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Why do men love doggy style?

Is it just me or does every other man love doggy style?

Chances are that your partner has ever flipped you over while having missionary sex and try having doggy style with you.

It is no secret that many men are obsessed with doggy style and want to do it during sex. But why? We will tell you in a few.

First, close your eyes and visualize doggy

Doggy Style is a sex position where the woman gets on all fours, keeping her legs spread apart, and the man kneels behind her. His penis thrusts deep into her vagina. The motion causes his balls to bump up against her clitoris or labia.

That’s not all; there are more variations to this style

The woman can put her legs between the man’s knees. Or lie on her belly and raise her bottom up. The vagina feels narrower, giving the head of the penis extra stimulation. Alternate fast thrusts with slow circular motions.

So why do men love it?

These are the reasons why men love the doggy style.

  • Most men love this position because they are in almost total control during sex and are free to determine the speed and depth of penetration.
  • Doggy style is a perfect position for men, and it is easy to perform. It’s just a penis in the vagina.
  • Men love seeing the penetration part of sex in action and this is a huge turn-on. This sex style gives them a chance to see all the action.
  • Doggy style also allows for deeper penetration.

It is important to remember that not everyone is into doggy style, and this is totally normal. During sex, the most important thing is that you and your partner are on the same page and having a good time.

Also, consent is very key during sex. So, before you flip someone during sex to try a new sex position, ask for consent. Don’t just day, ‘pinduka!’

Try something like: ‘Babe, si tutry doggy style leo?’ If it is a YES, congratulations and all the best in your mission. If it is a NO, don’t force things. There is always a next time and there are plenty more sex styles to experiment with!

If you don’t like doggy style, don’t do anything you don’t want to do. Communicate with your partner that you don’t feel comfortable doing it. If he respects you, he will understand and not do it. 

Forced sex or sex without consent is sexual assault and should be reported if it happens.

Lastly, every time you have sex, don’t forget to practice safe sex all the time. Use a condom correctly during sex to protect yourself and your partner from HIV, other sexually transmitted infection, and unplanned pregnancy. 

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Recent Comments (63)

  1. You never get tired when at…
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    1. Go Woran! How long are we…

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    2. I like and love doggy style…
      I like and love doggy style my favorite position

  2. So sweet n makes one…
    So sweet n makes one ejaculate faster

    1. That’s true for some me and…

      That’s true for some me and women, Bk! 

  3. Its sweet and gives the best…
    Its sweet and gives the best satisfaction.

    1. Where’s the lie! I love it…

      Where’s the lie! I love it too, Doris!

      1. I think that makes many of…

        I think that makes many of us, Cam! Glad you belong to the club too!

  4. Ask for Consent before any…
    Ask for Consent before any style

    1. Absolutely, Kip! that’s very…

      Absolutely, Kip! that’s very important. As we’ve mentioned, not everyone likes doggy style. 

  5. That’s quite educative
    That’s quite educative

    1. Hi Stephen,

      We’re glad you…

      Hi Stephen,

      We’re glad you found this educative. Which part did you like most?

    1. Me too! Doggy your way to…

      Me too! Doggy your way to pleasure Okello! 

    1. You sound very happy. Can…

      You sound very happy. Can you tell us why?

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      Glad to know you found it useful Salu!

    1. Now you know Berry. Do you…

      Now you know Berry. Do you like doggy style?

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      Oh, yes it is Mponda!

    1. That’s true Johnte!

      That’s true Johnte!

    1. Great! Do you love doggy…

      Great! Do you love doggy style?

  6. Continue to teaching young…
    Continue to teaching young generations

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      When was the last time you had sex? Why are you not having it?

  7. Absolutely fact in every…
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    1. Hi Bling, 

      I am glad we…

      Hi Bling, 

      I am glad we agree on this!

       

  8. It’s also good coz men do…
    It’s also good coz men do enjoy in that position

    1. Yes, very much Tobias!

      Yes, very much Tobias!

  9. Thanks for educating me more…
    Thanks for educating me more about my best style

    1. You’re welcome, Nita! 

      You’re welcome, Nita! 

  10. I always love& addicted to…
    I always love& addicted to doggy style man, blessed

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      Interesting Bash! I sit the only style you use? 

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    Is.it doggy sex style has a negative effect on the woman’s health???

    1. Hi Allanto, 

      No, it does…

      Hi Allanto, 

      No, it does not. As long as she is comfortable, you should be good.

  12. I dislike the style for sure
    I dislike the style for sure

    1. Interesting! Thank you for…

      Interesting! Thank you for your contribution, Mike. Which is your favorite style?

  13. Hahahahah, She says Don’t…
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    1. Yep. Do you say ‘Pinduka?’

      Yep. Do you say ‘Pinduka?’

  14. Bora awe anaosha kinyambiz…
    Bora awe anaosha kinyambiz vizuri

  15. I once hated it but now,sex…
    I once hated it but now,sex without doggy ain’t sex?

  16. I like it alot even during…
    I like it alot even during sex is must to have piece of it

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    I love doggy style ??,it allows me to enjoy sex alot

  18. Doggy style is my all time…
    Doggy style is my all time favourite.

  19. Wat is the natural way of managing premature injuculation

    1. Hi Anold,

      It depends on the cause. If premature ejaculation is being caused by psychological factors such as stress and anxiety, guilt, depression, performance anxiety, past sexual trauma, or, lack of attraction for a sexual partner, you can always deal with these causes at home in various ways. If this is impossible, it would be important to talk to a mental health professional such as a counselor or psychiatrist or a sex therapist.

      If the cause is due to illnesses such as diabetes and high blood pressure, it is very important to seek medical advise.

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