There’s a girl I love. I want her in my life but she doesn’t want that because she is a year older and a lesbian. We go out to lunch, dinner… Please, I need your help!
Valentine Njoroge
Intertribal relationship: making it work
I’m in love with my girl but she is from a different tribe and my parents don’t want her because of that. Can our relationship still work?
Sex is a gift, not a right
I wasn’t in the mood for sex but my boyfriend insisted until I accepted. The following day, he told me that I was denying him his rights and we broke up. Now what?
Saving it for marriage (while having sex with ex)
I am dating a guy who has promised to marry me before we have any sex. But I am still enjoying sex with my ex. I am confused…
Is masturbation cheating?
Is it true that masturbation is cheating on your partner? An advocate for masturbating, Valentine believes it’s only cheating when it feels like cheating.
My wife doesn’t like sex (but I’m perfect)
I’ve been married since 2012. My wife doesn’t like sex. Sometimes I go without for over a month. Is this normal in a marriage? When I recently went astray, I was told I was perfect in bed.
Can porn make me frigid?
Valentine, a friend of mine has been watching porn since form 2 and now she is in university. She was wondering if it can lead to impotence.
Does age difference matter?
My boyfriend is nine months younger. At first, it wasn’t serious; now he wants to meet my family. I’m starting to love him. But I’m worried the age difference will ruin the relationship.
Bored in bed
My boyfriend seems to be bored when we are in bed. Sometimes he doesn’t satisfy me. What may be the problem?
Desire fades quickly
I’ve been masturbating since I was 12. When I’m with my guy it’s only for minutes and the strong romance fades. I’m afraid I won’t be able to keep a man by my side if I can’t satisfy him in bed.
Fantasising about my ex while having sex with my wife
When I am having sex with my wife, I think about my former girlfriend in order to reach my orgasm. What should I do to end this?
A lesson in seduction
Please, can you help me seduce a stranger girl? asks a reader. Valentine suggests he begin with baby steps before trying any long strides.