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Emanuele del Rosso

Does true love still exist?

‘These days it seems everyone is either cheating or getting divorced. I wonder what’s happening to this world. Is there still hope for true love?’

That’s a very thoughtful question. I’m sure everyone notices the change in the dynamics of relationships. But not too many care to bring it up. Yes, things have changed, but it is not all negative.

Just the other day, my friends and I (and yes, we’re all from an older generation) were discussing this very same thing. It’s definitely shocking how divorce, break-ups, extramarital affairs and deceit have taken over our lives. Most people I know seem to have one of these going on. And I wonder what has changed so drastically since our times and now.

Loveless marriage

More I think about it, I realise how patience levels have hit new lows. It is almost unbelievable how vulnerable most people are. Everyone is walking with their ego in their hands, as it were. And it hardly takes anything to hurt people.

Plus I think the societal pressures to maintain a relationship have also gone down. But that’s a good thing. People these days have the courage to end a bad relationship, something my generation couldn’t. My own sister remained in a loveless marriage for over 40 years, ruining not just her but her kids’ lives as well.

Small things make a difference

I agree things are bad, But one should never generalise. What one needs to do is look at the positives. There will be days when you’re feeling low and every relationship around you would seem to going haywire.

But think through and you’ll find out that exceptions are always there. We can’t say that everyone is like that. So even if there are a handful of them, they must be doing something right. One should always draw inspiration from the positive side. So it’s like looking at a glass either half full or half empty.

It’s the small things that make the huge difference. Never shy away from apologising when you know it is your fault. A small sorry will not make you small but will help you gain respect in the eyes of your partner. Be grateful to each other and not take the other person for granted. I know you already know all of this. But these days both boys and girls are becoming more and more self-obsessed. They forget how these small things can make a huge difference.

Space of our own

I was visiting my nephew and his wife who got married very recently. I loved their equation and dynamics of their marriage. Not like they didn’t have differences but the beauty was in the way they handled them. Even though they are married they continue to do things independent of each other. He loves to play tennis and she loves to go for run.

Of course doing things together is important. Otherwise you can drift apart into separate lives. But my nephew and his wife also value the things they enjoy separately. It is important to realise that we all need our own space. They both have very different tastes in TV shows and books. But it doesn’t mean that they don’t love each other.

Love is all around you

They even had a cute little rule to never sleep over an argument or a fight. They always try to identify the issue and figure out what works and what doesn’t. Even though patience levels have gone down, but if you respect each other you will be fine. Looking at my nephew and his wife, I was convinced that all is not lost yet.

Love is all around you and so the feeling grows. This was true in the 60s when this Troggs’ song first came out and it still is. Just that people’s approach has changed. Amongst other things they are being reckless even with their own relationships. But frankly what is the point? Most of them end up leading bitter lonely lives. So don’t let the bad affect you so much. Best of luck my son!

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  1. elo!! am married 2 aman whom
    elo!! am married 2 aman whom i neva loved be4 nd with him he loved me so much,bt becoz ov da care nd lv he showed nd da difficulties i was go’g thru’ in ma family’ i decided 2 marry him!! howeva, its vice versa, i lv him bt he doesn’t nd he gives his fon more tym on watsup chart’g with his girlfrnds dan me nd i don’t want 2 lose him wat can i du? plz help me?

    1. Hi Stella,

      Hi Stella,
      Sorry that you are going through that. That is a difficult position for anyone be in.

      When you feel your partner is cheating on you its always best to try and make some changes. You can try talking about it and if he’s remorseful you can try and work it out. But if he’s is not willing to change you might need to start thinking about the possibility of a break up if you are not willing to be in that kind of a relationship.

      Take time to express how you feel. All the best to you.

      1. Thank you for your…

        Thank you for your countribution Michael

        1. When you love some one who…
          When you love some one who loves you

          1. Thank you for your input…

            Thank you for your input Dominic.

      1. Hi Love, 

        Thank you for…

        Hi Love, 

        Thank you for your encouraging words! Indeed, we should not give up yet, good things are on their way!

    2. Sorry for that just divorce…
      Sorry for that just divorce the man coz if he truly loves …he can’t chat with another girl and you are there is that really good…. Something must be done

  2. True love does exist.my
    True love does exist.my boyfriend and I are a testimony of that.I think love is a choice and when both parties choose to love each other selflessly then u begin to experience true love.trouble comes when its one sided.I was there before it’s very frustrating but the faster you accept to let go the better.

