slow, feel the way your body changes when you are getting closer to climax. Tease yourself, find tricks that help you delay the finish.
Also check out:
http://lovematters.co.ke/news/his-and-her-arousal-how-get-sync
i want 2 knw wht must i do 2
i want 2 knw wht must i do 2 make sure dat my man enjoys sex wit me nd nt other gals…….in other words hw cn i keep my man 2 myself
Hi Lizzy,
Hi Lizzy,
in order to make your man enjoy sex with you, you need to know what he likes and wants. And to figure that out, you have to talk to him, and ask. Also, watch him, you will be able to figure out what he likes and what he likes less. Good luck!
Hw long does it take for a
Hw long does it take for a woman to be satisfied?lets say 1hr,30mins,…..
Hi John,
Hi John,
it’s 27 minutes and 45 seconds. Just kidding :-). How long does it take you to be satisfied? Isn’t it a bit different every time? Sometimes a bit quicker, sometimes it’s a struggle getting there? It’s the same for women. Sometimes it’s faster, sometimes slower. And of course, it changes from woman to woman. So there is absolutely no way of telling how long it takes. But, one thing to keep in mind- women generally need longer than men.
……gr8!!
……gr8!!
Thanks 🙂
Thanks 🙂
really educative
really educative
We are so glad to hear that,
We are so glad to hear that, Brian! Do you like us on Facebook yet? We are Love Matters Africa!
We really appreciate the
We really appreciate the information you equip us with.
Hi Malindy,
Hi Malindy,
we are do glad to hear that! Do you like us on Facebook yet? We are Love Matters Africa!
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l did your line so that you can educat me no this.
but
Hi Peter,
Hi Peter,
sorry, we are not quite sure we understand what you mean?
how can i get a dame in the
how can i get a dame in the box, lonely 4 so long
Hi Antoh,
Hi Antoh,
unfortunately, we are not a dating service. But check out our Love and Relationship section, you will find flirting tips there that might help you!
I can’t sustain sex for more
I can’t sustain sex for more than 10-15 minutes Wats the problem
Hi Vincent,
Hi Vincent,
why is that a problem? That’s perfectly normal.
Generally though go slow, enjoy the buildup of touching and caressing each other. Make time for oral sex during your physical interactions. Take time focusing on your partner as well as yourself. Communicate together about what feels nice, what doesn’t and what you would like to try together. Experiment, explore and try new things!
Make sure to use lots of lube and switch up the fun. Even if you do orgasm you can take some time to have oral sex with your partner until your body is ready to go again. Change positions and mix it up.
Some people say condoms help them last longer, while others may use cock rings (just make sure it is the right size and not too tight!).
Generally just remember that sex is more than just penetration and there are lots of ways to enjoy each other.
If you are finding that you really cannot maintain an erection then it might be time to see a doctor. There are some medical conditions that can affect your performance but would need to be looked by a professional.
You can also keep masturbating, however challenge yourself to last longer. Go slow, feel the way your body changes when you are getting closer to climax. Tease yourself, find tricks that help you delay the finish.
Thanks 4 ur information u’ve
Thanks 4 ur information u’ve enlightened me
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Do de size of penis matter
Do de size of penis matter when having sex
Ah Wilson, the never-ending
Ah Wilson, the never-ending question. Some say yes, others say no, yet others say all that matters is girth. Or technique. We tend to say no, what matters is making sure you and your partner know what you want and can talk about it.
And, keep in mind, that for most women, the in-and-out of intercourse isn’t want matters anyway. It’s clitoral stimulation that matters.
I mean that, whenever I want
I mean that, whenever I want to have sex, I ussualy erect very fast and goes off such that I cant insert my penis. How can that be help coz it just started few months a go?
Hi Julius,
Hi Julius,
does the same happen when you masturbate? Try it.
Also, have you changed something in those few months, for example, have you started using condoms?
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Hy love can I join u guyz nyc
Hi Syabonga,
Hi Syabonga,
you can certainly like us on Facebook: we are Love Matters Africa.
thatx a nyce one
thatx a nyce one
That’s great to hear!
