Believe the victim, because anyone, even the person you don’t think can be, can be an abuser.
My Story
Readers of Love Matters tell of their own experiences – from when they got dumped or when they found a lump. And feel free to share your stories.
Boys who don’t want just ‘one thing’
Not all the guys you’re dating only want one thing – the way we are taught in school. Some guys are not actually interested in sex…
Should you move in with your partner during Corona?
Coronavirus is here to stay, and this is the new normal. Does that mean you can take your relationship to a new normal too?
Turned on by disability?
A devotee is a person who is sexually aroused and attracted to disability or body disfigurement.
What Father’s Day means to me
For me, Father’s Day is the day I revisit some of the most painful moments I shared with my father.
Hypersexuality, mental health & childhood trauma in men
What do you tell young men who were manipulated into sex and they were forced to do things they didn’t want to when their brains froze?
How I rediscovered intimacy after disability
Doing ‘it’ is all you think about when you’re hormonal and young. What happens, then, after an accident that changes your life forever?
Children are a choice
Everyone assumes that everyone should want to have children. For many couples, that is not the case.
A sapiosexual’s search for love
If you are sexually attracted to someone who is intelligent, then you’re probably a sapiosexual. Does that make it easier or harder to find love?
A sex therapist’s thoughts: love, sex and relationships
Childhood can affect how you behave in your adulthood, especially around love, sex, and relationships. Our in-house sex therapist explains exactly how.
Sex after thirty!
One minute you’re young and carefree. The next, you’re over thirty and your favourite sex position is sleep. How much better or worse does sex get after thirty?
My dating story as someone with a disability
A grisly road accident left me paralyzed from my armpits down. Within seconds, I went from being a normal 20-year-old university student to being a highly dependent quadriplegic.