I was cut when I was a young girl. Now I found a guy I love and want to marry. I’m afraid to tell him though, fearing that he will reject me. What should I do?
Getrude Mungai
It takes two to tango
“I’ve been masturbating to keep pleasure in my life, as I was single. Now I’m worried that I won’t be able to orgasm when having sex with my new man.”
Me-time vs. we-time: striking a balance
‘I love my girlfriend, but I enjoy time to myself and don’t want to lose that. She says I’m afraid of commitment. Is that true? Is that bad?’
Violence: the dark family secret
‘I grew up in a family where my father beat my mother and us kids all the time. Now I suspect that my older brother is hitting his wife. Is there any way we can break this cycle?’
Signs that she just had sex
‘How can you tell if a girl just had sex just by looking at her?’
What does an orgasm feel like?
‘My boyfriend asks me how often I’ve come after sex. But I don’t have an answer. How do I know when I am having an orgasm?’
My girlfriend is never in the mood
‘When I ask for sex from my girlfriend, she keeps saying she doesn’t have the feeling. What will I do? I really want to do it!’
Causing pain for pleasure?
For some people, spicing things up might mean having sex in new places, or trying different positions. For others, it might be a form of BDSM. Whatever your sexual cup of tea is, however, there should always be consent and respect.
My husband wants to have a threesome
My husband wants to include others in our intimate sessions. I’ve told him I have no desire to be with another man or woman. He says it would be a real turn on to see me with someone else and him with a different woman. I don’t mind sharing – except my man! It’s tearing our relationship apart. I’m so confused and heartbroken. What do I do?
Does size affect your sex life?
Does your partner’s body size matter during sex? As a ‘huge, fat’ woman with a slim guy, can you still have pleasurable sex, a reader asks.
My boyfriend stabbed himself
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. A few months ago, we were having dinner at his place we got into a big fight. He stabbed his leg with a steak knife because he was very upset. Should I be concerned that he is not stable? He’s never been like that before or after. All I can think of is how much blood there was!
Coming too soon?
My girl always climaxes after about 20 minutes before I have climaxed. Is it normal for a girl to climax that quickly or is it fake?