Dating: getting turned down

Dating: getting turned down

When you’re trying to date, it all begins with the ask. To ask someone if they want to go on a date with you or not, or want to sleep with you or not – after all, it’s polite.

Desire differences: what to do

Desire differences: what to do

Is there anything as heady as a new and perfect relationship? You’re in love – or at least, deep like – and everything seems like it was sent from above.

Consent: all the facts

Consent: all the facts

In this day and age, you’d think that everyone knows what consent is, but from the multiple assault cases reported daily, that’s definitely not the case.

Sexual fantasies: let’s get kinky

Sexual fantasies: let’s get kinky

Do you know that old Ludacris song that goes, ‘I wanna lick you from your head to your toes…’ and it ends with, ‘…but I gotta know, what’s your fantasy?’

Is polyamory the new polygamy?

Is polyamory the new polygamy?

Polygamy is entirely normal in the African context. But what about polyamory? Could it replace the concept of polygamy in the near future?