That’s great to hear!
i masturbate but i dnt alwaws
i masturbate but i dnt alwaws enjoy and i use your directions, help pliz
Hi there,
Hi there,
so why is it that sometimes you don’t enjoy it? If you realize that it’s one of the times that you aren’t enjoying it, why don’t you just stop?
am loving the tips
am loving the tips
That is so great to hear,
That is so great to hear, Marto!
thnx for the in-sight. My
thnx for the in-sight. My girl gets off mostly via oral, love doing it but there are people saying that it causes throat cancer!! Any truth in this?
Hi Kevin,
Hi Kevin,
there was some hype about oral sex and throat cancer in the press a while back, that’s true. But you have very little to worry about! Your chances of getting throat cancer through oral sex are really very small. If you want to make them even smaller, use a dental dam. You can sometimes find them at chemists. Easier is just cutting the tip of a condom, and then cutting along the side, so you end up with a square. Putting that over the vagina will protect you from STDs and other germs or bacteria of all kinds.
Thanks for the good work .
Thanks for the good work .
You are most welcome, Dennis!
You are most welcome, Dennis!
How can u enjoy sex longer
How can u enjoy sex longer
Hi Grace,
Hi Grace,
what do you mean exactly?
a don feel anytin when
a don feel anytin when he is inside wat is that normal? if nt wats wrong?
Hi Betsy,
Hi Betsy,
what do you mean by ‘you don’t feel anything’? Do you mean you don’t feel the penis, you don’t feel arousal? Can you try to be a bit more specific, please?
y is it dat ma b.f doesnt mek
y is it dat ma b.f doesnt mek me reach da climax nd afta da first round dat even teks only afew seconds, he doesnt do anatha nd i feel disapointd yet i cant tel him dat he doesnt satisify ma desires coz he might get angry wit me, wat shud i do coz he doesnt even satisify me even 10% at all, thnx
y is it dat ma b.f doesnt mek
y is it dat ma b.f doesnt mek me reach da climax nd afta da first round dat even teks only afew seconds, he doesnt do anatha nd i feel disapointd yet i cant tel him dat he doesnt satisify ma desires coz he might get angry wit me, wat shud i do coz he doesnt even satisify me even 10% at all, thnx
Hi Chrish,
Hi Chrish,
make sure that he satisfies you during foreplay. Tell him to use his hands or tongue on your clitoris to make you orgasm. Or, after he is done, gently tell him that you aren’t quite satisfied yet and if he could maybe touch you.
Good sex is all about communication- it takes some guts to bring it up, but it’s the best way to get what you want.
am a versity student aged 25
am a versity student aged 25 nd single. I hv bn musturbating since the age ov 15 day after day by fantasysing on the nude pictures in my laptop n the habbit is still cropping up.
Wont dis affect me in either way?
Hi Andrews,
Hi Andrews,
your masturbation habit will not affect your future sex life. It might take some time to get used to the different sensations, but other than that, there is no problem.
Check out more masturbation myths here:
http://lovematters.co.ke/news/masturbation-myths-busted
my wife like anal sex but
my wife like anal sex but idont.what can ido?
Hi Aruma,
Hi Aruma,
sex is as much about communication as it is about the actual act.
So, if there is something you want to do, and your wife doesn’t, or the other way around, you need to talk to her about it. You need to solve those things, openly, together.
Maybe you can try once, and she can do something you have wanted to try in return.
Does this help?
Can mastabation help in
Can mastabation help in perfecting sex and how long should it take
Hi there,
Hi there,
sure, masturbation is a really great way to get to know what you want and like and need in bed! And there is no rule for how long it should take. However long or short you want- it’s your game, you set the rules!
Plz doc help me.weneva i
Plz doc help me.weneva i ejaculate i feel pain in ma urethra.sometimes i ejaculate a litle volume i dnt kno y?
Pain is never a good sign.
Pain is never a good sign. Please see a doctor about this.
Thats good Love Matters i av
Thats good Love Matters i av tried some of ur tips n really change my feelings.bigup guys.
Fantastic!
Fantastic!
