Love Guru

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Female condoms: tell me more

I want to try female condoms, but I have no idea where to get them or how to use them! Also, are they effective at preventing STDs?

Post break-up sex: a good idea?

My boyfriend just told me that he doesn’t love me anymore but he still wants us to be intimate. I still love him. Help!

My boyfriend doesn’t make love to me

My boyfriend always refuses when I ask for sex with him. What should I do? Sometimes he even tells me to look for another friend.

FGM/C: Fear of rejection

I was cut when I was a young girl. Now I found a guy I love and want to marry. I’m afraid to tell him though, fearing that he will reject me. What should I do?

Bones and black magic

‘My wife found a bone in my pocket; she thinks I’m using black magic on her. I have tried to explain how it got there but she doesn’t understand. What should I do?’

How do I know if she loves me?

‘What signs should I look for to find out if a girl really loves me?’

It takes two to tango

“I’ve been masturbating to keep pleasure in my life, as I was single. Now I’m worried that I won’t be able to orgasm when having sex with my new man.”

My fiancé wants me to get an HIV test

‘I am getting married. My fiancé has asked me to get tested for HIV. He says everyone should get it done before marriage, even virgins. I am shocked.’