Dating is hard: getting to know someone and building a connection can be nerve-wracking. As differently abled, those obstacles triple. I’ve had my share of trouble finding love.
My Story
Readers of Love Matters tell of their own experiences – from when they got dumped or when they found a lump. And feel free to share your stories.
Sex and money
Do men feel exploited by women? Do they like taking care of their girlfriends? What do they expect in return? Is it normal to exchange sexual favours for money today?
How to deal with in-laws
‘In Africa, a person doesn’t marry an individual. You marry an entire family.’
8 naughty places to have sex
You’re probably thinking about sex right now. Finding that special someone you want to hook up with can be a fantastic feeling. Next to that is where you get it on – or have sex!
Premature ejaculation: a deterrent to good sex?
Sex is great. I think we can all agree on that. It’s great for a lot of reasons and because you can connect even more intimately with someone you like or love.
Tips to get through Valentine’s Day for singles
Valentine’s Day is upon us again! Some think it’s a big deal while others think it’s not. Many singles hate it as they have no partner or lover to spend it with. The good news is that you can still have a day of love by showing love to yourself. Here’s how:
Dear clitoris: you’re gone and I’ll never see you again
‘Why did they cut you when you didn’t pose a threat to anyone? Why did they deny me sexual pleasure by getting rid of you?’
Why are men so obsessed with penis size?
And: what exactly is a big penis? Does big translate to good in bed? Is it wrong to want it to be bigger? Let’s see if we can answer these questions!
Spread and snap: the problem with revenge porn
The act of courting has gone digital. Slowly but surely four-page letters and love notes are replaced by emails, sexting, sending disappearing pictures on various apps.
Getting pregnant: when you can’t seem to have a baby
You’d think that getting pregnant was a quick thing. Most people remember the horror stories told by adults, and threats to not come home with babies.
Deadbeat relationships: knowing when to let go
Nobody prepares you for a bad relationship, so you go into every single one with the belief that it will be as good as your fantasies. Until it’s time to say goodbye.
No more deadbeat men
No luck in the dating department? Are the men interested in you either straight-up losers or show their deadbeat side once you’ve gone on a few dates?