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If a woman becomes pregnant unintentionally, one option she may consider is having a safe abortion.

The law in a nutshell

Before deciding to have an abortion, it’s important to be aware of what’s legal and what’s not – when it comes to abortion, there are huge legal variations from country to country.

Even when abortion is legal, that doesn’t mean you can decide to have one at any stage of pregnancy. The limit varies, so in some countries, you can have an abortion until you’re 28 weeks pregnant. In others, the limit can be as low as 12 weeks.

In some countries, the law only lets you have an abortion in certain circumstances, for example, if you have physical or mental health problems, or if you’ve been raped or can’t afford to look after the baby adequately, or there’s something wrong with the foetus.

Kenyan law

In Kenya, abortion is not permitted unless, in the opinion of a trained health professional, there is a need for emergency treatment or the life or health of the mother is in danger, or if permitted by any other written law.

If someone performs an illegal abortion on a woman, they risk 14 years in prison. If you get caught trying to perform an illegal abortion on yourself, you can face up to seven years in prison. Anyone who gives a pregnant woman the means to perform an illegal abortion may be imprisoned for three years.

Nigerian law

In Nigeria, abortions are only legal if the life of the mother-to-be is in danger. But because one in four pregnancies is unintended, a lot of abortions still happen, and many of them are unsafe. In 2012, 1.25 million abortions took place in Nigeria.

According to the Criminal Code (Southern States), it's a felony to provide abortions, and that's punishable with 14 years in prison. Getting an abortion, on the other hand, could mean you face seven years in prison. Those supplying anything to get a woman to have a miscarriage could be punished with three years in prison. The Criminal Code also explicitly allows abortions for physical and mental health reasons.  
The Northern States follow the Penal Code, is similar, except for wording and interpretation. The punishments are also harsher, especially in case of a woman's death.   
Two doctors need to confirm that an abortion is indeed needed.

Regardless of where you live and the local laws, you can still get pills for a medical abortion from Women on Waves or sometimes the chemist. You can also get in touch with Women Help Women.

Types of abortion: medical and surgical

Every year, 34.000 African women die as a result of unsafe abortions.

In many cases they would be entitled to legal abortions, so why not go to a registered doctor? Some don’t realise that abortion can be legal and don’t know what the options are. Other women just don’t have access to health care, particularly in rural areas. Or they may want to keep it secret and worry about the lack of anonymity at public health centres.

Whatever you choose, make sure you’re speaking to a certified medical practitioner to avoid the risks of unsafe abortions. Unsafe abortions account for around 13 per cent of maternal deaths globally.
It’s important to have a safe and legal abortion.

There are two types of safe abortion:

  • Medical
  • Surgical

The most suitable option for you depends on how many weeks pregnant you are (calculated from the first day of your last period).

Medical abortion

With a medical abortion, you first take a pill that stops the pregnancy – it blocks the hormone that keeps you pregnant.

If you choose to have a medical abortion, you have several options, depending on how far along in the pregnancy you are:

Early medical abortion (up to week nine of pregnancy)

You take two different pills, Mifepristone and Misoprostol. This can happen with a medical professional or at home. You take these two pills 36 – 48 hours apart. You can take 200 mg of the first pill at a clinic or at your doctor’s office, and the second you can safely take at home. The first pill makes sure the fertilised egg can’t settle in the womb, and the second pushes it out. After taking the second pill it takes about 4 – 6 hours for everything to leave the body.

Generally, this is painless, although the pills may cause some bleeding, cramping, diarrhoea, and sickness. It may feel like really bad period pains. You are unlikely to notice the embryo among the blood clots – it’s still no bigger than a small grape at eight weeks, and even smaller earlier in the pregnancy.

If the bleeding and pain feel too severe, you should go to the nearest clinic or hospital.

Safe abortions at home

There are some safe ways to have an abortion at home. If you plan to do this, please make sure you are not alone in this process. If there are complications, you’ll need to be able to get to a hospital within an hour. At the hospital you can say you had a spontaneous miscarriage – the doctor won’t be able to tell the difference.

If you’re less than 12 weeks pregnant, all you need to do is take a pill called Misoprostol, often taken with Mifepristone. This kind of medical abortion is safe, but it’s illegal to terminate a pregnancy this way in Kenya and Nigeria. For more information, visit Women on Web, where you can also get advice on how a safe medical abortion works.

It’s best to get help from Women on Web and their local partner organisations and use both Mifepristone and Misoprostol, as the success rate is 96 per cent compared to 90 per cent with Misoprostol alone.

Also, medical abortions with just Mifepristone should not be done if you have been pregnant for more than 12 weeks.

Late medical abortion (from week nine of pregnancy)

If you’ve been pregnant for more than nine weeks, you can still have a medical abortion. The procedure is the same as for an early medical abortion, but you’ll need more than one dose of Misoprostol. You have to wait a short time in between doses, so it takes a little longer than an early medical abortion. Sometimes the placenta or afterbirth does not pass and needs to be removed surgically under general anaesthesia.

If you need a late medical abortion, you should go to a health clinic – don’t try it at home!

