There’s this joke that women fear getting pregnant than contracting HIV and other STIs. After unprotected sex, many will be more worried about pregnancy than STIs. This should not be the case because STIs are actually dangerous as some are […]
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Is douching bad for my vagina?
If you’re new to the word, douching is washing or cleaning your vagina with water or other cleaning products. This means inserting water or a mixture of fluids sold in some stores in the vagina. The water or fluid inserted […]
7 reasons your partner hasn’t said ‘I love you’
Alaaar! 22 months?! Well, first, don’t say 22 months, just say 1 year 10 months. That will give you a clearer picture of exactly how much time we’re talking about here. Same thing but well… Second, I feel you, it […]
Does pregnancy happen immediately after sex?
Pregnancy doesn’t happen nearly as quickly as lots of people think. Once you’ve had unprotected sex, it can take up to two to three weeks to get pregnant. This also means that the pregnancy test can only show a positive […]
How do I know my partner is having an orgasm?
Can you tell your partner is having an orgasm by looking at them? For men, yes since they often ejaculate, but for women is not that easy. There is no one way to have an orgasm, especially for women(including intersex […]
Ladies, how often do you wash your bras?
Recently, a social media user said that she washes her bras once every 6 months. As you can imagine, many were shocked; twice a year?! How on earth can you confidently walk around with a bra with 6 months old […]
How many ‘holes’ does a woman have down there?
People with vulvas (the outer part of female genitals) have three holes down there. And when I’m talking about down there, I mean your genitals. The urethra, the opening to the vagina, and the anus. Each one has a different […]
9 interesting facts about the male G-Spot
For many men though, the thought of touching or inserting a finger in their rectum is quite appalling but to others, it is among the best ways to achieve optimum sexual pleasure. Men, are you in the first or second […]
6 period blood colors and what they mean
Sometimes back we conducted a survey with a group of men and women on the level of their awareness of menstruation. Two of the questions that ignored a debate were about how much blood is lost during periods and the […]
10 questions women have about penises
Answers to questions like ‘what do we call the fear of beards?’ or ‘what is eigengrau?’ will not change your life or put food on the table but you won’t mind knowing, right? In the spirit of searching for such […]
What is the HIV window period?
After how long can HIV be detected in the blood?
Are you a demisexual?
Times have changed and so has our understanding of the wide spectrum of sexual orientation. We no longer confine ourselves to merely heterosexuals or homosexuals.