My penis hurts when erects
My penis hurts when erects help me
Please see a doctor about
Please see a doctor about this; we cannot give medical advice.
GREAT ARTICLE
GREAT ARTICLE
Thanks!
Thanks!
Thanks so much 4 your
Thanks so much 4 your educative advice
You are most welcome.
You are most welcome.
Fantastic! glad to here that.
Fantastic! glad to here that.
🙂
🙂
I like n love your page
I like n love your page thanks for your educating
Glad to hear that Wilmark.
Glad to hear that Wilmark.
Waao lyk readin ua article it
Waao lyk readin ua article it helps alot
Great!
Great!
I like your advice.but foes
I like your advice.but foes the size of the clitoris matter during orgasm?
Hi Lydiah,
Hi Lydiah,
The clitoris gets bigger when you are aroused, but the size doesn’t matter.
Im glad you teaching our men
Im glad you teaching our men how to handle us.
I wish every man can read this. Thanks
Yep, we wish that, too!
Yep, we wish that, too!
really educative.how can I
really educative.how can I satisfy my guy very well?
Josephine,
Josephine,
By asking him.
Sex is about communication. Different people like different things. Ask him what he likes. You can even ask him to guide you. Don’t be shy!
I release in 30 seconds since
I release in 30 seconds since no lady likes me anymore what can i do help plz?
Vicky,
Vicky,
It sounds like you are coming earlier than you would like, this often happens to young men who don’t have a lot of sexual experience because they get very aroused very easily. With more sexually experienced men, it might be due to psychological problems, like fear, stress or depression.
Generally though go slow, enjoy the buildup of touching and caressing each other. Make time for oral sex during your physical interactions. Take time focusing on your partner as well as yourself. Communicate together about what feels nice, what doesn’t and what you would like to try together. Experiment, explore and try new things!
Make sure to use lots of lube and switch up the fun. Even if you do orgasm you can take some time to have oral sex with your partner until your body is ready to go again. Change positions and mix it up.
Some people say condoms help them last longer, while others may use cock rings (just make sure it is the right size and not too tight!).
Generally just remember that sex is more than just penetration and there are lots of ways to enjoy each other.
If you are finding that you really cannot maintain an erection then it might be time to see a doctor. There are some medical conditions that can affect your performance but would need to be looked by a professional.
You can also keep masturbating, however challenge yourself to last longer. Go slow, feel the way your body changes when you are getting closer to climax. Tease yourself, find tricks that help you delay the finish.
What the solution to a man
What the solution to a man who cant have sex 4 5mins beacuse he do ejaculate to early and after dat he lost the excitment in sex.
4-5 minutes is actually not
4-5 minutes is actually not bad, a little less than average.
But it sounds like you are coming earlier than you would like, this often happens to young men who don’t have a lot of sexual experience because they get very aroused very easily. With more sexually experienced men, it might be due to psychological problems, like fear, stress or depression.
Generally though go slow, enjoy the buildup of touching and caressing each other. Make time for oral sex during your physical interactions. Take time focusing on your partner as well as yourself. Communicate together about what feels nice, what doesn’t and what you would like to try together. Experiment, explore and try new things!
Make sure to use lots of lube and switch up the fun. Even if you do orgasm you can take some time to have oral sex with your partner until your body is ready to go again. Change positions and mix it up.
Some people say condoms help them last longer, while others may use cock rings (just make sure it is the right size and not too tight!).
Generally just remember that sex is more than just penetration and there are lots of ways to enjoy each other.
If you are finding that you really cannot maintain an erection then it might be time to see a doctor. There are some medical conditions that can affect your performance but would need to be looked by a professional.
You can also keep masturbating, however challenge yourself to last longer. Go slow, feel the way your body changes when you are getting closer to climax. Tease yourself, find tricks that help you delay the finish.
What is oral sex?
What is oral sex?
It means stimulating the
It means stimulating the genitals with your mouth and tongue.
i apreciate watever u do for
i apreciate watever u do for us nd for real ur da best n all coz u’ve taught us watever we need to be helped with,……. u rilly keep up i love ya
We are glad to hear that,
We are glad to hear that, Cryba!
helo…., y z t dat ma bf.
helo…., y z t dat ma bf. feels pain after f**kn lyk 3 or 4 roundz???? lyk wen we want to av some more he rilly feelz pain with his dick……!!!!!