You can have a medical abortion up until you’re 24 weeks pregnant. However, after week 20 of pregnancy, you’ll have to go to a hospital and stay overnight. In these cases, Prostaglandin is injected into the womb, creating contractions similar to labour lasting 6 – 12 hours. This happens while you’re awake, but doctors can give you pain relief. Dilation and curettage may be used afterwards to ensure the womb is empty.
Keep reading for more detailed information about this procedure.

Surgical abortion

For a surgical abortion, you have an operation. There are two main types of operation, depending on how long you’ve been pregnant:

  • Vacuum aspiration
  • Dilation and curettage

For both operations, you’ll be given an anaesthetic. This could be a general anaesthetic, so you’re asleep during the operation. You can also just have a local anaesthetic: an injection that makes your cervix numb so you don’t feel anything, and stay awake during the operation.

After a surgical abortion, you can feel sick and faint and have painful stomach cramps.

Vacuum aspiration (up to week 15 of pregnancy)

With this method, the foetus is sucked out of the womb through a tube.
The procedure takes 3 to 10 minutes and you may have either a local or general anaesthetic, depending on how many weeks you’ve been pregnant. The cervix is widened and may be softened a few hours before the abortion. You will be able to go home the same day. Some bleeding may occur for up to 21 days after the operation but usually lasts from nine to ten days, with quite heavy bleeding for the first two to three days.
This method is considered to be very safe.

Dilation and curettage (D&C)

With this method, the cervix is dilated and then the foetus and placenta are scraped out of the womb. The World Health Organization (WHO) recommends the vacuum aspiration method (above), which is considered much safer.

A D&C should only be performed by a skilled doctor under the appropriate supervision.

Late surgical abortion

A late surgical abortion (after week 24 of pregnancy) is a complicated procedure and generally happens over two days. This needs to be discussed with and performed by a medical professional.

How do you feel emotionally after an abortion?

How you feel after an abortion depends on why you chose to have one. Most women don’t need psychological help after an abortion; in fact, they often feel relieved. There is absolutely no shame in feeling relief. You made the best decision under the circumstances. And you’re not alone – 42 million women have abortions every year.
Of course, nobody can dictate how you feel. Feelings of sadness or grief are also common, but like most emotions, they don’t last forever.

Some service providers offer abortion ‘after-care’ where you can speak with a counsellor or therapist. In cases where the service provider does not offer this care, it is still recommended to find someone you can talk to about the feelings and emotions you are going through. You do not have to process this alone.

After an abortion, your hormones are returning to the way they were before your pregnancy, which may also leave you feeling sad. Or maybe you feel sad because the man who got you pregnant didn’t want to have the child with you. The abortion might reopen old wounds; and like most wounds, they need time to heal.

If any of this is the case, talk to a close friend or family member who can comfort and support you.

And don’t worry: if you had a safe abortion there’s no reason why you shouldn’t get pregnant again.

In very rare cases, women fall into depression after making a choice on ending an unintended pregnancy. Depression is serious, and if you think you are depressed or know someone who may be, you might consider talking to a professional about it.

Did you learn something new?

Hi,what does it mean after testing for pregnancy and the lower line seems to be very light while the upper one is just as dark as it is on the pt kit?
Hey Susan, slight bleeding is one of the early signs of pregnancy and you could be pregnant if the pills you took failed. To rule out pregnancy, take a pregnancy test and based on the result you can decide how to proceed. Check out this article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/am-i-pregnant
Hi lshabella, one first needs to get to know if they are indeed pregnant. Also, before making this decision it maybe important to consider other options including carrying the pregnancy to term and then giving up the child for adoption as you make your final decision. Lastly, it also depends on what laws exist in your country with regard to abortion services. Visit a Marie Stopes clinic for further advice.
Okay as for me, abortion is a crime .it is wrong,unacceptable,and murder...why wouldn't you rather use BC and e-pills...the baby is innocent...people need to be responsible for crying out loud. Abortion doesn't make you less a parent. You're a mum to a dead baby.you're a murderer. You killed. Don't say twas an accident. You know what you were doing. You're old enough...but if you're justified.. May God see you through.
Hi Layve, we appreciate you thoughts and respect your belief. Certainly, preventing unplanned pregnancies maybe an easier option as opposed to getting an abortion. However, all birth control methods including E-pills have a failure rate aside from abstainance from sex. For this reason, depending with the circumstance of an individual, they may not see another way. Often times they will be helped to explore other options including adoption before making up their mind and making an informed choice. In some countries abortion is outlawed while in some countries women have the power of choice. Having said that, we do respect your opinion and appreciate you contribution.
Mon, 04/23/2018 - 11:56 am
hey there...my cycle is always between 28-30 days....i had unprotected sex on 26th day of my cycle n my periods are now missing for 19 days now......could i be pregnant

Hey, you may want to take a pregnancy test to rule out pregnancy considering there are other issues that can lead to a missed period including hormonal imbalance, excessive exercising, weight gain or weight loss and even stress. Get a pregnancy test, you can get a do it yourself home urine test or get one from a medical centre. Check out this article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/am-i-pregnant

