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What healthy love looks like

Happy Relationships
The ancient Greeks classified love using four ways. We do it with five words.

Polyamory vs infidelity

Love & Relationships
Some time ago, on Nigerian twitter, there was a debate about polyamory and how it differs from cheating. From observing the conversations, I realized that people conflate polyamory and infidelity.

She doesn't want to come to my church

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My girlfriend is in a different church. She has refused to join me at my church and I'm not ready to go to her church. What can I do?

How happy couples stay faithful

Happy Relationships
How do you stay faithful to your partners when you are surrounded by hot people? Because happy couples don't consider a stranger’s good looks special.

Sex and money

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Do men feel exploited by women? Do they like taking care of their girlfriends? What do they expect in return? Is it normal to exchange sexual favours for money today?

How to deal with in-laws

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‘In Africa, a person doesn’t marry an individual. You marry an entire family.’

Single on V-Day: getting through the day of love

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I've spent Valentine's on both sides of singlehood: first as a 'forever single person' at peace with spending it alone, then as someone used to being with a partner.

No more deadbeat men

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No luck in the dating department? Are the men interested in you either straight-up losers or show their deadbeat side once you've gone on a few dates?