    1. Sorry that you had a bad
      Sorry that you had a bad experience Trisha, but that does not mean love does not exist. Its normal for some relationships not to work out but there are many succeful relationships with true love.

      Hopefully you’ll find your true love soon.

  3. True love does not exist boz…
    True love does not exist boz now days all lady love money not love

    1. Hi, I am not sure you can…
      Hi, I am not sure you can conclude that all ladies only want money. You have to keep trying, just because one did not work does not mean your next relationship will also not work. We wish you well.

    2. Not true…Only if there is…
      Not true…Only if there is a huge age difference would a lady be after your money only……Find a lady close to your age…You will find true love..If you want that anyways…

        1. For me love is being kind…
          For me love is being kind without expecting retan

          1. Hi Benard, 

            Thank you for…

            Hi Benard, 

            Thank you for your input. Do you mean that when you truly love someone you should not expect him/her to love you back?

    3. True love nowadays is in…
      True love nowadays is in money

      1. Why do you feel this way…

        Why do you feel this way Judiet?

         

    4. Love is aseed that…
      Love is aseed that germinates and if we’ll nourished and cared it can grow into abig tree with deeper roots that it’s hard to be uprooted

      1. What a wonderful metaphor…

        What a wonderful metaphor Kanjibuy! Thank you so much for sharing this with us and we completely agree with you. Have a wonderful week and stay safe!

    5. Not true there are there but…
      Not true there are there but doesn’t mean all women are the same

  4. We often fail to understand…
    We often fail to understand the worth of love unless it goes away from life, and the similar thing happened with me. I never cared about the emotions of my boyfriend but when he left, I started feeling a sense of void in my heart and it was becoming intolerable to bear his absence, so I made every effort to win his love back and felt sorry for my immature behaviour that hurt him several times.

    1. Thank you sharing with us…
      Thank you sharing with us Sally.

        1. I am well, how are you paul…

          I am well, how are you paul and how can we help?

        1. Hi Kevoh, How are you today?

          Hi Kevoh, How are you today?

  5. What to do if your man dump…
    What to do if your man dump you for a silly reason.

    1. Hi Lindi,…
      Hi Lindi,

      So sorry about this. Is there any hope of getting back together?
      While to you the reason maybe silly like you have said you need to mindful of the feeling of your partner. If the issues got him hurt it may not matters whether you think it is silly. Be careful not to project an uncaring attitude.

      The other side is that he could have been looking for the slightest excuse to walk out. You may never be able to tell. If there is no going back it is time for you begin moving on from this relationship. The following article may help:-
      https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/breaking-up/coping-with-a-break-up

  6. i have a big problem with my…
    i have a big problem with my ex she lived with me for about 5 mounths she didnt realy wanted to move in with me and my parents becouse she said her wish is to be independet but she moved in couse she loves me and we have been together for 1 and a half years after 4 mounts aour relationship was dying becouse i was jelous and she pay more atention to her and her loocks. i think she loved me the first year of the relationship becouse she always calld me crying late at night that she mises me and once she cut herself when we almost split up and she also told me all her secrets and problems but becouse i was drunk one night at a party and started a conflict with her (a very bad one with a lot of name caling) i was kicket out, later to find out she cried a hour and later got very drunk and ended sleaping with one of my friends,after she came home two nights later i kickt her out, and when i confrontet her one (becouse i mist her) one week later about the wholl situation she seamd sad and told me she didnt want to talk to me for a while and that i should belive what i whant, pay in mind she never slept around she only had sex whith 1 guy(and she also had a very dark past) that was her ex and i screamd at her becouse of fear of losing her…. my question is should i try to be toghether to her after we start speaking again and did she love or styll have felings for me? i am 22 and she is 19 what should i do? (sory for the long post and for the broken english and thak you for the answear)

  7. Hello vg, Every relationship…
    Hello vg, Every relationship will have problems from time to time. How the partners choose to address the problems when they come up is what makes the difference. Sorting out your issues when you are drunk as you may have learnt is not the best approach. Open and honest communication goes along way toward addressing the issues in a relationship. Communication will also help to prevent certain problems from coming up. It’s possible for you to get back together and rebuild what you had, but it will really depend on whether this what you both want. Take time and think about whether this is what you want and whether you are willing to forgive the past, then when you get the chance to talk to her find out whether this is what she wants also. Remember, this may not be what she wants and if this is the case you will have to respect her choice and feelings. Check out the following articles;- https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/happy-relationships/tips-for-talking-to-your-partner
    https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/relationship-problems/good-fights-versus-bad-fights