Cryba,
Cryba,
it might be overdoing it.
With sex, quality is better than quantity, so make those first one or two rounds count.
But, it would be best to consult a doctor, to make sure nothing is wrong.
hi,… thanx for teaching our
hi,… thanx for teaching our men hw to handle our sweet pussies coz even shy onez learn to be open, nd this rilly rocks coz they get to show new things or styles nd also hundle ladies with care, ur rilly great teachers…….. thnx
🙂
🙂
thnx 4 da lessons by the way
thnx 4 da lessons by the way am learning new n healthy ideas to mantain ma marriage.
We are glad to hear that,
We are glad to hear that, Diffy!
Can somebody squirt when she
Can somebody squirt when she is horny,or need a man badly…is it normal
Yeah, but it can also just be
Yeah, but it can also just be the normal vaginal reaction to arousal, vaginal wetness.
Is it true that men enjoy dry
Is it true that men enjoy dry sex
Unfortunately, they do: http:
Unfortunately, they do: http://lovematters.co.ke/news/dry-sex-women-pains-please
what is kunyaza
what is kunyaza
Have a look here:
Have a look here:
http://lovematters.co.ke/news/kunyaza-african-secret-female-orgasm
What if i kissed a gal
What if i kissed a gal passionately nd i didnt touch her breast nor play with her vagina, will she be angry for non action further??
No idea! That really depends
No idea! That really depends on the situation, the expectations and the woman!
exactly te tips works
exactly te tips works effectively
Great!
Great!
i lv yu guys
i lv yu guys
yay!
yay!
I find it hard to go to the
I find it hard to go to the second round.However of late the only round could not sustain a single orgasm for my wife hence l had to try a few staff so dat l last till she comes.One of them was to masturbate while l control my coming or at the same time l personaly get used to ejaculation.Number two much foreplay helps a lot lick the whole body of d woman without forgeting clictoris and finally when u fuck her start with positions that makes her come faster and then lastly mine.That worked for me and still keep researching about her so that she enjoys it as well.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your experiences, Bob!
How long should it take a man
How long should it take a man to release
The average time is about 7
The average time is about 7 minutes, but shorter or longer is also still normal. Some men take much longer
I like every discussion u
I like every discussion u guys have keep it up
That’s great, we hope you
That’s great, we hope you keep coming back.
hi there,abt two year bak i
hi there,abt two year bak i got pg then decided to flash,am married now can i get pregnant again coz 4 the past 3months hv used nothing n nt yet,last year on march i used the fp injection (3mnths)is there any problem with me.upon flashing i used sm drugs that i was reccommeded to
Hi there,
Hi there,
three months is still a short time for trying, so don’t worry too much just yet.
Try to find out when you ovulate, and make sure that you have sex around that time.
If you don’t get pregnant within a year, you should consider seeing a doctor to make sure everything is okay.
Its very good,keep it rolling
Its very good,keep it rolling
Thanks Jimmy, we will!
Thanks Jimmy, we will!
Why do some girls are very
Why do some girls are very cold when making love?
Do you mean cold emotionally
Do you mean cold emotionally or with a cold body?
u guyz rock
u guyz rock
Thank you 🙂
Thank you 🙂
nice advise keepit up
nice advise keepit up
Thanks, we will!
Thanks, we will!
I do have sex for more that
I do have sex for more that 45 minutes always until my woman gets dry yet am not yet satisfied how can I be helped it happens almost all the time
Denno,
Denno,
firstly, have lots of foreplay, so you are very aroused by the time you start intercourse.
And you can use some extra lubricant to help the dryness.
I do have sex for more that
I do have sex for more that 45 minutes always until my woman gets dry yet am not yet satisfied how can I be helped it happens almost all the time
Why women moan? Do they feel
Why women moan? Do they feel the pain.
