Love Guru

Do you have a question that won’t go away? Our resident sex, love, and relationship expert is here to answer anything and everything. Do you have a more urgent question? Don’t hesitate to join the discussion and post a question on Let’s Talk.

Why are men into lesbian porn?

Why do so many men seem to love the idea of watching lesbian porn?

I want my erection to stay harder for longer

I want my penis to stay erect longer. And I want it to be harder. Like really strong! What do I do?

Dating for the money

Is it good to go for expensive first dates and to experience someone with money or maybe gifts? a female reader asks. Yes. But only if you are interested, answers Valentine.

Are all Nigerian women fake?

Many Nigerian girls are fake. How do I know which ones are for real? I have fallen into the trap too many times. I’d just like to meet a real girl.

Can I get an IUD?

I’m a 19-years old virgin and want an IUD but I’ve never had an abortion or a child. Also, is there a risk that I’ll never have a baby if I use an IUD?

Can’t orgasm during sex because I masturbated?

I’ve been masturbating since I was 14, I’m 25 now. Whenever I’ve had sex everything happens as expected, I get aroused and wet but don’t get an orgasm at the end of it all.

Do I have to marry someone I made pregnant?

Do I need to force myself to marry a lady simply because I got her pregnant? asks a reader. Firstly, force yourself to think about it carefully, replies Valentine.

Fiancé received oral sex: should I leave him?

My fiancé got oral sex from a sex worker during his bachelor party. He’s been apologising for it ever since. Should I call off the wedding?

How long does sex normally last?

How long does sex normally last? That all depends on who you’re having it with. The length of intercourse varies a whole lot from one couple to the next.

My vagina always smells weird

What does it mean if your vagina always smells? It’s making me feel self-conscious.

My gf is talking to her ex: should I be worried?

We have been dating for the last one year and we are in love. But I have noticed that she is talking to her ex. She says they are just friends and nothing more.

5 inches: the ideal penis size?

They say that a good dick should be more than 5 inches long. Is this for erect or non-erect penises? And: does longer mean better?