  8. My boyfriend and I are high…
    My boyfriend and I are high school sweethearts, we have been together for 2 years. These last years have been the best of my life, he gave me hope of true love again. However, now he is in the navy because he wants to give me a good future, it melts my heart everyday that he is putting up with so much just because of me. I am also now in college, I plan on moving down to where he is stationed in the summer, but how do I stop myself from worrying about other women he meets? He has befriended this girl who says she has a bf in the army so my bf thinks I have nothing to worry about, but I know how life goes, sometimes you fall for someone unexpectedly. I’m scared to death I’m going to lose him. I mean he always says that if he even thought about cheating on me that he would die (metaphorically of course) , but I’m not entirely worried about him, I am worried about this girl… Any thoughts?

  9. Hi Lily,…

    Hi Lily,

    It a good thing that you found love and you are enjoying your relationship. However we can never entirely be sure about anything. This means that you should not doubt your partner if he has not given you a reason not to. If you doubt him it only means you will not enjoy your relationship and you will bring fear and mistrust which might end up killing your relationship. Enjoy what you have and don’t live in the fear of the unknown. 

     

  10. to the real life mabby im…
    to the real life mabby im have some bad story fill in love.ill try keep away from my hearth about love because thishappen.but ho can do that.in a time and years im found one lady in kyiv but whituot planning, we a have good realationship but we a very busy in life in time ill fill love to her,some time ill thing time jealous for us both.we far away from life im from the east she from west girls. im away to afraid to tell her i love her and mabby if ill tell her about my heart she will go away from me.please help and tell me what i can to do?

  11. After dating for 2 years she…
    After dating for 2 years she broke up with without any reason. Does tru love still exist?

    1. Hey Salim, we are so sorry…

      Hey Salim, we are so sorry. It is unfortunate that your relationship did not work. The reality about relationships is that not all of them will last forever, at times even when you have done your best a relationship may just not work. True love does exists, you just have to keep trying and hope that the next person you meet will love for who you are and that you will both do all you need to, to keep the relationship. All you can do now, is accept that the relationship didn’t work and begin the journey to move on. It may take sometime but eventually you will move on and even be ready to get into a new relationship. Check out this article for additional tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/breaking-up/coping-with-a-break-up We wish you well.

  12. My husband divorced me coz…
    My husband divorced me coz he was told by my sister that I was going out with other men which is truly false,I tried to tell him is false but he refused am innocent,I really love this man but he has already told me to move on he don’t want me again…….advice me wat to do please I can’t stay without him

    1. Hi Ann, So sorry about this…

      Hi Ann, So sorry about this. The unfortunate reality about relationships is that not all of them will last for a life time. At times with no fault on your part a relationship may still fail. It is sad that in this case your sister lied to your husband. If he is unwilling to listen to you and has asked you to move on this what you will have to do since you can’t force him to be with you. All you can now is to begin your journey to move, it is tough but life has to move on. It hurts but it will get better with time, time is indeed a healer. It is important for you to begin by accepting that the relationship didn’t work. Check out the following articles for more tips;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/breaking-up/coping-with-a-break-up

  13. My girlfriend has been…
    My girlfriend has been cheating on me for a yea last one year with a friend but I love her so much and I don’t want to lose her. Please help…

    1. Hi there, have you talked…

      Hi there, have you talked with your girlfriend about this? Do you want to be someone who is cheating on you? When you partner cheats on you, it means they no longer respect you as your partner. You need to take sometime and think about what you want, do you want to be with a person who does not respect you or even value the relationship you have with them, think about it and make a decision. To remain in the relationship means you are okay with the cheating, if you are not and she won’t leave the other relationship it maybe time to breakup. Check out this article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/breaking-up/knowing-when-to-break-up

  14. Am wondering about how c/d…
    Am wondering about how c/d true love exist wen partners are connected to n enticed with timely material things AM SURE ABOUT DIS COZ IT IS DE CASE WIZ ME

    1. Hey Brian, true love does…

      Hey Brian, true love does exist. It appears however that this has not been your experience. Just because one relationship didn’t work doesn’t mean that your next won’t. Think about what you want in a relationship and be sure to share this early in the relationship so you can agree on whether to proceed or not. 