Check this out: https:/
Check this out: https://lovematters.co.ke/news/noisy-sex-why-women-moan-and-scream-bed
Why do most women not give
Why do most women not give blowjobs? I want it but i dont naw how i can tell her
Alvin,
Alvin,
sex is about communication. If you can’t talk about sex with your partner, maybe you guys aren’t ready to have sex with each other yet?
Tankx 4 educating us.is it
Tankx 4 educating us.is it gud 2 use tongue to rub clitoris ?
Yes, it will feel fantastic!
Yes, it will feel fantastic!
My wyf keeps complaining
My wyf keeps complaining after we finish making luv sperms keep coming out of her n this makes her uncormfotable am just wondering.
Newton, that’s perfectly
Newton, that’s perfectly normal. The sperm has nowhere to go but out. If it really bothers her, you can start using condoms.
nce staff..
nce staff..
Thanks!
Thanks!
I Really Liked Your Article
I Really Liked Your Article,so Educative Indeed.
That’s great!
That’s great!
am enjoying the page..but
am enjoying the page..but what do you mean by oral sex? is it kissing?
Chepz,
Chepz,
it means using your tongue and mouth to pleasure your partner and his or her genitals.
I hate. smell coming from.
I hate. smell coming from. her thing
Fred,
Fred,
maybe you could have a shower together before having sex? But beware, having a smell is normal. You have one too, but you might not notice it.
Am too hyper is it normal?
Am too hyper is it normal?
Hyper in terms of…?
Hyper in terms of…?
Hi i would like to know, what
Hi i would like to know, what is kunyaza
Candies,
Candies,
check it out: https://lovematters.co.ke/news/kunyaza-african-secret-female-orgasm
Indid very educative coments
Indid very educative coments
🙂
🙂
When is the right time to
When is the right time to make a woman pregnant
You mean the right time in
You mean the right time in her life, or during her cycle?
Gud info
Gud info
Thanks!
Thanks!
Thanx 4 ur advice
Thanx 4 ur advice
You are welcome!
You are welcome!
thts great I can see some
thts great I can see some improvement ,we are duin it more often
That’s great!
That’s great!
as soon as I finish first I
as soon as I finish first I to off completely wat might be the problem
Demori,
Demori,
This is completely normal for men to have what is called a refractory period, where it cannot get hard after ejaculation. Honestly, your body is just telling you that it needs some time. There is no real way to change it or make it happen less, so just try to work with your body. If you are really hoping to have more sex, then take the time to recharge and focus on your partner. This is a good time to focus on them and give them pleasure. You will become hard again in no time and continue.
wow what is the meaning of
wow what is the meaning of kunyaza? im.turned on reading yr messages
Lucy,
Lucy,
have a look here: https://lovematters.co.ke/news/kunyaza-african-secret-female-orgasm
How can i know my woman has
How can i know my woman has reached organism??
Kushka,
Kushka,
the easiest way: ask her. Sex is about communication, and the two of you need to talk about it. Ask her what she wants and needs, and if she enjoys sex, and vice versa.
Try me, you will see the
Try me, you will see the example
Hi Fifi,
Hi Fifi,
Share how one feels and acts when experiencing orgasm if you don’t mind for him to learn.
Great to know some of this
Great to know some of this bedroom issues. Unbelievable!
🙂
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just something u have said,it
just something u have said,it doesnt matter the size of the penis but the technique or clitorial stimulation.what about those unlucky women who have undergone fgm coz i heard that the clitoris is done away with during the fgm.i mean do women who have undergone fgm enjoy sex via sexual intercourse
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your insights, we agree.
Depending on which way of cutting has been used, the external clitoris has indeed been removed, but the clitoris also extends deep into the body. And, it is possible that other body parts start taking over some of the clitoral ‘hot spot functions’.
i my clit was done away with
i my clit was done away with n damn yeah, I really enjoy sex. I don’t run dry neither.
Hi…what could be the
Hi…what could be the problem whenever we hav sex she is always complaining that its painful not on penetration but when i go deep…
Sammy,
Sammy,
your penis is probably hitting her cervix, which can be very uncomfortable. Try to let her be in charge of depth of penetration, with her being on top, for example.
