When you’re trying to date, it all begins with the ask. To ask someone if they want to go on a date with you or not, or want to sleep with you or not – after all, it’s polite.
Kerubo Akello
Premature ejaculation: a deterrent to good sex?
Sex is great. I think we can all agree on that. It’s great for a lot of reasons and because you can connect even more intimately with someone you like or love.
Getting pregnant: when you can’t seem to have a baby
You’d think that getting pregnant was a quick thing. Most people remember the horror stories told by adults, and threats to not come home with babies.
What to do when you can’t get pregnant
You’ve been trying to get pregnant for a while, and now you are starting to panic. Something may be wrong. While this is very common, it can be really scary.
Vasectomy: myths around the big snip
On World Contraception Day, some health centres in Kenya offer free contraception to anyone who walks in. Sometimes, this means vasectomies.
Is there a place for porn in modern relationships?
Porn is a complicated art, in many ways. In spite of the entire world’s slightly hypocritical stance to sex, paid sex, filmed sex, the porn industry continues to thrive, breeding profit, and controversy.
Desire differences: what to do
Is there anything as heady as a new and perfect relationship? You’re in love – or at least, deep like – and everything seems like it was sent from above.
Of work wives and work husbands
Have you ever heard of the term work husband? Or work wife?
Sugar mummies & daddies: getting some sugar?
Sugar mummies and daddies: is there something wrong with using your youthful beauty to add some extra sweetness to your dough?
Consent: all the facts
In this day and age, you’d think that everyone knows what consent is, but from the multiple assault cases reported daily, that’s definitely not the case.
Sexual fantasies: let’s get kinky
Do you know that old Ludacris song that goes, ‘I wanna lick you from your head to your toes…’ and it ends with, ‘…but I gotta know, what’s your fantasy?’
Is polyamory the new polygamy?
Polygamy is entirely normal in the African context. But what about polyamory? Could it replace the concept of polygamy in the near future?