  15. Please I need your candid…
    Please I need your candid advice.
    I dated a guy since my yr1 in school and due to the fact that he’s been pressurizing me for sex i gave him my pride.
    I started receiving complaines that’s he’s seeing some other person, even when I got to find out, he denied it.
    Each time u go to his place, we’ll have sex non stop, I told him that the way we are having sex,I don’t like it.
    Since we can’t control it when we are together, why not Sit out and think of other important things to do than having sex whenever I GI to his place. He got angry and said I’m starving him that it’s been long, I was angry too, I asked him if I can go,he said yes and the last thing he told me was that if we don’t have sex that day,it’ll take month for him to do that,I kept quiet and left.

    I’ve been broken since then because the day he came to my place, I called him to tell him I wasn’t feeling too well and when he came,all he had in mind was sex.

    My mother told me she doesn’t like him that I should quit the relationship and my friends said the same thing,but I was in love too blind to see what they saw at that time..
    We had a misunderstanding and shouted at me,since then I decided not to call him and he has not called too.
    He was one of the Eleco member in the just concluded election, on the day of election, he wasn’t there, he left to God knows where and when I asked him why he left, he told me he was too scared to see me loose an election and that he had exams to write but I made him understand that his colleague too had the same exams but the guy was there with me.

    My question now is
    1. Can I still continue with him??

    2. Does he truly love me?.

    3. With all the happenings, is there hope for me??
    Please help, I need your advice now because he doesn’t talk or chat with me anymore even when he’s online since the incident occurred.

    1. Hi Miss Alice, all…

      Hi Miss Alice, all relationships will have problems from time to time, how partners choose to address the said problems is what makes the difference. Whether continue with the relationship is a decision that you would have to make and it will also depends on the other person especially if your decision is to continue with the relationship. I am also not able to tell whether he truly loves you, have you asked him exactly how he feels toward you? Lastly, there is hope for you, even if this relationship doesn’t work out you can still move on and meet someone new and go on to have a great relationship. You may need to reach out to him and find out whether he is still interested in the relationship, if he is it will be important that you both talk about your expectations in the relationship and agree on whether or not to continue. If he is not interested it will be that time for you to move on. The decision to have sex, is your personal decision and you should only have sex if and when you are ready, you should not be pressured into having sex if you are not ready for it. We wish you well. Have a look at the following article;- https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/relationship-problems/jealousy-and-other-problems

  16. Thanks for your understanding
    Thanks for your understanding

    1. Hi Moseh, Sorry to say, we…

      Hi Moseh, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.

  17. I am in love when i start…
    I am in love when i start the relationship i was droped

    1. Hello Gold, thank you for…

      Hello Gold, thank you for reaching out to us. We are so sorry you are going through such a difficult time. Sometimes we love people and they do not love us back. That is perfectly okay it may hurt but we cannot force people to love us. All we can do is love people and hope they will love us back.

  18. ineed asugarmum for total…
    ineed asugarmum for total love/marriage

    1. Hello Joe, Sorry to say, we…

      Hello Joe, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself.

      Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up.

      Best of luck.

      <3 The Love Matters Team

  19. Hello Joseph, how may I help…

    Hello Joseph, how may I help you?

     

  20. There is a guy who…
    There is a guy who approached me on text and said that he loves me. I told him we meet but we we met he had nothing to say it was such a boring date. Is he really serious?

    1. Hello Joan, thank you for…

      Hello Joan, thank you for reaching out to us. Your frustration around the situation is understandable. Sometimes people find it easier to communicate through the phone for whatever reason. Maybe try give them and give them a second chance.

       

  21. i lov the way every one ve…
    i lov the way every one ve said look for me one frm eldii

    1. Welcome to Love Matters…

      Welcome to Love Matters Africa Joe.

  22. Am looking for a serious…
    Am looking for a serious lady which we can bush for longer which is lasting relationship

    1. Hello Brian, Sorry to say,…

      Hello Brian, Sorry to say, we are not a dating service and cannot assist you in finding a partner. Best thing to do is take some time with yourself, find hobbies, practice things that you love and try to learn how to be happy with yourself. Happiness and confidence is attractive in a person and when you find yourself in a good place people will find you. As always, feel free to ask us any questions about love, sex or relationships if they come up. Best of luck.

  23. Hello Bonface musembi, what…

    Hello Bonface musembi, what is?