No…!!! Dont lie to us. No
No…!!! Dont lie to us. No penis can hit the Cervix. Do your homework on the length of the vavina tunnel. The reason there z pain, is because of a dry vagina. The guy shouldnt hurry to penetrate before the lady is ready
I think you should do your
I think you should do your homework very well
I lyk this
I lyk this
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Great!
Nice idea to have.
Nice idea to have.
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what is faking orgasms
what is faking orgasms
my chic releases so much I
my chic releases so much I get turned off wat cud b the problem or am I overstimulating her
I HAVE LOST SEXUAL FEELINGS
I HAVE LOST SEXUAL FEELINGS FOR MY WOMAN, WAHT’S THE SOLUTION?
Hi Abel, losing sexual
Hi Abel, losing sexual interest towards someones is mostly brought by issues in a relationship. Talk to your partner and try to find out what the issue is. Then try and tackle it together.
can i know the difference
can i know the difference between squirting and cumming
Cumming and squirting are
Cumming and squirting are both ejaculations but squirting involves a clear pee like fluid. when a women ejaculates It could be a white, milky fluid secreted by the female prostate gland or it could be a clear fluid that resembles pee.
I Used To Fuck My Girl For
I Used To Fuck My Girl For About 20 Min Buh Nowdayz I Cum Fast…..Watz My Problem
Hi Kevoh, have you read our
Hi Kevoh, have you read our article on premature ejaculation? It will help answer your question https://lovematters.co.ke/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts .
my b/f and I take long to
my b/f and I take long to have sex.could dat cause premature ejaculation in dat he leaves me yarning for sex?
Hi Shammy,
Hi Shammy,
Thanks for writing to us.
Have you tried to talk to your partner and find out the reason why it takes a long time before you have sex?
Talking about it will help shed some light if there is an issue.
It is easier for men to orgasm than women. For this reason its important that he takes time and not rush to the finish line.
This can be achieved by instructing him what to do since you know your body best.
Slowing him down when you think he’s speeding up, showing him where to touch you, prolonging foreplay all this can go a long way in helping you climax.
For many women, intercourse by itself isn’t enough to have an orgasm. To climax they need to have their clitoris directly stimulated, perhaps by rubbing or licking, Compared to the vagina, the clitoris is much more sensitive .
You can read about premature ejaculation in men here https://lovematters.co.ke/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts .
Hi when having a foreplay
Hi when having a foreplay with my gf sometimes it takes it takes like 10 min then i realises out sperms b4 we start the act its realy emberacing me plz what could the problem with me ?
Hi Fredy,
Hi Fredy,
That is called premature ejaculation. Read this article and find answers to your questions https://lovematters.co.ke/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts .
Pls! Help Me out, whenever my
Pls! Help Me out, whenever my guy penetrate deeply, i will feel it immediately nd feeling relunctantly to have sex again,then after some hours of d day,i will begin to feel d pain beneath my abdomen,and won’t be able to walk or sit normal 4 some minutes.Though His D*ck his a little bit long, but what can cause that? and solution plsss!
Hey Seyyida,
Hey Seyyida,
It is important to talk to your partner and instruct him during sex to avoid getting injuries or feeling pain.
When women start having sex the vagina is contracted and if the penis is thrust in it can cause a bit of pain and discomfort.
Therefore its important for the man to be gentle during initial insertion and let the vagina stretch out to accommodate the penis to avoid pain.
i noticed in 2014 my man was
i noticed in 2014 my man was using “maxman capsules” which upon asking he lied to me than he was given by some guys who were promoting them. later i noticed an “ejaculation delaying spay” in his bag which i never saw him use i tuk it n disposed them. i av all through bn the one to ask for sex from him st times in da middle of foreplay or penetration he loses his hard on. i av then lost intrest in sex n can even stay a month without remember am only 28 n hes 31. wil this affect my sex life or can my sex intrest go back to normal? wat the problem with my hubby? hos can he be helped?
Hi Sherry, sorry that you are
Hi Sherry, sorry that you are going through this.
It seems like your husband has a problem with premature ejaculation.
