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Can't orgasm during sex because I masturbated?

I've been masturbating since I was 14, I’m 25 now. Whenever I’ve had sex everything happens as expected, I get aroused and wet but don’t get an orgasm at the end of it all.

Do I have to marry someone I made pregnant?

'Do I need to force myself to marry a lady simply because I got her pregnant?' asks a reader. 'Firstly, force yourself to think about it carefully,' replies Valentine.

Pregnant: when should we stop having sex?

I’m very excited, I’m pregnant. At what point do we need to stop having sex? I don’t want to hurt the baby.

Fiancé received oral sex: should I leave him?

My fiancé got oral sex from a sex worker during his bachelor party. He's been apologising for it ever since. Should I call off the wedding?

How long does sex normally last?

How long does sex normally last? That all depends on who you’re having it with. The length of intercourse varies a whole lot from one couple to the next.

My vagina always smells weird

What does it mean if your vagina always smells? It's making me feel self-conscious.

My gf is talking to her ex: should I be worried?

We have been dating for the last one year and we are in love. But I have noticed that she is talking to her ex. She says they are just friends and nothing more.

5 inches: the ideal penis size?

They say that a good dick should be more than 5 inches long. Is this for erect or non-erect penises? And: does longer mean better?

Can I take the e-pill before sex?

I heard that e-pills are most effective the sooner I take them. Can I take them before sex? And would their effect last for the whole weekend?

I want a bigger butt

I want a big, round, sexy ass. What are the side effects of butt enlargement pills and creams?

Too ticklish for foreplay

I've recently slept with a guy who was too ticklish to be touched. That made foreplay pretty funny but also difficult. Do you have tips for me?

Help! My girlfriend's mum hates me

My mother-in-law hates me. I want to marry my pregnant girlfriend but her mother has refused. I don't know why. What should I do?