Njugush and I dated for three years. Fine Dude. A full package! When he walked into a room, his presence was felt. He exuded confidence and assertiveness. He was a kind, polite, and considerate guy. Rough around the edges yes […]
My Story
Readers of Love Matters tell of their own experiences – from when they got dumped or when they found a lump. And feel free to share your stories.
Ladies, how often do you wash your bras?
Recently, a social media user said that she washes her bras once every 6 months. As you can imagine, many were shocked; twice a year?! How on earth can you confidently walk around with a bra with 6 months old […]
10 questions women have about penises
Answers to questions like ‘what do we call the fear of beards?’ or ‘what is eigengrau?’ will not change your life or put food on the table but you won’t mind knowing, right? In the spirit of searching for such […]
Is there such a thing as rape in marriage?
Can someone be raped by their spouse? And where do you draw the line between sexual privacy and rape within a marriage?
Do disabled men get erections?
You assume all men can get erections, but that isn’t always the case. And what happens when you’re having sex with a disabled man?
Finding healing after abuse
There is hope after abuse. It sounds like a paradox, but it is possible.
How to get out of an abusive queer relationship: part 2
As terrible as Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) is, there are unique challenges the LGBQ+ community experiences in these situations. The mutual fight myth and the hyper-sexualisation of bisexual people are some examples.
Do we need an International Men’s Day?
Do men need a special day dedicated to celebrating men? Jess doesn’t think so.
Falling out of love
How are you supposed to dislike someone you have loved for years? Is it ever that easy to flip the switch from unconditional love to hate and spite?
How to get out of an abusive queer relationship
The term Intimate ‘Partner’ Violence (IPV) was created because same-sex relationships have the same problems as opposite-sex ones. Can victims find their way out of a situation that isn’t acknowledged?
Why I’m so scared of relationships!
Are you so busy protecting your broken heart, that you forget to fall in love again?
Catholicism and sexuality
It’s hard enough being a human in this world. Being a religious human can make life – and more specifically, questions about sex, a bit harder.