One minute you’re young and carefree. The next, you’re over thirty and your favourite sex position is sleep. How much better or worse does sex get after thirty?
My Story
Readers of Love Matters tell of their own experiences – from when they got dumped or when they found a lump. And feel free to share your stories.
My dating story as someone with a disability
A grisly road accident left me paralyzed from my armpits down. Within seconds, I went from being a normal 20-year-old university student to being a highly dependent quadriplegic.
Being a better man
I believe that part of being a better man means learning how to take better care of my relationships, and being a better learner.
Good listeners have great sex!
It took me a while, but I discovered (with great joy) the similarities between great sex and great conversation.
Leaving homophobia behind
It isn’t complicated really; either you are aroused by the opposite sex or you are not.
Celibacy: think you could do it?
Why would anyone choose to not have sex?
Celebrating women’s month with all the women in me
It is women’s history month and as I observe it today with my bottle of fine wine and multiple self-induced orgasms, I think of how much I love and enjoy being a woman.
Why do men pay for sex?
If we want safety and dignity for sex workers, then we must also pay attention to the men who visit them.
Is Valentine’s Day that big a deal?
My life is too short to settle for just one day to show love.
How do queer Christians live with religion and sexuality?
Many queer people are religious in their own right, but there is a clash between their choices, scripture’s rejection and other queer people’s contempt of organized religion.
What to do when you meet a mansplainer!
By virtue of being a man, one becomes an expert in multiple fields, and must therefore explain all things to women.
Safety first: tips for navigating homophobia
Restrictive laws and cultural norms means African queer reality is rife with cases of psychological & physical trauma. The queer individuals’ stories below outline some tips to help you keep safe as you navigate queer-phobia.