Both the pills and the spray are used to enhance and hold an erection for long for maximum performance.
It would have been better for you to talk about the issue as opposed to throwing away the spray.
Its very easy for men to feel inadequate if they are not performing sexually.
It becomes worse if they think their partner is not supportive or understanding towards them.
Is very easy to lose sexual interest when you are getting no satisfaction from sex.
It will be important for you to talk to and support your husband though this issue to help solve it.
Here is an article that can help you understand him better https://lovematters.co.ke/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts .
When having sex with my lover
When having sex with my lover she yousually complane about painness what could be the problem
Hi Rafael,
Hi Rafael,
Read this article on pain during sex to get your answer https://lovematters.co.ke/news/pain-during-sex-suffering-silence .
Its rare that I get orgasm, I
Its rare that I get orgasm, I feel lots of pain during intercourse. when we kiss I feel like having it specially when he plays with my nipples, but when it comes to intercourse I loose the excitement. I pretend that I am enjoying the sex, I make lots of sounds just to please him. I discovered something recently, I masturbate using water from the tap I flash it hard on my clitoris and that gives lots of pleasure. please advice
Hi Juan its very difficult to
Hi Juan its very difficult to be interested in sex when you don’t enjoy it.
You need to talk to your partner about this and show him what you like and how you like it
Read this article and find out what more you can do https://lovematters.co.ke/news/pain-during-sex-suffering-silence .
Dr. my g.f complains of pain
Dr. my g.f complains of pain wen she urinates, wen having sex there is no problem but da pain comes,wen she urinates later after abt 3 minutes da pain is off,wat mait b da problem?
Hi Kimbo,
Hi Kimbo,
Its important that she goes to see the doctor to have that issue checked out.
when having sex i take to
when having sex i take to long to ejaculate even after taking to long without sex,some times the girl cums n get tired or blisters antil she cnt enjoy it anymore before i ejaculate and the third round i dnt even finish she pushes me claiming she tired
There is nothing wrong with
There is nothing wrong with you Lawy. You just need to enjoy the sex and concentrate on the moment. Being able to go for long can be viewed as a bonus by many people.
What some of us women would
What some of us women would give to have a man like you lawy . it is a gift, I hope one day you will know just how much blessed you are!!!.
Thanks for sharing your
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us Meg.
need to know am 21 and I have
need to know am 21 and I have never had any filling for sex act can there be a problem????
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Hi Essy,
Hi Essy,
You do not have a problem, you just need to give yourself time to get to like it.
GREAT ADVICE. THANKS
GREAT ADVICE. THANKS
You are welcome Chibuzor.
You are welcome Chibuzor.
hi, does when you want to
hi, does when you want to squirt feels like you are pressed by urine..or what is SQUIRTING exactly??
Hi Tasha read our article
Hi Tasha read our article about squirting and find out https://lovematters.co.ke/news/squirting-orgasms-what-comes-out .
have a problem with my penis
have a problem with my penis,it gets hard anyhwly,my gf complains that fuck after fuck i still need a fuck don’t feel satisfied,what cud be the problem with being horny most of the time?
Hi Donte,
Hi Donte,
There is nothing wrong with that. It simply means that your sex drive is high and healthy. You should just learn how to control it so that both you and your girlfriend can enjoy instead of her seeing it as a bother.
Hi am far from my gf n
Hi am far from my gf n masaturbatx cuz I dnt wanna cheat on her..can frequent masturbation b detrimental to me sexual life when am back home with my gf?pls help
Hi Remi,
Hi Remi,
There is nothing wrong with that. Its perfectly safe an normal.
Read more here https://lovematters.co.ke/news/masturbation-myths-busted .
I appreciate you ,thankyou
I appreciate you ,thankyou
You are welcome. Keep…
You are welcome. Keep reading.
But why are most women feel…
But why are most women feel pain when touching the breast
Hi Bahat,
It depends on…
Hi Bahat,
It depends on how you touch it. If you are gentle, she will not feel any pain. If you are aggressive, she will definitely feel pain as breasts are like any other part of the body that feels pain.