  24. I am very young 22 year old…
    I am very young 22 year old from mombasa looking for partner

    1. Hello Hursan, Love Matters…

      Hello Hursan, Love Matters is not a dating site and we cannot help you in this regard.

  25. I have a question please…
    I have a question please….is it possible for any one to be in love with someone on facebook ob aserious relationship till marriage? If yes i need one.not ajoker bt a serious guy.

    1. Hello Daphine, thank you for…

      Hello Daphine, thank you for your question. You can indeed fall in love and be in love with someone you meet online. More and more people are falling in love online. However, we are not a dating site so we cannot help you find a lover.

  26. I have been in a…
    I have been in a relationship with this guy who is just a year older than me for 5months, tho he started having a crush on me way back in high school. He’s now a barrister and very handsome too. On d other hand, am a single mother and my baby is a year now. I had d child before i met him.The problem started when he stopped calling as usual and posting his female colleagues pics. I was worried and asked some questions, but he got angry, I immediately apologized. He said it was OK, but he doesn’t call or return my messages. I had to travel to where he is to find out, but he told me he is always busy, at the right time we will be together. I told him how communication was important to me and he said he will sit up, but when I came back, he became worst, I had to confront him, he ignored my chats for almost a week before responding and when he did, this was his respond ” I deliberately refused to reply all this cos I have told u that am giving you all the time u need, maybe when your baby is older, but it seems u have made your choice, no problem’ now he doesn’t talk to me anymore… What should I do?

    1. Hello Debby, thank you for…

      Hello Debby, thank you for reaching out to us. I’m so sorry to hear that you are going through such a difficult time and it is understandable that you may be feeling confused and hurt by this situation. It is clear that you have tried to communicate your position and it does not seem like there is much progress. All things considered, do you feel you still have any avenues of communication available to you?

    1. Hello Kennedy, good things…

      Hello Kennedy, good things come to those that wait. At the right time, true love will come to you.

    1. Hi Daniel, what about them?

      Hi Daniel, what about them?

       

    1. Hi dennis, thank you for…

      Hi dennis, thank you for reaching out to us. What about online love would you like to discuss? 

  27. Infact many of us don’t…
    Infact many of us don’t understand the impact of the true love,I personally i went such problem for i had agirl whom i loved so much but in return she used to be so chick even dating other men but i tried to all means to ensure she understands but in vain i decided to do away with her.So true love can be accessed once the two understands and feels the worthness of true love

    1. Hello Geoffrey Kireki, thank…

      Hello Geoffrey Kireki, thank you so much for getting in touch and we are so sorry to hear about what you went through. We hope that after that decision, you are much happier and we completely agree with you, true love can be accessed once the two understand and feels the worthiness of true love. In this case, it is an intense feeling of deep affection towards another person.  Love is warm, it is kind and patient. Love is forgiving. Love is a feeling of a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone and once both feel the same way, they have a chance at a successful relationship.  Check this article for more information on what love is;- https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/a-simple-question-with-infinite-answers Love Matters Team 

  28. Hello Geoffrey Kireki, thank…

    Hello Geoffrey Kireki, thank you so much for getting in touch and we are so sorry to hear about what you went through. We hope that after that decision, you are much happier and we completely agree with you, true love can be accessed once the two understand and feels the worthiness of true love. In this case, it is an intense feeling of deep affection towards another person.  Love is warm, it is kind and patient. Love is forgiving. Love is a feeling of a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone and once both feel the same way, they have a chance at a successful relationship. 

    Check this article for more information on what love is;- https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/a-simple-question-with-infinite-answers

    Love Matters Team 

    1. Thank you so much for your…

      Thank you so much for your feedback, Kelvin.

    1. Hello Alexmaura, thank you…

      Hello Alexmaura, thank you for getting in touch. Unfortunately, we are not a dating site and cannot assist you in finding a partner but what we can do is provide information about sex, love, and relationships. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask.

  29. According to Rick guys love…
    According to Rick guys love is a chemical reaction but what i feel for her feels more like magic than science

  30. Hey Anonymous, haha that is…

    Hey Anonymous, haha that is exactly what endorphins and feel-good chemicals do! Some studies have in fact stated that love affects your brain in the same way cocaine would, hence, why being love drunk is a term and also the reason heartbreak is so painful. It is because your brain is going through withdrawal symptoms of those feel-good magical chemicals. But we are so happy for you buddy!

