My Story

Readers of Love Matters tell of their own experiences – from when they got dumped or when they found a lump. And feel free to share your stories.

How FGM affected Amina’s life

How FGM affected Amina’s life

Amina* underwent FGM/C as a young girl. As an unmarried woman, she is torn between trying to value her culture and the pain she had to endure.

The e-pill was saved my life!

The e-pill was saved my life!

E-pills are for irresponsible and immature girls only! Or so Jane thought because she had always made sure to use contraception. Until one night, the condom broke.

How do open relationships work?

How do open relationships work?

Open relationships are hip, especially among the young people. For those of us who don’t understand the concept, let’s get down to what they are all about.

Saying no to sex during sex

Saying no to sex during sex

Recently, a story broke in Nigeria about a lady and man having sex and consent being withdrawn after penetration. The story caused massive outrage.

5 Types of workplace harassment

5 Types of workplace harassment

Harassment in the workplace can be complicated. As terrible as sexual harassment is, it isn’t the only way a person can feel worthless or threatened at work.

I wanted to see my ex suffer!

I wanted to see my ex suffer!

Njugush and I dated for three years. Fine Dude. A full package! When he walked into a room, his presence was felt. He exuded confidence and assertiveness. He was a kind, polite, and considerate guy. Rough around the edges yes […]