Hi Milly, if the procedures were done by a health worker and they were safe then you should be able to get pregnant when you decide to. There is also no harm with visiting a Specialist Gynecologist when you get ready to get pregnant. Check out this article;- https://lovematters.co.ke/pregnancy/before-pregnancy/getting-pregnant-dos-and-donts

Hi Carl, it is possible for a HIV positive mother to give birth to a HIV negative baby. Infact well over 90 per cent of HIV positive mothers giver birth to HIV negative babies. It is important you speak to your health provider so that they further explain the options you have with regard to keeping the pregnancy and reducing the chances of the unborn baby getting infected. You can also visit a Marie Stopes Centre where they will help you further explore your options. Check out the following articles for additional information;- 



I used Abortions pills just one day ..... Got serious diarrhea and only had a bleeding for hours. It has stopped since .....iam okay or I need another dosage please I need your help

Hi Nina, did get the pills from trained professional health worker? If you did, it is important that seek the health worker's advice so they can advice you on what steps take an what to expect  during this time. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/abortion

hello,am 4months pregnant and i need to terminate it coz my boyfriend is not supportive how can you help me please,and how much does it cost ib your clinics

Hello Rhoda, So sorry about this. Indeed, raising a child on your own can be challenging. However, aside from terminating the pregnancy, have you considered other options like carrying the pregnancy to term and then give up the baby to adoption? Take time and think about other options you may have, you can even consider talking to a close friend to help you think about your options. We do not have any clinics run by Love Matters, but, you could visit a Marie Stopes clinic and they will be able to provide you with further information and guidance. Check out this article for more information;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/abortion

Am Christianah
Tue, 07/31/2018 - 12:11 pm
Am 2month pregnant and I have been given injection and drug but still the pregnancy is still there Wat can be the cause of it

Dear Chriastina, since I am not sure which medication you were given, I suggest you go back to your medical provide or visit a Marie Stopes clinic where they will be able to further support you. If you are in Kenya you call the following number toll free on 0800720005 or WhatsApp them on 0709819000 and they will be able to assist you. 

Hey Adenike, bleeding during pregnancy is common, especially during the first trimester, and usually it's no cause for alarm. But because bleeding can sometimes be a sign of something serious, it's important to get checked out by your doctor to make sure you and your baby are healthy.

Hey Flo, emergency contraception doesn't cause infertility. It however, should not be used as a regular birth control method as it should only be used during emergency situations. Also, it doesn't protect one from the risk of getting infected with Sexually Transmitted Infections. There is no number of times that one should use P2 and it also doesn't cause infertility. Check out the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/birth-control/types-of-birth-control/emergency-contraceptive-pills-myths-busted

Hi Amerlia, If you take the test too early after an abortion, it may show a positive result which is a false positive. This is because the pregnancy hormone may still be present in your body. It is adviseable you take the test four weeks after the treatment. I suggest you reach out to Marie Stopes for more information. You can reach them privately by calling toll-free on 0800720005 or WhatsApp us on 0709819000, this is if you are Nairobi. You could also consider visiting a Marie Stopes Centre.

Hello Loice, aside from abortion have you considered other options including carrying the pregnancy to term and then giving up the baby adoption? You can receive further support including counseling from Marie Stopes, find a Marie Stopes clinic and they will be able to give you further support. You can reach them by calling 0800 120 333 or 0800 220 333 or sending them a WhatsApp message on +256 754 001 503. We wish you all the best.

Hello Winnie, with the Kenyan law, it’s not easy to get abortion services unless it’s a medical emergency. However you can still get pills for a medical abortion from Women on Waves. Check them out and see if there are providing the service. Feel free to get back. 

Mon, 04/15/2019 - 01:35 pm
I had an abortion 6day ago but since Thursday tonight I got this heavy bleeding with large clots and painful abdominal and back pain also fever and unpleasant smell what's wrong please help

Hello Hildah, you didn't say which procedure you had for the abortion but when one experiences the following signs and symptoms they require medical attention after a medical abortion; heavy bleeding (soaking two or more pads an hour for two hours), severe abdominal or back pain, fever lasting more than 24 hours and foul-smelling vaginal discharge. Since you experiencing these signs, I suggest that you seek medical advice as soon as possible. Depending with your location (including the country you are in) consider seeking medical advice from a Marie Stope Centre. 

Hello Chemos, No, especially when abortion is done in a safe manner and it’s not complicated, it does not affect a woman’s ability to have children in the future. So, unless there are significant complications, such as a damaged cervix, a woman’s fertility is not affected by abortion. Check out this article: https://lovemattersafrica.com/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/accessing-a-safe-abortion-dos-and-donts

Hi Esther, yes. A late surgical abortion which would happen after week 24 of pregnancy, is a complicated procedure and generally happens over two days. This needs to be discussed with and performed by a medical professional. It also depends on which country one lives in since different countries have different with some countries having outlawed abortion. 

I had sex with my boyfriend and we both were very careful so that he dnt release in me.....he only release outside me by calling it out himself My questions are....can he know when he wants to release? And could I be pregnant?...cos I am not on drugs
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