    1. Hi Sachae, thank you so much…

      Hi Sachae, thank you so much for your feedback.

    1. Hello Malodra Brian, thank…

      Hello Malodra Brian, thank you so much for your feedback.

  31. Need a sugar mummy I USA
    Need a sugar mummy I USA

    1. Hi Stephen, sorry to say…

      Hi Stephen, sorry to say Love Matters Africa is not a dating site and we cannot help you in this regard.

  32. Thanks for those conversion…
    Thanks for those conversion they are very helpful??

    1. Hi Khadilupez, thank you for…

      Hi Khadilupez, thank you for your feedback. We appreciate it. Please browse the website to find other articles that you may find useful.

  33. Hi Dennis, isn’t it? We are…

    Hi Dennis, isn’t it? We are glad you feel this way! 

  34. Does true love exist nowadays
    Does true love exist nowadays

  35. Hi Phelister, thank you for…

    Hi Phelister, thank you for getting in touch and asking a great question, Love is an intense feeling of deep affection towards another person.  Love is warm, it is kind and patient. Love is forgiving. Love is a feeling of a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone so to answer your question, it is very much real!

    Check this article for more information on what love is;- https://lovematters.co.ke/love-relationships/a-simple-question-with-infinite-answers

    Love Matters Team 

  36. Ma husband and i live each…
    Ma husband and i live each other so much that w can’t leave each other.people say w r cute 2gether

  37. We are so glad that you are…

    We are so glad that you are happy dollar! We wish you the best in your relationship! 

  38. My boyfriend really love me…
    My boyfriend really love me and i love him too,,,,many guys says that is a splendid couple

    1. Phiana Kagunda we are so…

      Phiana Kagunda we are so happy for you! Continue to nurture your relationship. Relationships take work. However, not all relationship are the same. What makes one person happy could make another unhappy. Here we talk about how to keep your relationship alive, healthy, and happy. Click on this link to find out more about what it takes to maintain and build on it: 

      https://lovemattersafrica.com/love-relationships/happy-relationships

  39. Hi,true love still exist…
    Hi,true love still exist depending with how you are treating and trusting each other

  40. Phiana Kagunda we couldn’t…

    Phiana Kagunda we couldn’t agree with you more!

     

  41. True love is exist,,BT not…
    True love is exist,,BT not to all ppl

    1. Hi Kelvin, thank you for…

      Hi Kelvin, thank you for your input we appreciate it.

  42. Iam very bright my lovely…
    Iam very bright my lovely guru and am always ready to get from her though am tough 23year boys with active lovely mad with his girlfriend

    1. Hello Issack, we are sorry…

      Hello Issack, we are sorry but we do not understand what you mean are you able to explain?

  43. Love is fact and everyone…
    Love is fact and everyone should take care of

    1. Hi Issack, thank you for…

      Hi Issack, thank you for input.

  44. am singli ineed girl age…
    am singli ineed girl age 20to28 my contact 0704128759

  45. I only need mummy for love
    I only need mummy for love

    1. Hi Reagan, 

      Sure, nothing…

      Hi Reagan, 

      Sure, nothing beats a mother’s love! On the other hand, there are still a few people out here with whom you can experience true romantic love. All is takes is being very clear about what true love is and knowing when you finally find it. 

  46. My opinion is,,I think true…
    My opinion is,,I think true love still exists between a few people who understands what is love.

    1. Hi Christine, 

      Thank you…

      Hi Christine, 

      Thank you for sharing your opinion with us. Yes, you’re right if two people understand and respect each other’s idea of how to be loved and treated, true love can exist. 

  47. Am 19 I want serez 26 to 38…
    Am 19 I want serez 26 to 38 yrs old for true love

    1. Hi Josh, 

      We can’t help…

      Hi Josh, 

      We can’t help with that. Love Matters is not a dating or hook-up site. Luckily, we can give you tips on how to get the partner you like: 9 helpful tips for talking to someone you like. Read this article. Also, read about how to know she’s the right one for you: 8 signs you’re with the right partner. Also, perhaps you can find out where sugar mummies hang out both online and offline because that is the easiest way to meet one. Good luck in your search!

  48. Love is always around you…
    Love is always around you always

    1. Interesting Elizabeth! 

      Interesting Elizabeth! Some people say it’s hard to find love. Maybe you can give us tips on how to spot love around us?

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