Amina* underwent FGM/C as a young girl. As an unmarried woman, she is torn between trying to value her culture and the pain she had to endure.
My Story
Readers of Love Matters tell of their own experiences – from when they got dumped or when they found a lump. And feel free to share your stories.
I have HIV, where can I get support and encouragement?
For people living with HIV knowing where to go and who to turn to for support can be a challenge on it’s own, although there are a few places and people one can turn to for support and encouragement.
The e-pill was saved my life!
E-pills are for irresponsible and immature girls only! Or so Jane thought because she had always made sure to use contraception. Until one night, the condom broke.
Am I still a virgin if I’ve only had anal sex?
Before you start squeezing your face, think back to when you weren’t ready (or willing) to give up the cookie yet. Remember the little manipulations you had to do?
How gender roles can affect relationships
It’s a different world we’re living in. Women are no longer expected to be superhumans who take care of every task and person in their home while holding down a job.
How do open relationships work?
Open relationships are hip, especially among the young people. For those of us who don’t understand the concept, let’s get down to what they are all about.
Saying no to sex during sex
Recently, a story broke in Nigeria about a lady and man having sex and consent being withdrawn after penetration. The story caused massive outrage.
Ladies, have you ever been ‘dickmatised?’
Sisters have fought over men, paid all their bills, travelled to places they’d never been, cooked and cleaned, overlooked a trifling brother.
My labor story and realizing it was stillbirth
Nothing prepares you for the pain and loss you feel when your baby is stillborn. Anna shares her story.
5 Types of workplace harassment
Harassment in the workplace can be complicated. As terrible as sexual harassment is, it isn’t the only way a person can feel worthless or threatened at work.
Is love enough in a relationship?
Can a relationship survive only by love? Does love conquer all?
I wanted to see my ex suffer!
Njugush and I dated for three years. Fine Dude. A full package! When he walked into a room, his presence was felt. He exuded confidence and assertiveness. He was a kind, polite, and considerate guy. Rough around the edges yes […]