My Story

Readers of Love Matters tell of their own experiences – from when they got dumped or when they found a lump. And feel free to share your stories.

An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away 

An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away 

Masturbation is very good for your physical and mental health. Here’s how: First, it is super pleasurable. If you’ve stroked into a tube sock, humped a pillow like a horny hare, taken hand or vibe to bits, or really enjoyed […]

What’s your favorite part about sex?

What’s your favorite part about sex?

Well, first it is totally normal for your partner to have different preferences. it depends on both of you and the attraction that you have for one another and communicating on what’s the difference between just having sex and making […]

How do I know if I’m good in bed?

How do I know if I’m good in bed?

One such question that frequently arises is, ‘My woman is too loud during sex, does it mean I am good in bed?’ At times the louder the scream the more validation we feel about our prowess, this may be true […]

How FGM affected Amina’s life

How FGM affected Amina’s life

Amina* underwent FGM/C as a young girl. As an unmarried woman, she is torn between trying to value her culture and the pain she had to endure.

The e-pill was saved my life!

The e-pill was saved my life!

E-pills are for irresponsible and immature girls only! Or so Jane thought because she had always made sure to use contraception. Until one night, the condom broke.

How do open relationships work?

How do open relationships work?

Open relationships are hip, especially among the young people. For those of us who don’t understand the concept, let’s get down to what they are all about.

Saying no to sex during sex

Saying no to sex during sex

Recently, a story broke in Nigeria about a lady and man having sex and consent being withdrawn after penetration. The story caused massive outrage.