Sex toys: top five facts
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Sex toys: top five facts

Sex toys… They’re not just for people with an abnormally high sex drive who can’t stop searching for ever kinkier products. Sex toys are being increasingly used by more regular folk to aid masturbation or to add some excitement when having sex with one’s partner.

  1. There’s plenty to toy with

    The vibrator is probably the most well-known sex toy. It’s a battery-operated phallus that women can use to stimulate themselves (but men are also known to enjoy the feeling of vibrations on their penis or testicles). Meanwhile, dildos are phallic-shaped toys that don’t vibrate.

    There are also many other toys on the market: sprays, gels, blow-up dolls, penis rings, anal toys and even sex furniture (e.g. sex swings). They are all designed to make sex even more fun and exciting.

  2. Toy bans

    In some countries, sex toys are seen as obscene objects and are illegal to sell or own. For those without a sex partner or who have troubles reaching an orgasm, this can be unfortunate. Sex toys can also be a much safer method in meeting one’s sexual needs than having sex with an unknown partner.

    Vibrators were originally used to treat hysterical women – so they may actually be therapeutic! Nevertheless, it might be worth looking into your country’s laws before indulging in a sex toy shopping spree.

  3. Sex toy rules to live by

    While sex toys are generally safe to use, there are a few things to remember. First of all, always clean your toys after use. This is especially important when sharing toys as some STDs can be transferred through them. Never use anal toys anywhere but around the anus, as some harmful bacteria can survive even after a thorough cleaning.

    Also, it’s best to choose higher-quality toys as there are still very few restrictions on their production. So some toys may be manufactured using toxins or other dangerous substances. If you aren’t sure about the quality, use a condom with your toy. Especially if you are putting it into the vagina or the anus.

    And always remember: electricity and water don’t mix. NO VIBRATORS IN THE BATH!

  4. Vibrators don’t replace partners

    Some men wonder if vibrators and dildos are evil instruments designed to replace them. But let us reassure our male readers: while a woman may enjoy the occasional self-love with the help of a little battery-operated friend, it can never replace love-making with a partner.

    You should actually be very happy if your partner uses a toy as it’s more likely she’s discovered what really gets her going.

  5. Sex toys = big bucks

    The global sex toy industry is valued at 15 billion US dollars, and currently, enjoys a growth rate of 30 per cent. Such numbers drive innovation. New luxury toys are being continually produced with different expensive materials and prize-winning designs. There are even sex toy vending machines!

    So even if you are not into using toys in play, you might still want to use them to broaden your stock portfolio.


    What do you think? Would you try a sex toy? Or have you already tried one? Tell us your experience or just leave your opinion here or on Facebook! (you don’t need to include your real name by the way).

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  1. Its satisfying sexually but
    Its satisfying sexually but it may make someones sex lyf wth a partner unsatisfying.

    1. Hi there,

      Hi there,
      We are glad you said ‘may’, because it can also work well even if someone has a relationship. It’s like masturbation- just because you are in a relationship doesn’t mean you can’t masturbate. Or, you could do it with your partner- that’s can be very exciting!

  2. i av been involved in
    i av been involved in musturbation 4 abt 7yrs nw. Bt i stll like doing it cz it prevent mi frm cheatng on her. So i wud like 2 knw it sydx effect cz nw i cnt see wan in mi bt wud like 2 knw fr my future purpose.

    1. Kihenjo,

      don’t worry! Masturbation is a normal part of a healthy sex life and there won’t be any side effects, even if you do it daily for a long time!

  3. There is any sewtoy for men
    There is any sewtoy for men

    1. Sure, Joel!

      Sure, Joel!
      Cockrings, for example, or vibrators for testicles. Anal beads can also be used on men.
      And generally, it’s about experimenting: what might work for a woman might also work for you!

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