Women like watching porn too.
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Who says girls don't like porn?

'When I first watched it, I never thought I'd like porn,' 24-year-old Joan says, admitting she now enjoys it on a regular basis. Studies worldwide show that the market for female-oriented porn is on the rise.

Curiosity

'It all started with a bit of curiosity. I remember being 16 and watching a porn DVD with a group of friends to find out what all the fuss was about. I wasn't sexually active then and, frankly speaking, it grossed me out. I didn't find the penis attractive, I didn't understand why people enjoyed sex!'

'It was only after I engaged in love-making and found the experience pleasurable that I started masturbating. It's then that I found watching pornography stimulating. What I like about it is that I can satisfy my needs whenever I want all by myself.'

Fantasising

'For me, sexual fantasies has never really worked. I don't get turned on by thinking about sex, I guess I am a more visual person. I need to see it to feel it.'

'I hear people say that women prefer fantasising over watching porn and stuff like that. I don't know where they get these statistics from! Maybe women are just ashamed of acknowledging that they watch porn, you know how it is. I am talking about it but I am doing it anonymously!'

Graphic

'Nearly all the porn I have accessed has been for a male audience. I guess that's because the industry itself is male-oriented, also maybe because female bodies are just more attractive than male bodies.'

'I don't mind it though. I don't watch it just to see the women strip. It just sets the mood, I like to see the act, the actual sex. I guess, I just like the whole graphic nature of it.'

Secretive

'My boyfriend knows that I watch porn and I know that he watches porn, but we haven't tried watching it together. It's still kind of a private space we both have, and it's fine as long as both of us are comfortable with it.'

'In my experience, I've found that the society I am around just doesn't accept that women wanting sex or indulging in masturbation is completely natural. I still can't believe I have agreed to talk about this. This is the first time I am sharing this part of my life. It's so private and it's so secretive.'

Internet

'Getting good porn is a pain. The internet is a good resource, but you have to be so careful with viruses. It can give you a tough time if you go wrong. It gets more difficult when you can't discuss these things with others.'

'I have a buddy who advises me on these issues. He's a really good friend and we've known each other for a very long time, so I'm comfortable talking about it with him. But not everybody can do that.'

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Anonymous
Fri, 09/16/2016 - 09:35 am
My girl complains about my porn and masturbation but she secretly watches when am also not home, Girls watch porn and masturbate alot but are just better at hiding it and most of all not admitting it.
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